Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[Christmas Tre]

Thank you for sharing this with us Phil. It is important that everyone knows that there are bad days too.

This is a stark reminder that such things can happen to the best of us. After mongering 15 odd years I am always wary about the scam and am sure as I continue to monger, I will be scammed occasionally.

These girls spend their entire day working on how to scam. They absolutely know where our soft spots are and hit home.

Time and again, we lay down the rules and we break them. In my last report, I posted about this girl who claimed to be a model from punjab but was actually a mother. I couldn't figure out the belly because she wore something loose to cover it. She asked for the money up front. Its something I don't do but here she was in my room and on that occasion I could not think of a post partum belly as my downfall.

There have been times when my brain has worked instead of my dick. I have booked the hotel and then the girl will start her demands thinking I won't cancel now. But I have gone ahead and done so and gotten another girl over. Recently, I almost got stuck with a GPS but called it off when I was halfway to her apartment to bang her at 10 pm in the night.

The red flags stated repeatedly in this forum are almost always true. I have used them with great precision and never had any regret. However, on occasion I have thought with my dick, ignored the red flag and have regretted it.

I wonder if we should create a 'SA Toolkit' listing these red flags based on all the scams we have faced on SA.

Folks, I've been on SA 9 years. I thought I could identify scams, but just fell for one. Its worth sharing as a reminder not to think with our dick and stick to rules.

She was on SA be'lore, ID = Dion (now de-activated). I can share her tg ID in a PM.
Joined on 8 Apr (she might change ID with the same joining date).
I can share her name and QR code in google pay, in a private mail.

We messaged, she ticked all the boxes. I look for educated people (full sentences that make sense with no grammar errors) for a long term relationship.

She was very pretty in pics (not escorty), which reminded me of a previous SB. I start any possible arrangement with a casual 'meet and greet' for which I only pay cab.
This weeds out most of the scammers and working girls. She agreed to the terms and I suggested a lunch meet in a 5 star, which she agreed.

[HighEndFella]

Hi Everyone,

Any review / report on this MILF?

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She is asking 12 k for 2 ? And not going below that.

I love milfs. Please suggest.

Thanks in Advance.

[Lged821]

I never ever pay for cab this way. Yes most SB's are genuine when they ask for cab fare but what I do is, I get them cab with advance fare with OLA postpaid.

I send them screenshot and tell them you don't need to pay cash.

Folks, I've been on SA 9 years. I thought I could identify scams, but just fell for one. Its worth sharing as a reminder not to think with our dick and stick to rules.

She was on SA be'lore, ID = Dion (now de-activated). I can share her tg ID in a PM.
Joined on 8 Apr (she might change ID with the same joining date).
I can share her name and QR code in google pay, in a private mail.

We messaged, she ticked all the boxes. I look for educated people (full sentences that make sense with no grammar errors) for a long term relationship.

She was very pretty in pics (not escorty), which reminded me of a previous SB. I start any possible arrangement with a casual 'meet and greet' for which I only pay cab.
This weeds out most of the scammers and working girls. She agreed to the terms and I suggested a lunch meet in a 5 star, which she agreed.

Just before the meet, she asks if I can help with cab fare, as I agreed. I said ok. I could have offered to pay when she arrived but did not want the hassle of walking to the cab.
She then asks if I can pay both ways (I had already been generous by adding more to what I thought was an inflated cab fare she gave me) - Red flag 1.

Red flag 2 - She asked if she could also have allowance for the meet. I said we had already agreed the terms and a lunch at the restaurant we were to eat, would probably cost more than an allowance she expected (which is why I don't expect to get scammed over cab fare).

She said ok. I sent Rs 1000 on gpay, she disappeared and blocked.

A timely reminder to never ever pay advance, It never ends well.

I paid through a QR code (should have asked for a number). Her name on gpay is fairly unique. I can share in a PM. I believe she is the same person as a google search shows is working.

For a top MNC, but what do you tell them? As I said in my previous post, suggesting she is an escort can get you in serious trouble. In fact, she can say you are stalking her by sending cab fare and asking her to meet.

[Vish23]

Folks, I've been on SA 9 years. I thought I could identify scams, but just fell for one. Its worth sharing as a reminder not to think with our dick and stick to rules.

She was on SA be'lore, ID = Dion (now de-activated). I can share her tg ID in a PM.
Joined on 8 Apr (she might change ID with the same joining date).
I can share her name and QR code in google pay, in a private mail.

We messaged, she ticked all the boxes. I look for educated people (full sentences that make sense with no grammar errors) for a long term relationship.

She was very pretty in pics (not escorty), which reminded me of a previous SB. I start any possible arrangement with a casual 'meet and greet' for which I only pay cab.
This weeds out most of the scammers and working girls. She agreed to the terms and I suggested a lunch meet in a 5 star, which she agreed.

Just before the meet, she asks if I can help with cab fare, as I agreed. I said ok. I could have offered to pay when she arrived but did not want the hassle of walking to the cab.
She then asks if I can pay both ways (I had already been generous by adding more to what I thought was an inflated cab fare she gave me) - Red flag 1.

