Sexual Wellness and other Sex related discussions

[IndianSexGuy]

Bro, not daily, twice in month for 3 years. Though I was not needed but to impress girls had taken. But it's vicious cycle, once you take you will end up taking long term. And age is 41.

I think this low BP was due to Sildenafil, any idea guys.

Can anyone guide how to have natural erection, as I think I cannot take Sildenafil in future, don't know whether Tadafil will be good for me or not.

Bro you aren't getting natural erection? Even in mornings? If yes then check with urologist or whatever is the doctor who looks into sexual wellbeing. 41 is not that old that you stop having natural erections.

[RedAlloy]

Taking for 3 years? You mean daily? If you don't mind, can you specify your age as well so we know better what to expect. Thanks.

Bro, not daily, twice in month for 3 years. Though I was not needed but to impress girls had taken. But it's vicious cycle, once you take you will end up taking long term. And age is 41.

I think this low BP was due to Sildenafil, any idea guys.

Can anyone guide how to have natural erection, as I think I cannot take Sildenafil in future, don't know whether Tadafil will be good for me or not.

[IndianSexGuy]

Hi Guys,

Hope everyone doing good!

I started being NoFap and it's been almost 30 days completed successfully. 2-3 days I got wet dream and noticed cum gets released during sleep.

I heard that NoFap will change our lifestyle bla bla in internet. But just want to confirm, this wet dreams and cum release automatically will decrease testosterone level at that time?

Also Can someone tell me how it feel to have direct sex if you've stayed away from Porn and masturbation for 30 days.

Thanks,

NB.

Wet dreams are fine during nofap. There is actually a study that shows that men experienced nocturnal discharge when they were given testosterone supplements. So don't worry about it much. Continue the nofap.

Personally I haven't experienced wet dreams since last several years even if I haven't had sex or not masturbated for 15+ days. I do get dreams where I am having crazy sex with exes or WGs or even actresses, but I almost never cum in the dreams and then wakeup. In fact, my performance in dreams is way better than real life lmao. Some of the dreams with actresses are something I will always remember forever haha.

About experience after 30 days I am not sure because never waited till 30 days without sex or fapping or BJ / HJ. I would like to read about other's experiences in this regard.

[NewbieHere123]

Hi Guys,

Hope everyone doing good!

I started being NoFap and it's been almost 30 days completed successfully. 2-3 days I got wet dream and noticed cum gets released during sleep.

I heard that NoFap will change our lifestyle bla bla in internet. But just want to confirm, this wet dreams and cum release automatically will decrease testosterone level at that time?

Also Can someone tell me how it feel to have direct sex if you've stayed away from Porn and masturbation for 30 days.

Thanks,

NB.

[Tubelite]

Bro, I am taking this Sildenafil since last 3 years. Just last week I took 50 MG Sildenafil+Dapox and went to one spa. Enjoyed but while coming back suddenly I had suffered heavy sweating and dizziness for 10 min with burning sensation at penis. Next day I checked ECG it was ok, but low BP. Don't know whether BP is lowered due to Sildenafil. So this medicines are definitely harmful nd affects heart for sure.

Taking for 3 years? You mean daily? If you don't mind, can you specify your age as well so we know better what to expect. Thanks.

[RedAlloy]

Bro, I am taking this Sildenafil since last 3 years. Just last week I took 50 MG Sildenafil+Dapox and went to one spa. Enjoyed but while coming back suddenly I had suffered heavy sweating and dizziness for 10 min with burning sensation at penis. Next day I checked ECG it was ok, but low BP. Don't know whether BP is lowered due to Sildenafil. So this medicines are definitely harmful nd affects heart for sure.

[WaterBoy747]

I've been addicted to masturbation since 5 or 6 years old. Started watching porn at 13, and I masturbate while watching it even today. I'm 28 now. I think too much porn and masturbation has ruined my sexual performance. I cum in just a few seconds both during masturbation and sex.

