Stupid shit in Medellin

[Mr Enternational]

You cannot do due diligence on a future event.

Not on an event; on a person and your compatibility with that person.

For instance, I spent the last few days with a chick that insisted several times to eat on the bed although I told her to eat at the table. Left crumbs and trash in the bed from eating. Wasted food on the floor next to the trashcan and did not clean it up. Had old residual toothpaste at the bottom of the bristles of her toothbrush. Showers in less than 3 minutes. Sat on the bed in a swimsuit after being in the ocean all day. After experiencing this type of shit I know I never want to fuck this woman again, much less be in a relationship with her.

[MarquisdeSade1]

Ofbourse the crime level depends on the type of crime. Tourists are far more likely to suffer from theft than anything else.

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[LuvMexicanas]

Not at all, for me at least. If a person is in a relationship that is not conducive to them then that is their own fault. They need to learn to communicate what they will and won't put up with. And be willing to walk out of the door if the other person is not meeting their needs.

I have not run from any commitments. What are you talking about? If we go to a buffet for lunch and you do not eat any pork, I am not going to say you ran from the pork. If anything I am going to think you did not take something from the bar that you did not really want and had no intentions of eating.

For people that want to be in a committed relationship why would it spell doom and gloom if they have done their due diligence and made a wise decision? I do not think it has to be that way. But 1, many people do things for the wrong reason and 2, you can never control what the other person does. You can state preferences that you would like them to follow, but in the end they have their own mind and own will.

Why he keeps imposing his viewpoint on all of us is mystifying. Not sure where he finds the time to write so many Gone with the Wind length posts. But one thing that I am sure of is a guy or woman who drones on and on about the greatness of their relationship is usually full of shit. The people I've encountered in great relationships during my life don't constantly talk about it and if you read windbag's posts, you'll see that he ensures he brags about his perfect existence (huge eye roll) with his alleged 10 while telling the rest of us we have it all wrong.

[Huacho]

Also mexican girls have higher rates of STDs than vennies and colombianas.

What an absurd assertion. What, you knew two Mexicans who got the clap and only one vennie and one Colombian? Or you're a professional health care researcher with international experience? You conducted an exhaustive three-country survey with an appropriate sample size and finite population correction factor? Or maybe you're a pinche gabacho and you pulled it out of your ass?

[Elvis 2008]

I have not run from any commitments. What are you talking about?

She wanted to be in monogamous relationship. (That is why she was worried about you seeing other women). You were not willing to commit to that. That is what I meant. I am not knocking you.

Not at all, for me at least. If a person is in a relationship that is not conducive to them then that is their own fault. They need to learn to communicate what they will and won't put up with. And be willing to walk out of the door if the other person is not meeting their needs.
For people that want to be in a committed relationship why would it spell doom and gloom if they have done their due diligence and made a wise decision?

You cannot do due diligence on a future event. The concept that you can just walk out if your needs are not met sounds good, and you can do that early on and should if there are not other people attached to the relationship. However, the longer the relationship goes on what I see are men looking at bad (staying in the relationship) and short term worse (getting a divorce).

And if you knock a girl up, your needs go in the fucking trash, and no contraceptive method works 100% of the time.

If the needs of men are being met as often as they should be, then why are guys in relationships even seeing WGs? Are you saying every married guy seeing a WG should get a divorce?

[Zeos1]

Also mexican girls have higher rates of STDs than vennies and colombianas.

Really. Or more have been diagnosed with STD's.

[Mr Enternational]

Isn't one of the reason we see WGs is because we are in control of the money and women have to perform and with a wife or mother of our child, they can behave however they want?

Not at all, for me at least. If a person is in a relationship that is not conducive to them then that is their own fault. They need to learn to communicate what they will and won't put up with. And be willing to walk out of the door if the other person is not meeting their needs.

So I get Mr. E's comments. He ran from commitment because commitment usually spells doom and pain for men.

