Bangalore

**Mature Inblr** · 11-19-20 19:17

Hello all,

This ask for help may have been ideally suited for a different forum / thread, since it pertains to needing help in Bangalore, reaching out to this large base to seek some inputs. Warning – slightly long post to describe the situation so there is plenty of detail to know (and also avoid simplistic solutions / suggestions that have been tried already).

I am a 48 year old male (almost 49 now). I am at a stage where I need help to get erections (I can still get erections) but the biggest challenge is to keep them for a reasonable period to enjoy penetrative sex. Foreplay (kissing / touching / caressing alone) does not give me the full erection but Oral sex makes me hard or hand play makes me hard. If I penetrate and start having sex, things start off normally the first minute or so. Unless I keep up the stroking pace fast enough, the erection starts going soft. If I pull out to change positions, I lose my erection. Once I lose my erection, again it takes long to get it back. Here is the result of this situation.

1) Keeping up the pace of stroking causes me to cum too soon, in about 1-2 minutes and the partner is left unsatisfied (and I too don't feel sexually satiated).

2) If I slow down the pace, the penis softens resultant loss of erection needs addressing.

3) If I withdraw to change positions, I end up softening and losing hard erection.

4) If I use hand strokes or ask for other help to try and regain my erection, that stimulation causes me to reach my orgasm most of the time or just about as I penetrate back, I end up ejaculating.

5) Condoms are an absolute no no. By the time I try to put the condom on, there is a chance I might lose part of the erection and also the sensation is extremely reduced.

All these are classic symptoms of ED I understand.

Here is what my background is.

1) I have had Diabetes for a few years now but it is under control always through pills I take.

2) I have hypertension which again is addressed via medication.

3) My Testosterone is in mid-range for my age bracket and no thyroid problems.

4) Cholesterol is also on the higher side of normal range.

5) Vitamin the is below normal and I take supplements for the same.

6) I maintain a reasonably active lifestyle, Brisk walking 3-4 times a week, 30 minutes each covering about 3 Kms each time. I also do weights about 3-4 times a week. My weight is in mid-80's and I am 5. 8" (I guess doctors will say reduce further).

I do occasionally masturbate, and have a healthy desire (to have sex). Try making love 2-3 times a week. I do not watch porn (haven't visited porn sites in over 8-9 months). I do watch erotic pictures / posts on FB / Other portals on which I am. I have tried lot of solutions based on (re) search on Google – Supplements, Sildenafil, Tadalfil etc starting from 25 MG to higher dosage on Sildenafil and up to 20 MG on Tadalafil. I could not get verdanafil from Pharmacies, available only online and that requires prescription. I heard it works better for people with Diabetes (google research says so). These medicines give me slightly accelerated erections (in having them) but the problem of maintaining the erection still seems to persist.

What is it that I want to achieve: Ability to keep hard erections for a reasonably longer period of time to be able to have enjoyable penetrative sex. Stamina is not an issue based on my active lifestyle.

What help am I looking for: Looking for a good sexologist or good doctors advice in Bangalore who can do a thorough comprehensive examination and assess what could be the root cause of this issue and also offer a solid treatment for the same. I have been to one who took a lot of case history, was patient in listening to and also enquiring, had questions and then offered me health supplements as a solution for a month. Never did a physical exam. I am not very sure this is a good evaluation without any tests (I don't know any better so not really judging). So anyone with a medical background can offer more insight or others who can add value to this thread is more than welcome. I do not have email privilege so responding to the thread is probably the best way to benefit everyone. I have laid Bare my soul so to say, really looking forward to a solution to my problem so I can enjoy my sexual life as do others.

Regards.

M.

**GeorgeOfJungle** · 11-19-20 18:10

Anyone recently met Sapna G0 mbe?

I believe FB messenger is the only way to contact.

Is it too difficult to contact her like Pencil & Bips.

No response.

Cheers.

George.

**YumYum1** · 11-19-20 17:42

Back after couple of years! Godspeed bro. Monger wins.

Originally Posted by JackyBoy12 [View Original Post]

An avid reader and member of the forum from couple of years ago, had to let go of this due to marriage but now I have been back on the block for the past few months. I just had retarded mongering the pandemic struck and I had to return to my native. Now that I'm back in namma bengaluru I have started pursuing my old flames (frs coming soon). Although I was out of the game for a while I never stopped going through the forum everyday. Happy to know that everything is creeping back to normal. Looking forward to make new acquaintances and also giving back in any way I can.

**Gsrn111** · 11-19-20 17:42

Went there last week. Similar stuff as earlier, was offered a mallu and nothing great with massage, didn't enjoy much, all access available though. No changes to price as well.

I did see couple of new faces, anyone tried those? What services available?

Originally Posted by Interrobang123 [View Original Post]

It's been a long time since I went to that spa.

That place is nearby and a vfm option for me.

Thought of going out again.

Any updates on the girls and rates which are going now.

Previously it was too good of a vfm option with girls there.

Want to know the situation now.

**Baba1986** · 11-19-20 17:39

Originally Posted by Studdboy6 [View Original Post]

Paid fun is just one source. You have to look for fun without money involved in your surroundings. It doesn't happen overnight.

It takes time and energy. Thrill is of different league of it's own. But you have to play safe so that you are not exposed / image is not tarnished.

I have hardly paid for sex in past 5 years.

I haven't posted none of my experiences here as I can't share those numbers. Since they are not into profession and common people like you and me.