Red flag 2 - She asked if she could also have allowance for the meet. I said we had already agreed the terms and a lunch at the restaurant we were to eat, would probably cost more than an allowance she expected (which is why I don't expect to get scammed over cab fare).

She said ok. I sent Rs 1000 on gpay, she disappeared and blocked.

A timely reminder to never ever pay advance, It never ends well.

I paid through a QR code (should have asked for a number). Her name on gpay is fairly unique. I can share in a PM. I believe she is the same person as a google search shows is working.

For a top MNC, but what do you tell them? As I said in my previous post, suggesting she is an escort can get you in serious trouble. In fact, she can say you are stalking her by sending cab fare and asking her to meet.

Sorry about the experience bro. Golden rule in Mongering. Never ever pay in advance and pay only after the deed is done. I learned this lesson after losing almost $1500 on different occasions.

[Phil50]

Folks, I've been on SA 9 years. I thought I could identify scams, but just fell for one. Its worth sharing as a reminder not to think with our dick and stick to rules.

She was on SA be'lore, ID = Dion (now de-activated). I can share her tg ID in a PM.
Joined on 8 Apr (she might change ID with the same joining date).
I can share her name and QR code in google pay, in a private mail.

We messaged, she ticked all the boxes. I look for educated people (full sentences that make sense with no grammar errors) for a long term relationship.

She was very pretty in pics (not escorty), which reminded me of a previous SB. I start any possible arrangement with a casual 'meet and greet' for which I only pay cab.
This weeds out most of the scammers and working girls. She agreed to the terms and I suggested a lunch meet in a 5 star, which she agreed.

Just before the meet, she asks if I can help with cab fare, as I agreed. I said ok. I could have offered to pay when she arrived but did not want the hassle of walking to the cab.
She then asks if I can pay both ways (I had already been generous by adding more to what I thought was an inflated cab fare she gave me) - Red flag 1.

Red flag 2 - She asked if she could also have allowance for the meet. I said we had already agreed the terms and a lunch at the restaurant we were to eat, would probably cost more than an allowance she expected (which is why I don't expect to get scammed over cab fare).

She said ok. I sent Rs 1000 on gpay, she disappeared and blocked.

A timely reminder to never ever pay advance, It never ends well.

I paid through a QR code (should have asked for a number). Her name on gpay is fairly unique. I can share in a PM. I believe she is the same person as a google search shows is working.

For a top MNC, but what do you tell them? As I said in my previous post, suggesting she is an escort can get you in serious trouble. In fact, she can say you are stalking her by sending cab fare and asking her to meet.

[Phil50]

Filing false police complain by SA girl is really scary. If you don't mind can you share what happened? Would be a learning experience for all of us.

There are legal implications in repeating the story. However my learning from incident and discussing with lawyer:

1. This was before the TG era, so any chat can be traced to you on whatsapp.

2. If there's any offer of help with job etc and she has visited your home, it can be alleged you raped / took advantage of her, in breach of trust.

3. A complaint of stalking can be made even on the basis of calls, or messages saying 'why aren't we meeting " or waiting outside her home to pick her up etc.

4. If for e.g you slap a woman (even if you are hit first) or call her an escort etc, you can be charged with outraging the modesty of a woman.

In all such cases, cops are required to investigate a complaint and the law generally favors a woman, over a man double her age. If the cops feel the complaint has merit, they file a FIR. This did not happen in my case and the complaint was dismissed, (cops are experienced enough to figure out it was attempted blackmail), but it still required a lawyer and was a traumatic experience.

[Oscar1990]

Discussion on the following Delhi milfs is highly appreciated.

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TIA.

[HituMonger]

Why she is doing it, or her husband's personality, is speculation and not relevant. What is important are the facts, that the poster is warning us about.


I had a false complaint filed against me by a SA girl. As per law, cops are compelled to investigate. I had to use a lawyer to handle my interview at the police station and there was needless embarrassment. I am still on SA and wiser from the experience, the learning from which I wanted to share.

Filing false police complain by SA girl is really scary. If you don't mind can you share what happened? Would be a learning experience for all of us.

[Phil50]

I always used to wonder if this can be a possibility given the money minded girls these are. Now I know it's a reality. Thanks a lot for enlightening us. Would you mind to share more details like city of experience and the cues to know the girl so that rest of us can avoid her.

Rgrds,

Aarun.

This was in Bangalore. The girl is no longer on SA.

Some possible red flags are girls insisting to chat on whatsapp only & unrealistically low prices, or hosting only at their place.

[Lged821]

My axis bank card (I have flipkart axis card) works nicely. Never had an issue. Amex doesn't work for some reason.

Hi All, I am not able to upgrade my SA profile to premium because none of the cards issued in India are going through. This is because the website didn't adheres to the latest guidelines from RBI. This has been confirmed by Bank and also received an SMS mentioning the same as reason for the transaction getting declined. Was wondering how are you guys able to make the payment. Would like help on getting this issue resolved.

