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[LatinaLover#1]

With this you just proved exactly my point. He knew better, and that it's about the money, but then he convinced himself of the big lie (it's about love) and went and did what he did anyway. His situation was going to be the exception, or so he thought. Played with fire and got burned!

Exactly, anytime you start feeling your special, run and never see her again.

[The Cane]

He always knew it was about the money but this one time he let his guard down and that's all she wrote. We have to constantly repeat to ourselves, we're in it for the pussy, she's in it for the money. They think they are having a love affair, falling in love together. Hopefully, when it blows up, and it will, they learn their lesson.

With this you just proved exactly my point. He knew better, and that it's about the money, but then he convinced himself of the big lie (it's about love) and went and did what he did anyway. His situation was going to be the exception, or so he thought. Played with fire and got burned!

[LatinaLover#1]

We all get it. We all know. It's just those fools who somehow manage to convince themselves that "this time" it's different. That their situation happens to be the exception. Yeah, well maybe it is. But then again it probably isn't!

Most get it, at least after some chic cleans their clock. I have a friend, a retired commercial Pilot, had a long and prosperous career. Probably fucked more pussy in his life then you and me put together. BUT he met this one garota in Santos, she opened his nose and he went for the apartment, the furniture the whole nine yards. They were to move in together bla bla bla. Then he went back to the states for 3 days, Returned to Brazil, went to meet her at the apartment and the locks were changed, she moved her whole family in AND her long time boyfriend. He always knew it was about the money but this one time he let his guard down and that's all she wrote. We have to constantly repeat to ourselves, we're in it for the pussy, she's in it for the money. I know of guys, on this board who are paying 300 400 USD per meet for these girls, send them flowers and gifts They think they are having a love affair, Falling in love together Hopefully, when it blows up, and it will, they learn their lesson.

[Mr Enternational]

I think he thought keeping her on the luxury lifestyle will keep her for him only. Leaked whatsapp messages between dj and her other female friend says he want to get married and feels he has been used because the dj didn't even want to kiss him, and that she had to acted. Also they both were on tinder looking to meet people and also looked like the dj had a couple more gringos in her pocket. She had some more gringo sponsors but they do no want to be in the news spotlight. In the end the shit is sad and tragic.

To me the shit is funny on all sides. You play with people's emotions and use them for money then you get what you get. You think an obvious hooker is yours then you deserve to be ripped off.

[The Cane]

BUT some guys just don't get it.

YOU can buy pussy but YOU CAN'T BUY LOVE!

We all get it. We all know. It's just those fools who somehow manage to convince themselves that "this time" it's different. That their situation happens to be the exception. Yeah, well maybe it is. But then again it probably isn't!

[JustTK]

Homicide is the case: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...ate-Union.html.

Valentina Trespalacios. What a name.

[Cursnoop]

That is why my definition of non-pro or girlfriend is different from a lot of other guys on here. It means I do not give them money. Chicks that are not hookers do not even ask me for $2, while other mfs are handing out $1000 at a time! I have never been a baller because ballers get used. I can't imagine having to go to work so I can be pimped by some broad for $1000. It was his own fault. Some dudes get pussy and forget how to say no.

To me the story sounded ridiculous to begin with. You are a DJ and you need to pay $1000 to go to work. If that was remotely true there would be thousands of openings for DJs in Colombia. Reminds me of a story in Thailand where a guy helped his girl start a baked goods business. He bought $30 worth of stuff for her to get started. She sold the baked goods outside of the grocery store and made $10. Same thing the next day. He buys the stuff. She makes it and sells it. To her the business is doing good because she is making $10 everyday. She gives a fuck about the $30 he is spending so she can make the $10. I would have told her if you don't have the $1000 that it takes, sounds like you can not afford to be a DJ.

The more I read the news report the stranger it gets.

The thing is the relationship started as sugardaddy, he invited her without ever seeing her to go to vacation with him.

(source hes own twitter https://twitter.com/ptrain67/status/...651074/photo/1).

I think he thought keeping her on the luxury lifestyle will keep her for him only. Leaked whatsapp messages between dj and her other female friend says he want to get married and feels he has been used because the dj didn't even want to kiss him, and that she had to acted. Also they both were on tinder looking to meet people and also looked like the dj had a couple more gringos in her pocket. She had some more gringo sponsors but they do no want to be in the news spotlight. In the end the shit is sad and tragic.

[Cursnoop]

BUT some guys just don't get it.

YOU can buy pussy but YOU CAN'T BUY LOVE!

That's true, don't mix love for paid sex or paid attention. I know we all like to bang some girl but I don't wave them. I pay them, fuck them, kick them out. I might take them to dinner If I want to eat somewhere and do not have someone else to go with but I tell them it is just I do not have anyone to go with and do no want to go alone and I do that with the ones that are willing and not the ones that ask to be paid to go out to eat.

