Seeking Arrangements

[Dykenberx]

Guys, well said. What we get back in return, from the girls on SA, you can not put a price tag on. Banging hot young girls, in my fifties is a dream come true. I read these guys complaining about our lives, I just shake my head, they really do not know what they are missing. I use to argue with them, but no more just a big waste of time.

SA is an amazing experience especially in foreign countries.

I absolutely agree DramaFree!! I'm in my 40's and I hope to be doing trips like this for the next 20 years.

[SfoCowboy]

Guys, seeking Bcn has about a dozen or so girls who are operated by someone and keep talking between them or may be it's the same person who texts / operates these accounts. My standard test is to do a video call and talk to the girl before meeting and that saved me. I was talking to a few girls and all of them were talking on per hour basis and no one actually was willing to do a video call which was a red flag for me. I avoided meeting one girl last time because of this red flag. This was a couple of months ago.

Now, there is one such girl who said that I never came to Bcn and I'm just wasting their time etc. I just didn't want to tell her that I suspect that she was a working girl / handler was talking. She warned me that I pissed off many girls because I texted them but never met them. This sounded like a cartel and I said that I can choose whom to meet and whom not to based on my comfort. I told that I never kept anyone waiting after confirming a date but I just didn't progress beyond a few texts in the conversation. This is typical of working girls who don't waste their time with people like us. So I just avoided. This girl went super aggressive and told me that she had me covered by her friends and I should leave Bcn. I was like wtf. This is like a cartel. I said ok and blocked that girl and a few others on all apps. If you're okay to meet working girls on seeking then it is fine but the idea of being on sa is to meet normal girls. Be cautious about who you are meeting and do a video call for confirmation. Let me know your thoughts guys.

Cheers!

[Elvis 2008]

I have a shortlist of about 10 girls for my upcoming trip and 5-10 more who agreed to meet during chats. What the fuck do I do now? I only have a 10 day trip.

I started two months before I went to Colombia on SA and racked up 175 numbers. Thing is the flake rate was pretty high, and when the women were called or texted, they did not respond. Even with that many numbers, I had some down time in Bogota. I typically could get two dates a day in Bogota and three in Medellin, and I am picky. That compares to one a day in Mexico and like one a month in the USA. That is why I think SA is almost worthless in the USA.

[Intelligencium]

Have you done your verification / video chats yet? If anything, after chatting with them live, you may get better vibes from some and be able to whittle down your list. Pick your top 3/4, have a couple of backups (in case of flakes / last minute changes / etc) - IE be excited to meet, but not sure of availability "due to work". Then work the list as Steve suggests.

Great advice. I'm guessing some still flake out at the last minute, and video chat will trim down the list a bit (E. G. Photos not matching reality, or not speaking English well as they write). If even then, the list is long enough, I'll probably have to just make one more visit soon!!

[Foolish]

I have a shortlist of about 10 girls for my upcoming trip and 5-10 more who agreed to meet during chats.

Have you done your verification / video chats yet? If anything, after chatting with them live, you may get better vibes from some and be able to whittle down your list. Pick your top 3/4, have a couple of backups (in case of flakes / last minute changes / etc) - IE be excited to meet, but not sure of availability "due to work". Then work the list as Steve suggests.

[RumblePirate]

Hey, I'll be traveling to Madrid this week and been talking to few gills before hand on seeking arragments.

My impression is that its more a escort site than a dating site.

I have a date no sex for 200 $.

And if I want more I need to pay.

Is it me or more than 90% are just profesional escort?

I've been trying for 2 days only and I am an ok looking guy.

Also please let me know if I am paying to much.

Although its always relative.

You are not just paying them extra already, you are paying them for a non-intimate encounter. It's just beats logic, I mean you don't want an arm candy to accompany you on business meetings or anything like that. So why are you even paying them at all.

With your budget, you can look for better professional services. Other wise what you are doing, you will never get, literally, get the bang for your bucks.

[CitizenX1]

I concur with Steve. No payment for a plutonic date. Just say no.

In addition to Vive, I also like Pigmillion. Have had some good nights taking women back. There are some fast houses also.

SA is a grind. You need to grind it out. If not, just hit the pros.

Thanks. Felt wrong when I talk to her.

Got another date with no money involved.

I imagine it will come up as we meet but will see how it goes.

The girl seems semi pro.

And said let's meet and we'll feel the vibe if we want more.

[DramaFree11]

I concur with Steve. No payment for a plutonic date. Just say no.

In addition to Vive, I also like Pigmillion. Have had some good nights taking women back. There are some fast houses also.

SA is a grind. You need to grind it out. If not, just hit the pros.

Hell no! No sex, no money. I think there is a very small percentage of guys that just pay for companionship, and of those guys many may have issues why they do not want to have sex.

