Sexual Wellness and other Sex related discussions

[Vineett]

Hi Mongers & Seniors,

Noob here, Have not yet had my first mongering exp yet; Was wondering whether the age at which you're exposed to pornography affect your Concentration?

Or whether this hobby (addictive) affect your work negatively? When johnny gets excited the Mind's Logic & Reasoning jump out the window. The Human's innate animal primal instinct takes over.

How is one able to restrain oneself from thinking too much when planning for a trip or a session? How is one able to switch Pleasure off / on when needed?

Different people are addicted to different things (Alcohol, smoke, sex, porn, etc), Does one ever lose the "high" from sex or is it just like masturbating?

Sorry for the irritating post (to some brothers here). I am quite excited in this new world but am also a little apprehensive? Does one ever lose touch of one's priorities? Have Spent great amount of time RTFF.

Would love any thoughts and advice from my fellow brothers and respective seniors.

Much appreciated thanks.

Watching porn and masturbating when too young say 12-13 definitely affects mind and body. Hormonal change stars in teens and thus teen age is very sensitive towards porn and masturbation. Starting masturbation early can cause Premature Ejaculation problem because in that age we don't know what's good and bad. Masturbation gives pleasure and teens can overdo it, which in turn is not healthy. 18 I guess should be a good safe age for it in my opinion.

[TheColdOne]

I am not a super senior but I can imagine your consideration. When I was in my teen age most of my friends had negative thoughts about sex (I mean having ssn may effect our body / mind). At that time I was scared to, but now I am having fun with my jhony and now I can share you my experience.

So the answer is NOOO. These all activities neither effect our mind nor body. But you know as well everything which exist on Earth they have a limit / criteria and we should avoid.

Here is best example, My board exam was running (it all taken around 10 days) . And guess what happened, I was getting fantasy about xxx (bcz of mh GF) but I was not able to have fun with her, so I played myself with Johny. And after 1 hours my mind was fresh like a apple on tree. And soon I was studying.

So that's it. I know it was not like scientific answer you were looking for. It was my own experience.

Thanks for sharing you exp brother.

From my own friends in my college I know some who used to get high academics and use to watch P but sparingly. However, the highest achievers that I've noticed all look introverted by nature and were quite serious. Never got round to asking them since it would've been a little awkward; but these people seemed too busy to be wasting their time watching P or even being into girls.

From my time on the forum (RTFF) it looks to me like most members here in India and elsewhere have really worked Hard and Grind to get to their respective positions and now they get to enjoy the fruits of their hard labour. I'm personally in exact mid-20's and after discovering this Heavenly World am quite apprehensive to not let it get the better of me too much. As you said moderation is everything. Trade off between Work Hard / Play Hard. But was hoping if fellow respected seniors could give their insights on this.

Cheers fellow Mongers.

[Lucky563]

I am not a super senior but I can imagine your consideration. When I was in my teen age most of my friends had negative thoughts about sex (I mean having ssn may effect our body / mind). At that time I was scared to, but now I am having fun with my jhony and now I can share you my experience.

So the answer is NOOO. These all activities neither effect our mind nor body. But you know as well everything which exist on Earth they have a limit / criteria and we should avoid.

Here is best example, My board exam was running (it all taken around 10 days) . And guess what happened, I was getting fantasy about xxx (bcz of mh GF) but I was not able to have fun with her, so I played myself with Johny. And after 1 hours my mind was fresh like a apple on tree. And soon I was studying.

So that's it. I know it was not like scientific answer you were looking for. It was my own experience.

Hi Mongers & Seniors,

Noob here, Have not yet had my first mongering exp yet; Was wondering whether the age at which you're exposed to pornography affect your Concentration?

Or whether this hobby (addictive) affect your work negatively? When johnny gets excited the Mind's Logic & Reasoning jump out the window. The Human's innate animal primal instinct takes over.

How is one able to restrain oneself from thinking too much when planning for a trip or a session? How is one able to switch Pleasure off / on when needed?

Different people are addicted to different things (Alcohol, smoke, sex, porn, etc), Does one ever lose the "high" from sex or is it just like masturbating?.

[TheColdOne]

Hi Mongers & Seniors,

Noob here, Have not yet had my first mongering exp yet; Was wondering whether the age at which you're exposed to pornography affect your Concentration?

Or whether this hobby (addictive) affect your work negatively? When johnny gets excited the Mind's Logic & Reasoning jump out the window. The Human's innate animal primal instinct takes over.

How is one able to restrain oneself from thinking too much when planning for a trip or a session? How is one able to switch Pleasure off / on when needed?

