Medellin Reports

[ColombiaLover]

For me, GFE means the girls is really into sex. Not necessarily with me, but with sex. She gives passionate kisses. She blows you like a champ. She orgasms when you lick her or finger her. She fucks and sucks you until you cum. And while she may not be in to me physically, she enjoys herself. With orgasms and sometimes with squirting. It's easy to tell when a chica is just faking it. Or when she's really into fucking, even if it's for pay.

[ClamSlammer]

I'm sorry you're not able to make the connection. Some people don't get it.

GFE is a term to describe, generically, an encounter with a prostitute who will do certain things that one expects from a girlfriend. I say generically, because every year there's a debate here about what GFE is. By definition, if you're paying someone to pretend she's your girlfriend, all of those things are fake, simulated, not done through desire. GFE is a simulation.

The same works for PSE. Unless cameras are rolling and fluffers are standing by, you're simulating what people think a porn star experience is like.

Pretty sure everyone else understood when I said Mansion girls would simulate GFE. You appear to be the only one that doesn't understand.

Trust me, you're the only one who understands what "simulated GFE" is. GFE is a simulated experience by definition. So why add a second "simulated" when everyone already knows it's simulated? So when you say "simulated GFE", you are actually saying, simulated simulated GFE. Which makes no sense whatsoever.

[JjBee62]

Actually no, GFE is a term specifically coined for the prostitution industry. GFE is GFE, which is a girlfriend-like experience provided by a prostitute. Simulated GFE is fake GFE, and no one really knows what it means because you're the only one who's ever used it.

I'm sorry you're not able to make the connection. Some people don't get it.

GFE is a term to describe, generically, an encounter with a prostitute who will do certain things that one expects from a girlfriend. I say generically, because every year there's a debate here about what GFE is. By definition, if you're paying someone to pretend she's your girlfriend, all of those things are fake, simulated, not done through desire. GFE is a simulation.

The same works for PSE. Unless cameras are rolling and fluffers are standing by, you're simulating what people think a porn star experience is like.

Pretty sure everyone else understood when I said Mansion girls would simulate GFE. You appear to be the only one that doesn't understand.

[ClamSlammer]

Any GFE that you're paying for is simulated GFE. Or did you think those girls were all really madly in lust with you after you agreed to a price?

Actually no, GFE is a term specifically coined for the prostitution industry. GFE is GFE, which is a girlfriend-like experience provided by a prostitute. Simulated GFE is fake GFE, and no one really knows what it means because you're the only one who's ever used it.

[Tasss]

Hi guys,

I'm heading back to Medellin in January and would like to refresh my FB contact list. If anyone has girls they'd like to recommend, please PM me. Girls who do BBFS is a bonus but not necessary. I'll also share whatever contacts I have and let me know if you have any special preferences (thin, more curvy, small / big tits, BB, BJ pro, etc).

I'll also be staying in Laureles. Let me know if anyone wants to hang out. January 23-Feb 7.

[JjBee62]

Wouldn't "simulated" GFE, by definition, not be GFE? So then what good would it be?

Any GFE that you're paying for is simulated GFE. Or did you think those girls were all really madly in lust with you after you agreed to a price?

[ClamSlammer]

Many of the girls at the Mansion will simulate GFE for you.

Wouldn't "simulated" GFE, by definition, not be GFE? So then what good would it be?

[Knowledge]

That seems like a good idea, a 1990's style "frequently asked questions" section. I think that was the original purpose of the "general information" thread.

Thanks guys. Very helpful. Is it possible to have "sticky" posts here? Maybe start a Q&A thread where the moderator is the only one who can edit the information? Might save everyone time having to explain the same thing over and over. I hate to be that guy haha. Asking repetitive questions that are answered but buried in a thread with 4000 posts.

[Fmc858]

Thanks guys. Very helpful. Is it possible to have "sticky" posts here? Maybe start a Q&A thread where the moderator is the only one who can edit the information? Might save everyone time having to explain the same thing over and over. I hate to be that guy haha. Asking repetitive questions that are answered but buried in a thread with 4000 posts.

[JjBee62]

First, apologies in advance for asking a bunch of questions that have surely been answered in the past but I used the search function here and I was chasing my tail. Holy shit, there is a lot of info here! I am 40, look like I'm in my early 30's, 5'9 about 160, generally fit, not "hot" by American standards but definitely told regularly that I am handsome. I don't mean that to sound arrogant, I'm not. I think it's relevant though for determining the best arrangement for my visit. I will be traveling alone and I'm sober so I won't be going out partying. Although I do want to check some places out. As of today I have reserved 10 days at Mansion, deposit paid. Looking at $70/ night based on the 2 night deposit charge on my CC. My Spanish is beginner but I have 3 months to study Rosetta Stone. I think a lot will come back to me since I took a couple years of Spanish in High School and a year in College.

