Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

**DevSagar** · 01-03-23 05:56

First things first. Below is my individual point of view, some guys may agree or disagree. I am even ready to get a few brick bats down the line for sharing my opinion below. It's not spicy and sex laden, so please do not care to read and ignore. Dunno, if it'll be loaded here on forum.

I am aware it's not psychology class lesson. Yes, It is sex forum, to share chicks we banged and our sexual escapades. But, is that all for us Gents or there is more to life. Shukracharya, Absolutely, do not hesitate to share your feelings, mental and emotional turmoil here on open forum. I wrote earlier we all have some emptiness in life. It could be of any sort. We can learn from each other's life experience, yes, not only sexual experience. So, carry on mate and share as much as you can. I have read your this FR at least twice before writing here.

Shuk, Buddy you've done exceedingly well in thwarting the sexual advances of your Bosses wife. I was in a similar catch 22 situation wherein someone from my family was going through a turbulent married life. A very beautiful and educated lady married early into a rich business family who happened to be my uneducated rich relatives. One fine day both Mom and her daughter who is also now 25, met me in their home individually where both cried and shared their shit life. Mind you, they have plenty of money and the lady herself came from a filthy rich background and her father's left her a fortune. I referred her to Apollo hospital to a doctor friend as she was not getting proper treatment at home as uneducated in laws. Her daughter I met her in a coffee shop in South Delhi, counseled her and shared my piece of mind. She's become like my buddy and confides in me and not in her father / mother. I took a decision of not meeting the lady alone either at her home or any social gathering and my this strategy paid really well. They just celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary; she saw me, pulled me on the stage and openly declared in front of her husband and in laws that this man saved my life. If I wanted, I could have taken advantage of her as she was very vulnerable, emotionally and mentally at that time, kept in touch with me on phone, shared all but I was clear headed not to indulge in any thing which will haunt me in future. You did well. Kudos for it and sharing it here.

As far as your personal life is concerned, man; I just have to say that Time and patience will be your biggest friend. Wait and watch. I personally have gone through a lot of shit, seen poverty and too much of wealth. Ultimately, god's been kind. Money is a means not an end. You yourself are a mentally sorted guy and I know you'll tide over it. Keep sharing. I can feel you man. Family life, no doubt gives that happiness and what a joy a father playing with his child and vice versa. No amount of wealth can get you that kind of happiness as it cannot be purchased.

I'd also like to add here for all that I have not met any SA chick in Delhi since the last 3/4 months, not an SA premium member. I am contended and satisfied. Been focusing on work, travels and personal growth.

Regards.

Originally Posted by Shukracharya [View Original Post]

I'm just ranting here have nothing related to mongering to offer so don't bother reading below if that's what you want.

So the arrangement finally ended with that haryanvi kat after 4 months. I was relieved by it all. Thanks to all the bros who msged to ask if I was ok and not attached to her etc. Bros I've been burned to many times in life from GFS to my ex wife to know better not to fall in love, especially not to fall in love with Kats. So no worries on that front.

On 1St Jan my boss organized a get together at his duplex in Gurgaon. I didn't want to go as his wife has hit on me a couple of times and I find it very awkward there in her presence. But the boss insisted I come over so I did. As usual no later than 10 minutes there his wife saw me and was all giving me the looks while I was pretending to be busy talking with others at the get together. I was so desperate not to have to talk to my boss's wife that I even chatted up their 20 year old daughter for a whole 20 minutes talking about her education and college studies. Me and her were out on their balcony talking all by ourselves But my boss's wife jumped in on the conversation after about 20 minutes and I had to talk to her. The daughter is working on some project and asked me to help her out a bit in it, I said sure. To which the boss's wife suggested that I could come over to their place next weekend to help her daughter out. I didn't think much about it and said yeah sure if I get the time I'll come. To which the boss's wife said in a flirtatious way that I'm sure you can find some time and have me a wink while she squeezed my butt! I was petrified. Looking around to see if anybody saw that or not. Both of them left and I just stood there trying to gather my wits. Later on infound out the boss is going to Singapore for a week on Wednesday and won't be home on the weekend. The boss's wife even got the boss to tell me to come over to his house in his absence and help his kid out. He thinks of me as a honourable man who wouldn't mess around with his kid or anything, which is absolutely true. But he has no idea about his ho wife. I don't want to smash his wife's 40 plus kat and get involved in any drama. I just got out of the whole mess of an arrangement with that haryanvi kat. Don't want any trouble but hooking you with these women is really risky business these days. They can ruin your life in one small instance. I'm thinking instead of going over to their duplex I will call their daughter over to some coffe shop to help her with her project but that's risky too, don't want his daughter of my boss to think I'm hitting on her. Don't know what I'll do on weekend, maybe feign some sickness to postpone going over to their place till the boss returns back from Singapore. The more I try to avoid his wife, more strongly she's coming on. Now I don't look like Hrithik Roshan or Tom cruise for her to be crazy over me. Don't know what's her obsession with me is for. I used to talk up with her till she started giving me the smashing hints. Maybe she's all hot for me because I'm rebuffing her advances. Anywhich wayva trick situation for me.