Different people are addicted to different things (Alcohol, smoke, sex, porn, etc), Does one ever lose the "high" from sex or is it just like masturbating?

Sorry for the irritating post (to some brothers here). I am quite excited in this new world but am also a little apprehensive? Does one ever lose touch of one's priorities? Have Spent great amount of time RTFF.

Would love any thoughts and advice from my fellow brothers and respective seniors.

Much appreciated thanks.

[Vineett]

Whether premarital sex with a escort or MP services is really a betrayal for our parents and future wife. I am 27 yrs old and a good guy from heart. I have never in a relationship with a girl. Don't know really how to have that. Just my body is craving for some relaxment. I have not settled yet in a stable job. It will take another three to four years to thing of marriage. So once in a while I used to go to MP. Can anyone suggest that is this a normal thing. Or really am I betraying my future wife and my parents?

Its natural to have sex. Humans have sex for pleasure. Its all natural. You can make a GF; you may or may not get settle with her but you will definitely get what you want. I won't recommend to make a GF just to have sex. If she gets serious with you then it would be a big trouble. In that case you can visit WG or MP. Its not about betraying your parents or your future wife as you say, its about the risk you are accepting to take about contracting an std. If you are ok with that risk then go for it otherwise never even think of going into mongering. But you should know this: Sex is insatiable and it goes for both men and women. Whether you do it with your GF or a WG, you will crave it for more. Its our society that has placed this stigma of not having sex before marriage in our brains. So don't curse urself for it. Go out and get a GF.

[Vineett]

Please suggest something for stamina, I get very good erection, can fuck for two times within one hour with full erection. But I am getting tired very fast since last few years. Please suggest something for stamina and energy. I am 37.

Its natural to loose performance with age. Do workout daily. Eat healthy. Avoid junk food. Eat banans and MILF very often.

[Vineett]

Guys,

During threesome it it OK do DFK in mix with both.

Also how to ride for longer time kegels are good but any natural way that gives instant results.

Try shilajit everyday during winters atleast 8-9 days before action.

[Vineett]

Hello to all seniors!

I am from Hyderabad and frequently visit Delhi. Also, I am very new to mongering scene and aged about 25. Its not a big deal to have a girlfriend but I am not interested in the emotional baggage that comes with it. Loved all the FRs here and seems like Delhi is the place to try all the fetishes but I've got a query or more like a concern.

Compared to other cities, the girls in Delhi are frequented a lot, that also means that they have more business and give service to a lot more Jhonnys. I see that many WGs give BBBJ, DFKs and Anal as well which I want to ask if they are frequented by many mongers, is it not possible for them to contract a STD. Not HIV but something like Herpes, chlamydia, gonorrhea or any other infection. The concern is raised as I saw one of the FRs about Zareen complaining that some infection in mouth that is why she can't give BJ?

What if one of the mongers have an oral infection and visits the WGs in this forum and later we all visit her and happened to contract it in this chain? Just a query, if a senior could help me clear this concern it would be delightful. I am specifically going to visit Delhi this time for a Fscuk fest, looking for the best GFEs and good looking girls. Please help this junior out. Loved all the FRS of girls from SP T, let me know if there is any gem that I should definitely visit if I am in Delhi.

Thank you.

Sadboyz.

Only way to be sure to not to contract std is "not having sex". Else you will be at risk of having it. If you are regular in MP and WG scene always check mouth and genitals of girl for sores and cuts. Always carry your own protection and lube. If you feel condom is slipping when in act; change it. Use good quality condoms. Do not use cheap ones.

Be Safe.

[Vineett]

Its good to see enhanced interest among mongers about safety and testing. We need to take care that our hobby remains a safe hobby and does not take a toll on our health.

There have been a lot of posts about the different options for blood tests for STI and the rates charged by different labs. There is no doubt that a comprehensive blood test is the best way to keep a tab on STIs.

Voluntary blood donation at any of the leading hospitals is also an option to screen for basic STIs. Most of the leading hospitals have adopted latest screening procedures like ID-NAT (Individual Donor Nucleic Acid Testing) to check for infections. The advantage for ID-NAT as compared to ELISA testing is that the former greatly reduces the window period or the time between donor exposure to a virus and the presence of detectable amount of antibodies / antigens. The leading blood banks at hospitals screen for the following STIs: HIV, HepatitisB, HepatitisC & Syphilis. One can also give your mongering name and phone number while doing the screening. They inform over phone if there is a suspected infection.