1. At the Mansion you'll find girls at the pool during the afternoon and in the bar at night. If they are onsite, they're for rent. Talk to them, or just smile. They will lead you by the hand.

2. Is BBJ common or do all of the chicas mostly require CBJ?

3. If I stay at a hotel is it safe to have the chicas back to my room (understanding that I might have to pay extra)?

2. Most Mansion girls do BBBJ. Most casa girls don't without an upcharge. Facebook girls are about 50/50.

3. Depends on the room and the chica. Some hotels won't allow it. Some chicas have bad intentions.

4. Since I am traveling solo, where am I OK to walk during the day to visit casas / strip clubs / etc?

5. I understand from reading online, that the norm is to use a room at the casas / strip clubs / etc instead of taking the chica back to my place. Are these rooms safe / clean?

4. Somewhere between everywhere and nowhere. Let's face it, some guys need a keeper. Other guys can walk through a war zone and never have a problem. Where are you on that scale? I've walked from Parque Lleras to the border of Envigado many times, at all hours without a single problem. I've walked all over Laureles, Envigado, Itagui, Bello and Belen with no problems. I've walked all over El Centro with no problem, although 3 inept guys once tried to relieve me of my valuables. However, I know other guys who had problems.

Casas you can generally walk from one to the next with no trouble. You'll want to take a taxi from the Mansion. Strip clubs you'll probably want to take a taxi to the door.

5. Once again, depends on the girl for safety. You'll be safe, but your money might not be. Had a girl sneak 40 k out of my pocket at one strip club. Strip club rooms in El Centro are nasty. Fase Dos rooms are nice. Casa rooms vary in cleanliness.

6. Is there anywhere that GFE is easily found? What about super hot girls that do GFE. Where are they?

7. Can I bring outside girls into Mansion or do I have to stick to the ones working on site?

6. GFE is easily found with a GF, unless you have pissed her off. If you don't have a GF, GFE depends on the girl and you. A girl who gives me GFE may not give it to you. A girl that gives you GFE one time might not give it the next time. Many of the girls at the Mansion will simulate GFE for you.

7. Yes, if they have a cedula and haven't been banned.

8. How do I start the process on Facebook or Instagram? I have seen a lot of comments saying those are good resources. I am good with social media so I'd like to take advantage.

8. Start a new Facebook profile. Post some pictures. Start adding content, pictures, videos. Travel photos are good. Keep adding content. Start searching for friends in Medellin. When you find girls in Medellin, check their friend list, if possible. If not, see who is liking their pictures. Look for gringos. When you find a girl with lots of gringo friends, start checking out the gringos. Look for one where you can see his friends. Mine his list for girls. Each girl you add, mine her list for more girls.

Money.

1. Where is the best place to get money? Is is ill advised to try and get money out at night?

2. How much should I have on me at any one time? I am guessing that I could hit the ATM daily and just keep what I need for the day. Maybe hold a stash in my room's safe. Thoughts?

3. What is the best denomination of bills for me to carry so I don't have to worry about change?

4. I plan to have a budget, after travel and hotel, of about 300 USD per day. Is this going to suffice and allow me to have a lot of fun?

1. There are several banks right around the corner from the Mansion. Use the ATM. All malls have multiple ATMs. Most ATMs outside of the malls have a locking door so you can withdraw with some privacy. However, it's better to make withdrawals daytime.

2. However much you plan on spending plus some extra. Unless I was shopping, I carried 200-400 k.

3. ATMs give 50 k and 20 k bills. Use 50 k bills whenever possible to get change. Use the smallest possible bills to pay taxis.

4. Yes.

OTHER.

1. I have Verizon unlimited and an IphoneX. Do I need a new SIM card or will I be good to go with what I have? I plan to use WhatsApp on my phone for the most part.

2. For dating, I plan to use Colombian Cupid and Tinder but also want to approach women in person. Is the Mall or daytime streets the best for that if I want to find a nice, non-working woman?

3. Any suggestions for activities aside from women? Hikes, biking, pools, or other adventures?

In closing. I am really excited to go but I also want to stay firmly planted in reality. I am a cautious person and can generally make good decisions. Provided I stay sober. You all seem to have your shit straight. I just want to avoid big mistakes.

