Medellin Reports

[SankarShetty]

I will be in MDE right after new year. Anyone planning a trip in the first 2 weeks in Jan, PM me if you want to exchange info. Or plan for a meet up.

[Osteoknot]

Maybe because they are png's? Not sure what I am doing different. I can't believe they are being censored by admin, they are not controversial. I will try to post them again.

Of course, yes, what TK wrote was a common sense, mature way of approaching the value of any long term relationship. As if often the case, my writing lets me down, especially when I am doing it at 4 AM, jaja. I was referring to a long distance relationship with a chica who a mongerer met here, and then wanted to maintain after her returned to the states. Cutting off support, especially as a temporary step while you gauge the chica's response, can provide valuable information. You can always go back to whatever level of support you like.

I have met too many guys who on the belief that some chica they briefly met here is madly in love with them, sends the girl money after they leave. That's fine, that's up to you, the vast majority of the time she will be playing you, usually with multiple guys. A lot of that depends upon how you met her, as a regular girl versus someone who was hanging out in front of the Vera Cruz Church. That would be your selection bias.

One reason Catgirl and I have made is more than two years is she passed that test. After I first met her and returned home, I refused to send her any support. But over time, I saw how little money she made after a ten or twelve hour work day. Sometimes she would come home with 30 mil COP in her pocket after eating, which is chump change for lot of guys from the USA. And then a couple of her jobs were so freakin' dangerous (e,g, working in a gold mine) that it scared me. And then when I returned to MDE she was always so tired from working that we barely had fun. So I decided to support her and it was a great decision. She stuck by me way before that point and since then during breaks of my support.

I have other girlfriends from MDE who ask me and I refuse them help, but they still want to see me when I come to MDE. The easiest way to handle it is to make it black and white and not give any girls anything extra, but I was reading here about someone who was interested in a more meaningful relationship with the local girls, and that is what sparked me. And call me crazy, but I see life as more of a continuum with shades of gray.

Great feedback! I liked your suggestion about living with her, albeit that is a drastic step. You can learn mountains (pardon the pun) of info about how these people live and breathe when you stay with them, even short term. I have stayed on the sides of mountains more than a few times in the lower and lowest stratas of housing in MDE. Also I have stayed out in the country in a remote mountain top village, and in two different mega-apartment complexes you can see from a distance on the mountain sides in MDE, and I loved it. But I do NOT recommend that for everyone. You have to have your wits about you in those situations, know your way around a little, know how to blend in, and definitely be with people you trust.

I stand by my little acid test, that if you stop sending a chica here money and then you stop hearing from her, you have good intel. You are right TK, she may find a substitute, so like 90% of life, timing is everything. You can always choose to go back to gifting her, that may be the right way to keep her, or you may soon be awarded your first of many degrees from Fool's College. My main point is there are many girls here worth pursuing, but because of selection bias, don't expect to be finding them in the places we commonly discuss here.

The right chica from MDE will show you much more appreciation, emotionally and physically than her counterpart in the USA. Calling them all golddiggers is misguided, because their need is genuine. Colombia is not the land of opportunity that exists in USA, where drive and talent get rewarded. You can have all those things in Medellin and still be suppressed and beat down by the system. If you judge these girls using the values you absorbed from the USA you will get the an inaccurate viewpoint.

Photos, I hope they all upload this time. The preggo is ready to pop. For those of you who follow me, she goes back over two years with me, second only to Catgirl in length of time. That is Amazonia and she held down my Numero Two spot longer than anyone until she got pregnant and moved back to her village five hours away. Well, her due date is this month, and she is back in Medellin waiting to deliver. I would fly over to MDE right now just for her and dip my wick in that prime preggo pussy, but I am down to the wire on the days left on my 2021 tourist visa. Ostee Out!

[CoolGregg]

Wait. There is a sports bar there? How long has it been there? I stay at the San Peter when I stay in Laureles. I loved the JM Grill on the first floor. They had GOOD BREAKFAST. But they closed in 2019.

Just opened in first weekend of October. I was there when owner had soft opening. Couple from Texas opened it. He was going through hiring end of September. It is good spot for states people to hang out.

[Jose Flores]

Do you guys know of any motels / hotels for short term (2 hours) stays around Parque Lleras and what I would be expecting to pay in general?

[Gilolo]

Yes the facebook girls are sexy and perform very well for 200 mil pesos in hopes that you will want to see them again.

