Bangalore

[HardBuddy]

Well, marriage isn't just about sex; but I guess you already know that. As someone who is around mid-thirties and planning to remain unmarried, I can probably shed some light. Within the next couple of years, most people in your friends circle is going to get married and have kids. This will most likely put you in a difficult spot because the number of people who you could hang out with will drop to almost zero. You'll develop quite a lot of distance even with the best of friends given that they have a family and other responsibilities to manage. If you are always used to having a circle of emotional support (in the form of family, friends and / or partner), it will be an emotionally draining journey. Also, make sure you have a clear separation between work and personal life. In late twenties, work consumes you, but soon the mid-life crisis will hit and it will hit hard! So, be prepared.

I've been in stable relationships and can guarantee that no working girl is ever going to replace a wife / partner. That is just not the deal.

If you are under the impression that money can help buy your way, you are probably disillusioned. However, if you do not believe in the social instrument called marriage and everything that it entails, you are probably better off not getting married.

Hello Seniors,
The thing is I am a dude in his late 20's co-founding a start up. I have reached that age when Indians start getting pushed for marriage. My parents have passed away but still a slight push is there from my close relatives. However, I want to stay as a bachelor for the rest of my life, if possible. So, I want to ask the Seniors who are planning to remain unmarried (especially the ones who have crossed the conventional age of marriage), how difficult (if at all) life is for you without a wife? How much of fulfillment does mongering provide you with? How have your experiences been with Sugar babies? Let's assume that my start up works out fairly as planned and I am making a fairly good amount of money in a couple of years, with frequent trips to foreign lands, what will be your suggestions for fulfilling sexual and emotional needs without a wife?

[Jayy4400]

My 2 cents bro!

Firstly wives are meant just to have sex. Its just a small part of the relationship. They will be there even when you loose interest in sex.

And from purely sexual pleasure perspective, paid sex can never bring intimacy unless you both have feelings for each other, again having feelings for a WG is always discouraged.

So brother, if you dnt want to get married it okay but if for the reasons mentioned in your post then you will be bored sooner than later, so please think again.

Good Luck!!

Cheers.

Hello Seniors,

It's going to be a year now that I have stepped into this world of mongering. Had some pretty good and bad experiences. But in general it seems like I have developed a taste for it. I have started appreciating the acts of pleasure, the female body and the feminine grace in a different way. Thanks to this portal.

But I wanted to discuss something off topic today. The thing is I am a dude in his late 20's co-founding a start up. I have reached that age when Indians start getting pushed for marriage. My parents have passed away but still a slight push is there from my close relatives. However, I want to stay as a bachelor for the rest of my life, if possible. So, I want to ask the Seniors who are planning to remain unmarried (especially the ones who have crossed the conventional age of marriage), how difficult (if at all) life is for you without a wife? How much of fulfillment does mongering provide you with?.

[BongoShontaan]

Hello Seniors,

It's going to be a year now that I have stepped into this world of mongering. Had some pretty good and bad experiences. But in general it seems like I have developed a taste for it. I have started appreciating the acts of pleasure, the female body and the feminine grace in a different way. Thanks to this portal.

But I wanted to discuss something off topic today. The thing is I am a dude in his late 20's co-founding a start up. I have reached that age when Indians start getting pushed for marriage. My parents have passed away but still a slight push is there from my close relatives. However, I want to stay as a bachelor for the rest of my life, if possible. So, I want to ask the Seniors who are planning to remain unmarried (especially the ones who have crossed the conventional age of marriage), how difficult (if at all) life is for you without a wife? How much of fulfillment does mongering provide you with? How have your experiences been with Sugar babies? Let's assume that my start up works out fairly as planned and I am making a fairly good amount of money in a couple of years, with frequent trips to foreign lands, what will be your suggestions for fulfilling sexual and emotional needs without a wife?

Thanks,

BongoShontaan.

[IRobotV2]

Any kind soul willing to share Ritika's digits? Appreciate it.

[Spartacus665]

A trip report from my recent spa visits. Headed to a Thai spa that sounds like RO recently. Met at the reception with a guy who seemed friendly and eager to provide with you some massage suggestions. Opted for the basic Swedish massage for 1.5 k. He was not ready to give any discounts unfortunately. He offered discounts only if I got the package which was for multiple massages.

Asked for the Thai therapist since I had a bad experience with a South girl there.

Was directed to a small room at the back with just a bed on the floor, kinda feel dingy vibes but it was not too bad. The therapist arrived and she is from Thailand with limited English proficiency. She seems a bit older on the MILF and thicker side. She turned the light off and started giving a decent massage with some teasing and hinting of extras. Just mention you've been to Thailand and had massages there, she will know what's up if you have trouble brining up extras. After some small talk and turn over, she asked about extras. I asked for BBBJ, probably FS was available but I did not have protection. She quoted 4 k and brought her down to 2.5 k.

She got naked and started with an average BBBJ and then lied down with me on top while her continuing the BJ. She did allow playing with her boobies and some P2 P sliding till I finished.