Thanks guys.

2. Anywhere. There are women everywhere. Talk to them where you find them.

3. Sunday morning is Ciclovia, Monday too, if it's a holiday. Look it up. Ride the Metro. Take the Metrocables. Check out some of the parks. Check out Estadio.

[Talon]

Money.

1. Where is the best place to get money? Is is ill advised to try and get money out at night?

2. How much should I have on me at any one time? I am guessing that I could hit the ATM daily and just keep what I need for the day. Maybe hold a stash in my room's safe. Thoughts?

3. What is the best denomination of bills for me to carry so I don't have to worry about change?

4. I plan to have a budget, after travel and hotel, of about 300 USD per day. Is this going to suffice and allow me to have a lot of fun?

1. Use ATMs. I have a debit card with Charles Schwab that refunds all ATM fees worldwide. Really great for traveling. Plus they don't close at night.

2. If you're paranoid sure, only carry what you think you'll spend during the day and keep the rest stashed back in your hotel room.

3. You usually get 50 mil pesos notes from ATMs, though occasionally I've gotten a bunch of 20's. I always had plenty of change just from buying food.

4. I usually only spend $60-75 per chica per day. $300 is overkill unless you're planning champagne fueled orgies.

OTHER.

2. For dating, I plan to use Colombian Cupid and Tinder but also want to approach women in person. Is the Mall or daytime streets the best for that if I want to find a nice, non-working woman?

3. Any suggestions for activities aside from women? Hikes, biking, pools, or other adventures?

2. Every chica I ever matched with on Tinder has been a prepago. I've seen some of my FB contacts on cupid and seeking and in my opinion are not worth the money. I doubt you'll have much success approaching strangers at the mall or on the street using broken Spanish.

3. Guatape makes for a nice day trip. Save your money and take the bus there, it's really cheap.

[Talon]

2. Is BBJ common or do all of the chicas mostly require CBJ?

4. Since I am traveling solo, where am I OK to walk during the day to visit casas / strip clubs / etc?

6. Is there anywhere that GFE is easily found? What about super hot girls that do GFE. Where are they?

8. How do I start the process on Facebook or Instagram? I have seen a lot of comments saying those are good resources. I am good with social media so I'd like to take advantage.

2. BBJ is fairly common but if that's important to you then you'll really want to ask about it in advance. Some girls will demand extra and I've had a few that refuse to do it at any price.

4. I've walked everywhere in Medellin during the day without any problems. I'm a 40-year-old blonde white guy so I don't exactly blend in. At night though it's recommended that you stick to tourist areas like Laureles and Poblado.

6. Facebook girls are your best bet for GFE. In fact I've only had one that DIDN'T give GFE. I get far better experiences with girls I met on FB then I ever did in any casa.

8. Search this forum for "facebook", lots of people have posted links to girls' profiles. Friend invite them and send them a quick message on how you'd like to meet. Then mine their friend's lists for more contacts. Facebook should also start recommending their friends once you've had a few. Eventually things will snowball and you'll have hundreds of putas and mongers to befriend. Import your FB contacts into Instagram (nearly ever chica who uses FB seems to also use IG), start following girls, then follow who they follow. Rinse and repeat.

[MedellinGringo]

First, apologies in advance for asking a bunch of questions that have surely been answered in the past but I used the search function here and I was chasing my tail. Holy shit, there is a lot of info here! I am 40, look like I'm in my early 30's, 5'9 about 160, generally fit, not "hot" by American standards but definitely told regularly that I am handsome. I don't mean that to sound arrogant, I'm not. I think it's relevant though for determining the best arrangement for my visit. I will be traveling alone and I'm sober so I won't be going out partying. Although I do want to check some places out. As of today I have reserved 10 days at Mansion, deposit paid. Looking at $70/ night based on the 2 night deposit charge on my CC. My Spanish is beginner but I have 3 months to study Rosetta Stone. I think a lot will come back to me since I took a couple years of Spanish in High School and a year in College.

Any help you guys can give, suggestions, feedback, etc. Is greatly appreciated. Here are my specific questions:

Chicas.

1. Is it simple to get a chica back to your room in Mansion? Do I just walk up to them and ask to hang out and work out details from there?

2. Is BBJ common or do all of the chicas mostly require CBJ?

3. If I stay at a hotel is it safe to have the chicas back to my room (understanding that I might have to pay extra)?

4. Since I am traveling solo, where am I OK to walk during the day to visit casas / strip clubs / etc?

5. I understand from reading online, that the norm is to use a room at the casas / strip clubs / etc instead of taking the chica back to my place. Are these rooms safe / clean?