I spent the new year with my kid playing video games and it was great fun. There is nothing better than having a family and raising it. But thanks to new age BS of equality, rights, feminism etc coupled with laws made by govts world over, they are hell bent on destroying the whole institution of family. All these netas, govt people, courtrooms, judges, police lawyers, rich businessmen etc work for a system which wants continuous supply of fresh meet for them to devour. For centuries communities saved themselves from this devouring by being conservative, following traditions etc. But now thanks to the smartphone, internet that is no longer possible. Social media is the poison and the mobile phone the carrier which is ruining humanity. It's just bringing out the worst in people everywhere. Especially harmful for the females. So the system works to destroy families and have fresh meat for them to devour, especially females. They want women from your families to be all hippie like and giving up their Kats in the name of rights, equality etc while they make sure women in their households are controlled. Just horrible. The whole education system, media is Designed to brain wash people, especially women. Break families up so that people are controlled and manipulated more easily. Brainwash women and bring the worst out of them instead of good. Couple that With excessive money supply inthe market there is no f chance for a good guy to live his life well.

Anyway so my ex wife really didn't like me and my kid having a great time together as usual and made a huge face. I can just sense negative energy in people. She didn't say anything but I knew she was furious that me and my kid had a great time. So she dropped the bombshell on me on 1St that she's looking to her it company nerd BF she has been dating for a while and move with him to Bangalore. That mf IT guy in Bangalore was earlier married to some Brazilian kat and had a kid with her. I don't usually bsay this but that guy in terms of looks is like a minus 5 . His personality is such that you want to run away from him if he's anywhere near you. But the mf works hard like 14-15 hours a day and earns good money so I guess that's why that brazilian kat married him and then divorced him to take half his money LOL. But now my ex wife wants to marry this guy and take my kid with her to Bangalore. She wants to put distance BTW me and my kid. Plus I don't want my kid anywhere near that mf IT guy in Bangalore. Don't want my kid to pick any habbits of that guy but thanks to the courts and laws I'm helpless here. She has full custody of the kid and not much I can do legally here. I tried talking to my ex wife's family but her dad is this shumck businessman who will say something on the face but do something exactly opposite behind your back. Her mother is no better just an old feminist. Both will only encourage my wife to go ahead and marry that guy and take my kid away farther from me.

Life never gets on easy mode it's like one trouble goes and another one comes along. Having a family brings stability in a man's life but my ex wifevand her family don't even want my kid to be near me. These people were always struggling before 2012 and I was on a roll at that time doing great. But after 2012 these horrible people made a lot of money thanks to continuous money printing by govt and all the siblings of my ex wife moved to Australia, Canada. They were hopeless, miserable here but have moved abroad and now are leeches onto those western countries. It's hard to digest sometimes how the world has changed for the worst. Everywhere I look I see the horrible useless people striking gold and good deserving people struggling.

Like that pandaya guy becomeingIndians cricket team captain. I mean that's the role model now for future generation. Garbage like that. No wonder the world is f.

