Seeking Arrangements

[Midwestern]

Maybe you should ask a friend who is a lawyer and get some free advice or suggestions. Otherwise, contacting a lawyer in a formal way is a hassle and rarely helpful since they are all looking for big payouts, even small shops.

But my 2 cents is that as long as you were not explict in your messages about exchanging sex for money with her, then you should be okay. For the stories that you told her about your sugar dating experience, just tell the authorities that you made that all up for her entertainment.

One of my the girls I met on SA in Bogota became a friend last year. We've exchanged stories from our perspectives in the sugar dating world and it's been quite useful to understand how the other side thinks and what their options are in terms of men.

Things get more complicated because she was stopped by Customs while entering the US a couple times, and detained for hours. She also unlocked her phone where all of our fun conversations were. She indicated the govt employees were very interested in me, not sure why.

While I'm pretty sure I haven't broken any laws, especially given that I haven't touched US soil in months, I'm wondering if it makes sense to prep a lawyer in case I'm detained for a few annoying hours while visiting the US next week. I'm leaning towards that it's not worth the $500 consultation fee because the chance is low and I'm a US citizen, but I'm wondering if anyone had similar experiences or other thoughts they'the want to share.

P.S. I've started using a timer on my WhatsApp messages so they're deleted automatically after 7 days. When a relationship becomes more stable, I'll move it to 90. What a hassle.

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[Ggekko2009]

One of my the girls I met on SA in Bogota became a friend last year. We've exchanged stories from our perspectives in the sugar dating world and it's been quite useful to understand how the other side thinks and what their options are in terms of men.

Things get more complicated because she was stopped by Customs while entering the US a couple times, and detained for hours. She also unlocked her phone where all of our fun conversations were. She indicated the govt employees were very interested in me, not sure why.

While I'm pretty sure I haven't broken any laws, especially given that I haven't touched US soil in months, I'm wondering if it makes sense to prep a lawyer in case I'm detained for a few annoying hours while visiting the US next week. I'm leaning towards that it's not worth the $500 consultation fee because the chance is low and I'm a US citizen, but I'm wondering if anyone had similar experiences or other thoughts they'the want to share.

P.S. I've started using a timer on my WhatsApp messages so they're deleted automatically after 7 days. When a relationship becomes more stable, I'll move it to 90. What a hassle.

May I ask which port of entry, I. E. Which airport, did your girl got detained and questioned by the immigration officers. I have heard that they will not usually do that in port of entry like Miami, especially with the large number of travelers from South America going through there. Places like San Francisco is a totally different story though.

[HumbleHal]

Going to a lawyer now would be a waste of time and money, even if the lawyer tries to rope him in with a "free" consultation. Those tend not to be worth s damn! Definitely one of those things where you get what you pay for.

Those kind of lawyers are only for Car Accidents, personal injury. They try to get money from the other person's insurance company.

[The Cane]

Holy crap that's sucky. I'm no lawyer but since you're asking for advice on an open forum. I would ask her exactly what did they ask her about you. Exactly. To try to get at what they might be thinking you did. And yes I would hire a lawyer.

I disagree and don't believe that this is the time to hire a lawyer. He doesn't have anything to talk to a lawyer about yet. Not unless there's something to this he isn't telling us. As he said, the fact of the matter is that it's highly unlikely that he will be stopped and asked anything. And if he is, then that's the time to listen (and not say much) because then he will have something to talk to a lawyer about afterwards. If stopped and questioned, at that point he should ask what it's all about and listen, and if he is being accused of something (they probably will be coy). And whether they say he is or he isn't being accused of something, he should just keep cool and keep his mouth shut and say nothing until he's had a chance to consult with a lawyer. I wouldn't even admit to knowing the girl. They won't be able to hold him as they have no grounds to do that. Again, that's assuming there isn't something about this we aren't being told. Going to a lawyer now would be a waste of time and money, even if the lawyer tries to rope him in with a "free" consultation. Those tend not to be worth s damn! Definitely one of those things where you get what you pay for. This is one of those situations where you get roped into somebody else's bullshit merely by association. It sucks, but not a time to panic and start paying legal fees when it's not clear he even has a legal problem yet, and based on what we know, not foreseeable that he will have one.