[Lged821]

Can you say more? Being in SA from 2 yrs, it hasn't happened to me yet, but I want to be totally aware what can happen, and how I can try to prevent.

I had a false complaint filed against me by a SA girl. As per law, cops are compelled to investigate. I had to use a lawyer to handle my interview at the police station and there was needless embarrassment. I am still on SA and wiser from the experience, the learning from which I wanted to share.

[Aarun21]

Why she is doing it, or her husband's personality, is speculation and not relevant. What is important are the facts, that the poster is warning us about.

As far as police are concerned, the following is relevant:

Those of us who are salaried people, or have no reason to know cops, typically do not have police / VIP contacts. The big companies we work for would have someone to interact with cops to ease their business processes, but they will not intervene for personal indiscretions. If you are a 'businessman' who does have contacts, those contacts are just an exchange of favors. Why owe a favor when you can avoid it.

In any case, this point is moot. You can't and won't be charged with seeing a prostitute. Police can interview you. Which they have the right to do, but won't charge you. At this stage your contact cannot intervene, as the cops merely want to clarify matters. Especially when someone else with contacts has urged them to investigate.

If hypothetically, you run a company with 500 people sitting in your office and your receptionist is told you have to be questioned in a prostitution case, you can be assured everyone in your office will get to know. Many would happily pay to avoid that.

I had a false complaint filed against me by a SA girl. As per law, cops are compelled to investigate. I had to use a lawyer to handle my interview at the police station and there was needless embarrassment. I am still on SA and wiser from the experience, the learning from which I wanted to share.

I always used to wonder if this can be a possibility given the money minded girls these are. Now I know it's a reality. Thanks a lot for enlightening us. Would you mind to share more details like city of experience and the cues to know the girl so that rest of us can avoid her.

Rgrds,

Aarun.

[Phil50]

Maybe husband is gay, or got a small the, or maybe he knew this whole time and was a cuck, and now backtracked. If she does come from a good background, maybe she ain't doing it for money, maybe just a sex freak. Most of the people using SA as clients probably come from well to do backgrounds, easily top 1% of Indian population. So I doubt police can just knock on us, cause end of the day we all at some level have contacts in LEA or political circles. Her profile is still up. I don't get this. Its messing with my head. Also, profile is active too.

Why she is doing it, or her husband's personality, is speculation and not relevant. What is important are the facts, that the poster is warning us about.

As far as police are concerned, the following is relevant:

Those of us who are salaried people, or have no reason to know cops, typically do not have police / VIP contacts. The big companies we work for would have someone to interact with cops to ease their business processes, but they will not intervene for personal indiscretions. If you are a 'businessman' who does have contacts, those contacts are just an exchange of favors. Why owe a favor when you can avoid it.

In any case, this point is moot. You can't and won't be charged with seeing a prostitute. Police can interview you. Which they have the right to do, but won't charge you. At this stage your contact cannot intervene, as the cops merely want to clarify matters. Especially when someone else with contacts has urged them to investigate.

If hypothetically, you run a company with 500 people sitting in your office and your receptionist is told you have to be questioned in a prostitution case, you can be assured everyone in your office will get to know. Many would happily pay to avoid that.

I had a false complaint filed against me by a SA girl. As per law, cops are compelled to investigate. I had to use a lawyer to handle my interview at the police station and there was needless embarrassment. I am still on SA and wiser from the experience, the learning from which I wanted to share.

[Manjo68]

Maybe husband is gay, or got a small the, or maybe he knew this whole time and was a cuck, and now backtracked. If she does come from a good background, maybe she ain't doing it for money, maybe just a sex freak. Most of the people using SA as clients probably come from well to do backgrounds, easily top 1% of Indian population. So I doubt police can just knock on us, cause end of the day we all at some level have contacts in LEA or political circles. Her profile is still up. I don't get this. Its messing with my head. Also, profile is active too.

Most of us have top connections but read my other posts, her father in law was a big shot officer, so not worth getting into pissing competition and not sure if it is worth nuisance it may cause. I arrive Friday in BLR and will be meeting my advocate I will get the exact detail on what took place in last 6 months. Regarding her being a sex freak or her ex having issues, its all hypothetical discussion.

About her profile being active, she is clearly in this for a reason and will exit when she meets her goals, her other ID was "sakura" which is not valid anymore. Unless she is accessing this site or some other monger informs her, she will continue to look for dates. She has stopped responding to my Tg, not that I was going to see her, no idea why, may be she found few mongers and busy for next few weeks. To clear your head, you can approach her and see if she responds to you and share your experience. .

[HituMonger]

Hi All, I am not able to upgrade my SA profile to premium because none of the cards issued in India are going through. This is because the website didn't adheres to the latest guidelines from RBI. This has been confirmed by Bank and also received an SMS mentioning the same as reason for the transaction getting declined. Was wondering how are you guys able to make the payment. Would like help on getting this issue resolved.

I have been using ICICI debit card and it never gave any problem and used discount coupons posted here.