Thread: Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India
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05-10-24 11:24 #8090
Posts: 155Reverse stories too
So I met one lady through seeking few months back. She is 28 and we are not into any sugar relationship but just that we meet for sex and enjoy each others company at ppm. So she told me from begining that she is looking for a 40 plus unmarried or divorced sd and reason is simple. She does not want to be labelled as home wrecker or any past baggage. She is purely into this for raising some capital in 6 or 7 months and start a cafe. So she wants a relatively older guy. She eventually met one but then he ghosted her. So she called him and did all sort of crazy things like calling and texting from other simcard and other stuff and got response from a lady that guy is hospitalised and its been 2 months.
She told me that seeking is full of useless chaps. Half of the guys are fake and then there are lot of pimps who tell them to join them to get steady clients. A few more will plan a social meeting but on the day they will cancel saying weird reasons. Some times after reaching the place and waiting long time gets response like "I was just checking if you are real so next time lets meet". Some guys catfish girls with other dudes pic.
So when a potential true sb find a genuine contact they chase and try to make that certain. Because as phil said they can gain a lot if get into a genuine sugarlife I. E in lacs or mentorship, connections.
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05-10-24 10:52 #8089
Posts: 851Originally Posted by MalluMacha [View Original Post]
In my brief period with SA I came across two such women. Who are smart, very articulate, well read and well informed and who can hold a nuanced conversation on a variety of topics. Thankfully for me they didn't ask for such allowance.
Cheers.
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05-10-24 10:39 #8088
Posts: 109Seeking vs Hookering
Originally Posted by FunForSandy [View Original Post]
Many ultra affluent men (very few of whom have the time for a forum such as this) place incalculable value on a woman being genuinely sophisticated, well educated and with excellent conversational (English language) skills.
Unwinding at leisure with a woman like that, and not merely boinking a dolled up 2-shots imbecilic shrew half their own age, is to them the biggest flex (and one they will generously spring for, no questions asked).
Comes down to what a man values, and what he can realistically afford.
We may not like it one bit, but despite our braggadocio and bitter rants on forums such as this one, it is very much a seller's market.
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05-10-24 10:15 #8087
Posts: 851Originally Posted by MalluMacha [View Original Post]
And you are right, we are the lot to be pitied at with our 15-20 k. 🫣.
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05-10-24 10:10 #8086
Posts: 851Originally Posted by BeStill [View Original Post]
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05-10-24 09:26 #8085
Posts: 293Originally Posted by MalluMacha [View Original Post]
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05-10-24 07:51 #8084
Posts: 162FierceVenus
Anyone been in touch with her? Used to be in Delhi, now moved to BLR.
I am blocked now so I can't see the profile but it used to have a bikini babe who I now realise is from Insta.
Sweet talker but I want to find out if she's genuine, just out of curiosity. I doubt I'll meet her as I have some doubts but wondering if I'm wrong.
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05-10-24 05:47 #8083
Posts: 457Kolkatta is best in my opinion.
Originally Posted by FunForSandy [View Original Post]
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05-10-24 04:22 #8082
Posts: 109Poetic Pillow Talk
This is definitely not made up.
My long term SB here in Bangalore has met and been wooed by this or perhaps another gent with a similar modus operandi. He's not in finance, but a 50 something tech VP in a sexless marriage with self esteem issues and zero confidence around women.
He routinely pays the lady 50 k per ST rendezvous for naked conversation (she's beautiful, bright and engaging) and poetry.
And here we are quibbling ad nauseam about "spoiling the market" with our 15's and 20's.
Originally Posted by MadHatter [View Original Post]
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05-10-24 04:17 #8081
Posts: 544Other options and value from SA
Tinder and Gleeden cost less, but, if you are over 40, at best you will get a couple of contacts of WGs. You can try it out as I have, without much to lose except time.
If you are looking for a working girl, the cost per contact is best on SA.
If your mongering budget is upwards of 5 lac p.a, a month's membership on SA, with discount, costs under 2% of your annual spend. Consider it brokerage.
Assume you will lose upto 10% of your money either on outright scams, or errors of judgement (e. G. You went ahead with the date though she was not like the pic).
Even when you are not looking for WG's, you will get a min of 100 TG contacts in either Del / Mumbai / Bangalore in a month's membership. Eliminating scammers, people who ghost, unattractive
girls or GPS, there will be at least a dozen prospects, which should be enough to get by for the year. If in the process of shortlisting, you have a few pleasant meets over coffee without paying, that covers the membership fee.
If however, you are looking for what we imagine the ideal SB to be, that is increasingly rare to find, to a point where SA is becoming a waste of time.
There are just 3 cities in India where IMO, there is a good choice on SA. Delhi / NCR, Mumbai and Bangalore.
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05-10-24 03:20 #8080
Posts: 851Originally Posted by BrandNewMonge [View Original Post]
Any opinions about which city is best for seeking in India.
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05-10-24 03:19 #8079
Posts: 851Originally Posted by ChristmasTre [View Original Post]
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05-10-24 03:15 #8078
Posts: 851Originally Posted by ChristmasTre [View Original Post]
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05-09-24 19:31 #8077
Posts: 155EnchantingGirl BLR
Originally Posted by FunForSandy [View Original Post]
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05-09-24 18:15 #8076
Posts: 116Originally Posted by BrandNewMonge [View Original Post]
You are likely to blow up about a lakh the month you have a membership. If you take this much money seriously, then you are bound to get stressed out. If you can throw it and forget about it, I would sanction such a budget.
Unfortunately there is nothing better for the 40+ age group to use in India but this app. Tinder is not kind on our age group. I agree SA is not worth it these days. But not much choice there!