[AmericanPi]

Doing a little seeking today. Came across a few profiles like this:

I'm seeking an online and platonic connection where both can benefit from each other.

Who exactly is this for? Who is reaching out and saying they want to give a girl money in exchange for an online platonic friendship?

[AmericanPi]

Holy crap that's sucky. I'm no lawyer but since you're asking for advice on an open forum.

I would ask her exactly what did they ask her about you. Exactly. To try to get at what they might be thinking you did.

And yes I would hire a lawyer. It probably won't be 500 dollars besides once they start making calls fees add up. But this would leave me scared to ever travel and I wouldn't want it hanging over me personally. You know it's coming, or you suspect it, so better the conversation be on your terms, and your timing. Not when you have an emergency situation.

One of my the girls I met on SA in Bogota became a friend last year. We've exchanged stories from our perspectives in the sugar dating world and it's been quite useful to understand how the other side thinks and what their options are in terms of men.

Things get more complicated because she was stopped by Customs while entering the US a couple times, and detained for hours. She also unlocked her phone where all of our fun conversations were. She indicated the govt employees were very interested in me, not sure why.

While I'm pretty sure I haven't broken any laws, especially given that I haven't touched US soil in months, I'm wondering if it makes sense to prep a lawyer in case I'm detained for a few annoying hours while visiting the US next week. I'm leaning towards that it's not worth the $500 consultation fee because the chance is low and I'm a US citizen, but I'm wondering if anyone had similar experiences or other thoughts they'the want to share..

[TedFerguson]

One of my the girls I met on SA in Bogota became a friend last year. We've exchanged stories from our perspectives in the sugar dating world and it's been quite useful to understand how the other side thinks and what their options are in terms of men.

Things get more complicated because she was stopped by Customs while entering the US a couple times, and detained for hours. She also unlocked her phone where all of our fun conversations were. She indicated the govt employees were very interested in me, not sure why.

While I'm pretty sure I haven't broken any laws, especially given that I haven't touched US soil in months, I'm wondering if it makes sense to prep a lawyer in case I'm detained for a few annoying hours while visiting the US next week. I'm leaning towards that it's not worth the $500 consultation fee because the chance is low and I'm a US citizen, but I'm wondering if anyone had similar experiences or other thoughts they'the want to share.

P.S. I've started using a timer on my WhatsApp messages so they're deleted automatically after 7 days. When a relationship becomes more stable, I'll move it to 90. What a hassle.

[KeviKev68]

I have seen many women have a "click bait" photo for their profile, then when I see the other photos I see a fatty. Or a fuglie. Some even have photos of other women for their main profile. Or a professional photo for their primary. Often they turn to the side, or 45 degrees in their photos, which means their hips are very large and they are trying to hide their ass size.

I notice they have a button for "verified" photos, which means many photos are of someone else.

I finally "borrowed" a friends photo, for my primary photo. Somewhat for privacy, also I want to get more clicks and messages. Many of the same old girls who rejected me now are interested in this "new" guy. My regular photos are from a distance or slightly blurred, so the women cannot tell the difference. Only 2 have noticed the difference in my photos, and I delete their messages.

Also, I gave my profile a great headline, "Tom Selleck in a Ferrari" and have seen my messages go up in number drastically. Am getting fucked now as much as I want, at reasonable prices..

I just use a photo that I took in Buenos Aires, Argentina of a pose with a Tango Dancer. Women like men who dance even though I don't. LOL.

[Steve 9696]

So yeah I love the chase. I'm planning some trips and I'm enjoying vetting the girls chat and I know I will love that first date mystery and seduction dance. But at the same time it's super comforting to have a go to girl in a given city.

Traveling to one of my standard haunts soon and going to hook up with a girl I first met in early 2020. So like fully three years ago. We started as quick motel fuck and sucks but became much more dinner and drinks partners later in the relationship and I grew to like her badass party girl vibe. Then about six months ago she grew a boyfriend and was "exiting the lifestyle". Of course that didn't last too long and we are back on for fucking whenever I visit.

