Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

**Ronnieggn** · 03-02-23 04:55

Hello brothers,

I have been mongering for years now primarily with sp and Indies in NCR.

Have always been craving for true non pro so now thinking of SA membership.

Any suggestions of it's worth paying 7 k for a month? My usual budget is 15 k for a month which is quite good for general mongering.

**Phil50** · 03-02-23 04:21

Originally Posted by IndianPikachu [View Original Post]

To be fairly honest, It goes both ways. A lot of girls too will see a man advertising himself as sugar daddy would be fake.

1) going to clubs wearing expensive clothes (branded AF), giving a chill vibe will almost always attract a drunk 20 yo girl to you. Girl who would want to have fun, or would want money eitherways.

2) Since you are introverted and careful, dating apps would be safer but obviously lesser chances. Tinder is fake in India, maybe try Bumble. Remember you only need to get it right once. Scammers are on SA too, use the same vetting techniques on SA as on Bumble.

3) You may actually find girls who may be into you for you, not for the money or maybe a bit of both. Thats still 100 times better, that going for P*why that has been smashed a 100 times, and bends for money and nothing else.

Sugar dating is meant to be fun, exciting, it isn't center around money, but in India it just seems more so like a elite escorting website. A lot of girls even then suck, since they are mechanical, and I can hardly call them elite.

I have tried Tinder, Bumble and all the other dating apps. SA, for all its shortcomings, particularly in India, is still the best option if you are an older rich person and do not have the time to go after many girls, in the hope of finding that one person who is into older men, with money being of secondary importance.

I don't date anyone I work with. These are the type most likely to be drawn to a successful mature person, they know is not fake. I have no problem getting an attractive former employee half my age, to join me for a dinner date, but that isn't going to move to a sugar relationship.

I look for a long term sugar daddy relationship. Some of mine have lasted over 5 years and I agree that SA is now more of a high class escort site (though many are just cheap hookers).

**RoniG** · 03-01-23 17:54

Originally Posted by Ravik5932 [View Original Post]

It happened with me also. First SA does not accept debit card. Most likely reason you are not able to make payment is that SA monthly payment is recurring payment and RBI prohibited recurring payments using cards. So most banks like HDFC, Citibank etc are not allowing such payments. Friends managed to make payment using ICICI cards. So you open another SA account using different user name and pay with ICICI account. Best of luck.

Debit card works for me. Faced no issues with Axis. I take subscription and cancel recurring payment. Works for renewing subscription too.

**DevSagar** · 03-01-23 16:18

Having my cup of strong tea while dipping my digestive biscuits, I mull over today's incidents; realize that nature has its own way of balancing things to keep a check. I type this with a gloomy face and a frown on my head, replaying the sequence of events in my head again and again to the shit that I've encountered today.

I got in touch with a 23 year old NE in November 22 and couldn't meet her due to my hectic schedule and travels. Restarted the chat in Feb and desired my wish to meet her. I always meet in noon time which was duly confirmed by the chick. Monday she confirmed me the time of 1 PM and my first target is to get the chick's number so that chat is shifted to whatsapp. It gives me a direct access to the chick, I am not a fan of tg, hate it. Got her number and started the chat on whatsapp. Everything done, sorted and good to go. Booked Holiday Inn Aerocity for day time occupancy. Although, it is far off from where I stay in South Delhi but the 5 star prices which were my regular hotels are hitting the roof viz Eros Nehru Place, Crown Plaza Okhla; fucked many chicks in these two properties in the last 3 years, but now Crazy tariffs. The chick informed me that she wakes up around 8. 30/9 am so I don't have to worry. I had a hint of doubt because normally NE chicks are late risers. And my fears turned out to be true. I desperately tried to contact her from 10 am to 2 PM but no response. My calls went unanswered. I had resigned to the fact that I have been let down although till around 11 PM on Monday she was on chat and had assured me of her arrival on time. In fact, we had even decided that I would send her a cab for Defence Colony market and then we would go together to the property. Was sad and disappointed but not angry because I know in mongering it happens. My mood was off and decided that I'd finally go to my office. I know I know that should have called her over first for coffee or a drink and then book the property but sometimes you got to take the risk. My decision backfired; its ok. Happened after a long time. Have been having it pretty easy in the last few months; good to learn my lesson and be on my toes.

