Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[FunForSandy]

I didn't mean any disrespect. It is just slightly farfetched. If he is pulling it off, then kudos to him. There is lots to learn.

In my professional career, I have never heard of successfull female startup founders meeting old men for 6 k for platonic dates. They can definitely meet to acquire more funding / open gates / gain access. But 6 k? I don't think that happens. But hey, if they say that happens, then so be it.

I don't have any proof to refute that. So I will pause this discussion here.

Appreciated buddy.

[BeStill]

Hey buddy,

That's again rude and mean. Do you know Phil's qualifications or stature? Why do we have to stoop low?

I have taken an extremely hot, very well qualified girl out for dinner twice in my short stint and both times my expenses were below 3 k since none of us drinks. That it didn't culminate into anything more is a different matter.

So I can completely identify with Phil.

And please keep in mind, he paid 6 k for "platonic" dates.

Let's be respectful and collaborative.

Cheers.

I didn't mean any disrespect. It is just slightly farfetched. If he is pulling it off, then kudos to him. There is lots to learn.

In my professional career, I have never heard of successfull female startup founders meeting old men for 6 k for platonic dates. They can definitely meet to acquire more funding / open gates / gain access. But 6 k? I don't think that happens. But hey, if they say that happens, then so be it.

I don't have any proof to refute that. So I will pause this discussion here.

[FunForSandy]

So there are startup founders running consulting firms abroad meeting non attractive 50 year old with zero personality who also are less rich than them, for just 6 k?

Wow.

Good job, I guess.

Hey buddy,

That's again rude and mean. Do you know Phil's qualifications or stature? Why do we have to stoop low?

I have taken an extremely hot, very well qualified girl out for dinner twice in my short stint and both times my expenses were below 3 k since none of us drinks. That it didn't culminate into anything more is a different matter.

So I can completely identify with Phil.

And please keep in mind, he paid 6 k for "platonic" dates.

Let's be respectful and collaborative.

Cheers.

[FunForSandy]

Don't fall for a DP, if they clearly showing face pic means chances are it's fake. All Genuine SB I met in SA never displayed in SA and all share later.

True that.

[BeStill]

One of them, who I met when she turned 18, could communicate better than I did. Wrote poetry and newspaper columns in 2 languages. She runs a consulting firm abroad while still in her 20's and can interact with cabinet ministers, or CEOs.
Another had a net worth higher than mine and a knowledge of western cities, art, culture, fine dining etc way higher than mine.

My current girl in her 20's runs her own startup, looks like Aishwarya Rai and comes from a similar background as I do. She takes 6k if our date is platonic.

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So there are startup founders running consulting firms abroad meeting non attractive 50 year old with zero personality who also are less rich than them, for just 6 k?

Wow.

Good job, I guess.

[SymonWestt]

Thanks for the information.

Don't fall for a DP, if they clearly showing face pic means chances are it's fake. All Genuine SB I met in SA never displayed in SA and all share later.

[Christmas Tre]

This is a miracle, bro.

You yourself say you are short, old, fat and not generous.

It's amazing that 18 year olds & Aishwarya Rai doppelgangers are falling over themselves to give you earth shattering celestial experiences for INR 6000.

Strangely, all your 500+ posts are the same gyaan not to pay for meet & greets or complaints about allowances and quality.

Problem is, unless you share solid evidence, most readers will pity your delusions and have a hearty laugh at your expense.

No offence, my friend.

I've actually seen some of Phil's girls and they are smoking hot. Not sure what solid evidence you are asking for. Don't troll.

[DecloTofen]

How do you guys do it? Is wading through dozens of fake profiles / pimps / scams to find a single gem so rewarding?

There are hardly ten verified profiles on SA in Delhi and none of them are to my liking. I've started talking to some of the unverified ones and most seem to be either out for a quick scam or pimps. I might change my tone if I find the perfect SB but for now, I don't think SA is worth it.

Also any luck with your find?

[Phil50]

No, it's not the rule, simply because women of that caliber (smart + pleasant + sophisticated + sexy + attractive) themselves are rare and therefore exceptional and prized (in turn, by a certain caliber of men, and not by all).

I think your description of the girls who command a high price, as well as the men who pay that is accurate. It misses an important point though.

A smart sophisticated woman who is not a WG, is not into this only for the money, but other benefits that an older successful men can provide. For many of us, getting a qualified person an internship, or job is a matter of making a call. I have done things like writing papers with SB as co-author, helping with college admission abroad, or legal advice with a divorce or getting out of an employment contract. I complete college assignments for my current girl. These things are valued more than money, by the girls you describe, but not by a WG.
Nor would we do this if we do not intend to have a long term relationship.