I have not run from any commitments. What are you talking about? If we go to a buffet for lunch and you do not eat any pork, I am not going to say you ran from the pork. If anything I am going to think you did not take something from the bar that you did not really want and had no intentions of eating.

For people that want to be in a committed relationship why would it spell doom and gloom if they have done their due diligence and made a wise decision? I do not think it has to be that way. But 1, many people do things for the wrong reason and 2, you can never control what the other person does. You can state preferences that you would like them to follow, but in the end they have their own mind and own will.

[JjBee62]

The amount of knowledge being disgorged here is simply amazing. For example, the climate in Medellin most closely resembles the climate in Phoenix. It seems strange that a city where the monthly high temperature ranges between 80-83°F and the average monthly low temperature ranges from 63-64°F is considered the same climate as a city where average highs run from 68-106°F and average lows from 44-82°F. In this bizarre comparison, Phoenix gets 9. 2" of rain annually and Medellin gets 116.5", almost no difference at all.

It gets stranger. Phoenix is in the desert, it's mostly sand and rock, you can't grow anything other than cactus without irrigation, while Medellin requires daily landscaping to keep the greenery from strangling the city.

Meanwhile, Chicago with average temperatures in June, July and August, within 3°F of Medellin, but with about 20% higher humidity is supposedly a much better climate, because Medellin is too hot?

I can't wait for the next knowledge dump.

[Gabacho]

Isn't that the truth about our dear seor Captain Solo? He just loves his Mexican chicks, and would not put up with anybody talking shit about them, especially putting them below Colombian girls.

Also mexican girls have higher rates of STDs than vennies and colombianas.

[Lefeu]

Don't let Captain Solo hear you talking about Mexican women. LOL. He feels some kind of way about Colombian women and puts them below Mexicanas.

Isn't that the truth about our dear señor Captain Solo? He just loves his Mexican chicks, and would not put up with anybody talking shit about them, especially putting them below Colombian girls.

[Gabacho]

As someione that came from Mexico, GDL, mexican girls suck compared to girls here. I had one the other night and she literaly did everything with out even asking. There are bueties here 18,19 20 years old. I can't do that in other countries. Colombia all the way. Not only in mde but other cities. MEX forget about just hate the upsale. There are some really hot girls here. ID take MDE over anywhere in mexico. There are guys that get 4 or 5 girls a day, I can't do that anymore, but its nice to know its available.

Besides its a beutifull country.

I too lived in Mexico for like the last 7 years and I can confirm all this. Colombia has way better girls, better prices, friendlier people, in Mexico the girls always try to up sale, always have bad attitudes and a cold personality compared to the girls in Colombia. The ones in Mexico are oftentimes forced to work and have padrotes in Colombia it seems more by choice and purely economic.

Mexico example: "quieres que me quite la ropa? Son cien pesos mas, quieres sexo oral, son cien pesos mas, blah blah blah"

Colombia example: "hola cariño te daré todo lo que quieras en treinta mil mas la pieza, siempre a la orden"

[Huacho]

Dude, come on. When you have to call dibs on your parking space, you know your in the wrong city. When the shit freezes over night and you have to go to work in the morning and trying to get the ice off.

And there is the summer, otherwise know as highway redustruction season. I left that rat race two years ago, whehre the climate is always beutiful, girls a pleanty and so much more.

For me Chicago suckes. 15 dollars a pack of cigs really?

Sorry for all the mistakes, just high on coke, so cheap down here. Its really becoming a problem.

Keep your cold weather and I will stick to my sunny days in the mid 70's.

I don't think you understood what I wrote. Drugs will do that to you.

[Surfer500]

Ambien, tusi, liquor, weed, viagra, I hope the upcoming reports end in ways that will surprise me.

That's quite a combination, I think the poster forgot to mention Coke as well.

I just can't imagine partaking in a combination like that to party by, but seems quite popular with the younger whipper snappers.