The most you should spend for a session is 320 or 330 mil pesos. That's the price for a session at either Club La Isla (open late nights) or a place called Loutron (open afternoon / evenings). So you probably won't be spending as much as you budgeted unless you are overpaying or have several sessions every day. OR if you prefer to take girls from Club Gusto as they are well known for overcharging.

How can you find the girls on facebook? Do you have some names to give me? I don't know any girl on facebook from Colombia.

In fact till now, I always monger in Thailand and Cambodia but it will me my first time in Colombia.

[Lucky Nuts]

Thanks for your answer. In fact, I just tried to send you a private email but I can't join pictures.

I'll try again to upload the picture here but I'm scared Admin delete again.

If you can help me with her, it would be very nice.

Thanks to let me know that the normal price is about 200 000 pesos which is less 50 Euros. But are the girls very sexy when you pay that amount?

For these holidays I was thinking to spend about 300 euros per day.

I don't know what you think.

Yes the facebook girls are sexy and perform very well for 200 mil pesos in hopes that you will want to see them again.

The most you should spend for a session is 320 or 330 mil pesos. That's the price for a session at either Club La Isla (open late nights) or a place called Loutron (open afternoon / evenings). So you probably won't be spending as much as you budgeted unless you are overpaying or have several sessions every day. OR if you prefer to take girls from Club Gusto as they are well known for overcharging.

[JustTK]

There is one, super-simple, obvious, easy, fail-safe and time-tested way to tell if a chica is really into you or not for those of you looking for more of a relationship and not just a wet mudhole to fuck. For some reason a lot of guys are too simple-minded or blinded to do it or see it. Stop all support, direct and indirect, money and gifts, and see if she sticks by you. That approach is a little over-simplistic because of the culture, if the girl thinks you really love her, then even regular girls see money and giving as a sign of true love, so there is some cross-over. But for the most part, it's a simple and accurate barometer, especially for chicas you have known for awhile. If you want a regular girlfriend and you open with, "I am never going to give you anything" that is not the recipe for success either, jajaja.

Got to disagree with this Osteo. You are not empathising with their situation. A girl might be in to you, but she is in a difficult financial situation. If you cut all support then you will force her to make a decsion -.

1. see a guy that she is in to and that could support her but chooses not to do so.

2. seek another guy that does support her.

If she is in a desperate financial situation, she will obviously choose option 2, despite how much she is in to you.

A far better way to judge a girl is to live with her, and / or take the time to understand her life situation and to respond accordingly.

[Fun Luvr]

Wait. There is a sports bar there? How long has it been there? I stay at the San Peter when I stay in Laureles. I loved the JM Grill on the first floor. They had GOOD BREAKFAST. But they closed in 2019.

It's been there for just over a month, according to the owner.

[Gilolo]

Since money "isn't an issue" for you and you "don't care about price" you should just go to Club Gusto. The chicas at Gusto are willing to charge you as much as you are willing to pay. They prefer 100 dollar bills instead of the local currency.

On the other hand if you arrange meetings with chicas on Facebook please don't offer to pay these girls more than 200 mil pesos (the local currency) plus taxis to and from your apartment. 99 percent of the chicas will accept that. The ones that will not really don't want to do it so how good would the session be if you bribe them into visiting you? Actually you should first offer 150 mil plus taxis as the vast majority will accept that.

Admin deleted your pics. Feel free to PM on the off-chance I know who you are asking about. BTW, once you have found Club Gusto you will also find yourself in Parque Lleras

Thanks for your answer. In fact, I just tried to send you a private email but I can't join pictures.

I'll try again to upload the picture here but I'm scared Admin delete again.

If you can help me with her, it would be very nice.

Thanks to let me know that the normal price is about 200 000 pesos which is less 50 Euros. But are the girls very sexy when you pay that amount?

For these holidays I was thinking to spend about 300 euros per day.

I don't know what you think.

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[Osteoknot]

There are all kinds of "regular" girls, meaning non Play 4 Pay (or is it Pay 4 Play? Whatever), with whom you can maintain a satisfying, fulfilling relationship between visits to our beloved Medellin, I use Whassap for the free phone and video calls. I've done it, continue to do it. But if you are finding those girls standing around in front of the Vera Cruz Church or at your friendly neighborhood casa, then don't expect a high quality relationship. I've posted before that the best way to meet a "normal" girl is look for one while she is at work. She has a job. She has some sense of responsibility. She is still Colombian so more than likely she loves to fuck as much as you do. When guys here write absolute truths about all the women they meet in MDE, ask yourself in what kind of pool are they swimming? I have the full range of chicas in my ranked line-up from conservative working girl who does not expect anything extra to full-time puta drug dealer and user, who BTW is hawt as fuck. They all have their place. Don't try to put a square peg in a round hole. Or if you prefer a Biblical reference, don't try to make a silk purse out a sow's ear.

