Taipei

[Filler17]

Saw that there were recently a couple new / returning faces to Taipei on MR and Eurogirls, was wondering if anyone had any experience with any of them? Specifically, Calista, Marie, and Kaori. Wondering if you could if they were post-ops or not and was their service good?

Also, just recently realized that all the girls set their prices high on purpose and you're supposed to try and haggle it down. Almost blew 15 k on post-op Karina last time before I realized that she was post-op and cancelled. I guess that's what happens when you're too horny and starting thinking with your lower head instead of the upper one. From what I could tell, most of the girls are willing go to the 5 k range, and getting any lower than that will be up to you trying to persuade them without offending them.

Quick question for Amazake, what are the prices right now for the girls in the Xichang / Diamond building alley? I've walked through a couple of times but never pulled the trigger yet. Asked 1 girl in the Xichang night market street and she quoted me at 1. 6 k. Haven't asked the girls behind the diamond building yet. Also would it be cheaper for me since I can pass as a local?

[Exile]

This is actually a reply to Filler17.

Not quite sure if it is the same Karina. But HughJass said that she had so many customers that it was not a good experience.

I think he reported on "Katrina" but can't find it now though I remember what you're talking about.

I contacted her yesterday and, of course, she was available but, of course, leaving the following day. I said that I would let her know an hour in advance and, when I did, she didn't respond for four hours. When she did, it was "come immediately". I said that it wasn't possible until evening and she started sending message after message after message saying I had contacted her every day but never came (untrue) and that I was a "liar" though it took her four messages to be able to spell it correctly. She said that either I come immediately or she is going to block me and, considering her warm personality and apparently stable mental condition, I blocked her before she could keep going in her tirade.

So. Probably better to avoid.

[Nigt Rider]

I saw this woman quite a few times. I am pretty sure she doesn't call her Zoe back then. It had been more than one year and I could be mistaken. But I am fairly certain Zoe in MR is the woman I saw.

Zoe is all "woman".

She is very chubby. But her face is gorgeous. She is mild and easy going. I don't like chubby girls at all and she is more than chubby. For some reason, I just find her amazing and intoxicating.

I highly recommend her. But be warned, she is very chubby.

By the way, I would not give a review to the fifth escort currently in Taiwan. I had the best time with her. But there might be a slight chance she is not a pure "she".

[Nigt Rider]

Another lady I am pretty sure is all woman.

Mia in MR is another lady I saw. Her pictures are accurate. But she in person looks slightly worse than her pictures. She might be in her 30's. (I don't really remember the details, it was a year ago).

She looks Hispanic. But she is Russian. The reason I know is because she called somebody before and after our session. It could be her handler. She was definitely not speaking Spanish. It sounds like Russian. I asked her about it and she said that she is Russian and told me where in Russia she comes from.

Her performance is fine. She seems very professional. She behaved as she is in this business for a long time.

But I never went back again for two reasons. The first reason is that I don't like her look too much (though I think others may find here attractive). The second reason （and the most important one) is that she screams in pure sexual ecstasy whenever I touch her. I didn't like that at all. I know I am not Tom Cruise.

I didn't go back for a second time. But I can definitely see others might find her looks exotic and her performance erotic.

[Nigt Rider]

I need a little circle of support from my fellow hobbyists.....

Anyway, tonight I went out on a quick outing to meet Uki from Massage Republic. She was fine looking, not amazing but perfectly acceptable. I was excited as we took the elevator up to her room. But then I noticed that I was more nervous than excited as we began our session. Something was off with me. And I was annoyed that she turned off two of the three lights in the room. It wasn't too dark, but my head started questioning. Why does it need to be harder to see. And why does it seem like she's turned in such a way to hide her pussy from me. While receiving BBBJ I started staring at her arms / elbows (there's an elbow test for men vs women), I stared at her neck (is that an adam's apple? I stared at her sorta man hands. Her breasts were fake, which I have zero problem with normally but then. Well, why are they fake? And why does she have to be from Thailand? I just couldn't get it out of my mind. And then I started losing my blood flow.

Sorry to hear your story.