**Phil50** · 01-03-23 05:32

Originally Posted by NdnPlayboy [View Original Post]

Great Steps Bro, I would just add one advice it may or may not be of Help. Between Step 1 and 2, pay attention to the Join Date of the Profile. The newer the Date higher the likelihood of the profile being a Fake. Ofcourse some Genuine profile will get lost in this way, but it will save you time on the back end and being Ghosted later.

If a profile is more than a month old AND the last login date is less than a week after joining, she is most likely a 'Toe dipper' who is no longer interested in SA. These are the type who will most likely ghost, or not reply.

If the profile is over a year old, its most likely an experienced escort. All premium profiles I have come across, are professional escorts. While they are not my type, a professional escort, is more likely to show up, not scam you and conduct business without drama.

**LightMan1988** · 01-03-23 01:29

Originally Posted by Shukracharya [View Original Post]

I'm just ranting here have nothing related to mongering to offer so don't bother reading below if that's what you want.

So the arrangement finally ended with that haryanvi kat after 4 months. I was relieved by it all. Thanks to all the bros who msged to ask if I was ok and not attached to her etc. Bros I've been burned to many times in life from GFS to my ex wife to know better not to fall in love, especially not to fall in love with Kats. So no worries on that front.

On 1St Jan my boss organized a get together at his duplex in Gurgaon. I didn't want to go as his wife has hit on me a couple of times and I find it very awkward there in her presence. But the boss insisted I come over so I did. As usual no later than 10 minutes there his wife saw me and was all giving me the looks while I was pretending to be busy talking with others at the get together. I was so desperate not to have to talk to my boss's wife that I even chatted up their 20 year old daughter for a whole 20 minutes talking about her education and college studies. Me and her were out on their balcony talking all by ourselves But my boss's wife jumped in on the conversation after about 20 minutes and I had to talk to her. The daughter is working on some project and asked me to help her out a bit in it, I said sure. To which the boss's wife suggested that I could come over to their place next weekend to help her daughter out. I didn't think much about it and said yeah sure if I get the time I'll come. To which the boss's wife said in a flirtatious way that I'm sure you can find some time and have me a wink while she squeezed my butt! I was petrified. Looking around to see if anybody saw that or not. Both of them left and I just stood there trying to gather my wits. Later on infound out the boss is going to Singapore for a week on Wednesday and won't be home on the weekend. The boss's wife even got the boss to tell me to come over to his house in his absence and help his kid out. He thinks of me as a honourable man who wouldn't mess around with his kid or anything, which is absolutely true. But he has no idea about his ho wife. I don't want to smash his wife's 40 plus kat and get involved in any drama. I just got out of the whole mess of an arrangement with that haryanvi kat. Don't want any trouble but hooking you with these women is really risky business these days. They can ruin your life in one small instance. I'm thinking instead of going over to their duplex I will call their daughter over to some coffe shop to help her with her project but that's risky too, don't want his daughter of my boss to think I'm hitting on her. Don't know what I'll do on weekend, maybe feign some sickness to postpone going over to their place till the boss returns back from Singapore. The more I try to avoid his wife, more strongly she's coming on. Now I don't look like Hrithik Roshan or Tom cruise for her to be crazy over me. Don't know what's her obsession with me is for. I used to talk up with her till she started giving me the smashing hints. Maybe she's all hot for me because I'm rebuffing her advances. Anywhich wayva trick situation for me.

I spent the new year with my kid playing video games and it was great fun. There is nothing better than having a family and raising it. But thanks to new age BS of equality, rights, feminism etc coupled with laws made by govts world over, they are hell bent on destroying the whole institution of family. All these netas, govt people, courtrooms, judges, police lawyers, rich businessmen etc work for a system which wants continuous supply of fresh meet for them to devour. For centuries communities saved themselves from this devouring by being conservative, following traditions etc. But now thanks to the smartphone, internet that is no longer possible. Social media is the poison and the mobile phone the carrier which is ruining humanity. It's just bringing out the worst in people everywhere. Especially harmful for the females. So the system works to destroy families and have fresh meat for them to devour, especially females. They want women from your families to be all hippie like and giving up their Kats in the name of rights, equality etc while they make sure women in their households are controlled. Just horrible. The whole education system, media is Designed to brain wash people, especially women. Break families up so that people are controlled and manipulated more easily. Brainwash women and bring the worst out of them instead of good. Couple that With excessive money supply inthe market there is no f chance for a good guy to live his life well.