I have a couple of regulars and I had not met them since 4/5 months. Pinged 3 girls at around 2 PM as wanted to use my hotel money; which in hindsight now was a foolish decision. Should have moved on and let it go. I got ready for office and departed since till around 2. 30 no chick responded. Suddenly at 2.45 one chick confirmed that she would reach the hotel at around 3. 15 PM. Midway to my office, I diverted my car towards aerocity as if I had won some kind of lottery with a mighty smile on my face. The 2nd chick also pinged that she was sleeping and if I want could come over. Man, if I had not confirmed to chick 1, would surely have called No. 2 over. She has always been my go to chick since 3 years. 3 PM the NE also pinged and apologized that she was disturbed last night and slept only in the morning; hence, missed the alarm and my calls. She was lying as I saw the chats later on and noticed that she always used to ping me around this time only. In fact, sleeps in the morning and wakes up in noon. Proposed that she could join me but I had already written in the chat that I had left for office, lost 4 K of hotel money and my whole day wasted. Plus, had confirmed to the chick 1. Instead of coming at 3. 15, she came at 5. 15 and I was raging mad and furious at her. Informed me of drama at home which got her delayed. She smelled of sweat. Horny fucker that I am, got really rough with her, pinched her tits hard and was hell bent to make her pussy suffer. I couldn't fuck her and had a BJ with CIM. I Rushed to washroom and had a nice shower. She had her red wine and I made myself a cup of coffee. Told her that it is a day time booking and I was not in the mood or zone for a second session. Told her to take the bottle of wine and checked out with her; dropped her closer to her home on my way to my residence.

It was really a horrible experience, money and whole day wasted without being satisfied. Aerocity to South Delhi took me full one hour during peak hour traffic. Really need to find a decent property around Greater Kailash area. Although, last Thursday had met another 22 year old chick after 5 months which was indeed a pleasurable outing. Spent 4 hours with her, dropped her at a metro station; next day apologized with the message that she panicked because if she doesn't reach home by 6 PM, her father visits in the library to check upon her. Gosh, love these kinds of girls. Told her not to worry as she can make it up to me next time.

Meanwhile, have connected with another NE on Sunday and chat started on tg. She stays in Safdarjung, is a copy editor. I told her looking for a sugarbabe wherein she informed me that I should look for a young girl as she is 39. Gave her the standard response of age is just a number blah blah shit. The intention is clearly to get laid as she's a beach bum, is pretty, super fit and pics shared especially the one in bikini are rubbed onto my upper head and my lower head is craving to go in for the kill. Will keep the gents updated on her. She is only free on Sundays and is taking a bit slow. I am consoling the lower head that Patience has its rewards.

My mongering expenditure has gone up since Dec onward, no regrets as last 3 months have been fucken bliss.

Yes, shit happens with everyone and I was the chosen one on Tuesday.

Happy fucks to everyone.

**Indian Pikachu** · 03-01-23 12:47

Its too bad I don't fit her age criteria. I haven't seen anyone have depth in their profiles in India. Reading it feels like a good connection. Yes I am that half-romantic type in a controlled setting. However, kinda makes me wonder if she means what she wrote. I say so, because she said she loves long-term connections, and here she is offering herself for a one-time fling. Mood buzz-kill.

Originally Posted by MadHatter [View Original Post]

She asked for 30 K when I was last in Bombay. Didn't meet her though.

**Indian Pikachu** · 03-01-23 11:55

To be fairly honest, It goes both ways. A lot of girls too will see a man advertising himself as sugar daddy would be fake. I made a few assumptions. The first being you are older men, with a good level of financial game, way higher than the average Indian standard. I also believe a lot of you are of the shy, less out-going introverted nature. Since you do have the kind of wealth, I would assume you are based in the urban rich category preferably in the metro cities.

1) going to clubs wearing expensive clothes (branded AF), giving a chill vibe will almost always attract a drunk 20 yo girl to you. Girl who would want to have fun, or would want money eitherways.

2) Since you are introverted and careful, dating apps would be safer but obviously lesser chances. Tinder is fake in India, maybe try Bumble. Remember you only need to get it right once. Scammers are on SA too, use the same vetting techniques on SA as on Bumble.

3) You may actually find girls who may be into you for you, not for the money or maybe a bit of both. Thats still 100 times better, that going for P*why that has been smashed a 100 times, and bends for money and nothing else.

Sugar dating is meant to be fun, exciting, it isn't center around money, but in India it just seems more so like a elite escorting website. A lot of girls even then suck, since they are mechanical, and I can hardly call them elite.

Originally Posted by RajfrLuv [View Original Post]

I agree with some of this possibility in India though not very very common. I tried this and did get some decent matches. Met a few too and what I found that they were far vfm than SA girls. Only thing is that if you put a tag of sugar dad in the profile there is a high risk of inviting scammers too who are many on tinder too.

I had a wonderful experience with a good looking NE and one NI too. In the first case, the babe was only interested in good drinks and place to party whereas the NI kat asked for paid fun upfront with a night like for 10 k. Repeated both of them till I got too saturated with them LOL. The NE kat later joined SA and washing for a bomb who I fucked for just drinks LOL.

