Sorry to hear what happened to you. From her profile pic she looks like a seasoned crook. Can you share her telegram ID bro, may be someone in the forum can meet her and take it logical conclusion.
Ok bro, it's all about the experience one wants, I get that. You like the well spoken, well presented Kats. Who doesn't? And you are willing to pay them for that experience as you see fit. That's completely your choice.
Personally I wouldn't pay any kat 50 k even if she spoke Shakespeare's English with me LOL. Maybe that's because I'm cheap as I have to work real hard to make money bro.
The more women I have been around with I have realised they just don't a f about anything. They are always playing games, manipulations to extract something out of the guy and are always pretending to be a certain way they think the guy wants them to be. Basically females are just pretending most of the time. You get to see their real nature when you are fighting them in court LOL.
I don't pay every girl I meet 50 K. I pay what I think they deserve. If the girl is well educated and presentable and articulate, my budget gets bigger. In India, I find a lot of girls are ones I do not want to be seen with, at the kind of places I like to hang out in.
I got Jitterbug & bla bla spelling wrong, it should be "Jitterbugg" and "blah blah blah". You will find her. And "I" has already deleted her profile a couple of weeks ago after a couple of insane experiences. She met me as I had met her in December.
As for 30 yr old? In find that most 30 yr old women are better in bed than most 20 yr olds. They are more confident and know exactly what they like. If your vetting process is good, you end up finding divorcees and or women who don't get attention. The attention and kindness you give is appreciated and reciprocated. Case in point, the freeby morning fun I had with jitterbugg.
Bro I find talking to any female over the age of 30 mentally exhausting. I can see right through their games and manipulations. I talk to female relatives over 30 as well as wives of people I know who are over 30 and even that leaves me mentally drained navigating through their manipulations and BS. Plus any ho over 30 is in even worse as she has the added baggage of getting smashed by a 1000 dudes who mistreated her or used and dumped her so she's going to be even more crazy.
Younger females I find are still exploring life and themselves and are better to be around. But the social programming done by feminism and internet social media is destroying them too. Now days it's quite common to find young 24-25 year old Kats who are toxic like hell. It's very bad times we all are living in. These younger Kats going to get brainwashed into hating men from a young age. They are being programmed to only be polite towards billionaires and studs who are 6 feet tall and have 6 pack abs. Rest of the avg men these females are being programmed to hate, manipulate and destroy. Scary times we all avg normal men live in. The govt wants us to work, pay tax and keep quiet when we are fleeced by conmem like adani or the govt itself. The rich guys want us to work for them to make them rich and not pay us much and are looking to replace all jobs with AI robotics. And now even females are being programmed to hate us normal avg men and not settle for us.
Thank God I was young before this social media became a thing. I feel sorry for young boys who are not rich or physically built like a wrestler. There really is no hope for them plus you got scammers like Andrew tate waiting to scam them by joining some BS course online to become alpha and get all the Kats by paying tate bros 50 dollars a month LOL.
Sorry to hear what happened to you. From her profile pic she looks like a seasoned crook. Can you share her telegram ID bro, may be someone in the forum can meet her and take it logical conclusion.
On chat and SA we agreed for 15 k short term meet. In room, we didn't do anything and she asked me if I was willing to go for long term. I refused citing incapacity and also that I wasnt looking for it. She flipped and then all the drama started. She said I wasted her time and on SA its understood its only long term. I tried reasoning with her but she was adamant. She called cops and then said I will get my friends here as well. Asked me to shell out 1 lakh as that's her monthly allowance. She claimed.
In nutshell I had to give in because this is India and woman is supreme. I could not afford a police problem. Later as I gave her last bit from ATM she called someone as asked to be picked. Thats when I realized this is some organized shit going on.
She shares very hot pics of hers on Tg and that kind of freezes your brain. She is nowhere close to 22 and is a total nutcase. She claimed her husband was abusive and she has a child for whom she is fighting custody. Showed me pictures as well. Not sure how true but the bottomline is. Avoid at all costs.
Thanks bro. Her profile says she is 38 . LOL that's Big no for me. Plus mad Hatter bro said she was married to some rich Indian dude, that shows she's mentally damaged plus a gold digger. I see many such useless kachrinas marrying rich Indian dudes and then divorcing them to get some money. This one is Just a crazy scammer ho too. If one doesn't shell out 50 k for her she would throw a scam scene too.