I have not been in Taiwan for half a year now. Most of the escorts I saw are no longer there. I can only find 5 who are currently listed.

One is Helen and she is widely reviewed. Today, I am going to give a review on Nina because I am pretty sure she is a "She".

She is listed as Best GFE in MR and Nina in Euro. Her pictures are too good to be true. Yes, it is a bait and switch. But she is not bad looking. She is definitely better looking than Uki.

She has narrow waist and big ass. Pounding her from behind feels amazing. She is kind and mild mannered. I recommend her.

[Amazake]

I need a little circle of support from my fellow hobbyists. Hopefully I can snap out of this ASAP. After learning about zinzin (who I met) and Karina (who I didn't meet but was completely fooled by the ad) I have started to become slightly obsessed with the idea of TS / TG. Not that I want it, but that I'm constantly thinking about it. In the last couple days I've conversed with a ton more visiting ladies and kinda narrowed down a short list of 7 or 8 that I'd like to try to meet in the next week (No I'm not going to meet them all but I just organize them in my mind and then kinda feel out who I'm most interested in when I have the availability) Anyway, ever single one of them that I've talked to has amazing photos, but then I just stare at them and slowly imagine them morph into a man. I spent about 30 minutes tonight reading an in depth article on how to spot a TS. It's consuming all of my brain function that I have set aside for the hobby. (Thankfully not really obsessing over it in my civilian life. Yet).

Anyway, tonight I went out on a quick outing to meet Uki from Massage Republic. She was fine looking, not amazing but perfectly acceptable. I was excited as we took the elevator up to her room. But then I noticed that I was more nervous than excited as we began our session. Something was off with me. And I was annoyed that she turned off two of the three lights in the room. It wasn't too dark, but my head started questioning. Why does it need to be harder to see. And why does it seem like she's turned in such a way to hide her pussy from me. While receiving BBBJ I started staring at her arms / elbows (there's an elbow test for men vs women), I stared at her neck (is that an adam's apple? I stared at her sorta man hands. Her breasts were fake, which I have zero problem with normally but then. Well, why are they fake? And why does she have to be from Thailand? I just couldn't get it out of my mind. And then I started losing my blood flow. I excused myself to go to the shower. I asked her to join me and she declined and seemed once again to be hiding her pussy. When I stepped back out from the shower, I asked her. Were you ever a man? No no she replied. We went back and forth a few times like this. I assured her I would love to know if she was and just want to find out more, but she denied denied denied. I told her about what happened to me to elicit sympathy, once again tell her that I'm totally happy with leaving the way things are but if she can tell me the truth I'd be even more happy. No, she said again that she was never a man. So I apologized, I told her it had nothing to do with her at all and was just about what happened to me and now my brain is all confused and messed up. I would try to relax. We slowly got back into things, she started back down on the BBBJ, and then my brain started thinking about all the same things again. And after a minute I just told her I was done. Sorry. It's not you it's me.

As I left, I still felt 50/50. As much as she denied it, I felt there was still a good chance she either just has a rule to always deny it for self-preservation, or perhaps she's had to psychologically believe and forget her past. On the other hand, it's entirely possible she was telling the truth. There were no smoking guns here. Her hands weren't slender and delicate, but neither were they extreme man hands. Her elbows didn't seem to bend quite enough, her neck maybe had a bulge or maybe not. Nothing definitive and in fact none of these tests are definitive. One funny thing was that at one point I literally opened her legs to see her pussy, which she had been very reluctant to allow me to do (we were just sitting so it wasn't a natural move) and she let me see everything for about 1. 5 seconds. It looked a little off to me, but then not really. The strangest thing about it all imo was that she just didn't want me to see it. And then she covered herself back up and told me she just thinks it is weird and that she doesn't think that part of women's bodies are very attractive. Ok, the words weren't super convincing but her manner and delivery was convincing enough. She did seem like she could legitimately be a woman who felt that way.

In any case, the bottom line is that I couldn't help myself at all. Even if she was the most gorgeous woman in the world, I feel like I would've stared at certain aspects long enough to wonder. Cause being TS definitely doesn't make you less attractive. I'm just not sure how I'll get over this! I may just need to convince my brain that a post-op TS is in fact no different than a woman from birth in terms of pleasuring myself. I don't know. Help!!