I am that 50+ socially awkward guy you describe. However, at work there have been plenty of girls who would be quite happy to have a meal date with me, with no expectation of a benefit, because interacting with the company CEO is something they value. Several will do a lot more. Its a separate matter that I wouldn't date anyone I work with, but there is no shortage of smart, attractive, career minded women, who would date non sexually, with a little 'compensation for their time' as a sweetener. Those who do not want to separate their work and personal lives and have the money, can have enough choice at their workplace, without needing SA. If the money you offer gets you sex, why would you not go for it?
There are instances where a man has spent a lot on the first platonic date, but has done so with the expectation of sex later.

I've heard several of my SA partners tell me about the man who for e.g. slipped them 50 k just to have a chat, or 15 k just to take them for a drive after college. They later admitted it was BS, but they repeat that myth to themselves and others, to convince themselves that they are not working girls. If it is obvious they are sleeping for money, they will say its either because of a temporary financial emergency, or they just had this one (very generous) SD in the past. It appeals to our sense of wanting to be white knight, or compete with a fictional former SD to provide benefits.

[FunForSandy]

This is a miracle, bro.

You yourself say you are short, old, fat and not generous.

It's amazing that 18 year olds & Aishwarya Rai doppelgangers are falling over themselves to give you earth shattering celestial experiences for INR 6000.

Strangely, all your 500+ posts are the same gyaan not to pay for meet & greets or complaints about allowances and quality.

Problem is, unless you share solid evidence, most readers will pity your delusions and have a hearty laugh at your expense.

No offence, my friend.

Hey buddy,

That was mean.

We all share information here which is the purpose of this forum. Does any of us show evidence? If you think someone is not providing correct information, please just ignore it.

Having said that I have been in touch with Phil for a little while now and have benefitted from his vast knowledge and info.

Cheers.

[Akhi0007]

Hi friends.

Anyone met this one Izza John from SA Bangalore?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...e-bcd587fbbd66

Thanks..

Avoid, she wasted my time. The same profile keeps changing the cities, she was in Kochi, later Bangalore. One day she said ready to meet, after few days she said she is looking for a life partner. It continued for a month without any conclusion, I fed up and blocked.

[Phil50]

He mentioned platonic dates for 6 k which seems quite a lot to me, actual meet with sec price will be 20 k +.

That is correct. Also, the platonic date will usually be at a restaurant, so my total cost will be over 10 k.

While I may pay 18 (6 * 3) for my long term relationships, for intimacy, with a meal & drinks before an after it, it would typically cost be 25 k.

As I have said in several posts, there are several reasons I do platonic and it works well when it meets my partner's requirements.

[Phil50]

This is a miracle, bro.

You yourself say you are short, old, fat and not generous.

It's amazing that 18 year olds & Aishwarya Rai doppelgangers are falling over themselves to give you earth shattering celestial experiences for INR 6000.

Strangely, all your 500+ posts are the same gyaan not to pay for meet & greets or complaints about allowances and quality.

Problem is, unless you share solid evidence, most readers will pity your delusions and have a hearty laugh at your expense.

No offence, my friend.

No offense. Perhaps you misunderstand. I have platonic dates for Rs 6000. It attracts 2 types:

Women who do not intend to have sex and do gain a lot, apart from money, by dating me. I'm talking fine dining, internships etc. Some girls place a lot of value on that.
Those women might not sleep with me for all the money in the world.

The second type of person is the one with whom I do have a long term relationship and recognise that not every date is about intimacy. If in the course of a long relationship, my girl gains several lacs, goes on some great holidays, or gets a good job or admission abroad, they are quite happy to agree to a deal where a platonic meet does not have the same compensation as an intimate one, 1:3 ratio.

I have said such types are increasingly difficult to find on SA. I do not go for working girls, so you won't find my FRs on them.
I have been on SA for 10 years and met 100+ women. I have learnt some things over time, which I'm happy to share, for what it is worth.
I've no intention of giving gyan, or debunking what someone else has in good faith, reported what he has been told. We are here to share info, the more the better.

I am fine doing what I'm doing. You may term it a celestial experience, others may say I am wasting my money. It is a point of view. Feel free to share yours.

If you feel that not paying for a 'meet & greet', or my understanding of allowances is delusional, we would gain from your perspective of what works for you, or weather a complaint about anyone was incorrect.

[DirtyPervert]

This is a miracle, bro.

You yourself say you are short, old, fat and not generous.

It's amazing that 18 year olds & Aishwarya Rai doppelgangers are falling over themselves to give you earth shattering celestial experiences for INR 6000.

Strangely, all your 500+ posts are the same gyaan not to pay for meet & greets or complaints about allowances and quality.

Problem is, unless you share solid evidence, most readers will pity your delusions and have a hearty laugh at your expense.

No offence, my friend.

He mentioned platonic dates for 6 k which seems quite a lot to me, actual meet with sec price will be 20 k +.

[Garam Hawa]

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