There is one, super-simple, obvious, easy, fail-safe and time-tested way to tell if a chica is really into you or not for those of you looking for more of a relationship and not just a wet mudhole to fuck. For some reason a lot of guys are too simple-minded or blinded to do it or see it. Stop all support, direct and indirect, money and gifts, and see if she sticks by you. That approach is a little over-simplistic because of the culture, if the girl thinks you really love her, then even regular girls see money and giving as a sign of true love, so there is some cross-over. But for the most part, it's a simple and accurate barometer, especially for chicas you have known for awhile. If you want a regular girlfriend and you open with, "I am never going to give you anything" that is not the recipe for success either, jajaja.

We all have our own selection bias and we are all biased from our own experiences, that's only natural. I got a nice reminder of that when I was on a roll here last visit earlier this year extolling the virtues of the pink shit, and how great it made sex and how the chicas all loved it. Then I met up in person with another member here, nice guy, who told me that on my recommendation he tried the pink shit, twice even, didn't hate it, didn't particularly like it. Even more strangely to me, he said half the chicas he offered it to didn't want anything to do with it. Great feedback and I suddenly realized, clearly I oversold the concept. Through my own selection bias I was (subconsciously?) picking out the chicas who I knew would like it and run with it. I literally never met a chica who didn't at least try it and 90% of them came back for more. I am not trying to convince anyone and we could be talking about Tussi or negro cono or Paisa pussy, it doesn't matter. I am saying that was a good example of my own selection bias and how that did not transfer over to the next guy's experience.

That parallel happens all the time here when you recommend for or against anything, which is why one of my other often repeated sayings is, "Consider the source. " So where does a guy look? You can start over like me and assume everything you know and have learned in life is wrong, jajjaja, or really your best bet is if you are lucky enough to find one or two or possibly even three like-minded mongers and keep that circle-jerk going as long as you can. Otherwise, find your on way through the bits and pieces you can assemble from here. There is no one answer or one way to do anything in a place as wide open as Medellin. I don't pretend to be a subject matter expert on MDE yet, but as my detractors hate to hear me say, I have mongered on six continents and been laid on all seven, so this ain't my first rodeo.

I have my tickets and my reservations for my return to MDE. For two years in a row I will have max'd out my tourist visa at 180 days per year, and I am in the middle of upgrading that. I have a new apartment in Aurora with my GF, great neighborhood, sort of under the radar. I never hear anyone talk about Aurora, mi novia grew up there and I like what I've seen so far. Will post pics.

I saw a strange post here about the cost and unavailability of the Nutibara Hotel in El Centro. Not true. 4 nights, with their banging' breakfast for $111 USD which may not be cheap by MDE standards but hell, yeah. Going to stay there first before I get willingly shackled in Aurora, but as we know, plans are usually futile in MDE. I will wait and see what Medellin has in store for me, and then go with the flow, jeje. Ostee Out.

How about some gratuitous fotos, all from my last trip, and I will try not to do repeats? As always, my fotos are original, unless I forget to mention a stray one that a chica sent me but I am taking 99% of the fotos you see. A couple of mongers here with too much spare time and not enough pussy have tried to find my fotos on the Internet elsewhere and so far I think they are batting somewhere's around 0 for 10 thousand, jajajaja.

The preggo's due date is 2 days after I arrive. She sent me that foto today. I told her to keep her leg crossed and hang onto that baby so I can get me some of that prime full-term preggo pussy. Plus after she delivers, she's not going to feel like having sex for a little while, at least not below the waist, depending on how convincing I can be. That reminds me of an old joke, When are you supposed to stop having sex with a pregnant girl? When the head of your penis starts hitting the head of the baby, jajaja.

I wish I could show you the face of the tall skinny brunette in the pink bikini underwear, also shown giving me a blow job. Gorgeous. They're not my best fotos but I quickly picked ones that I did not have to spend extra time blurring out their faces. Except for that one skank showing me her pussy hole, her look was hilarious. Keep On Keepin' On!

[El Moreno 92]

Medellin Sports Bar is in the San Peters apartment building, first floor where the Philly Steaks place used to be. It's rather small, but plenty of TV's, and there are female bartenders.