Now for a brief review of the items I didn't mention:

Uki was in fact herself in the images / videos shared. She's a little less attractive than the images, imo, but only slightly. I'd give her a 6. 5. Probably mid-30's, which is on the old side compared to all the girls I've met but certainly not old looking. But she's got a little bit of pudge around the stomach. Her ad is 5 k for one hour and 2 shots, 2. 5 k for 30 minutes, 2 k for 20 minutes. One of the main factors in choosing to see her was that she was the most economical ad I'd seen online (I took the 30 min option) I felt slightly bad for her not only because of my questioning her gender, but also because as we chatted I found out that she had come with an agency to work in Taichung but it was not good work. They had sorta misrepresented how much she'd have to work and she did not like it there at all. In her words she "escaped" to Taipei and now was managing herself. So anyway, to end this long, twisted post of mine, I'll just say if anyone wants to see her she's good looking for middle-agish, her BBBJ was good, her demeanor was kind and sweet, and please let me know if you think she's post-op!!

Some of you elders might remember "LOLA" by The Kinks. Not a song about a post-op, but how a guy in a bar fell for a guy dressed like a woman. Whenever this topic arises, it seems to call up this song in my memory, and the shock of first hearing it when I was so young, at a time when these topics were outlandishly taboo, and something almost never spoken about except in dark rooms.

https://youtu.be/GD5-JO-muYI

[Pickley]

Yeah, you missed the Beitou scene by quite a few years. That was during the Japanese occupation, until maybe the very early 80's. During that time, there were female assisted bathhouses.

The natural mineral spas in Taiwan are unrivaled.

Thanks for the extremely helpful advice. Your resuscitation story is awesome. You were a real hero that day. If I am ever put in that situation the only thing I can think of using is Stayin' Alive from The Office LOL.

Long Nai Tang is my must go to hot springs. I think that's the Japanese emperor one. I'm staying close by at a resort and have a package from agoda which includes a private hot spring session and some kind of "complimentary tickets" whatever that means. I think it may be the book you're talking about. It was a good deal to add the package (only $14, which is cheaper than price for public hot spring access). I just hope use of the resort's public hot spring is included; if not maybe I can trade private for public access. Coolest thing is the room also has a hot spring style tub. This part of my trip is going to be a real treat for myself.

Also planning to visit beitou park. Not sure if it's some kind of hot springs park or regular park but it's close by. I've only been to a man made hot springs once. Am looking forward to trying the green sulfur at Long Nai Tang and white sulfur. I've heard Taiwan and Japan are the only two places that have them. Hopefully I can stand the heat. I did go to Caesar's world last time I was in Taiwan and was able to stand the hot tub there. I can't do Yang Ming Shan this time but it's on my agenda to hike next time. And the assisted baths you mentioned reminds me of soap lands haha. I've never been to one in Japan but I did try it in China before the yellow sweep.

[Tefnx]

Thanks to everyone for the comments. Definitely makes me feel better. I'm excited to go see babygirl soon. I feel confident that it should go well.

Oh wow is this 100% fail proof? I guess it's a reasonable enough request. Would it say Mr / miss or is it something else in the Thai script?

Yes it has it in Thai script of course but there's it is also in English and it will have Mr / Mrs / Miss and their name in English alphabet.

Why I mention is because:

1) Obv Thailand has one of the highest amount of LB.

2) In Thai hotels its 90% more or less required to register / leave behind their ID when you take them to the hotel. I know in other parts of the world once you have checked in you could just take your guest upstairs since you have a elevator / room card, but in Thai its more or less enforced to register / leave behind ID so you can almost always see their ID.

Thus its very established to see whether its a LB post op or not as it will not change their gender on card.

[Pickley]

Thanks to everyone for the comments. Definitely makes me feel better. I'm excited to go see babygirl soon. I feel confident that it should go well.

Oh wow is this 100% fail proof? I guess it's a reasonable enough request. Would it say Mr / miss or is it something else in the Thai script?