Due to some digestive issues, I have mal-absorption, so I'm very weak and never feel strong physically. Due to this, my penis doesn't get hard fully. It feels only semi hard, so I'm mostly unable to enter during sex.

I know increasing my strength can be done by working out and eating nutritious, I'm working on it. But I don't know what to do for porn addiction and early ejaculation. How do I get rid of these habits which have been part of my life since I was a kid? I'm at that age where I need to improve my sexual performance immediately. Someone please tell me natural ways, as I'm not willing to take any drugs for this.

Great advices here so I will share my two cents too. I started NoFap because I didn't like the way I felt after masturbating. I know it brings some calmness and helps you sleep but in my case, it also made me feel depressed. But I still did it often which led to another condition called Dead Man's Grip. It is something that desensitizes your penis if you masturbate too often. This made me lose a lot of sensitivity in sex. I didn't have PE but I couldn't cum nor keep it hard during sex. It became an increasing problem and I had to control it. I didn't have access to sex much often since I didn't have too much to spend. Which made me think about massages and happy endings. I used to go massages atleast 2-3 times a week with different girls that I was enjoying more of that than fapping and it also made me stronger in bed. Because in a way, massage is a bit like sex too, you are naked and the girl is rubbing your erogenous zones which gets you excited. The first few times it took me literally 5 seconds to cum, but the more I did it, the better I got at it. I enjoyed getting my dick stroked for a long time and not cumming. This led to me going longer in bed. Now I have to bang for quite a while for me to come.

So in essence my only advice, like someone else said, is to. Put your johnny to use as much as you can. Get a massage, a handjob, b2 b, bbj, escort, GF. Whatever it takes. Consistency brings perfection.

[AKeller]

I've been addicted to masturbation since 5 or 6 years old. Started watching porn at 13, and I masturbate while watching it even today. I'm 28 now. I think too much porn and masturbation has ruined my sexual performance. I cum in just a few seconds both during masturbation and sex.

Due to some digestive issues, I have mal-absorption, so I'm very weak and never feel strong physically. Due to this, my penis doesn't get hard fully. It feels only semi hard, so I'm mostly unable to enter during sex.

I know increasing my strength can be done by working out and eating nutritious, I'm working on it. But I don't know what to do for porn addiction and early ejaculation. How do I get rid of these habits which have been part of my life since I was a kid? I'm at that age where I need to improve my sexual performance immediately. Someone please tell me natural ways, as I'm not willing to take any drugs for this.

I think a timer would work. It's not easy to quit the urge immediately. But you could try setting a timer on your mobile for, let's say 24 hours, where you won't masturbate. That way, your sense of guilt after a relapse reduces, and you'll feel that you've achieved something. And then, slowly increase the gap, and stick to it. In those gaps you can try to fill your mind with something else that you find is productive. Or you could think that you won't masturbate until a specific event in your life occurs (which is not too far away, because otherwise, the chances of a relapse is higher).

I'm a religious person, and I linked my nofap streak to a deity that I believe in. So that kind of put in a sense of fear as well, LOL. But I planned and went on a streak of 40 days and that was successful. There were urges, but I was able to control, probably due to the fear. Fear is, really, a superpower. And now I'm on a streak of 60 days, and so far so good. Find something you can connect your nofap streak to, that will give you more guilt than a relapse.

Also, since you're on this forum, try to have regular sex. I am, and that helps. If you have a girlfriend or married to someone who is supportive, that's good. If you're looking for escorts, plan for a contact or a meetup not more than once or twice a month, and look forward to it.

[Prince Joffery]

I've been addicted to masturbation since 5 or 6 years old. Started watching porn at 13, and I masturbate while watching it even today. I'm 28 now. I think too much porn and masturbation has ruined my sexual performance. I cum in just a few seconds both during masturbation and sex.

Due to some digestive issues, I have mal-absorption, so I'm very weak and never feel strong physically. Due to this, my penis doesn't get hard fully. It feels only semi hard, so I'm mostly unable to enter during sex.