Please note that this is not a fool-proof method since it does not test for other types of STIs like gonorrhea, chlamydia, herpes & warts. The good part of this is that, apart from being cost effective, one gets the happiness of having donated blood that can help someone in need. Blood is always in shortage at hospitals.

Nice suggestion bro never thought it in this direction.

[Vineett]

Which STD test is best and cane done without involving any doctor. I need to get this done.

All std tests can be done without involving a doctor. They can be done at any pathology lab near you. Hiv, hep A, hep be, Hep see, syphillis are available at almost all labs. Herpes (both genital and oral) and Chalamydia are available at specific and renowned labs.

[Aniwas]

Are DKF and BBBJ safe, I love both of these but worried that I may contract something, or am I just overthinking?

The answer is yes and no both. If the girl is very clean, hygiene and is regular with her health check up, DFK and BBJ is fine. But if she has some illness, she is sick or there are some infection or cuts in her mouth, then bbj and DFK is not advisable. It's a normal mongers habit to jump straight to a girl and enjoy DFK or bbj without even checking these simple things. People don't have time to look for this in the heat of the moment. So it's either safe or unsafe based on your checks.

[Sunsing]

Hsv 1 is oral herpes which can be contacted by fluid transmission from person who is having a viral outbreak and hsv2 is genital herpes which can be spread through fluid transmission to your genitals. There is no cure for both these. Symptoms for include blisters sore throat fever painful erection.

In painful erection, does it feel like the same feeling when someone is feeling when there is some urinal infection and causes pain when they pass urine? Or does it feel like in some other way? Can anyone tell? I never heard about this situation of painful erection.

[Mark Inspire]

Its good to see enhanced interest among mongers about safety and testing. We need to take care that our hobby remains a safe hobby and does not take a toll on our health.

There have been a lot of posts about the different options for blood tests for STI and the rates charged by different labs. There is no doubt that a comprehensive blood test is the best way to keep a tab on STIs.

Voluntary blood donation at any of the leading hospitals is also an option to screen for basic STIs. Most of the leading hospitals have adopted latest screening procedures like ID-NAT (Individual Donor Nucleic Acid Testing) to check for infections. The advantage for ID-NAT as compared to ELISA testing is that the former greatly reduces the window period or the time between donor exposure to a virus and the presence of detectable amount of antibodies / antigens. The leading blood banks at hospitals screen for the following STIs: HIV, HepatitisB, HepatitisC & Syphilis. One can also give your mongering name and phone number while doing the screening. They inform over phone if there is a suspected infection.

Please note that this is not a fool-proof method since it does not test for other types of STIs like gonorrhea, chlamydia, herpes & warts. The good part of this is that, apart from being cost effective, one gets the happiness of having donated blood that can help someone in need. Blood is always in shortage at hospitals.

[MuscleHetero]

DFK BBBJ and DATY can transmit multiple STDs like Herpes, gonorrhoea, HPV etc even if there are no active lesions or cuts. Check this out site https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-...s/syc-20351240.

Hello to all seniors!

I am from Hyderabad and frequently visit Delhi. Also, I am very new to mongering scene and aged about 25. Its not a big deal to have a girlfriend but I am not interested in the emotional baggage that comes with it. Loved all the FRs here and seems like Delhi is the place to try all the fetishes but I've got a query or more like a concern.

Compared to other cities, the girls in Delhi are frequented a lot, that also means that they have more business and give service to a lot more Jhonnys. I see that many WGs give BBBJ, DFKs and Anal as well which I want to ask if they are frequented by many mongers, is it not possible for them to contract a STD. Not HIV but something like Herpes, chlamydia, gonorrhea or any other infection. The concern is raised as I saw one of the FRs about Zareen complaining that some infection in mouth that is why she can't give BJ?

What if one of the mongers have an oral infection and visits the WGs in this forum and later we all visit her and happened to contract it in this chain? Just a query, if a senior could help me clear this concern it would be delightful. I am specifically going to visit Delhi this time for a Fscuk fest, looking for the best GFEs and good looking girls. Please help this junior out. Loved all the FRS of girls from SP T, let me know if there is any gem that I should definitely visit if I am in Delhi.

Thank you.

Sadboyz.

[HeDrive]

Guys,

During threesome it it OK do DFK in mix with both.

Also how to ride for longer time kegels are good but any natural way that gives instant results.

Yes Dfk can be done with both if they don't have any cuts in mouth and are clean. Natural ways are many, you can google it, but the most effective is to have less stress in your daily lives and avoiding any addictions if you have any.