Official ID is also the best way in PH too and I suspect best method anywhere. Not employment or school ID. Needs to be official ID like drivers license, state ID or passport. I'm not sure what Thai ID looks like but I suggest googling it to make sure you understand how to read it. Googling it will also help you determine if it's a fake ID.

[Amazake]

I'm going to be visiting Taiwan soon and will be going to beitou to enjoy the hot springs. Any action out there? I hear year and years ago it was a hot spot but today it's all gone. If nothing else I'm going to try real hard on the dating apps. Would be so cool to enjoy a private hot tub with an equally hot companion.

Yeah, you missed the Beitou scene by quite a few years. That was during the Japanese occupation, until maybe the very early 80's. During that time, there were female assisted bathhouses.

The natural mineral spas in Taiwan are unrivaled. I only scratched the surface. Some are normal, fairly hot, hovering 42 degrees Celsius for the general public. Other places attract the hardcore devils who can tolerate 47 C, 48 C. Can be torturous. I have had to endure the worst with those local devils because I didn't want to give them the gloating pleasure of watching me scream and jump out. So, I have endured the excruciating heat under the tribal head's scrutiny and emerged with my dignity, as I receive a stoic nod from the chief.

But, those are public baths. They are cheap. A book of ten visits for about 1200 NT. They usually have two pools, one pretty hot for the experts and another, sort of lukewarm — not really— comparatively speaking. Some have constant thermometer readings. Some don't. Most are segregated men from women and all nude. There is a public bath outside with many varying degrees pools in Xinbeitou where it is coed and you wear bathing suits, but the bathing suit is a non-Speedo type, but some people violate the rule without consequence. A young girl in a bikini could give you a spontaneous erection, and not wanting to walk around with a boner, you are forced to continue cooking in the hot sulfur water until the excitement drains.

It gets crowded. It is cheap. About 60 NT. And, their hottest pool is very hot, and they have cooler ones, down to a cold dip.

For myself, a cold dip pool is almost mandatory. A few don't have it. If no cold pool, you must drink much water, because in an extremely hot pool, you sweat profusely, but don't notice how much water you are actually losing. Too hot for too long, dehydration, heart palpitations. It is not uncommon to see someone faint there, lose consciousness. Once a guy stopped breathing. I had to use my YMCA skills maneuvers to revive him. A cold dip can restore your balance almost instantly. Some don't like hot to cold immediately because they say it upsets the heart rhythm. But, I have had no problem.

Hotels in Xinbeitou have private room sulfur baths, but more expensive. Xinbeitou boasts a famous Japanese style spa called Long Nice Hot Spring. I went very often. But, no longer, because it has no cold recovery pool and only 3 showers. It is enclosed and follows the rarer Japanese traditional spas demeanor. But, the water there is top quality. Other places recirculate water. Not considered authentic. And, this particular spa boasts that Emperor Hirohito took his bath there. For myself, this place is more akin to sitting zazen.

Some rarer spas are off the radar. The savvy congregants understand the pipes and valves and play around with them to suit their tastes and comfort level. I know of one place that I now avoid like the plague at certain times, when the local BIG KAHUNA comes to take his nightly bath. When he enters the building, everybody runs. He can tolerate about 50 C. He is inhuman. He remains unaffected. His skin is deep dark brown with red highlights. Probably close to 80's.

Some of these guys are really strong and wiry. They have been bathing / stretching / exercising / kungfu / taichi / qigong, all their lives.

Yangmingshan has a plethora of enjoyable spas along Xingyi Road 1, 2, 3 and 4. All are basically good. All easy access by public buses. All around 120 NT if you buy a book of ten.

Just walk in and everybody is helpful in these big spas with signs. Some have restaurants attached. Some have a packaged deal, dinner and bath.

Other spas are damned good up there and no frills and free. Some guys also hang out naked by the river up there, and piped in spa waters and made their own free makeshift baths, make fires and roast potatoes. But, a little more dangerous. You must violate no trespassing signs and could pay a fine.

Yangmingshan offers good bathing and it is cooler up in the mountains with all the green trees.