I know increasing my strength can be done by working out and eating nutritious, I'm working on it. But I don't know what to do for porn addiction and early ejaculation. How do I get rid of these habits which have been part of my life since I was a kid? I'm at that age where I need to improve my sexual performance immediately. Someone please tell me natural ways, as I'm not willing to take any drugs for this.

I understand how you feel. We live in a world of porn abundance and it is overwhelming. I feel guilty as well post masturbation even if I do it once in a while. I want to share an obvious advice - "will it out" . It will become easier just by a small bit everytime you abstain. There is this point in time, which varies from person to person, after which masturbation stops being an issue. This point may be somewhere around the 3 months to 6 months mark. Before this point, everytime you masturbate you will feel like you are back to square one and like you have to start over again but hang on. It helps a lot if you exercise daily. Exercise calms mind and is a de-stressor. It also promotes healthy eating. I would also recommend getting a difficult career goal to go along with exercise and start bit by bit everyday.

[SublimeLove]

Masturbating these days is causing lot of knee pain. Sometimes difficult to walk. What is the connection between masturbation and knee pain?

Knee pain usually occurs due to deficiency of Vit the or due to obesity.

[Lamboos]

I've been addicted to masturbation since 5 or 6 years old. Started watching porn at 13, and I masturbate while watching it even today. I'm 28 now. I think too much porn and masturbation has ruined my sexual performance. I cum in just a few seconds both during masturbation and sex.

Due to some digestive issues, I have mal-absorption, so I'm very weak and never feel strong physically. Due to this, my penis doesn't get hard fully. It feels only semi hard, so I'm mostly unable to enter during sex.

I know increasing my strength can be done by working out and eating nutritious, I'm working on it. But I don't know what to do for porn addiction and early ejaculation. How do I get rid of these habits which have been part of my life since I was a kid? I'm at that age where I need to improve my sexual performance immediately. Someone please tell me natural ways, as I'm not willing to take any drugs for this.

Only way is to quit porn and masturbation bro. You just have to fight the urge. Once you lay off this habit, your body should reset to its natural ways. The amount of time will depend on each individual. And for you stomach issue try doing intermittent fasting and then progress to full day water fasting (Consult with your doctor first). Also try taking probiotics and avoid processed foods and sugar. Cheers.

[NiceGuy95]

I've been addicted to masturbation since 5 or 6 years old. Started watching porn at 13, and I masturbate while watching it even today. I'm 28 now. I think too much porn and masturbation has ruined my sexual performance. I cum in just a few seconds both during masturbation and sex.

Due to some digestive issues, I have mal-absorption, so I'm very weak and never feel strong physically. Due to this, my penis doesn't get hard fully. It feels only semi hard, so I'm mostly unable to enter during sex.

I know increasing my strength can be done by working out and eating nutritious, I'm working on it. But I don't know what to do for porn addiction and early ejaculation. How do I get rid of these habits which have been part of my life since I was a kid? I'm at that age where I need to improve my sexual performance immediately. Someone please tell me natural ways, as I'm not willing to take any drugs for this.

[Lamboos]

Any budget extra width condom available? Mostly the condoms are too tight and that surely has to do with the condom breaks.

Not aware of any local / Indian brands. Mostly only foreign ones like Magnum XXL, but they don't come cheap.

[BrightBuddy]

Hello fellow experienced mongers,

I am planning to start my mongering journey. I would love to have your suggestions at my back.

Please let me know what are the important things I should keep in my mind.

[RussianLover19]

Don't know about the 1 MG thing, but usually condom breaks can happen because of too much friction, heat, incorrect fit, manufacturing defects (check for expiry date too) or coming in contact with certain chemicals or oil or even not putting it on correctly ( pinch the tip and eave some space at the top). Try using some water based lube like KY Jelly; should improve the odds. If you are getting a oil massage before the deed, be careful though, oil weakens latex condoms, hence always recommended not to use oil as a lube.

Any budget extra width condom available? Mostly the condoms are too tight and that surely has to do with the condom breaks.