Kachrinas in India and Dubai into this whoring business are the worst. They are all mentally damaged plus want exorbitant amounts. Only because of their skin color as they know Desi guys have 0 self respect mostly and will pay them what they ask for their white skin.
No wonder all the white guys end up in Thailand, Japan, Korea, Phillipines even China or south america to have fun rather than to stick around with these kachrinas.
I have a European friend who was in Thailand and I shared with him contact of some russian kat in Thailand for him to meet. They guy said hell no, he'd rather smash the local Thai Kats than deal with some kachrina LOL.
Meeting kachrinas in India, Dubai South Asia is a big risk. Either be willing to pay exhortation rates they ask for or risk dealing with severely mental damaged fits of mood swings from her and they are ready to create a scene thinking the cops and legal system in India works like it does in America Europe LOL.
You are right about the vetting process on how to set up meets with the kat on sa. But.
I couldn't find any of the Kats you mentioned in Mumbai. If any bro comes across their link tof I and jitterbug then do share here with me.
You should post the links of the profiles too in your FR. Not like that would cause much p inflation as you are already paying 30 plus year old Kats 50 k. Clearly you got money to burn and you are free to do as you please with your money. Not many here though would fork out that much money for a night and the ones who would well they too would have money to burn so 50 k or 1 lakh would make no difference to them.
Personally I don't meet any kat over 28 because older than that and the chances of them having STDs, mental damage from getting smashed by a 1000 cocks. Plus I have 0 affinity for Kats over 30. I have many females over 30 hit on me in bars, online dating apps other social interactions and I always never even made a move because I believe there is no such thing as a good 30 year old p. LOL.
On chat and SA we agreed for 15 k short term meet. In room, we didn't do anything and she asked me if I was willing to go for long term. I refused citing incapacity and also that I wasnt looking for it. She flipped and then all the drama started. She said I wasted her time and on SA its understood its only long term. I tried reasoning with her but she was adamant. She called cops and then said I will get my friends here as well. Asked me to shell out 1 lakh as that's her monthly allowance. She claimed.
In nutshell I had to give in because this is India and woman is supreme. I could not afford a police problem. Later as I gave her last bit from ATM she called someone as asked to be picked. Thats when I realized this is some organized shit going on.
She shares very hot pics of hers on Tg and that kind of freezes your brain. She is nowhere close to 22 and is a total nutcase. She claimed her husband was abusive and she has a child for whom she is fighting custody. Showed me pictures as well. Not sure how true but the bottomline is. Avoid at all costs.
Sad to know bro. Really appreciate your courage to share such incident with us. It's really scary.
I know I panicked but the reason I visit chandigarh is because I am a divorcee and I for see my son. When she called the cops, I did hear the other side talking and she told them the story that she came to discuss job and then I tried to take advantage of it.
My worry was the fact that if she indeed called the cops, in India you are booked first and then rest of the things follow. I could not afford that. When you tell cops I have evidences their answer is. That is for court to decide. I have seen this happen to me during my divorce process, so just evidences don't mean much, you still have to go through lot of shit. Yes they help but that comes much later. Prior to that during our discussions I realized she has some major mental and psychological issues so I wasnt sure at that point in time if I was being scammed or she called the cops for real. Also, she said she will call her friends. What it meant for me was more trouble.
It is only when I got down to pay her remaining amount from ATM and she called someone to pick her up, I realized I have been actually scammed.
Point is, never meet someone directly in room. Meet for coffee even if it means shelling out a few thousand if you indeed like the kat so much. Lesson Learned.
So, I went to Delhi and Bombay for a 5 day pleasure trip.
Here are a few observations in general for SA in Indian.
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- A lot of the SA girls use fake pics and they are ridiculously fake. Like a fat girl using a skinny model pic kinda fake.
- You want relatively new profiles. A lot of the newer profiles will generally be girls who are not yet jaded or trying things out for the first time.
- Chatting is a hassle but take your time. I messaged over 100 girls on SA and ended up chatting on TG with about 30/40 of them. And finally met 4.
- Stick to your budget. Keep negotiations minimal. No one (client or lady) like hard negotiations and one person will always feel like the negotiations ended up screwing them.
- Connection is key. Make sure you chat about more than just the deed. If you find someone with the similar thinking and sense of humour as you, you are going to have a great time.