[AbcGators]

Thanks to everyone for the comments. Definitely makes me feel better. I'm excited to go see babygirl soon. I feel confident that it should go well.

You could ask to see her Thai ID. It would star Mr / mr / miss even if changed as their according to their gender at their birth.

Oh wow is this 100% fail proof? I guess it's a reasonable enough request. Would it say Mr / miss or is it something else in the Thai script?

[Pickley]

But, that being said, I hope and pray that she was a woman, because it was a very meaningful, soul-touching encounter, expressed by both of us.

However, if I did find out for sure that she was a post-op, I would not repeat, because of my conditioning, even though it was extremely satisfying. And, if I see her again, most of my time will be spent giving her a complete physician's yearly physical examination, to get to the bottom of this.

I hope that doesn't make me a bigot. But, in modern society, it probably does. I just prefer to say that it is a matter of choice, in the same way that I prefer Asian women wholeheartedly over all other women from other nations. It is just a matter of choice.

She was probably a she. Even if she was flat as a board if she had correct downstairs equipment, odds are she was real. It doesn't seem likely someone would do downstairs operation before top. I'm just considering cost and permanency.

Also don’t think that makes you a bigot. We all have different taste and different turn ons and turn offs. I have a friend that doesn’t like blondes because his mom is blonde.

[Amazake]

I need a little circle of support from my fellow hobbyists. Hopefully I can snap out of this ASAP. After learning about zinzin (who I met) and Karina (who I didn't meet but was completely fooled by the ad) I have started to become slightly obsessed with the idea of TS / TG. Not that I want it, but that I'm constantly thinking about it. In the last couple days I've conversed with a ton more visiting ladies and kinda narrowed down a short list of 7 or 8 that I'd like to try to meet in the next week (No I'm not going to meet them all but I just organize them in my mind and then kinda feel out who I'm most interested in when I have the availability) Anyway, ever single one of them that I've talked to has amazing photos, but then I just stare at them and slowly imagine them morph into a man. I spent about 30 minutes tonight reading an in depth article on how to spot a TS. It's consuming all of my brain function that I have set aside for the hobby. (Thankfully not really obsessing over it in my civilian life. Yet).

Anyway, tonight I went out on a quick outing to meet Uki from Massage Republic. She was fine looking, not amazing but perfectly acceptable. I was excited as we took the elevator up to her room. But then I noticed that I was more nervous than excited as we began our session. Something was off with me. And I was annoyed that she turned off two of the three lights in the room. It wasn't too dark, but my head started questioning. Why does it need to be harder to see. And why does it seem like she's turned in such a way to hide her pussy from me. While receiving BBBJ I started staring at her arms / elbows (there's an elbow test for men vs women), I stared at her neck (is that an adam's apple? I stared at her sorta man hands. Her breasts were fake, which I have zero problem with normally but then. Well, why are they fake? And why does she have to be from Thailand? I just couldn't get it out of my mind. And then I started losing my blood flow. I excused myself to go to the shower. I asked her to join me and she declined and seemed once again to be hiding her pussy. When I stepped back out from the shower, I asked her. Were you ever a man? No no she replied. We went back and forth a few times like this. I assured her I would love to know if she was and just want to find out more, but she denied denied denied. I told her about what happened to me to elicit sympathy, once again tell her that I'm totally happy with leaving the way things are but if she can tell me the truth I'd be even more happy. No, she said again that she was never a man. So I apologized, I told her it had nothing to do with her at all and was just about what happened to me and now my brain is all confused and messed up. I would try to relax. We slowly got back into things, she started back down on the BBBJ, and then my brain started thinking about all the same things again. And after a minute I just told her I was done. Sorry. It's not you it's me.

