Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[Member #4806]

Don't ever meet someone in her apartment, unless its a well set arrangement. Good chance of having her 'husband' or relative barge in with cops and book you for rape / tresspassing / stalking etc.

Once, in a relationship gone bad, I was waiting for her on the street she lived in (never met there) and she filed a false complaint of stalking against me.

Thanks Phil50 Bro for your advice!

[Phil50]

This is a continuation of my previous post.
I get many messages asking for contacts of girls. I am happy to give info on girls I met. Though not if I'm in a long term / exclusive arrangement, or they are not on SA.

The idea is to share info that can help both of us, not give one sided info, to someone who either does not want to pay for membership, or cannot make the effort to look on his own.
Quite often there are profile links for which feedback is asked. It will be useful for the majority of us who have not met these girls, to know where the poster has got to with his discussion.
It makes me feel like a pimp. I would personally not ask for info, unless I can give info of equal use to the other person and he understands the reason for my request.

I have studied the data in some detail and this is from personal experience.

There are 250+ Indian girls active in the past month, in each of the 3 biggest cities. Mumbai, Delhi & Bangalore. (sort by most recent active and see last active date).
Of these, about 90 will be non serious 'toe dippers', who will not visit the site, or delete profile shortly after making it. Or they will be duplicate profiles, or change their location.
It leaves 160 profiles.

Of these, one would typically filter out 60 due to pic, body type, age, their preferences etc. You can't filer out more, because most don't have real pics.
Of the remaining 100, about 70% see your message and look at your profile and 70% of those that do, reply. That is my experience. It leaves 50 girls, but let's assume its 40.
Of these 40, you will reject some because of looks, money expectation, or they may reject you. For every one with GPS, there are 3 similar girls available at half the price.
There will be 20 that will exchange messages and between 5-10 will be available for a VC, or coffee meet. It is at this stage that I would ask the forum for their feedback and also share
what I have learnt about them.
Assume 1 in 3 you plan to meet, will ghost. Even so it gives you enough choice.

In all my stints on SA, I have always met between 5-10 girls for the unpaid 'meet & greet' in my city. I have gone ahead with almost half of them. If I don't intend to have a long term relationship, I would certainly share my experience of girls I met, with mongers.

I look for a GFE, rather than professional escorts, which rules out many of the girls. Even so, there is enough choice. I would encourage fellow mongers to make a similar effort.
It would result sharing info that's useful to all of us.

[Phil50]

I am going to follow this up with a detailed post, with a lot of data. This post will tell you why.

Some time back I had posted to warn the forum about 2 girls who scammed me. One of them was 'Spoorti'. A couple of her clients wrote to me and we had a good exchange of info.

These are people I'd be happy to have a drink with and what the forum is useful for. I have shared info in good faith, hoping that mongers will use their judgement.

However, others wrote to me asking for her contacts. There were probably more people who wrote to her on SA. Which had the opposite effect of what I intended.
As a result, her rate has almost doubled overnight.

Even if her existing clients get service at old rates, they would be one of the 10 (not 2, or only person, as some assumed), who have banged her that month. It's not a nice feeling to know that.
she'll see a client paying less, only if there's no higher paying person available and give that person economy, rather than business class service.

Guys, don't be so desperate to chase even names that you are warned about. There's enough choice out there, as I will explain in my next post.

[Ramon85]

San_1997 - Too many red flags that can't be ignored, strongly felt she is a scammer or someone with attitude issues.

1. She never visited my profile in Seeking and she was giving one word responses to my questions.

2. She didn't request for my pics either in SA or in TG.

3. Her pics were too good to be true.

4. She insists on meeting her at her apartment. I asked if she is ok to visit me at a 5 star hotel, she said NO. This is a big red flag for me based on my experience in the US. I have read stories where guys are ambushed after entering the girl's apartment. Not sure if any such horror incidents happen in India.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...2-76b71d76b2ae

FWIW. She quoted 30 k for 2-3 hrs and 25 k for 1. 5 hrs.

Stay safe!

Has anyone met her?

She continues to insist on meeting her at her apartment.

Never meet a girl in her apartment or her hotel room unless you know her already or any of the known monger already met in her apartment or her hotel room before. There were multiple instances reported in past 4 to 5 years the guy get ambushed by gundas, robbed, compromised or nude pictures of him are taken and blackmailed for further money or refrain from reporting to LE or tell anyone. Still few people had guts to report to LE, apprehended few of this blackmailing groups. Most give in to those blackmails because of personal life will be affected. So better to avoid.

[Phil50]

I did interact with her.

She quoted 35 K for couple of hours of meet-up.

She was very up front that she will meet only at her place for the first time, later she can come to hotel.

Don't ever meet someone in her apartment, unless its a well set arrangement. Good chance of having her 'husband' or relative barge in with cops and book you for rape / tresspassing / stalking etc.

Once, in a relationship gone bad, I was waiting for her on the street she lived in (never met there) and she filed a false complaint of stalking against me.

[SumSteamySex]

Avoid Deebaby. Cancels last minute if she gets better deal. Lean frame with small boobs. Coming to deed she is not that hygiene and I felt as if am fucking hardcore w as soon as I came she got dressed and put on her dress didn't clean herself. She is just eager for money.

Thanks buddy for the input. Will avoid.

[RoniG]

I posted a FR about her. She is the same mahi kaur changing her ID and name. She has scammed many, please be careful!!

