Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[MayanKanand]

Got it thanks but if 20 k is the base minimum then probably all attractive ones will be priced at 30 k 40 k that rate is impossible for me, my 2 bhk rent costs that much LOL in a good locality. I can't imagine a girl being worth that much.

This has been reasonable in Bangalore. Call it what you will but in a market where supply is less, this is what we have to shell out. If you are not comfortable. Either haggle or try to lower your expectations. These are purely a function of market and your personal charm. Some may even like you and go with you for a meal and end up in your bed. If that is the case, tinder may have worked for you.

[Phil50]

Got it thanks but if 20 k is the base minimum then probably all attractive ones will be priced at 30 k 40 k that rate is impossible for me, my 2 bhk rent costs that much LOL in a good locality. I can't imagine a girl being worth that much.

20 k is what a reasonably attractive girl (the type most guys will consider 'hot') expects on SA. I personally look for a girlfriend experience. Where there appears to be a genuine liking for each other, we look like a dating couple in public (not easy when I'm double her age) we bond over common interests and see each other often. These are not contacts I would share, nor would girls want their details to be shared.
For what I'm looking for, 20 k is an acceptable premium over what I might pay a SP to send a girl with similar looks, to my hotel room.

As a previous post suggested, I too will chat with 100 Bangalore girls on TG and meet maybe 10. I think the sub fee is an acceptable cost, as a % of my total spend and in terms of cost per lead.

[Ravik5932]

She didn't bring that proposal of MBA with me. Right now she seems to be in Delhi.

In Bangalore, she told she stays in E-city.

MBA at ISB expectation is mentioned in her profile. Recently she was I Hyderabad.

[Newbie1998]

SA subscription rates have doubled since the day I first started any years ago. But it's still worth it because unlike other sites, the majority of profiles are real people. There are many dating sites with totally fake (non human) profiles.

To give you a perspective. I've been on SA subscription for the last 1. 5 months. I rejoined after a while (avoided use during the pandemic). I currently have 92 chats in telegram. Girls I've spoken to. And met about 8-9 of them so far. I meet a girl every week. Some are regular and I try a new one when I feel like. If someone bails at the last minute, I have enough contacts to ensure that someone else will come and the hotel booking is never wasted.

Be prepared to lose a lot of money on SA and be disappointed now and then. Its just how it is. 20 k has become the base minimum for Bangalore atleast. I know that stating these numbers in the Bangalore thread will create a ruckus. But then that's why this thread exists. 12 k profiles exist, but don't expect them to be modelesque. Most girls know their price and the ones who overrate themselves are the GPS. It appears that GPS here is defined as either the face & body not being in proporti.

On with the price or hyperinflated amounts for short time like 30-40 k upwards..

Got it thanks but if 20 k is the base minimum then probably all attractive ones will be priced at 30 k 40 k that rate is impossible for me, my 2 bhk rent costs that much LOL in a good locality. I can't imagine a girl being worth that much.

[Christmas Tre]

SA subscription rates have doubled since the day I first started any years ago. But it's still worth it because unlike other sites, the majority of profiles are real people. There are many dating sites with totally fake (non human) profiles.

To give you a perspective. I've been on SA subscription for the last 1. 5 months. I rejoined after a while (avoided use during the pandemic). I currently have 92 chats in telegram. Girls I've spoken to. And met about 8-9 of them so far. I meet a girl every week. Some are regular and I try a new one when I feel like. If someone bails at the last minute, I have enough contacts to ensure that someone else will come and the hotel booking is never wasted.

Be prepared to lose a lot of money on SA and be disappointed now and then. Its just how it is. 20 k has become the base minimum for Bangalore atleast. I know that stating these numbers in the Bangalore thread will create a ruckus. But then that's why this thread exists. 12 k profiles exist, but don't expect them to be modelesque. Most girls know their price and the ones who overrate themselves are the GPS. It appears that GPS here is defined as either the face & body not being in proporti.

On with the price or hyperinflated amounts for short time like 30-40 k upwards.

It's worth taking the membership and seeing if you can charm a girl down to paying less. Then again, there are a lot of guys messaging these girls and it is up to you, how you can convince them.

Many of the mild pro girls will not appreciate their contact being shared, and they will certainly be livid if they are non pro.

What you read on this forum is mostly warnings on scammers or bait and switch girls. These warnings by members are much appreciated by folks like us who frequent SA. In between these warnings, many of us have some fantastic experiences with girls.

A high end contact will already have high rates so unlikely for rates to go even further, increasing rates has diminishing returns and these girls know it.

Idk 8 k for a months subscription? All I see on this forum are GPS, not worth it, girls asking 20 k for 1 shot when they look like aunties so don't think I can achieve much in 1 month.

[Mad Hatter]

Yes but key words here being attractive and few hours I can't pay 20 k for 1 for someone who leaves as soon as I but once, also gathering contacts is one thing but who is there to vet them? It has to be someone from this forum.

For me high end starts from 12 k for 2 and upwards, max I can do is 20 k for 2 but only for a thoroughly vetted profile which checks all the boxes.

Also I feel the girls on SA are escorts regardless if you are accepting money for sex then you are one, never understood the distinction.

Vetting is mainly done by yourself. This forum is here to warn you about the known scammers / scams, the overrated profiles and the bad stuff. If you see a report about someone who is good, go ahead and contact them.