Anyway so my ex wife really didn't like me and my kid having a great time together as usual and made a huge face. I can just sense negative energy in people. She didn't say anything but I knew she was furious that me and my kid had a great time. So she dropped the bombshell on me on 1St that she's looking to her it company nerd BF she has been dating for a while and move with him to Bangalore. That mf IT guy in Bangalore was earlier married to some Brazilian kat and had a kid with her. I don't usually bsay this but that guy in terms of looks is like a minus 5 . His personality is such that you want to run away from him if he's anywhere near you. But the mf works hard like 14-15 hours a day and earns good money so I guess that's why that brazilian kat married him and then divorced him to take half his money LOL. But now my ex wife wants to marry this guy and take my kid with her to Bangalore. She wants to put distance BTW me and my kid. Plus I don't want my kid anywhere near that mf IT guy in Bangalore. Don't want my kid to pick any habbits of that guy but thanks to the courts and laws I'm helpless here. She has full custody of the kid and not much I can do legally here. I tried talking to my ex wife's family but her dad is this shumck businessman who will say something on the face but do something exactly opposite behind your back. Her mother is no better just an old feminist. Both will only encourage my wife to go ahead and marry that guy and take my kid away farther from me.

Life never gets on easy mode it's like one trouble goes and another one comes along. Having a family brings stability in a man's life but my ex wifevand her family don't even want my kid to be near me. These people were always struggling before 2012 and I was on a roll at that time doing great. But after 2012 these horrible people made a lot of money thanks to continuous money printing by govt and all the siblings of my ex wife moved to Australia, Canada. They were hopeless, miserable here but have moved abroad and now are leeches onto those western countries. It's hard to digest sometimes how the world has changed for the worst. Everywhere I look I see the horrible useless people striking gold and good deserving people struggling.

Like that pandaya guy becomeingIndians cricket team captain. I mean that's the role model now for future generation. Garbage like that. No wonder the world is f.

Bro, Karma is a *****, remember, Chitragupt writes the book and balances the Karma. Let your wife do what she needs to do. YOu can always go visit your son. I had a good friend who White wife lefts after 2 years of marriage and left his kids with him so she can start fresh. NOw he is raising two kids by himself, not the best life either. When your son grows up, he will have an independent opinion of right and wrong. Regarding the IT guys personality, remember this, your ex will get what she sows.

**LightMan1988** · 01-03-23 01:22

Originally Posted by Shukracharya [View Original Post]

This kat is from the hills or just looks like an apple?

True thing about the p* inflation. I don't repeat Kats but one kat I wrote a FR over she contacted me again and this time wanted me to pay her double! I said nah thanks but you are right posting links of Kats and their ids here just leads to p inflation.

Forget about p inflation I've had some older gentleman bro msg me from usa here offering to pay me some dollars if I can get him some really good girl who will give him a good experience LOL. I haven't replied to that bro but if he's reading this forum, bro I aint no sp.

I just vent out my experiences here because I can't sharevall this with anyone in my real life. In addition to that I help bros out of the goodness of my heart, plus the Kats who are in need to some money can benefit too. Not here to make a buck myself.

KAT is from the hills Bro. NRI expats believe everything can be solved by Dollar. Art of grinding is lost.

**Mad Hatter** · 01-02-23 11:17

First, a thank you to all the forum members. A special shout out to Ruch888 for helping out a lot. I was in Bombay for a full week. Had work for the first part - a new contract with a supplier in Bombay. The contract went through and now I will be visiting Bombay, every month.

Had been chatting to a few girls, way too many in fact. I cancelled on a couple after chatting with them. They did not appreciate it and felt that I wasted their time. While the girls were great, a couple of them don't drink or even eat non-veg. So going out to party was not happening. So I was left with no choice but to cancel.