All about timing and your luck on these sites too.

**Harry35** · 03-01-23 10:02

Originally Posted by SexDivine78 [View Original Post]

Hi guys,

Avoid the following profile at all costs.

https://members.seeking.com/messages...5-452defef8aea - Msmrizin. Goes by the name of Shristi Sharma. I am not from Chandigarh and visit it for personal reasons.

On chat and SA we agreed for 15 k short term meet. In room, we didn't do anything and she asked me if I was willing to go for long term. I refused citing incapacity and also that I wasnt looking for it. She flipped and then all the drama started. She said I wasted her time and on SA its understood its only long term. I tried reasoning with her but she was adamant. She called cops and then said I will get my friends here as well. Asked me to shell out 1 lakh as that's her monthly allowance. She claimed.

In nutshell I had to give in because this is India and woman is supreme. I could not afford a police problem. Later as I gave her last bit from ATM she called someone as asked to be picked. Thats when I realized this is some organized shit going on.

She shares very hot pics of hers on Tg and that kind of freezes your brain. She is nowhere close to 22 and is a total nutcase. She claimed her husband was abusive and she has a child for whom she is fighting custody. Showed me pictures as well. Not sure how true but the bottomline is. Avoid at all costs.

This is going on a lot in CHD. Something like this happened to me as well. Where they sent me pics of pulis station, pulis jeeps, pulis ids and a lot other things. They also do a video call so that we agree that he is actually a polc guy in contact with several girl scammers. They show the pulis station in VC but now as I am out of that shit, I realise that he was playing a video. But it really looks very real. I got a doubt when the so called pulis guy asked me to transfer money in upi. Called mony as apples. At the end I started chalenging them and made a fool out of them by sitting home and calling them at different places around tricity to collect Muny as I was assured after few days that this is a scam. LOL 😅.

**FreshMeat258** · 03-01-23 08:07

Originally Posted by CoolDumble [View Original Post]

Happened to me a couple of years back. Pre covid. They were fairly responsive and sorted it. My payment kept failing and SA kept on getting locked. But finally we sorted it.

What did you use to make payment. I have tried like 3 different cards.

**CoolDumble** · 03-01-23 05:58

Originally Posted by SexDivine78 [View Original Post]

Be very careful bro. If you can screw her happiness in anyway, go for it.

No time or energy for that. Blocked her immidiately.

**CoolDumble** · 03-01-23 05:56

Originally Posted by FreshMeat258 [View Original Post]

Hi brothers,

I was trying to buy premium and my account got suspended for some reason.

Any clue what would have happened? First couple of cards did t work and when I tried again it locked me out.

Anyone else face this? I have written to support but no idea how long will it take. Or even if I ll get my account back.

Happened to me a couple of years back. Pre covid. They were fairly responsive and sorted it. My payment kept failing and SA kept on getting locked. But finally we sorted it.

**Ravik5932** · 03-01-23 05:50

Originally Posted by FreshMeat258 [View Original Post]

Hi brothers,

I was trying to buy premium and my account got suspended for some reason.

Any clue what would have happened? First couple of cards did t work and when I tried again it locked me out.

Anyone else face this? I have written to support but no idea how long will it take. Or even if I ll get my account back.

It happened with me also. First SA does not accept debit card. Most likely reason you are not able to make payment is that SA monthly payment is recurring payment and RBI prohibited recurring payments using cards. So most banks like HDFC, Citibank etc are not allowing such payments. Friends managed to make payment using ICICI cards. So you open another SA account using different user name and pay with ICICI account. Best of luck.

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**Phil50** · 03-01-23 04:00

Originally Posted by Aarun21 [View Original Post]

From my fair bit of experience in SA, this is a filtration criteria I've made that I don't entertain profiles which 1st approaches me.

I do the same. Unless your profile is very well written and you mention something that matches what she is looking for, the only people who message you first, are those escorting full time (or their pimps). A giveaway is a message with a 'Hi' without even reading your profile.

Its a strategy designed to attract newbies or the desperate, who will then be asked for more than the market rate.

**Harry35** · 02-28-23 17:14

Hello friend,

Need some good and classy digits of Chandigarh SA. Please help. A chd born and brought up guy but very new to all this. I can reciprocate with few good things in chd & bom.

PM. Waiting eagerly.

**Daft Fuzz** · 02-28-23 16:13

An absolute stunner, based on the pix she shared with me. So good that I felt maybe the pix and reels are fake.

Is into BDSM. But I had to take my leave when she quoted 75 k for an evening.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...a-4b6048ae4c21

DF.