[TjBrazil]

It's pretty freaking dangerous to advertise that you have 1000 to constantly give a hooker with no immediate sex in return in a place where a really nice apartment can be had for 500.00. 1000 is a lot in America much less Colombia or Brazil. Never give a hooker money when you are in the US. Never! Ever! She will look at you as a gullible mark for sending her money from the states.

It's like that black dude from 90 day fiancé who was a manicurist and sent over 40 k to a Ukrainian hottie who he never met in person. He was working his ass off cleaning nails and feet and sending it to this scammer. I hate to see nice guys like him get taken advantage of. Sure, we have to accept when we visit these mongering destinations that we will get scammed a few dollars here and there from taxis and bartenders, servers, but it's such a small amount I count is as cost of doing business as a gringo, but losing thousands is not a small cost of doing business.

[Mr Enternational]

Of course she was there for the money, he thought with money he was controlling and keeping her for himself but she had a dude that she paid with his money. Thats why I keep telling guys. More money does not get you respect, they are just using you.

That is why my definition of non-pro or girlfriend is different from a lot of other guys on here. It means I do not give them money. Chicks that are not hookers do not even ask me for $2, while other mfs are handing out $1000 at a time! I have never been a baller because ballers get used. I can't imagine having to go to work so I can be pimped by some broad for $1000. It was his own fault. Some dudes get pussy and forget how to say no.

To me the story sounded ridiculous to begin with. You are a DJ and you need to pay $1000 to go to work. If that was remotely true there would be thousands of openings for DJs in Colombia. Reminds me of a story in Thailand where a guy helped his girl start a baked goods business. He bought $30 worth of stuff for her to get started. She sold the baked goods outside of the grocery store and made $10. Same thing the next day. He buys the stuff. She makes it and sells it. To her the business is doing good because she is making $10 everyday. She gives a fuck about the $30 he is spending so she can make the $10. I would have told her if you don't have the $1000 that it takes, sounds like you can not afford to be a DJ.

[LatinaLover#1]

Of course she was there for the money, he thought with money he was controlling and keeping her for himself but she had a dude that she paid with his money. Thats why I keep telling guys. More money does not get you respect, they are just using you.

BUT some guys just don't get it.

YOU can buy pussy but YOU CAN'T BUY LOVE!

[Fun Luvr]

He was scoped and died inside a La 70 area bar in Laureles.

https://m.elcolombiano.com/antioquia...-70-OI20284659

If it's the bar in the photo with the story, that's a ripoff joint. They have a few women in there to entice guys to enter. At night, there's usually a barker on LA70 approaching guys to get them to go into the bar. A couple of years ago, I went in and had one beer and found out what they were doing. I doubt the priest went there with a date or had a pre-planned meeting with a woman. I imagine he was enticed to enter, and then the sharks took over.

[Cursnoop]

Look at him and look at her. Very doubtful she was a real girlfriend and what was he doing with her anyway unless he was divorced from his wife the mother of his son who beat cancer? There's a million stories in the Naked City and this is just one of them.

Of course she was there for the money, he thought with money he was controlling and keeping her for himself but she had a dude that she paid with his money. Thats why I keep telling guys. More money does not get you respect, they are just using you.

[MongerHunger]

Just saw this covered on YouTube and the guy said it was scopolamine.

Yep. He got "Scoped" aka Scopolamine.

[JjBee62]

Run this story by the geniuses on the board who constantly downplay the dangers in Colombia.

It highlights something I said long ago and more than once. Colombians are friendly, but that doesn't make them your friends. Look at what the bartender did. He saw a guy passed out and just dragged him outside. If he had called the cops or an ambulance right away the guy might have survived.

Here are things to consider.

Did the 2 enter the bar together? Or did they meet at the bar? Was it an arranged meeting, or did the guy just approach the priest and strike up a conversation?

My gut says it was an arranged meeting, a date, whether for sex or just social contact. Not speaking ill of the dead, but he wouldn't be the first priest who didn't keep a vow of chastity.

3 possibilities I can think of.

1. It was a Tinder or Grinder date, just like most of the scopings. They meet, talk, have a drink. Game over.

2. The victim was seen drinking alone in a bar, was approached, more drinks and drugged.

3. They had met earlier and it was a setup to rob him.

When you're drinking in public, or drinking with someone, watch your drink as if your life depends on it. Don't drink too much. Drink slowly. At the first sign you're not feeling right, stop and get to a safe place. And whenever you're out you should be looking for safe places. Police posts are obvious, but consider pharmacies. Go in, say you're sick and ask for an ambulance, if you think you've been drugged.

Almost every 1 of the scopings can be avoided. Treat it like crossing the street. Whether you're crossing the street alone, with strangers or friends, you need to look before you cross.