Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

**HituMonger** · 02-02-23 05:51

Originally Posted by Phil50 [View Original Post]

My preference is for those who have a regular job. They understand the value of money. They are not dependent on whoring for their income and have limited time to see clients. If their ask is reasonable, it means that they look for things other than money (just as I look for things other than their body) in deciding on a SA partner, which suits me.

This is very good observation and mostly true.

**Cvvv21** · 02-02-23 05:25

Can someone know me how to pay tp gal? I mean cash or online? If we pay online then there is a chance to open our identity. Confused. If someone give me light appreciate it.

Thanks.

**Phil50** · 02-02-23 04:44

There are 2 points of view on women above 30. I see 2 women above 40, with whom I have known for years and have a great experience (neither is on SA now). I look for a GFE. If we go out together people assume she's my attractive spouse, which is important to me.

I however agree with the point that if a large no of guys have banged a Kat, she will be too jaded and cynical to give you the right experience. The indicator for me is the time spent on SA.
I avoid someone who has joined over a year ago. Irrespective of age, because by then they become seasoned and jaded. If someone has joined several months ago and is frequently online, particularly late nights, she is most likely a pro. I have seen 19 y.o Kats going to cute & innocent to very cynical and nasty bitches a year after being on SA.

My preference is for those who have a regular job. They understand the value of money. They are not dependent on whoring for their income and have limited time to see clients. If their ask is reasonable, it means that they look for things other than money (just as I look for things other than their body) in deciding on a SA partner, which suits me.

**Phil50** · 02-02-23 04:32

Originally Posted by Vj202 [View Original Post]

I got message from her although I am in Mumbai. She is willing to come to Mumbai.

I just had small chat to see what she says. Don't want to play along.

If the Chandigarh girl is willing to come to Mumbai, its probably a pimp / scammer, with girls in each city and some local goon to collect the money.

One clue is when the profile keeps changing location, or you see the same profile pic across locations with different ID.

The genuine girls who are willing to travel to you (assuming you are paying standard rates) are from small towns, where there are no mongers with money.

**Funjabi81** · 02-01-23 20:17

Bro,

Your post gave me goosebumps, 2 days back she had first texted me & today itself she told me to chat over tele or wp. Luckily I didn't go ahead and opened ISG. Otherwise it's a uncontrollable thing. Luckily you got out because your pocket allowed you to pay from ATM, people like me sometimes don't hold so much cash in Savings Account. Just reported her profile & deactivated mine. Still can't believe what happened with you. Whatever advice seniors have given should be really look forward to. Attaching my 2 lines chat screenshot. God Bless.

Originally Posted by SexDivine78 [View Original Post]

Hi guys,

Avoid the following profile at all costs.

https://members.seeking.com/messages...5-452defef8aea - Msmrizin. Goes by the name of Shristi Sharma. I am not from Chandigarh and visit it for personal reasons.

On chat and SA we agreed for 15 k short term meet. In room, we didn't do anything and she asked me if I was willing to go for long term. I refused citing incapacity and also that I wasnt looking for it. She flipped and the n all the drama started. She said I wasted her time and on SA its understood its only long term. I tried reasoning with her but she was adamant. She called cops and then said I will get my friends here as well. Asked me to shell out 1 lakh as that's her monthly allowance. She claimed.

In nutshell I had to give in because this is India and woman is supreme. I could not afford a police problem. Later as I gave her last bit from ATM she called someone as asked to be picked. Thats when I realized this is some organized shit going on.

She shares very hot pics of hers on Tg and that kind of freezes your brain. She is nowhere close to 22 and is a total nutcase. She claimed her husband was abusive and she has a child for whom she is fighting custody. Showed me pictures as well. Not sure how true but the bottomline is. Avoid at all costs.

**MySecretLife** · 02-01-23 19:19

When I interacted with her, allowance expectation was high for initial PPM. Also, she was very pushy about long term. I didn't continue the conversation.

Originally Posted by JON1987 [View Original Post]

Any reviews on Bangalore profile Buttercup.

https://members.seeking.com/messages...7-163458e895cb

Will appreciate feedback.

**Vj202** · 02-01-23 18:04

I got message from her although I am in Mumbai. She is willing to come to Mumbai.

I just had small chat to see what she says. Don't want to play along.

Originally Posted by SexDivine78 [View Original Post]

Phil50 and Shukracharya.

Bros thank you for replying.

I know I panicked but the reason I visit chandigarh is because I am a divorcee and I for see my son. When she called the cops, I did hear the other side talking and she told them the story that she came to discuss job and then I tried to take advantage of it.

My worry was the fact that if she indeed called the cops, in India you are booked first and then rest of the things follow. I could not afford that. When you tell cops I have evidences their answer is. That is for court to decide. I have seen this happen to me during my divorce process, so just evidences don't mean much, you still have to go through lot of shit. Yes they help but that comes much later. Prior to that during our discussions I realized she has some major mental and psychological issues so I wasnt sure at that point in time if I was being scammed or she called the cops for real. Also, she said she will call her friends. What it meant for me was more trouble.