Agree and liked your. Fb is best source. Mostly I tried MILF. Or middle aged. We can easily engaged them. Success rate 50%. Most of them are hungry but not wild. Once they are wild they are wild. You need to give them time through chat. Then the game begins. More than 50 contact I have but can't share useless as they are not professional.

**YumYum1** · 11-19-20 17:38

Thank you for the input. Looks like lot of negative reports on her.

Originally Posted by JackyBoy12 [View Original Post]

Hi fellow monger,

Periyar is what you call "ok ok" (in local terms). Do not go by her fb pics since those are a bit old. Service wise I think she is moody. Not worth the money she quotes.

**Mdllr94** · 11-19-20 17:34

Hi,

Have been a silent watcher of ISG for long time. The abundance of contacts and social help this platform offers for mongering is immense. I wanted to take subscription for a long time but wasn't able to do it because of complexity involved. Anyways I still don't have DM though.

Have been a mongered for sometime but all self action. Lately emerging actions but using new SP. And would love info on the birds here. Pic attached.

Too good to be true. Any info highly appreciated.

**SavvyGuy** · 11-19-20 13:41

Originally Posted by Minnypo [View Original Post]

My first extra experience was with Thai chick and it was HJ. And then many many b2 b sessions. The definition of B2B for Thai chicks was really good. That is, they strip completely naked and get on the massage table. Do massage with their boobs and body onto our back side. Then ask us to flip and massage everywhere on the front with their boobs and body. After a while, rub our jhonny with hands or boobs or thighs or some other sexy action and drive us to completion. Some allowed DATY, etc. We also get to feel and enjoy their body including pussy where we can finger too, if they are fine. Happened almost all time with Thais.

Isn't this the expectation from a b2 b guys? I have this doubt as I have not got this experience from any Indian chicks at all.

I had this kind of Bangkok / Pattaya B2B experience at Bangalore in 2 spas:

1) Thai Spa above the Detective Pub in Kammanahalli: It happened during the initial period of opening, maybe 3-4 years back. I had such excellent massages with 3 different Thai therapists, although bit expensive. There was a long gap of 7 - 8 months after the initial 3 visits. By then things have changed. Therapists and their attitude. All the hassling brings down the mood. Further they started showing tantrums of disinterest and resentment. Once I was pissed off so much that I asked her to stop and complained at the reception about the overall change in attitude. After that I didn't go to that place.

2) Thai Spa on the road opp to Sadashiva nagar police station. This spa is located in a residential area and is quite difficult to spot even if you are standing right in front of the gate. Here again I had a nice Thai girl who did all that was expected of B2B. This happened in early 2019 and haven't been there since then.

**OgShocking** · 11-19-20 12:19

I have read many posts about forum members suggesting others for suhagra tab or sildenafil, well being a doc I got a better alternative if you are on trip or quickie action, sildenafil effects your heart and blood pressure so many people might face issues of headache after use. My PM is active you can text if you have any issues. Safety is most important with fun, have happy and safe mongering.

Also, understand the root cause of quickly release.

**KinksInd** · 11-19-20 12:03

Originally Posted by Inblr01 [View Original Post]

She shared her private number as she left safe. I can put a reference to senior fellows.

Inblr01.

Inbox full as expected. Can you share the details? Thanks in advance.

**Psybram** · 11-19-20 11:43

Three red lights.

Avoid at all cost.

Originally Posted by AnilTheHunter [View Original Post]

Anyone recently tried A periyar from FB?

Would love if somone can input.

Stay safe.

ATH.

**AshKetchup** · 11-19-20 11:08

One word- Don't!

Completely waste of money and time and the face is a turn off! Service is hurried as well. Within 45 minutes I was in and out the last time I met her last year.

Cheers,

AK.

Originally Posted by AnilTheHunter [View Original Post]

Anyone recently tried A periyar from FB?

Would love if somone can input.

Stay safe.

ATH.

**Rakesh A** · 11-19-20 11:07

Originally Posted by AnilTheHunter [View Original Post]

Anyone recently tried A periyar from FB?

Would love if somone can input.

Stay safe.

ATH.

There were few FRs on her.

You should go through some old posts.

**Skrypton7** · 11-19-20 10:14

Originally Posted by AnilTheHunter [View Original Post]

Anyone recently tried A periyar from FB?

Would love if somone can input.

Stay safe.

ATH.

As per my Intel she isn't good looking.

**Sstrika** · 11-19-20 07:41

Originally Posted by Minnypo [View Original Post]

My first extra experience was with Thai chick and it was HJ. And then many many b2 b sessions. The definition of B2B for Thai chicks was really good. That is, they strip completely naked and get on the massage table. Do massage with their boobs and body onto our back side. Then ask us to flip and massage everywhere on the front with their boobs and body. After a while, rub our jhonny with hands or boobs or thighs or some other sexy action and drive us to completion. Some allowed DATY, etc. We also get to feel and enjoy their body including pussy where we can finger too, if they are fine. Happened almost all time with Thais.

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Kindly clarify my doubt and lead me to such awesome chicks and MPs for marvelous experience please. Requesting kind souls here and seniors too. Longing for one. Pm is open.

Yet to get such an experience in Bangalore!! I have had this in other countries but not in Bangalore. Even with Thai chicks. May be, I have not got the "right" spas in Bangalore South. Thut ere used to be Touch Spa in JP Nagar which was providing FS in the spa with full B2 B and finally FS but I didn't find it when I went last week. They were operating opposite Sagar Apo earlier if someone can recall.