As I left, I still felt 50/50. As much as she denied it, I felt there was still a good chance she either just has a rule to always deny it for self-preservation, or perhaps she's had to psychologically believe and forget her past. On the other hand, it's entirely possible she was telling the truth. There were no smoking guns here. Her hands weren't slender and delicate, but neither were they extreme man hands. Her elbows didn't seem to bend quite enough, her neck maybe had a bulge or maybe not. Nothing definitive and in fact none of these tests are definitive. One funny thing was that at one point I literally opened her legs to see her pussy, which she had been very reluctant to allow me to do (we were just sitting so it wasn't a natural move) and she let me see everything for about 1. 5 seconds. It looked a little off to me, but then not really. The strangest thing about it all imo was that she just didn't want me to see it. And then she covered herself back up and told me she just thinks it is weird and that she doesn't think that part of women's bodies are very attractive. Ok, the words weren't super convincing but her manner and delivery was convincing enough. She did seem like she could legitimately be a woman who felt that way.

In any case, the bottom line is that I couldn't help myself at all. Even if she was the most gorgeous woman in the world, I feel like I would've stared at certain aspects long enough to wonder. Cause being TS definitely doesn't make you less attractive. I'm just not sure how I'll get over this! I may just need to convince my brain that a post-op TS is in fact no different than a woman from birth in terms of pleasuring myself. I don't know. Help!!

Now for a brief review of the items I didn't mention:

Uki was in fact herself in the images / videos shared. She's a little less attractive than the images, imo, but only slightly. I'd give her a 6. 5. Probably mid-30's, which is on the old side compared to all the girls I've met but certainly not old looking. But she's got a little bit of pudge around the stomach. Her ad is 5 k for one hour and 2 shots, 2. 5 k for 30 minutes, 2 k for 20 minutes. One of the main factors in choosing to see her was that she was the most economical ad I'd seen online (I took the 30 min option) I felt slightly bad for her not only because of my questioning her gender, but also because as we chatted I found out that she had come with an agency to work in Taichung but it was not good work. They had sorta misrepresented how much she'd have to work and she did not like it there at all. In her words she "escaped" to Taipei and now was managing herself. So anyway, to end this long, twisted post of mine, I'll just say if anyone wants to see her she's good looking for middle-agish, her BBBJ was good, her demeanor was kind and sweet, and please let me know if you think she's post-op!!

It is easy to say "so what," and take it in stride if another guy gets hoodwinked into a session with a retooled / overhauled dude.

I actually laughed my ass off when it happened to my cousin, and also to another very good buddy of mine. I kidded him for years to make him relive it. And, I enjoyed watching him squirm.

But, we are friends for many decades, and have been lovingly kidding each other ever since high school. It is all in good fun, and we always have each others' backs.

If it happened to me, I probably wouldn't tell him, but if he found out, he would have the last laugh, and ridicule me to my last breath.

But, if your psyche is vehemently against an intimate relationship with other than a natural-born female, and to be sold an imposter, a post-op, that is a lie and deceit of the highest order. It really is unforgivable.

I know, after my near-miss, I was sickened for days, especially with the thought of their castration.

On the other hand, on Kangding, I met a strikingly innocent, extremely feminine young Thai. I found her gorgeous. But, there "seemed" to be an ever so faint remnants or slight shadow of a mustache. I let it go. Clothes off, flat as a board. Strike two.

It did cross my mind, "possibly, maybe, what if?

But, her extreme femininity, bashfulness, sweet, passive behavior and flowing, bamboo-like, delicate stature, soft, pliable body, allayed most of my concerns.

It was a very tender, intimate encounter with true human understanding and compassion. Much unlike some of those wild, lustful, raucous, lecherous, lewd, exciting sessions that the area is known for.

But, there is a doubt in that session, as opposed to the hundreds of sessions with no doubt whatsoever.

But, that being said, I hope and pray that she was a woman, because it was a very meaningful, soul-touching encounter, expressed by both of us.

However, if I did find out for sure that she was a post-op, I would not repeat, because of my conditioning, even though it was extremely satisfying. And, if I see her again, most of my time will be spent giving her a complete physician's yearly physical examination, to get to the bottom of this.

I hope that doesn't make me a bigot. But, in modern society, it probably does. I just prefer to say that it is a matter of choice, in the same way that I prefer Asian women wholeheartedly over all other women from other nations. It is just a matter of choice.