6. Is there anywhere that GFE is easily found? What about super hot girls that do GFE. Where are they?

7. Can I bring outside girls into Mansion or do I have to stick to the ones working on site?

8. How do I start the process on Facebook or Instagram? I have seen a lot of comments saying those are good resources. I am good with social media so I'd like to take advantage.

Money.

1. Where is the best place to get money? Is is ill advised to try and get money out at night?

2. How much should I have on me at any one time? I am guessing that I could hit the ATM daily and just keep what I need for the day. Maybe hold a stash in my room's safe. Thoughts?

3. What is the best denomination of bills for me to carry so I don't have to worry about change?

4. I plan to have a budget, after travel and hotel, of about 300 USD per day. Is this going to suffice and allow me to have a lot of fun?

OTHER.

1. I have Verizon unlimited and an IphoneX. Do I need a new SIM card or will I be good to go with what I have? I plan to use WhatsApp on my phone for the most part.

2. For dating, I plan to use Colombian Cupid and Tinder but also want to approach women in person. Is the Mall or daytime streets the best for that if I want to find a nice, non-working woman?

3. Any suggestions for activities aside from women? Hikes, biking, pools, or other adventures?

In closing. I am really excited to go but I also want to stay firmly planted in reality. I am a cautious person and can generally make good decisions. Provided I stay sober. You all seem to have your shit straight. I just want to avoid big mistakes.

Thanks guys.

You'll be fine with verizona just make sure your international roaming is on and connect your phone to the mansion wifi as soon as you get there.

The mansion is a good place to really get your facebook rolling. Just chat up and add every chick you meet to facebook even if you aren't into her. Because once you hit critical mass the chicks you will want to meet will be suggested to you by facebook.

After 10 days at the Mansion you should have plenty of women to keep you company once you leave the place for a hotel or apartment.

If you are an OK looking guy like you say you shouldn't have any problem getting mansion chicks to take you out on the town and get to know the lay of the land.

[Husker Dude]

First, apologies in advance for asking a bunch of questions that have surely been answered in the past but I used the search function here and I was chasing my tail. Holy shit, there is a lot of info here! I am 40, look like I'm in my early 30's, 5'9 about 160, generally fit, not "hot" by American standards but definitely told regularly that I am handsome. I don't mean that to sound arrogant, I'm not. I think it's relevant though for determining the best arrangement for my visit. I will be traveling alone and I'm sober so I won't be going out partying. Although I do want to check some places out. As of today I have reserved 10 days at Mansion, deposit paid. Looking at $70/ night based on the 2 night deposit charge on my CC. My Spanish is beginner but I have 3 months to study Rosetta Stone. I think a lot will come back to me since I took a couple years of Spanish in High School and a year in College.

Any help you guys can give, suggestions, feedback, etc. Is greatly appreciated. Here are my specific questions:

Chicas.

1. Is it simple to get a chica back to your room in Mansion? Do I just walk up to them and ask to hang out and work out details from there?

2. Is BBJ common or do all of the chicas mostly require CBJ?

3. If I stay at a hotel is it safe to have the chicas back to my room (understanding that I might have to pay extra)?

4. Since I am traveling solo, where am I OK to walk during the day to visit casas / strip clubs / etc?

5. I understand from reading online, that the norm is to use a room at the casas / strip clubs / etc instead of taking the chica back to my place. Are these rooms safe / clean?

6. Is there anywhere that GFE is easily found? What about super hot girls that do GFE. Where are they?

7. Can I bring outside girls into Mansion or do I have to stick to the ones working on site?

8. How do I start the process on Facebook or Instagram? I have seen a lot of comments saying those are good resources. I am good with social media so I'd like to take advantage.

Money.

1. Where is the best place to get money? Is is ill advised to try and get money out at night?

2. How much should I have on me at any one time? I am guessing that I could hit the ATM daily and just keep what I need for the day. Maybe hold a stash in my room's safe. Thoughts?

3. What is the best denomination of bills for me to carry so I don't have to worry about change?

4. I plan to have a budget, after travel and hotel, of about 300 USD per day. Is this going to suffice and allow me to have a lot of fun?

OTHER.

1. I have Verizon unlimited and an IphoneX. Do I need a new SIM card or will I be good to go with what I have? I plan to use WhatsApp on my phone for the most part.