Anyway, I had my sight set on these 2 girls. The main one ended up having to leave on an emergency. So I decided to meet the second one for a drink. She goes by the name "Gracee". Within a few minutes of meeting her, I knew this wasn't the woman for me. Her English was poor but you could tell she was working on it and had come a long way. Either way, I decided to just go with the flow and have a few drinks and dinner. As the drinks started to flow, we both loosened up a bit. I was having fun and she also took me to a couple of spots with good food and great views. So that was a plus. This could have still progressed to a proper date, if only the girl had some manners and decorum when speaking to staff. She was just rude to everyone she saw as below her. The taxi drivers, the staff, the waiters etc. A couple of times, I openly apologised to them about it and made sure to leave a bigger tip. After the 5/6th time it happened, I had to tell her to learn to be nice and I left for the hotel, nicely drunk but annoyed as fuck at 1:00 am.

The second girl was a new member to seeking. 21 yr old college girl. Short, a little chubby, but in a nice way. Super cute face and lovely smile. We chatted on voice and then met her at the bar in my hotel. We spent the evening together, laughing, chatting and this soon moved to kisses. After a passionate and long session, we were both spent. She told me what she was looking for on a monthly basis. I decided that I wanted to see her again when I am back in Jan. So I offered her the monthly arrangement. What followed was the most intense BJ I got in a long time. My room had an epic view of the beach and getting a BJ while watching the sun go down, with a drink in my hand was truly quite an experience.

On a second note. Watch out for our favourite Bombay scamster, Ovika / cattalk.

**Mad Hatter** · 01-02-23 09:50

Originally Posted by Ruckus2981 [View Original Post]

Yep, I had posted earlier as well about this, there is group of them, this can be classed as extortion as it's a "gang' of them. Also her threats warrant a police case against her.

Sent you a DM.

**Ndn Playboy** · 01-02-23 08:19

Originally Posted by LightMan1988 [View Original Post]

Step 1 set the filter to 18 to 25.

Step 2 send mass message and get their tg.

Step 3 have a tg with them and get their face and profile pic.

Step 4 get their quote for a 3 hour meet.

Step 5. Quote 20% below their ask.

Step 6 accept no one who asks more than 30 k.

Step 7 insist on a video call. No vc no dice.

Step 8 follow 1 to 7 and be prepared to walk away.

Remember in the land of 30 rs patty and 80 rs large glass of cold pressed juice 20 k is a lot of money.

Great Steps Bro, I would just add one advice it may or may not be of Help. Between Step 1 and 2, pay attention to the Join Date of the Profile. The newer the Date higher the likelihood of the profile being a Fake. Ofcourse some Genuine profile will get lost in this way, but it will save you time on the back end and being Ghosted later. Am assuming the idea was to take one month subscription so use your 30 Days wisely.

But great steps for NOOBs. Good Luck, Happy New Year and Happy Mongering.

**Shukracharya** · 01-02-23 04:54

This kat is from the hills or just looks like an apple?

True thing about the p* inflation. I don't repeat Kats but one kat I wrote a FR over she contacted me again and this time wanted me to pay her double! I said nah thanks but you are right posting links of Kats and their ids here just leads to p inflation.

Forget about p inflation I've had some older gentleman bro msg me from usa here offering to pay me some dollars if I can get him some really good girl who will give him a good experience LOL. I haven't replied to that bro but if he's reading this forum, bro I aint no sp.

I just vent out my experiences here because I can't sharevall this with anyone in my real life. In addition to that I help bros out of the goodness of my heart, plus the Kats who are in need to some money can benefit too. Not here to make a buck myself.

Originally Posted by LightMan1988 [View Original Post]

This one was supposed to feed my fetish of smashing a size 0 DU student, something I had not done in my glory days of 20's as a DU student. I used to be 220 pounds back then so chick would run away from me. I am still 230-240 depending on the day so needed to get that experience. Had been talking to her for sometime. She is a typical shimla ka apple. Fair though some marks on the skin due to acne.