Overall, it was a decent experience especially since I had trouble finding BJ in most of the MPs around this place.

F - 5.

Be - 6.

S - 7.

A - 7.

WIR. Repeated couple of times, but probably won't anymore.

Total Damage: 1.5 k + 2.5 k = 4 k.

Cheers.

S.

[Floyds]

Any info on Roopa, not able to reach her and even the account in MR is deleted I guess. Should we assume that Bangalore has lost the only decent indie option.

[LazyBoy069]

Got her contact through fellow ISG member, contacted her and went to her place. Not a looker but makes it up with her service. Started with DFK, BBJ. She didn't hesitate for multiple positions and tried doggy, wot with her.

Looks: 6/10.

Body: 7/10.

Attitude: 8/10.

WIR: Yes.

What's her quote?

When did you met her? Trying to get in touch with her but looks like her WhatsApp is off?

[LazyBoy069]

Post my previous failures and after much deliberations took services of Miss are discussed in this forum. Thanks to a senior who shared the contact with me. I've visited Miss are a couple of times and the experience as everyone else has put it remains the same. She is quite friendly and ensures that you are treated well. She's a fair lady with a decent face and body, nothing wow as such but she makes up for it with her service. Provides good BBJ, this goes to say that I am no expert and since it was a first for me, but I really enjoyed it. Also I repeated her just for the BBJ experience. Its been a while now and was a bit horny recently and thought I'll visit her again but then mind is not able to accept it and decided to drop the plans. Now coming to the entire mongering situation I am still not able to enjoy the sessions the way I expected it to be. Initially I thought it was anxiety, so I thought the third or fourth time would be that magic number, but I can say that I remain more composed rite now and still somewhere deep down I am not able to make peace with it. It just feels as though there's some void in these engagements. A normal romantic time with my Ex (Never had penetrative sex with her) used to feel much better. But Sex with escorts just feels bland and dull and not good enough. Further it is at an extent where I find it difficult to maintain a good erection as well if left unstimulated. This used to never be the case with my Ex where I would have an erection that would just be difficult to take down. Really confused at my situation and don't know if I should continue or just put an end to this thing since I feel I am burning my pockets for something that ultimately ends up being nothing.

What's her digits ending? Is she started meeting? Tried msging her but didn't got response.

[MrPussy]

Mate, be specific. Nobody looks for generic answers, question was reg Bangalore, and no, there is no RLD in Bangalore, period. You find locals where there is an RLD, that's universal knowledge. Yes lot of local women in "aunty age" have tinder profiles. But do they peddle sex for money, specially the type which the original poster is looking for? Absolutely unlikely. The day you find one, do let us all know.

One of my friends found a mature aunt type lady through a dating app. She was looking for companion, but my friend paid her out of his own wish. So yeah anything is possible and there is nothing called impossible. Regarding RLD everyone knows there is no RLD is Bangalore. Why you keep on repeating that? Chill.

[BellWeather]

Looks like you have no idea of Delhi scene. I had studied in Delhi in 90's and there was lots of SP. Looks like you have not even heard for GB Road. Pass through this area so many time when growing up in Delhi it it was Rs 100 for FS in 90. Brothels in Bangalore (MG Road) may be the same but we are talking about the Educated independent (Subjective) girls on SA.

I had stayed in Bangalore in 2019 for 4 months and used SA as well as Tinder to find girls and never paid them more than 20 K (for night). Looks like girls are getting greedy in we need to keep the market price in control. Also I had met so many girls for Coffee, Dinner and Drinks and never paid them anything extra. Just paid for their food or drinks.

Mate,

Reminded on two distinct incidents happened some few years back. I was boarding an auto in BLR and this guy asked me 2.5 x of what was normal fare. I got into the auto did not argue as I did not get any auto for some time. On striking a conversation, asked him why did his rip me off, and he told Sir you are in IT and work for US. Even an auto guy is aware that an average Joe in Bangalore gets over paid. It was a very funny conversation and he compared the perks what we get in an IT environment to the extent of even telling me he has to pay for a cup of tea which is free for me in office.

Another incident was in Coimbatore in my regular spa, my therapist told me she was leaving and moving out of City. She was from Bali and so was surprised. She said she was getting into a Bangalore as her friends say the overall earnings in BLr is some 2 times higher than Coimbatore. Coimbatore is not like Delhi and supply is not great. She said people pay twice of what she gets in CBT.

It's common knowledge mate and so it's a bias for people mongering in Bangalore. You should see if some one is worth ask and move off it's not. Not that you she won't get paid what she wanted. We can't control the economics as ISG members are a fraction of Bangalore mongers.

[SriSridhar]

Any feedback for Sim, she is from bommnahalli. Digits ends with 850. Thanks in advance.

[JohnSmith2021]

Always mention the cost dude.

Ratings don't help much as they are subjective per each individual.

Have paid 7 k for 2 the first time. Post that had paid 3.5 K for single sessions.

[ZaphodBeeble]

Bro,

The below portion of your FR has couple of very important points.