- Be polite and kind. If you see some of the messages the girls receive, you will understand. Polite messages stand out. Don't just say hey. They get a 100 heys a day. And 50 messages that are outright rude and nasty.
Delhi DAY 1:
Checked in to the Leela. Leela has a very good policy about guests. They don't care. And the rooms on the first floor have terraces. So its great if you are a smoker.
Met up with a couple of friends and went to a bar / club for dinner and drinks. Noticed a couple of Sugar daddys there. Older guys with young girls. The girls were very touchy feely and as a veteran in this game, I could tell what was going on. There were also a couple of guys with ladyboys. The guys were very aggressively staring at anyone who looked in their direction. There were also 2 crossdressers who were looking for guys actively.
Delhi DAY 2:
Lazing around in the hotel all morning. Then went an grabbed Kebabs from Nizammuddin. Was chatting with a couple of girls (one whose profile was "warm girlie" and the other was "Senorita" Warm girlie was supposed to meet me at 3:00 pm. But it kept running late and after 3 hours I was finally fed up and cancelled her. Messaged Senorita who said she will be able to make it there in an hour. Asked for 50 K for evening and overnight. Before I agree to anything, I always have a video call. And 3 things stood out to me. She comes from money (spoke excellent English and her place was nice), pics were accurate and the woman is classy. I can walk in to any place and not feel any shame. She quickly arrived dressed elegantly and carrying a Gucci bag and hermes scarf. We went out for dinner and drinks. Story comes out. Fiance of 6 years left her and she has to pick up her life again so is looking for fun and money to setup her new place. She was super submissive in a nice way and it was a great time.
Looks: 8/10.
Body: 6/10 (she is in her 30's but it wasn't an issue).
Attitude: 9/10.
Sex: 9/10 (very passionate and went on for about 2-3 hours with breaks in between).
WIR: hell yes (we have already made plans to meet in Dubai next month).
Bombay DAY 1.
Landed and checked in to JW Marriott in Juhu. Great property. Awesome gardens, pool and the beach right there. And if you love to celebrity watch then its the perfect place. I was checking in right next to Sir. Viv Richards and an hour later was seated in the table next to Anil Kapoor at the coffee shop. He has a huge body guard to keep people away. Was quite interesting.
I had met "I" previously. She was good fun and very gentle. In her early 20's. Asked her to come down for the evening and she popped over at 4:00 pm. Spent some time in the pool and a few drinks later, we were back in the room. As the music turned sensual, the clothes came off and we were at it on the couch and the bed and in front of the mirror. She left late at night, only because I had a breakfast meet with a couple of friends.
Looks: 7/10 (super cute with a killer smile).
Body: 6/10 (starting to work out).
Attitude: 9/10.
Sex: 8/10.
WIR: of course.
Bombay DAY 4:
Got in touch with another new profile - "jitterbug" to meet today. We had been chatting for about a month. She is from the UK, married to a rich Indian businessman. Now going through a divorce. Very English in terms of looks. Curvy (but no fat) with big boobs. Totally a MILF. Went out for dinner and drinks. Had a great time, laughing at inane things.
Spent the night with room service, champagne and a bottle of oil. Beautiful large boobs and she enjoys a bit of pain as long as there are no marks. Very loud as well, so was worried it might cause a scene. 50 K for the full night.
Looks: 6. 5/10 (but dressed well).
Body: 8/10.
Attitude: 8/10 (a bit loud in public).
Sex: 9/10 (very kinky and loved to swallow).
WIR: of course. And I already did.
Bombay DAY 3:
Had been chatting with a profile called "bla bla bla". Intelligent girl. Pics she shared were accurate. She is a model (no BS, since I work in similar industry and I saw her portfolio and most importantly. The way she walked). Almost as tall as me. Beautiful body, not an ounce of fat on it. Beautiful boobs with lovely dark nipples. She arrived at 2:00 pm, had a quick bite and we were off. Went and explored Bombay together then had dinner and went to club for drinks. She was dressed in a simple summer dress with a long slit up here leg, with nothing on underneath, so I could grope and feel her in public.
Finally got back to the room and we were at it till like 4:00 am. Slept in. And she left at 8:00 am.
Looks: 8. 5/10.
Body: 9/10.
Attitude: 9/10.