Anyway we had been chatting for sometime, we decided to meet at a hotel in south Delhi. I won't give out hotel names as we have to give you our IDs and I don't want mongers thronging those hotels. Also I won't give out any of the ID names, as that contributes to p* inflation and GPS syndrome. Go on seeking, set the age range to 18-24, you will see these kats from there on out, spend some cash. Another thing to note, 20 K is a good amount of money to spend in motherland, inflation is not that high. I have paid $20 for a one month gym subscription, I drink a glass of fresh pressed juice for a dollar, and food is cheap as shit as well. None of these KATS need 25 K plus for a meet. The reason they ask for it is some guy posts their profile link here, their phone starts ringing non stop and they jack up their price. They don't want to fuck 5 guys in a day so they start looking for a guy which pays them 55 K which is bull shit. Point in example this chick Heer07 who quoted me 90 K for a short term meet whereas I know she has fucked guys for less here. And that Shubangi chick from gurugram quoting me 60 K. This DU student was fairer than her and less costly and more tight (more on this later) . Another point is, it is very difficult to get 2 K notes from an ATM here and my card can only withdraw 10 K at a time. SO I am limiting my withdrawls to 10 K. Also my wallet cannot carry more than 25 K in Rs500 notes. Can anyone provide pointers on this?

Anyways We check in, I get to see her ID, she is 24. Great. I check the hotel register, there are multiple people like us. Anyway, we get in the room, I get the lock, she pounces on me and starts kissing me, Her breath smelled good so I don't go for the mouthwash. I get her in the bed, ask her to take her clothes off which she does. NOw she doesn't have a lot of meat on the bones, I wanted that so that's okay. After a bit of foreplay and BJ I am hard so given that she is feather weight, I ask her to go on top, she is super tight, She tells me she hasnt had any since summer, I believe her since she lives with her siblings here and clearly is new on seeking.

Any way, after I start smashing her, its a smashathon, I take her from different positions, front back, mish, CG I bang her for an hour straight and she takes it like a trooper. I nut inside her. With foreplay we clocked 2 hours total.

Then second round starts this one is the same, this one I throat fuck her and she takes take it, 45 minutes smash and I nut on her face.

Damage 22 K.

WIR no.

**Phil50** · 01-02-23 04:46

Originally Posted by LoveIsLife0988 [View Original Post]

We all know about profiles offering services within 15 k-20 k but all we would like to know from other's exp is what all genuine and verified profiles are available.

So many fake profiles and bad exp reported especially for seeking girls.

If someone cannot share details of verified profiles on seeking then these reviews are of no use for other fellow seeking mongers.

For each person we have a successful paid date with, there are many others we reject. It could be their quote is too high, or face, or some other red flag, or you didn't like the pic.

In such cases, its helpful to let us know about these girls (their ID, if not link). Since the poster had no interest in them, it hardly matters if others contact these girls.

Similarly, if you have met and wasn't happy and don't intend to see them again, please post the details.

I can understand if someone does not want to share details of his 'regular' girl. However, if all we get is a story of their exploits, with no link to any girl, incl those they rejected, it does.

Not help anyone, beyond telling us rates that more experienced mongers on SA already know.

**Shukracharya** · 01-02-23 04:44

Bros be careful. I've talked to thisngirl on sa who turned out to be a journalist wanting to cover the whole sa model in India. Seeking is gathering too much attention. I'm pretty sure sooner or later the govts will be mining seeking data to trace people, their money spending habbits and get them to cough up money as tax etc. If they are not doing tht already.

Originally Posted by Eagur [View Original Post]

Although the linked article seemed pointless to me but I agree the number of genuine non-professional girls on Seeking are definitely very few and the ratio is skewed. Birds do control the rates to a large extent, however, the babes I talked to on telegram did say that there are a lot more of time wasting and very few genuine queries. So I feel it is possible to reach a common ground also based on how one discusses an arrangement and by talking rationally with the babes. Obviously not with GPS.

**Shukracharya** · 01-02-23 04:39

I'm just ranting here have nothing related to mongering to offer so don't bother reading below if that's what you want.

So the arrangement finally ended with that haryanvi kat after 4 months. I was relieved by it all. Thanks to all the bros who msged to ask if I was ok and not attached to her etc. Bros I've been burned to many times in life from GFS to my ex wife to know better not to fall in love, especially not to fall in love with Kats. So no worries on that front.