And I guess in this instance, the "night cap" is the Ambien to put you down after a long night.

[Elvis 2008]

I tried monogamy, 3 wives, 3 divorces, along with several long term monogamous (supposedly) relationships. The only relationship which made me content was when we were swingers, but that girlfriend created too much stress.

After trying to find a replacement with all the advantages and none of the stress, I realized the source of the stress. Me. It was all the baggage I grew up with, telling me I needed 1 woman, blah, blah, blah.

I am not judging anyone here and there is no right or wrong answer. I too was miserable under the societal constraints of monogamy and much happier seeing multiple women too.

But I want to go back to what Mr. E's woman IMO was asking: I want to know how much I should care about you and I am going to care a helluva lost less if you are off seeing other women.

That language still scares me, and the reason is that when a woman can con a guy into monogamy it comes with the ability to judge a man and bash him even if he looks at another woman. Hell, we got courts saying if a woman lies about birth control and gets pregnant, she can collect for 18 years.

So we have women saying "we deserve better". Isn't that also saying men deserve worse? We have women saying men "should" do X and y, and we have men saying women "r".

Isn't one of the reason we see WGs is because we are in control of the money and women have to perform and with a wife or mother of our child, they can behave however they want?

It is almost like men here are saying, "Okay, maybe we cannot commit and are lecherous assholes, but at least we are happy assholes. " But why say that? Why not demand more from women like they do from us?

If you say I will never commit to one woman, then you are saying we men are the problem. If you say I have not found a woman who is worthy of my monogamy, you are putting the burden on women to perform, and isn't the problem that they are not? Isn't the reason there are WGs is the WGs are performing and the wives are not?

So JJBee when you say women are X, and there is no way you could be monogamous, IMO you are falling into the "women are" trap. What would a woman have to be for you to be monogamous?

The thing about monogamy is that it usually refers to sexual. So in your case if sexual monogamy was a game changer, could you have a woman who would say "I do not care if you want to fuck 18 year olds as long as you are emotionally attached to only me and financially support me"? The idea is that no woman will put up with that. But again that is what women are versus what they "should" be. The question I am asking is not pushing monogamy but asking what it would take from a woman for you to be monogamous and happy. A 10 in looks? Fuck you 4 X a day? Be open to 3 somes? Earn money and help you out with the bills? What is it?

One other reason men see WGs is WGs are almost like the only people in the world who give a shit if men are happy because they get paid to make men happy even if just for a fleeting moment.

The reason guys cringe when it comes to commitment is that it usually means an end to their happiness. In my case, it has led to things getting better, and I am asking myself why I have not been demanding this all the time. Part of it is her, but I am sure part of it is that I have no legal entity, no judge in the sky, telling me I have to do anything.

On top of that, if you see multiple women, women hold back emotionally. They will themselves to not care about you too much. The men can say, "Well as long as I am getting good and properly fucked, I do not care. " What I would say is that you are missing out on the respect of others because people can see in seconds if a woman is there with you for money or love, and there is emotional fulfillment in a woman giving herself totally to you. My woman would rather be with me than anyone else and vice versa.

So I get Mr. E's comments. He ran from commitment because commitment usually spells doom and pain for men. If "commitment" just entails a woman continuing to fuck us, then we may as well not do it and continue to see WGs. If commitment meant women were more open sexually and performed better not just with sex but with everything, wouldn't we be running towards it and not be so afraid of it?

[Member #2001]

As someione that came from Mexico, GDL, mexican girls suck compared to girls here. I had one the other night and she literaly did everything with out even asking. There are bueties here 18,19 20 years old. I can't do that in other countries. Colombia all the way. Not only in mde but other cities. MEX forget about just hate the upsale. There are some really hot girls here. ID take MDE over anywhere in mexico. There are guys that get 4 or 5 girls a day, I can't do that anymore, but its nice to know its available.

Besides its a beutifull country.