And I love the comfort. I'm arriving late and said we could either go straight to room or just wait till next nights and have dinner. And she's like let's take some drinks and head to the room. I've missed you!

It's just so great to have a girl waiting and wanting to see me right when I land. Is it the $$ or my over powering charisma? Guess we'll never know. Tho I will say that girls who truly enjoy sex really do like being with a guy that can just marathon the fuck out of them. And thanks to my advanced age and modern science, that's me! Have big plans for a fuckathon coming up soon!

[JuliusGeezer]

Hello guys,

Please put your morals aside and help me answer if this could be a trans? The thunder thighs and face in some pics is concerning. I might just be paranoid having read that there are a lot of trans in Brazil, if that's your thing, then all the best to you but not for me, I'd also hope that it would clearly be mentioned in their profile but there are definitely others who do not make it obvious in their tinder profiles for example. Thank you for helping a brother out.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...d-33c799954118

[DramaFree11]

Have you been able to get the girl kicked off and banned if she mentions "PPM" in her online messages? Women who talk ppm are usually just prostitutes, not looking for anything exclusive, and are usually old pros. I would like to get these hoor off the site. They ask for evidence.

Just block them. I do think SA is getting much stricter with scams. I am noticing much less scams, then a few years back.

I do report girls if they do something crazy or are Blatantly lying. If they want to talk about money I politely say, it is against the rules and we can discuss on Instant Message. If they are in Mexico we use WhatsApp.

[HumbleHal]

#1.

Any message that has number and implies that there is money involved.

BLOCK the girl immediately.

Have you been able to get the girl kicked off and banned if she mentions "PPM" in her online messages? Women who talk ppm are usually just prostitutes, not looking for anything exclusive, and are usually old pros. I would like to get these hoor off the site. They ask for evidence.

[Maha Siddha]

#1.

Any message that has number and implies that there is money involved.

BLOCK the girl immediately.

#2.

Too many messages in one day.

This one I am not sure exactly how it works. I sent out 50 identical messages in a time period of 3 hours. I got SPAM error and could not spend out any messages for 48 hours.

Please chip in you have observed any other triggers.

[Maha Siddha]

I use fake photo because their AI face recognition would trigger if you got blacklisted once. They have the photos on file.

I used a photo of mine with different background after my first ban. I got banned the 2nd time like 1 hour after I paid my fee.

I emailed support and that's exactly what they told me. If your face is blurry enough it will not matter.

I have seen many women have a "click bait" photo for their profile, then when I see the other photos I see a fatty. Or a fuglie. Some even have photos of other women for their main profile. Or a professional photo for their primary. Often they turn to the side, or 45 degrees in their photos, which means their hips are very large and they are trying to hide their ass size.

I notice they have a button for "verified" photos, which means many photos are of someone else.

I finally "borrowed" a friends photo, for my primary photo. Somewhat for privacy, also I want to get more clicks and messages. Many of the same old girls who rejected me now are interested in this "new" guy. My regular photos are from a distance or slightly blurred, so the women cannot tell the difference. Only 2 have noticed the difference in my photos, and I delete their messages.

Also, I gave my profile a great headline, "Tom Selleck in a Ferrari" and have seen my messages go up in number drastically. Am getting fucked now as much as I want, at reasonable prices.

Wonder if any of you other guys are using fake photos for your primary SA photo? And a fake Headline? It Really has increased women's interest in my profile, and when I meet the women in person, no body has complained. They mainly want the money anyway, and what I look like is not a big deal.

[SfoCowboy]

Complete belt of GPS girls. Good luck to you. Try and find a Latina from Brazil or so.

Hi Everyone,

I am from India active on SA therre!! I will be taking a 20 day long road trip to California this year!! Solo. I am looking for maybe a partner or multiple across the 20-25 days I am in the states.

How should I go about the distancing guidelines here since each area is vast and different!!

LA or San Fran?? Or should I go smaller cities??

Please guide.