On 1St Jan my boss organized a get together at his duplex in Gurgaon. I didn't want to go as his wife has hit on me a couple of times and I find it very awkward there in her presence. But the boss insisted I come over so I did. As usual no later than 10 minutes there his wife saw me and was all giving me the looks while I was pretending to be busy talking with others at the get together. I was so desperate not to have to talk to my boss's wife that I even chatted up their 20 year old daughter for a whole 20 minutes talking about her education and college studies. Me and her were out on their balcony talking all by ourselves But my boss's wife jumped in on the conversation after about 20 minutes and I had to talk to her. The daughter is working on some project and asked me to help her out a bit in it, I said sure. To which the boss's wife suggested that I could come over to their place next weekend to help her daughter out. I didn't think much about it and said yeah sure if I get the time I'll come. To which the boss's wife said in a flirtatious way that I'm sure you can find some time and have me a wink while she squeezed my butt! I was petrified. Looking around to see if anybody saw that or not. Both of them left and I just stood there trying to gather my wits. Later on infound out the boss is going to Singapore for a week on Wednesday and won't be home on the weekend. The boss's wife even got the boss to tell me to come over to his house in his absence and help his kid out. He thinks of me as a honourable man who wouldn't mess around with his kid or anything, which is absolutely true. But he has no idea about his ho wife. I don't want to smash his wife's 40 plus kat and get involved in any drama. I just got out of the whole mess of an arrangement with that haryanvi kat. Don't want any trouble but hooking you with these women is really risky business these days. They can ruin your life in one small instance. I'm thinking instead of going over to their duplex I will call their daughter over to some coffe shop to help her with her project but that's risky too, don't want his daughter of my boss to think I'm hitting on her. Don't know what I'll do on weekend, maybe feign some sickness to postpone going over to their place till the boss returns back from Singapore. The more I try to avoid his wife, more strongly she's coming on. Now I don't look like Hrithik Roshan or Tom cruise for her to be crazy over me. Don't know what's her obsession with me is for. I used to talk up with her till she started giving me the smashing hints. Maybe she's all hot for me because I'm rebuffing her advances. Anywhich wayva trick situation for me.

I spent the new year with my kid playing video games and it was great fun. There is nothing better than having a family and raising it. But thanks to new age BS of equality, rights, feminism etc coupled with laws made by govts world over, they are hell bent on destroying the whole institution of family. All these netas, govt people, courtrooms, judges, police lawyers, rich businessmen etc work for a system which wants continuous supply of fresh meet for them to devour. For centuries communities saved themselves from this devouring by being conservative, following traditions etc. But now thanks to the smartphone, internet that is no longer possible. Social media is the poison and the mobile phone the carrier which is ruining humanity. It's just bringing out the worst in people everywhere. Especially harmful for the females. So the system works to destroy families and have fresh meat for them to devour, especially females. They want women from your families to be all hippie like and giving up their Kats in the name of rights, equality etc while they make sure women in their households are controlled. Just horrible. The whole education system, media is Designed to brain wash people, especially women. Break families up so that people are controlled and manipulated more easily. Brainwash women and bring the worst out of them instead of good. Couple that With excessive money supply inthe market there is no f chance for a good guy to live his life well.

Anyway so my ex wife really didn't like me and my kid having a great time together as usual and made a huge face. I can just sense negative energy in people. She didn't say anything but I knew she was furious that me and my kid had a great time. So she dropped the bombshell on me on 1St that she's looking to her it company nerd BF she has been dating for a while and move with him to Bangalore. That mf IT guy in Bangalore was earlier married to some Brazilian kat and had a kid with her. I don't usually bsay this but that guy in terms of looks is like a minus 5 . His personality is such that you want to run away from him if he's anywhere near you. But the mf works hard like 14-15 hours a day and earns good money so I guess that's why that brazilian kat married him and then divorced him to take half his money LOL. But now my ex wife wants to marry this guy and take my kid with her to Bangalore. She wants to put distance BTW me and my kid. Plus I don't want my kid anywhere near that mf IT guy in Bangalore. Don't want my kid to pick any habbits of that guy but thanks to the courts and laws I'm helpless here. She has full custody of the kid and not much I can do legally here. I tried talking to my ex wife's family but her dad is this shumck businessman who will say something on the face but do something exactly opposite behind your back. Her mother is no better just an old feminist. Both will only encourage my wife to go ahead and marry that guy and take my kid away farther from me.