It is only when I got down to pay her remaining amount from ATM and she called someone to pick her up, I realized I have been actually scammed.

Point is, never meet someone directly in room. Meet for coffee even if it means shelling out a few thousand if you indeed like the kat so much. Lesson Learned.

**XxxJk18** · 02-01-23 17:47

In Chennai its one of three.

Married chubby aunties.

Single chubby aunties or girls.

Escorts who confuse with pics

Originally Posted by MayanKanand [View Original Post]

Anyone has had an experience with her? Plays hide and seek and comes off as GPS.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...e-bc626f288c0a

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**HituMonger** · 02-01-23 17:35

Originally Posted by SexDivine78 [View Original Post]

Phil50 and Shukracharya.

Bros thank you for replying.

I know I panicked but the reason I visit chandigarh is because I am a divorcee and I for see my son. When she called the cops, I did hear the other side talking and she told them the story that she came to discuss job and then I tried to take advantage of it.

My worry was the fact that if she indeed called the cops, in India you are booked first and then rest of the things follow. I could not afford that. When you tell cops I have evidences their answer is. That is for court to decide. I have seen this happen to me during my divorce process, so just evidences don't mean much, you still have to go through lot of shit. Yes they help but that comes much later. Prior to that during our discussions I realized she has some major mental and psychological issues so I wasnt sure at that point in time if I was being scammed or she called the cops for real. Also, she said she will call her friends. What it meant for me was more trouble.

It is only when I got down to pay her remaining amount from ATM and she called someone to pick her up, I realized I have been actually scammed.

Point is, never meet someone directly in room. Meet for coffee even if it means shelling out a few thousand if you indeed like the kat so much. Lesson Learned.

You did what best you could do in the situation. Take it as experience and forget incident. You are safe that's what matters in the end.

**JON1987** · 02-01-23 16:49

Any reviews on Bangalore profile Buttercup.

https://members.seeking.com/messages...7-163458e895cb

Will appreciate feedback.

**MayanKanand** · 02-01-23 14:47

Anyone has had an experience with her? Plays hide and seek and comes off as GPS.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...e-bc626f288c0a

**Mad Hatter** · 02-01-23 14:38

Hey man,

What happened to you was super fucked up. In that situation, with the knowledge you had what you did was for the best. Chalk it up to experience.

If there is a next time, start recording the incident with your phone immediately. Uploading it all to the cloud. Take down Phil50's advice. Once the girl comes back to the hotel, you are in the position of power.

And worst case scenario. Absolutely worst case. Do not do this if you can avoid it. If she says she is going to accuse you of rape. Calmly say, since you are going to accuse me, I might as well do it. This happened to me once many years ago. I said something similar in response to her trying to scam me, and the whole thing changed. She got scared and asked to leave. I still feel kinda bad about it. But you are opening up a world of shit if this backfires.

Originally Posted by SexDivine78 [View Original Post]

Thanks bro. It wasnt courage but more the urge to let as many people know as I can. Such women deserve the darkest hell.

**SexDivine78** · 02-01-23 14:06

Originally Posted by VickyVerma [View Original Post]

Sad to know bro. Really appreciate your courage to share such incident with us. It's really scary.

Thanks bro. It wasnt courage but more the urge to let as many people know as I can. Such women deserve the darkest hell.

**SexDivine78** · 02-01-23 14:04

Telegram ID. Enigmatic_lov3.

Originally Posted by Eagur [View Original Post]

Sorry to hear what happened to you. From her profile pic she looks like a seasoned crook. Can you share her telegram ID bro, may be someone in the forum can meet her and take it logical conclusion.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...9-0456c41c01c0

**Shukracharya** · 02-01-23 10:18

Ok bro, it's all about the experience one wants, I get that. You like the well spoken, well presented Kats. Who doesn't? And you are willing to pay them for that experience as you see fit. That's completely your choice.

Personally I wouldn't pay any kat 50 k even if she spoke Shakespeare's English with me LOL. Maybe that's because I'm cheap as I have to work real hard to make money bro.

The more women I have been around with I have realised they just don't a f about anything. They are always playing games, manipulations to extract something out of the guy and are always pretending to be a certain way they think the guy wants them to be. Basically females are just pretending most of the time. You get to see their real nature when you are fighting them in court LOL.

Originally Posted by MadHatter [View Original Post]

I don't pay every girl I meet 50 K. I pay what I think they deserve. If the girl is well educated and presentable and articulate, my budget gets bigger. In India, I find a lot of girls are ones I do not want to be seen with, at the kind of places I like to hang out in.

I got Jitterbug & bla bla spelling wrong, it should be "Jitterbugg" and "blah blah blah". You will find her. And "I" has already deleted her profile a couple of weeks ago after a couple of insane experiences. She met me as I had met her in December.

As for 30 yr old? In find that most 30 yr old women are better in bed than most 20 yr olds. They are more confident and know exactly what they like. If your vetting process is good, you end up finding divorcees and or women who don't get attention. The attention and kindness you give is appreciated and reciprocated. Case in point, the freeby morning fun I had with jitterbugg.