Sex: 9/10.
WIR: Fuck yes. And planning to bring her to Dubai one of these days.
Bombay DAY 4:
Had to grab the evening flight back home. So messaged the brit MILF and she popped over. We fucked like Rabbits. Then kissed and said our goodbyes. The damage this time - 0. It was a "goodbye, see you soon" fuck I assume.
Had a great time in India. Will be back there next month. I will be repeating these girls for the immediate future. Seeking has worked well for me this time.
This right here is the correct advice on how to deal with this.
Even if you don't check her in, star hotels have cameras everywhere and they can prove to the cops that the woman came here willingly and went up to the room willingly.
Also, all star hotels have dealt with these situations before. Their security teams and management teams are well versed in this. You are not the first person to be scammed in a hotel.
Sorry you went through this. I had faced something similar, so I have some knowledge of this. My learning:
If she is booked with you in the same hotel room, she cannot call cops, as she will have to explain why she was in the room with you. Cops may be corrupt, but they are not idiots. They will know exactly who she is. Seeing a prostitute is not a crime. The girl will be harassed more than you. Cops cannot even investigate a complaint unless it is a cognizable offense. (e.g Rape, stalking), which will not be applicable when she has willingly come to your hotel room. What will she tell the cops? That she's a working girl and the client has not paid?
Ideally, check her in with you. That's proof she has taken a conscious decision to meet you. If she isn't checked in, you met her on a dating app. (keep screenshot of her profile and chat). She met you for a drink (make sure you are seen) and decided to hook up. If you publicly call someone a prostitute you can be booked. Let people infer that.
Keep screenshot of the chat, where there is proof she is seeking money for sex (e.g my charges are...) and performs explicit deeds. Don't retain the part where you have agreed to anything. That way, if she deletes the chat, you have proof. If she threatens to call the cops, tell her you will file charges of a false case, criminal intimidation and extortion. You are going to leave town but she will be tied up in the police case for years.
Use either a star hotel, or one where you are a known guest, so the hotel will protect you and not help her. The reputed hotels know what to do in such cases
If I am a visitor to the city, I prefer not to meet local girls, who may have connections in the city. Its not possible to verify what thy tell you, but the chat before the meet, should give some clues.
I don't pay every girl I meet 50 K. I pay what I think they deserve. If the girl is well educated and presentable and articulate, my budget gets bigger. In India, I find a lot of girls are ones I do not want to be seen with, at the kind of places I like to hang out in.
I got Jitterbug & bla bla spelling wrong, it should be "Jitterbugg" and "blah blah blah". You will find her. And "I" has already deleted her profile a couple of weeks ago after a couple of insane experiences. She met me as I had met her in December.
As for 30 yr old? In find that most 30 yr old women are better in bed than most 20 yr olds. They are more confident and know exactly what they like. If your vetting process is good, you end up finding divorcees and or women who don't get attention. The attention and kindness you give is appreciated and reciprocated. Case in point, the freeby morning fun I had with jitterbugg.
You are right about the vetting process on how to set up meets with the kat on sa. But.
I couldn't find any of the Kats you mentioned in Mumbai. If any bro comes across their link tof I and jitterbug then do share here with me.
You should post the links of the profiles too in your FR. Not like that would cause much p inflation as you are already paying 30 plus year old Kats 50 k. Clearly you got money to burn and you are free to do as you please with your money. Not many here though would fork out that much money for a night and the ones who would well they too would have money to burn so 50 k or 1 lakh would make no difference to them.
Personally I don't meet any kat over 28 because older than that and the chances of them having STDs, mental damage from getting smashed by a 1000 cocks. Plus I have 0 affinity for Kats over 30. I have many females over 30 hit on me in bars, online dating apps other social interactions and I always never even made a move because I believe there is no such thing as a good 30 year old p. LOL.
Very sad to hear what you went through. I would say - Never trust anyone who has created her profile 1-2 days back. In this case. I can see she created her profile on Jan 28 and you posted on Jan 31. Such new profiles have a higher chance of scamming. My $0.02 advice.
The link you posted is not correct. It is a link for messages. Here is the profile link for the same girl - https://members.seeking.com/member/fe421803-388a-4f54-9e59-0456c41c01c0
I still see the profile is active. Everyone should report such profiles, so that at-least she can’t use same profile/id to scam.