Ex-Factor. - Leading you to direct comparison, probably even filling you up with guilt. You may be using sex as an alternative experience to fill a certain void.

Rule no 1 is if you don't enjoy it don't do it. Anyways this is not a paid job where the boss will screw you for underperforming.

Anxiety / void / make peace. These words are pointing out to stress, tension and depression. Talk it out with supportive folks. If possible visit a qualified counselor as well.

I'm assuming you must be approx mid-thirties, welcome mid-life crisis with open arms.

We've all gone through different phases in life including breakups, divorce, job / financial problems, etc but as they say 'this too shall pass'.

Cheers.

P.S. - Your erection problem is just due to anxiety, nothing which a little blue pill can't handle.

Provides good BBJ, this goes to say that I am no expert and since it was a first for me, but I really enjoyed it. Also I repeated her just for the BBJ experience. Its been a while now and was a bit horny recently and thought I'll visit her again but then mind is not able to accept it and decided to drop the plans. Now coming to the entire mongering situation I am still not able to enjoy the sessions the way I expected it to be. Initially I thought it was anxiety, so I thought the third or fourth time would be that magic number, but I can say that I remain more composed rite now and still somewhere deep down I am not able to make peace with it. It just feels as though there's some void in these engagements. A normal romantic time with my Ex (Never had penetrative sex with her) used to feel much better. But Sex with escorts just feels bland and dull and not good enough. Further it is at an extent where I find it difficult to maintain a good erection as well if left unstimulated. This used to never be the case with my Ex where I would have an erection that would just be difficult to take down. Really confused at my situation and don't know if I should continue or just put an end to this thing since I feel I am burning my pockets for something that ultimately ends up being nothing. Opened to suggestions as well.

[VictorStar]

Post my previous failures and after much deliberations took services of Miss are discussed in this forum. Thanks to a senior who shared the contact with me. I've visited Miss are a couple of times and the experience as everyone else has put it remains the same. She is quite friendly and ensures that you are treated well. She's a fair lady with a decent face and body, nothing wow as such but she makes up for it with her service. Provides good BBJ, this goes to say that I am no expert and since it was a first for me, but I really enjoyed it. Also I repeated her just for the BBJ experience. Its been a while now and was a bit horny recently and thought I'll visit her again but then mind is not able to accept it and decided to drop the plans. Now coming to the entire mongering situation I am still not able to enjoy the sessions the way I expected it to be. Initially I thought it was anxiety, so I thought the third or fourth time would be that magic number, but I can say that I remain more composed rite now and still somewhere deep down I am not able to make peace with it. It just feels as though there's some void in these engagements. A normal romantic time with my Ex (Never had penetrative sex with her) used to feel much better. But Sex with escorts just feels bland and dull and not good enough. Further it is at an extent where I find it difficult to maintain a good erection as well if left unstimulated. This used to never be the case with my Ex where I would have an erection that would just be difficult to take down. Really confused at my situation and don't know if I should continue or just put an end to this thing since I feel I am burning my pockets for something that ultimately ends up being nothing. Open to suggestions as well..

Always mention the cost dude.

Ratings don't help much as they are subjective per each individual.

[VictorStar]

Visited Madiwala famous Kashayam spa last week. Counter guy recommended Sanjana but I took Ammu (slim mallu gal) whom I saw on the corridor while entering in.

There were probably 4-5 therapists sitting outside.

Stripped naked and laid down, she asked about dispo and I told I don't want to wear it and she was OK with it. While massaging the legs she straight away asked if I want extras. Told her I want everything she could offer. Quoted 1.5 k for B2B 1 k for HJ no BBJ no FS no lip kiss too. Tried to negotiate but she didn't agree and offered to send another therapists if I want. I thought its a good sign and asked her to send someone else.

The counter guy came in and I told him to send some co-operative therapist. He sent Sanjana.

Same questions and no negotiations. Agreed for B2B and light kisses.

Massage was pathetic. Started with good pressure and then just rubbing cream. She's not much a talker and I was feeling bored lying there. Then for extras asked to tip at the beginning itself. I told I generally tip at the end but she said some customers have cheated without paying at the end and so she gets tip at the beginning itself.

Paid her. She then stripped naked. Hugged her from behind and sucked her boobies. We both lied on the table hugging and kissing and dry humping her. Asked her to give bum massage and she did (just rubbing cream on bums. That's it) did some massage with her boobies for sometime on back and front. She gave HJ while I sucked her boobs with light lip kisses.

Finally came but she immediately went to rest room and took a bath which was a good thing but she left me like that. Didn't hand over tissue or towel. Then came back and got dressed and asked me to clean.

I told her we still have time to which she said times up. I took bath and left.

While leaving informed reception guy that she left 15-20 mins early without completing the massage and asked him to see the time. Asked him for discount next time and he agreed. When I was leaving he was calling the therapist. Probably to warn to complete the massage till time.

WIR. Therapist - definitely no (money minded and she left soon) ; spa. Probably once if I'm desperate for a quickly.

Sure shot extras available at this place.

Damage 1.5 k counter + 1.5 k B2B.