Wait. There is a sports bar there? How long has it been there? I stay at the San Peter when I stay in Laureles. I loved the JM Grill on the first floor. They had GOOD BREAKFAST. But they closed in 2019.

[JC9999]

Just got back from Medellin. Avoid Hotel Haven. Service was some of the poorest I've experienced. About halfway through my 10 day stay the Supervisor can't remember his name older balding guy knocks on my door tells me check out is at 11 am. I showed him I prebooked my stay for 10 days not 6. He says sorry then leaves. I left right after that to have some fun at Energy and came back at 4 pm. He tells me at the front desk lobby that I have to change rooms because of raining leaks.

Obvious this was just to get me to change rooms and rent it out at a higher cost.

Anyways Hotel Haven fuck that place. Went to a better hotel with better service few blocks away. Also requested a fresh towel that never came from front desk.

I agree that you have to watch out for yourself here. In September, I booked (at a higher cost) a larger room with a couch for 3 weeks (I wasn't go to spend that much time in a hotel with just a bed to lie on). When I checked in, I was put in a room with just a bed, with only 3-4 feet on each side for walking around. When I went to the front desk to point out the issue, they said not all rooms have couches. I pulled up a picture of the website and showed them the room I booked showed a couch, and threw a bit of a fit. They finally relented after 30 minutes, but there was tension with the front desk the rest of the time that made coming and going a bit uncomfortable. Also, for about a week straight, I didn't even get towels when the room was cleaned, but only after I called the front desk and often they were not brought until late afternoon when laundry was finished. Not the maids' fault, they just don't seem to have enough to go around. Which is preposterous for a nicer hotel. I'the pass on this place.

[Shemp]

Flying to Medellin tomorrow on my second visit, the first was in last July. I wrote a few trip reports back then. I am pretty excited for this trip, I've got many girls lined up from facebook. The selection of chicas is much better than my previous visit, mainly because I've spent time curating a nice list of friends on FB. Most are accepting 150 k mas LOS taxis, with a few going for 200 k. Will write a trip report when I return. In the meantime, I've got a few questions.

1. Any recommendations on nice rooftops bars in Laureles? I am willing to travel to Poblado if that's where the nicer bars are.

2. I know Laura Bustamante has been mentioned in this forum a few times. She's on my friend list and has reached out to me a few times. How's her prepago service? Not interested in any tours.

3. When is the best time to go to La Isla for the nicest selection of chicas?

# 1 Envy rooftop bar on the top of Hotel Charlee in Parque lleras. Great views, music, drinks & Sunday brunch.

# 2 Her service is excellent. She is not a young hardbody but a bit older & curvy & she knows how to make a man happy, any way you like it.

# 3 La Isla is best Wednesday thru Saturday nights from 11 pm til close, usually 4 am.

[Lucky Nuts]

Hi everybody,

I plan to come in January in Colombia, Bogota, Medellin for the first time in my life! I want visit the country, but I want to meet very sexy ladies, working girls, hookers. I don't care about the price.

But I found that girl on facebook with this customer. On the video it was written, the video was done in Parque Lleras Poblado. Do you know where it is? And do you know that girl? I think she's a pro.

I dream of her and I really would love meet her! Anyone can help me to be in touch with her? If yes, I give you a nice commission. I dream meet her and spend time with her and make love with her of course. Money isn't a problem for me.

Since money "isn't an issue" for you and you "don't care about price" you should just go to Club Gusto. The chicas at Gusto are willing to charge you as much as you are willing to pay. They prefer 100 dollar bills instead of the local currency.

On the other hand if you arrange meetings with chicas on Facebook please don't offer to pay these girls more than 200 mil pesos (the local currency) plus taxis to and from your apartment. 99 percent of the chicas will accept that. The ones that will not really don't want to do it so how good would the session be if you bribe them into visiting you? Actually you should first offer 150 mil plus taxis as the vast majority will accept that.

Admin deleted your pics. Feel free to PM on the off-chance I know who you are asking about. BTW, once you have found Club Gusto you will also find yourself in Parque Lleras

[Zeos1]

Guessing you guys mean drugged? If so, are they trying this on in-calls or perhaps meeting places when not paying attention?

Scopalmine put in your drink. When you are not looking I would presume. Guys that I know of that have had this happen have had it happen in their apartment, in a bar, or restaurant. Usually after a few drinks. That way no one can tell if you are just drunk or drunk and drugged. Especially the person drugged. If they are still functional they most often don't know they have been drugged.