[FastMdSter]

Hey, I'll be traveling to Madrid this week and been talking to few gills before hand on seeking arragments.

My impression is that its more a escort site than a dating site.

I have a date no sex for 200 $.

And if I want more I need to pay.

Is it me or more than 90% are just profesional escort?

I've been trying for 2 days only and I am an ok looking guy.

Also please let me know if I am paying to much.

Although its always relative.

I concur with Steve. No payment for a plutonic date. Just say no.

In addition to Vive, I also like Pigmillion. Have had some good nights taking women back. There are some fast houses also.

SA is a grind. You need to grind it out. If not, just hit the pros.

[Steve 9696]

Hey, I'll be traveling to Madrid this week and been talking to few gills before hand on seeking arragments.

My impression is that its more a escort site than a dating site.

I have a date no sex for 200 $.

And if I want more I need to pay.

Is it me or more than 90% are just profesional escort?

I've been trying for 2 days only and I am an ok looking guy.

Also please let me know if I am paying to much.

Although its always relative.

Never ever pay for a no sex date. Ever.

Yes many pros. It takes time to find the non and semi pros. 2 days is not enough time to find quality. Because some girls only come on one a week. It's the pros who are on constantly.

$250-400 is prob going rate. Others chime in.

And of course Seeking isn’t ur only option. Vive is worth going to. Nightclub w girls for hire to onsite rooms. Search for Vive and u will find my and other reports.

[CitizenX1]

Hey, I'll be traveling to Madrid this week and been talking to few gills before hand on seeking arragments.

My impression is that its more a escort site than a dating site.

I have a date no sex for 200 $.

And if I want more I need to pay.

Is it me or more than 90% are just profesional escort?

I've been trying for 2 days only and I am an ok looking guy.

Also please let me know if I am paying to much.

Although its always relative.

[NapataJohn]

I have a shortlist of about 10 girls for my upcoming trip and 5-10 more who agreed to meet during chats. What the fuck do I do now? I only have a 10 day trip.

Many of them will flake so it is okay.

[Gfefan]

Also profiles that have selfies and selfies only. That too from bathroom mirror. I straightaway block those. Pros masquerading. Nothing against pros. If you are a pro, just say that and we will work our interactions accordingly. I have a favorite pro I meet frequently. No nonsense. Gives me a BBBJCIM whenever I need a release. She doesn't masquerade as SB. Sometimes she even borrowed money from me (few 100's) and that sweet one paid me back (yes, she gave me the cash) next meeting but I politely refused.

The other nonsense with American girls is "My love language is receiving gifts". Idiots. What makes you think I am here to speak "love language" to you? Even if I did, my love language is shoving my dick up in your pussy. That is it. Happy to give gifts in exchange of that but "send me something from my wishlist so that I know you are serious". Yes, *****, I am serious about putting my dick inside. That can happen only when you spread your legs. So, ge your ass up to meet me or I am happy to block you. You want your love language? You first speak my love language.

What about the ones whose headlines say, "Read my profile first". But then when you scroll down you find that they haven't told you a damn thing about themselves (rolling eyes)! Maybe girls from other countries do the same thing. I don't know since I've only used SA in the States. I just find it to be pretty annoying. To tell people to read your profile, but then you haven't actually said jack shit about yourself, let alone taken the time to read my profile! What am I looking for? RTFF! LOLOLOL!

[Intelligencium]

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You have to sample the buffet before you fill your plate. So do this. Put your fave girl on day 1 and second fave on day 2 and third fave on day 3. Prob stop there.

I have a shortlist of about 10 girls for my upcoming trip and 5-10 more who agreed to meet during chats. What the fuck do I do now? I only have a 10 day trip 😔.

[The Cane]

+1. The sense of entitlement and attitude of girls in US SA has made me retreat. They are not worth my time or $. Plus, you will see that world starts at Atlantic coast and ends at the Pacific coast for many of them. Hardly can hold a conversation (but call themaelves "educated" "Well traveled" = having visited LA from SFO, or Vegas from San Diego, knows "history" = since they were born 20 odd years ago, cultured means what "Hollywood" says is true about rest of world. "Smart" means an ability to talk you into spending $500 for a boring coffee chat and lame sex after. I just can't wait to head back to Europe.

What about the ones whose headlines say, "Read my profile first". But then when you scroll down you find that they haven't told you a damn thing about themselves (rolling eyes)! Maybe girls from other countries do the same thing. I don't know since I've only used SA in the States. I just find it to be pretty annoying. To tell people to read your profile, but then you haven't actually said jack shit about yourself, let alone taken the time to read my profile! What am I looking for? RTFF! LOLOLOL!