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05-12-23 05:20 #4579
Posts: 164Local Mission
Europe is my preference when it comes to SA, but once in a while a domestic US trip comes up. In the most recent case, I hit SA, renewed my sub, and went to work. The whole process just felt like I had to put in a bit more work, in comparison to EU SBs.
Whatever the case, after my trip, my membership was still active. Orlando completely failed and maintained its reputation in my head as one of the worst places to monger, I usually don't engage on my own turf, but figured I would see if I could find a cute spinner that I could call when the mood strikes. Wasn't looking for my "normal SB" where we go out to party, drink, smoke shisha and explore the city. Instead I pretty much wanted a local flexible girl, that wasn't a pro, but that I could have "escort level" access to. Hahaha.
Stumbled across a slim chick, 29, with a pretty face, and tits that I can't wait to see. Haha. Our coffee date fell though, so we agreed to have another coffee date at her place, but I have to bring pastries. LOL She's a single mom and I'm curious to see how things are going to pan out. Good, bad, or indifferent, you have to report on the mission. Haha.
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05-12-23 02:18 #4578
Posts: 96Originally Posted by DramaFree11 [View Original Post]
Also, what's typically the vibe with SA dates in cdmx? Generally my plan is, if I sense that these are not SA newbies then I am going to go for drinks, and if things flow well will plan on being physical that very night. If I get a sense of nervousness then I plan on just meeting for drinks / coffee first, and just cover their uber / small gift and start setting up the physical date.
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05-11-23 17:43 #4577
Posts: 244Pet name
I have a self-given pet name that only I know (not even my friends). This is the name girls know me by. I pay cash (well, mostly). When not possible, I use my card discretely. I don't truly reveal where I work.
Also, during our first date (which happens only if M&G go well), I set ground rules. No photos / videos of us together. I set rules on when and how we can text or call each other. I respct their privacy and don't ask them the same questions I will not answer them.
All said and done, if my SB is smart, she can reverse image search my private photos and find me. So far, I haven't yet come across that "smart" SB or they are much smarter than that. Not revealing to me that they found who I am.
I generally reveal private pic and remove access immediately after they text me "lets proceed". I simply tell them that I have been scammed before (not true) and this is nothing personally against them. I encourage them to remove my access to their private pics as well. I kinda make it look like I am taking care of her as well. It works everytime.
Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
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05-11-23 04:26 #4576
Posts: 2825Originally Posted by Rextor [View Original Post]
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05-10-23 20:21 #4575
Posts: 2762Originally Posted by Rextor [View Original Post]
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05-10-23 19:27 #4574
Posts: 96Rates in mexico city
Is anyone else getting some absolutely eyewatering quoted in CDMX for SA girls? Multiple girls have quoted 7000 MXN (400 USD right now). To be fair, these are absolute smoke shows / models, but still I'm caught off guard. I have been able to find a few girls for 2000 but they aren't the prettiest I would say.
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05-09-23 02:37 #4573
Posts: 2762Full Alias Required
Originally Posted by Intelligencium [View Original Post]
When I pay for dinner make sure the side of the card with your name is face down. Nonetheless high brow places may say "enjoy your evening Mr Smith" which sucks. But again if she doesn't know your first name she can't really Google you. So the fake first name is equally important.
If you go to a swingers club together you both register and she's prob going to learn your name. But if you are going to a swingers club you are probably past trust issues. LOL.
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05-09-23 00:28 #4572
Posts: 67Happy to hear a different perspective. Do you have a rule of thumb on when do you switch?
I will be there 10 days. I may end up spending a good chunk of that time with one girl, traveling with her etc, but it will be a one-and-done time relationship. I plan to be careful about not revealing my true identity, e. G. , by booking separate rooms when traveling, not checking into hotels, car rentals etc (where I have to show my ID) in front of her. But I don't understand why she would care that I am single or married, when both of us know there is no future.
Originally Posted by AmericanPi [View Original Post]
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05-09-23 00:19 #4571
Posts: 67Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]
What else comes to your mind?
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05-08-23 17:57 #4570
Posts: 2762Narrow Lie
Originally Posted by AmericanPi [View Original Post]
Although also as MW said it's tough to obscure your identity forever with a girl you spend lots of time with. Hardest is hotel TV screen. It's going to have your real name and if you leave her alone in the room she could see it. Just an FYI for everyone — that's tough to conceal.
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05-08-23 15:29 #4569
Posts: 609Respectfully disagree with some of the other posters.
If you're getting into a relationship with a sugars, fine don't lie. They'll be around you enough and there are signs. Phone calls, name tags, hotel check in sheets, etc.
But for the short term thing you're describing, absolutely say you're single. I always do. Because the last thing you want is a girl who has personal info on you and can blackmail you. I lie about basically everything that can identify me.
Originally Posted by Intelligencium [View Original Post]
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05-07-23 03:42 #4568
Posts: 2825Originally Posted by Intelligencium [View Original Post]
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05-06-23 21:23 #4567
Posts: 67Thanks for the advice! I already lied to her in chat. She suddenly asked if I'm single and / or have kids, and I panicked and said no. I guess I'll have to figure out a way to find clean. Maybe say I lied on chat because it was hard to explain over chat, and wanted to talk on person / over call: thatthings are a bit complicated
Originally Posted by Midwestern [View Original Post]
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05-06-23 08:32 #4566
Posts: 1202Lying about being single is not a good idea
Do not lie about being single. I do not know how many times I have lied to an SB about being single, but there were two occasions where it ended horribly, to the extent that I was even scared. Both of these times, the SBs said that if I had told the truth about being married, then the relationship would have been great, but that I blew it by lying. For whatever reason, pretty much all gals hate being lied to by men, probably because we lie all the time to bed women.
And no, you cannot lie about being single forever. They will find out the truth. It is just a matter of time.
I just started a new relationship with a new SB. Long story short, I met her three years ago and got her contact. After some back and forth texting, I asked her to be my GF. She asked me what that implied. I said it would be a PPM arrangement. She told me to fuck off. I kept pursuing it, she kept balking and even deleted my contact a couple of times, but recently she finally agreed, after I reassured her that I was not a monster. The first session went well. A few days later, she asked me if I was married. I decided to try a new response. I told her it was a secret. She scoffed, but then said that it did not matter. Maybe you can try this. She probably thinks there is a 99% chance that I am married, but maybe that 1% makes a difference in her mind.
Originally Posted by Intelligencium [View Original Post]
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05-06-23 03:50 #4565
Posts: 2762Just Deal and See What Happens
Originally Posted by Midwestern [View Original Post]
Second of course is with Shayla. She totally understands the game tho. Before I got her the apartment we were def sex every time. But then once we got the apt I might see her a couple times a week and only have sex one of those times. But sometimes she might deflect sex or we were just partying with her friends. And frankly it's not worth lying to my wife for that. I kinda said that to her once and that didn't go so well. Maybe too honest. But I did come pretty straight on when she deflected sex and the few times it happened she clarified that I just need to let her know and it's ok to fuck with her friends in the living room!
I'm sure your sitch is a bit different, but I tend to go with the confront it route. Tell her sex is a super important part of your relationship and it makes you sad when you skip. And see what she says. Does she want to make you sad?