[Pickley]

I'm going to be visiting Taiwan soon and will be going to beitou to enjoy the hot springs. Any action out there? I hear year and years ago it was a hot spot but today it's all gone. If nothing else I'm going to try real hard on the dating apps. Would be so cool to enjoy a private hot tub with an equally hot companion.

[Pickley]

I have never been to the Philippines. But, after hearing your opinions, if I could ever break free, I would love to try it out. However, just for personal taste, I find them generally really cute, but I do prefer the more extreme Far Eastern features of certain Asian countries. But, that wouldn't get in my way. They are fine looking lively women.

My friend married a young one, about 35 years difference in age, and she made him a happy man. But, they had a fight one day, and his wife really likes me and respects me because I have helped her husband out of many problems. She knows I have good intentions. So, I acted as a sort of marriage counselor between them. I consoled her and comforted her, as she was new to the States. So, she likes me.

My friend told me that she is uninhibited in bed and is up for anything, and my friend approached me if I would be open to wife swapping, because he asked his Filipino wife, and she was ready to go. But, I like to keep my mongering less personal, and, besides, my wife would be utterly aghast and disgusted by such an escapade. But, still, I really appreciated her openness to having sex with her husband's good friend with his permission. It struck me as just so trusting, obedient, cute and friendly. I would never have done it, because these things have ways of coming back and biting you in the ass, but, it still had a certain innocence and sweetness to the invitation.

In my youth I had such a crush on that cute Filipina look. That mix of Latina and Asian looks so exotic and cute to me. I'm mostly over that phase but still find the women very attractive. I think for a large part I was able to satisfy my cravings with my trip. Would I go back? Yeah I still want to. Having the right expectations and mentality. Do I think it's possible to have a real loving relationship, yes but it won't be easy. If you're from a first world country, the background is just so different.

On the upside Filipinas are more willing to ignore age difference than a lot of cultures. Super easy to find a 18 to mid 20's girlfriend as a middle aged man. The girls also love sex and are very open minded. It's also easier than average to get that girlfriend experience. On a mongering note, short time is 1-3 hours as opposed to less than an hour. Long time is overnight with a shot in the morning.

Downsides of PH is the poverty environment. It's seriously kind of sad and I feel bad for the people living in such poverty. If you've ever been to Tijuana, it will make Mexico seem developed. The nice areas can be very nice and modern but right around the corner are slums and shantys. It's hot in PH and a lot of places don't have AC. Like you'll have AC in your hotel room but not in the lobby or halls. Always be on the lookout for thievery. Didn't happen to me but a relative of mine was visiting with his wife and got purse snatched. The food is also not that great.

The hospitality of the Filipino culture is unreal. They are such caring people. They're very family oriented as well. That being said I feel like cheating happens a lot. Men are infamous for committing adultery and while the culture propetuates women being traditional, I wouldn't be surprised if they sneak as well. The women like sex. It's like easy mode trying to hook up in PH with civilians. They're sweet as can be but they're also all liars and two faced to some extent. Like they will want to show you their sweet side but will always want something underneath that. Don't be surprised if they continually ask for help for food, bills, school or family issues; they'll keep talking to you on text and ask every once in a while. I'm making myself sound like a misogynist but more so as a warning to you guys. Listen to Chris Brown when he says these hoes ain't loyal. I'm not hating because everyone has needs; just want you guys to be prepared. Don't fall for a girl easily because she acts like your sweet girlfriend or if she lets you do it without a condom because no one uses condoms there. I know Amakaze is really strict about protection but condoms are very optional in PH. They're very catholic over there.

As for swinging with your friend, I agree. I'the want to keep my mongering life separate. I feel like it can get super weird with people you know. At least I feel paranoid it would make things weird for the friendship. I've never even *****d with friends before, which actually sounds like it could be a cool experience. Especially something like going to FKK in Germany or a sex vacation. I think I can only do that with a couple of my friends. This is like my dirty little secret no one really knows about. Some of my boys know but even then only a few of my closest friends know any details. You probably really impressed your friends wife with your patience and understanding. By showing her you're a good caretaker and standup guy. You could have made a move on her during a moment of weakness but didn't and that probably made her like you more. I wouldn't be surprised if she somehow baited the wife swap idea to your friend.