Are you talking about Monica (c not k) who goes by the ID StylishGurl on SA?

[SumSteamySex]

Please fix the links. Share the profile links, not the messages page.

Sorry for the newbie mistake. Correct links are as follows.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...9-99618b7f1978

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...b-252b3ee117a8

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...8-dd4eaa771f5e

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...9-0d0507e35d0e

Any kind of feedback will be useful.

[Member #4806]

I did interact with her.

She quoted 35 K for couple of hours of meet-up.

She was very up front that she will meet only at her place for the first time, later she can come to hotel.

35 K is too high for me, so did not continue the discussion.

Yes, another Bro also said and felt the same thing in an FR. I am wondering if there is anyone who has met her in her apartment.

[MySecretLife]

I did interact with her.

She quoted 35 K for couple of hours of meet-up.

She was very up front that she will meet only at her place for the first time, later she can come to hotel.

35 K is too high for me, so did not continue the discussion.

Has anyone met her?

She continues to insist on meeting her at her apartment.

[Sharads]

I got in touch with a girl from SA Bangalore.

She goes by name Monika on Telegram
She had a face which has a plastic surgery.

We were having beer and we were about to start deed, she asked to wash it and when I went inside she ran away.

I should have been careefull when she asks to pay upfront. Never believe these girls.

I posted a FR about her. She is the same mahi kaur changing her ID and name. She has scammed many, please be careful!!

[SitaGunjan]

Hello to all the fellow mongers,

I'm a complete newbie here. And gathered whatever knowledge I have on mongering from this forum, during the last couple of weeks. Big big thanks to all the senior mongers for maintaining such an informative forum, which is like a goldmine for newbies like me.

Have been browsing through the following profiles in SA. Can anyone give any feedback?

1. Lisa.

https://members.seeking.com/messages...5-32f8c9c8e0ad

2. Positive soul.

Avoid Deebaby. Cancels last minute if she gets better deal. Lean frame with small boobs. Coming to deed she is not that hygiene and I felt as if am fucking hardcore w as soon as I came she got dressed and put on her dress didn't clean herself. She is just eager for money.

[Member #4806]

Hello to all the fellow mongers,

I'm a complete newbie here. And gathered whatever knowledge I have on mongering from this forum, during the last couple of weeks. Big big thanks to all the senior mongers for maintaining such an informative forum, which is like a goldmine for newbies like me.

Have been browsing through the following profiles in SA. Can anyone give any feedback?

1. Lisa.

https://members.seeking.com/messages...5-32f8c9c8e0ad

2. Positive soul.

https://members.seeking.com/messages...8-b55089caa7c7

3. Deebaby.

https://members.seeking.com/messages...5-55e9dbcb2421

4. Hxney bee.

https://members.seeking.com/messages...1-f7465bd272c2

I am sorry I won't be able to reciprocate immediately, but will surely contribute to the forum as I gradually gain in experience.

Please fix the links. Share the profile links, not the messages page.

[Member #4806]

San_1997 - Too many red flags that can't be ignored, strongly felt she is a scammer or someone with attitude issues.

1. She never visited my profile in Seeking and she was giving one word responses to my questions.

2. She didn't request for my pics either in SA or in TG.

3. Her pics were too good to be true.

4. She insists on meeting her at her apartment. I asked if she is ok to visit me at a 5 star hotel, she said NO. This is a big red flag for me based on my experience in the US. I have read stories where guys are ambushed after entering the girl's apartment. Not sure if any such horror incidents happen in India.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...2-76b71d76b2ae

FWIW. She quoted 30 k for 2-3 hrs and 25 k for 1. 5 hrs.

Stay safe!

Has anyone met her?

She continues to insist on meeting her at her apartment.

[Shahiste72]

My monthly arrangement with the haryanvi jat kat is scheduled to end at the end of this month as she's getting married in Feb. March. I gave her 50 k a month for 3 meets. In between we went out for 3 out of station trips and she shopped like crazy over there and almost shopped over 40-50 k in every trip. Plus she would take some 2-3 k as cab money etc every time we met. So in all and all I paid her decently all this while for 4-5 months.

But now as the arrangement is to end she got after me to buy her a whirlpool fridge and a microwave for her mother. I said ok and said f it, I'll pay for the fridge and microwave thinking of it as a gift from my end to her for marriage. I got her that.

As I mentioned before in the last trip the jat kat wanted me to smash her bareback which I did reluctantly. I've been worried sick that she may get pregerrs. She kinda senses that and keeps playing around that if she gets pregnant then she will need to get an abortion done. Wants me to be ready with 1-2 lakhs in case she needs to get an abortion. I'm sensing she's trying to milk me in any which way she can before we go our seperate ways. It's a shame because I have been very generous with her all throughout our time and treated her well. But now her behaviour is making me sick as I know she's trying to squeeze all that she can out of me. I'm disappointed but it confirms by belief that women cannot love men. All they love is the usefulness a man brings into their lives. We men care and love women unconditionally but women cannot love men the same way.

Sorry to read this. Some women are such. If she claims that she is pregnant, don't pay her a penny. Tell her that you will get her abortion done by a gynecologist who is a close friend of yours. The abortion cost in any good clinic ranges from 10 k to 20 k max. She will most likely back out of it at the last minute as I am quite certain that she is not pregnant. Be firm. It is good to be a decent person, but not good to be taken advantage of because of your simplicity. DM me if you need to talk.