Life never gets on easy mode it's like one trouble goes and another one comes along. Having a family brings stability in a man's life but my ex wifevand her family don't even want my kid to be near me. These people were always struggling before 2012 and I was on a roll at that time doing great. But after 2012 these horrible people made a lot of money thanks to continuous money printing by govt and all the siblings of my ex wife moved to Australia, Canada. They were hopeless, miserable here but have moved abroad and now are leeches onto those western countries. It's hard to digest sometimes how the world has changed for the worst. Everywhere I look I see the horrible useless people striking gold and good deserving people struggling.

Like that pandaya guy becomeingIndians cricket team captain. I mean that's the role model now for future generation. Garbage like that. No wonder the world is f.

**Phil50** · 01-02-23 04:29

Originally Posted by LightMan1988 [View Original Post]

Step 1 set the filter to 18 to 25.

Step 2 send mass message and get their tg.

Step 3 have a tg with them and get their face and profile pic.

Step 4 get their quote for a 3 hour meet.

Step 5. Quote 20% below their ask.

Step 6 accept no one who asks more than 30 k.

Step 7 insist on a video call. No vc no dice.

Step 8 follow 1 to 7 and be prepared to walk away.

Remember in the land of 30 rs patty and 80 rs large glass of cold pressed juice 20 k is a lot of money.

Great post Bro, I'd like to add the following suggestions:

Step 2 - List what you want in your girl. If you don't want a WC or you want long term, say so.

Step 4 - If she does not want to quote, go to step 5 and tell her what you are willing to pay. If she expects what I am willing to pay, I don't negotiate downwards. I think its better to keep.

A good prospect happy and not lose her to someone else who is willing to meet her asking price.

Keep a file of all those you contact. You may find for e. G. That a girl's ID has the same TG as an older profile in your file.

**LightMan1988** · 01-01-23 19:04

Title is self explanatory. 20 YR old college student. Big tits, 20 K offered, offer accepted, hotel booked, she Ghosted me =, anyways, lost of $5, we start again tomorrow.

**Eagur** · 01-01-23 14:40

Although the linked article seemed pointless to me but I agree the number of genuine non-professional girls on Seeking are definitely very few and the ratio is skewed. Birds do control the rates to a large extent, however, the babes I talked to on telegram did say that there are a lot more of time wasting and very few genuine queries. So I feel it is possible to reach a common ground also based on how one discusses an arrangement and by talking rationally with the babes. Obviously not with GPS.

Originally Posted by Luckyguy7198 [View Original Post]

https://www.thecitizen.in/gender/hey...n-india-282038

Thanks to our demography and gender ratio, India will remain a seller's market for paid sex, for the next three decades. The influx of sex workers from beyond the sub continent, not just our neighbours, is evident.

**Luckyguy7198** · 01-01-23 10:58

Originally Posted by Phil50 [View Original Post]

I agree with the BLR SA experience. I respectfully disagree about it being seller driven. I've tried to look at the numbers.

The number of girls in be'lore, active in the past month AND meeting your criteria of body type, age etc. Can be seen. In addition, more will join during your membership (usually 50 each month).

And some of those not active in the past month, may come online. The total number is your pool to start messaging. For me, that number in Bangalore is 200+.

If you make a fake profile of a girl, you can see the number of men in be'lore. 90% are not paid and can't message. The number of people in be'lore who message the profile in a month is roughly the number of men who are looking. My estimate is 100 men. There are 200+ women competing for them. At the least, this should mean we don't chase girls with GPS, or those with a lot of attitude.

https://www.thecitizen.in/gender/hey...n-india-282038

Thanks to our demography and gender ratio, India will remain a seller's market for paid sex, for the next three decades. The influx of sex workers from beyond the sub continent, not just our neighbours, is evident.