2. For dating, I plan to use Colombian Cupid and Tinder but also want to approach women in person. Is the Mall or daytime streets the best for that if I want to find a nice, non-working woman?

3. Any suggestions for activities aside from women? Hikes, biking, pools, or other adventures?

In closing. I am really excited to go but I also want to stay firmly planted in reality. I am a cautious person and can generally make good decisions. Provided I stay sober. You all seem to have your shit straight. I just want to avoid big mistakes.

Thanks guys.

I can answer a few of your questions. In fact I'll be at M1 the first 10 days of March. Mansion girls are usually GFE with BBBJ although a few are not. General mansion girls rate are 150-200 K for 1-2 hours. (3 k /1 $) Guys hanging around there will always be glad to help you. Yes, you can bring outside girls to the Mansion, but they have to bring ID to leave at the desk and must not have been banned from there. The mansion is located in the high end of town and there are ATM's all over especially at the malls (3 within 6 blocks of the Mansion). ATM's offer the best rate. Last time there generally can take out 600,000 K / transaction from ATM. Lots of time I hit it twice. Yes, I keep most of it in safe in room. Most I carry around is 300,000 K. I use the Schwabb card so no fees. FB messenger is my way of communication. Most people outside the mansion do not speak english. I travel alone and have been all over the city with no problems during the day. Places to visit are Botero Plaza & all the shopping around it. Day trip to Guatape & El Peno is fantastic. I've taken a Pablo Escobar tour and coffee farm tours. I've also gone to Comuna 13 which is quite interesting. Done a lot of casas and Fase Dos for the strip club. It's easy to use the rooms on site. Casa girls may be available for take out cheap, but I found Fase Dos girls want big $ to go outside the club.

[Fmc858]

First, apologies in advance for asking a bunch of questions that have surely been answered in the past but I used the search function here and I was chasing my tail. Holy shit, there is a lot of info here! I am 40, look like I'm in my early 30's, 5'9 about 160, generally fit, not "hot" by American standards but definitely told regularly that I am handsome. I don't mean that to sound arrogant, I'm not. I think it's relevant though for determining the best arrangement for my visit. I will be traveling alone and I'm sober so I won't be going out partying. Although I do want to check some places out. As of today I have reserved 10 days at Mansion, deposit paid. Looking at $70/ night based on the 2 night deposit charge on my CC. My Spanish is beginner but I have 3 months to study Rosetta Stone. I think a lot will come back to me since I took a couple years of Spanish in High School and a year in College.

Any help you guys can give, suggestions, feedback, etc. Is greatly appreciated. Here are my specific questions:

Chicas.

1. Is it simple to get a chica back to your room in Mansion? Do I just walk up to them and ask to hang out and work out details from there?

2. Is BBJ common or do all of the chicas mostly require CBJ?

3. If I stay at a hotel is it safe to have the chicas back to my room (understanding that I might have to pay extra)?

4. Since I am traveling solo, where am I OK to walk during the day to visit casas / strip clubs / etc?

5. I understand from reading online, that the norm is to use a room at the casas / strip clubs / etc instead of taking the chica back to my place. Are these rooms safe / clean?

6. Is there anywhere that GFE is easily found? What about super hot girls that do GFE. Where are they?

7. Can I bring outside girls into Mansion or do I have to stick to the ones working on site?

8. How do I start the process on Facebook or Instagram? I have seen a lot of comments saying those are good resources. I am good with social media so I'd like to take advantage.

Money.

1. Where is the best place to get money? Is is ill advised to try and get money out at night?

2. How much should I have on me at any one time? I am guessing that I could hit the ATM daily and just keep what I need for the day. Maybe hold a stash in my room's safe. Thoughts?

3. What is the best denomination of bills for me to carry so I don't have to worry about change?

4. I plan to have a budget, after travel and hotel, of about 300 USD per day. Is this going to suffice and allow me to have a lot of fun?

OTHER.

1. I have Verizon unlimited and an IphoneX. Do I need a new SIM card or will I be good to go with what I have? I plan to use WhatsApp on my phone for the most part.

2. For dating, I plan to use Colombian Cupid and Tinder but also want to approach women in person. Is the Mall or daytime streets the best for that if I want to find a nice, non-working woman?

3. Any suggestions for activities aside from women? Hikes, biking, pools, or other adventures?

In closing. I am really excited to go but I also want to stay firmly planted in reality. I am a cautious person and can generally make good decisions. Provided I stay sober. You all seem to have your shit straight. I just want to avoid big mistakes.

Thanks guys.