If your high end is max 20 K, then you will struggle a little bit. A lot of the girls start of at 30 K etc. But you can get a few gems for under 20 K. Look at seeking again. It advertises itself as a high end dating site. So the girls get on there with expectations. Some times it helps to have a higher budget.

Yes SA girls are escorts. But here is the key difference is this. For a lot of them Escorting is not their profession. They do this to supplement their income. So they are part time at best.

BUT, here is the important part. A lot of the girls come from educated backgrounds and have a career etc. They are looking for being treated lavishly and spending time with men who are willing to spend. A lot of them are looking for a connection to sleep with you. They are looking for a certain calibre of man. Same as we are looking for a certain calibre of women. Some of these girls even end up becoming friends and fuck buddies. I have a few who have ended up becoming friends over the years.

My honest advice. Take the subscription. Get a bunch of contacts and work on them. The chase is half the fun. And if 20 K per month is your upper limit, reduce your mongering to every other month and increase your budget.

[Smart Some]

Hi the seeking profiles, when searched by me, are showing limited profiles. For example, when am searching for Pune or Kol it shows around 12-15 profile each in the city. For Delhi it shows around 18. I do not have a picture on my profile, but I have a premium membership.

I remember using SA three years back, and I used to see tons of profiles and exchange messages. Can someone suggest where I am going wrong?

SS.

[HituMonger]

Yes but key words here being attractive and few hours I can't pay 20 k for 1 for someone who leaves as soon as I but once, also gathering contacts is one thing but who is there to vet them? It has to be someone from this forum.

For me high end starts from 12 k for 2 and upwards, max I can do is 20 k for 2 but only for a thoroughly vetted profile which checks all the boxes.

Also I feel the girls on SA are escorts regardless if you are accepting money for sex then you are one, never understood the distinction.

Thats hard part, a widely shared one will be no better than a escort. Recently I stumbled on a girl, she is dark but good body. A student who loves sex, she asked for only 10 k. Its unbelievable price on SA. Yesterday had sex with her almost continuous 3 hrs unlimited no count on how many times. She was too horny. So one has to put efforts and waste money before getting good contacts. Just forget that any one would share gem, only crumbs would be shared, that's reality. Use this forum to avoid frauds and filter unwanted ones.

[Sappulmo]

I was in contact with "warm ms" in seeking. It seems to be genuine and we were talking general stuff. When she asked whether we can excha ge photos, I siad we can talk over call first and then exchange photos, she got offended and ended the chat.

Did I do something wrong here? Or do anyone know that profile.

Regards.

NBF.

I was in touch with her / him, for 2 months. She shared her pics which looked genuine. The weird thing is, she wants you to share sexy women images, which makes you to suspect whether if it's a guy doing all this thing in disguise. I pressed her for a meet, to which she replied we will meet probably at the end of this year. Another monger from ISG, who was in touch with her also lost patience and stopped responding to her. There are messages everyday from her, I got fed up and said it's not working for me and I cut ties with her. Not worth your time in my opinion, unless you are comfortable with everyday sexting with an anonymous person.

[Newbie1998]

Once you are in this game and have had hits and misses over months / years, you will get a gut feel of what will work and what not work. Apart from random scammers, it all depends on you two and how you hit it off. Some may work and some may not, despite you spending.

My two cents- this forum will help you weed off scammers but no one is going to do the work of vetting, meeting, experiencing for you. Thats the grind you have to go through.

I get it, I have done a lot of vetting, meeting and verifying myself if you take a look at my forum posts, however those were not high end < 10 k, for high end escorts / SB I am very hesitant to try out new without any reviews as there is more money to lose.

[MayanKanand]

Yes but key words here being attractive and few hours I can't pay 20 k for 1 for someone who leaves as soon as I but once, also gathering contacts is one thing but who is there to vet them? It has to be someone from this forum.

For me high end starts from 12 k for 2 and upwards, max I can do is 20 k for 2 but only for a thoroughly vetted profile which checks all the boxes.

Also I feel the girls on SA are escorts regardless if you are accepting money for sex then you are one, never understood the distinction.

Once you are in this game and have had hits and misses over months / years, you will get a gut feel of what will work and what not work. Apart from random scammers, it all depends on you two and how you hit it off. Some may work and some may not, despite you spending.

My two cents- this forum will help you weed off scammers but no one is going to do the work of vetting, meeting, experiencing for you. Thats the grind you have to go through.

[Newbie1998]

We had a different understanding of what high end is. The 20 k you mention is the standard rate for a reasonably attractive girl, and not GPS. A lot of them who start with a higher figure are quick to come down, except for those who are genuinely GPS (model type looks AND who want to limit the number of clients). If you can afford someone who is GPS. It should not be a problem to take a sub.

I am 50+, don't pay more than 20 k for a few hours and don't look for escorts, but get enough contacts to last me the year when I take my 1 month sub.

Yes but key words here being attractive and few hours I can't pay 20 k for 1 for someone who leaves as soon as I but once, also gathering contacts is one thing but who is there to vet them? It has to be someone from this forum.

For me high end starts from 12 k for 2 and upwards, max I can do is 20 k for 2 but only for a thoroughly vetted profile which checks all the boxes.

Also I feel the girls on SA are escorts regardless if you are accepting money for sex then you are one, never understood the distinction.

[Phil50]

Hi Bro,

Has any one met this gal who is asking 40 k per meet. Did anyone met her for lesser price?

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...5-f3294dfbd356

She only joined on 15th Apr (15th in US). Give these profiles some time before they understand what price works and for someone to have contacted them.

[Phil50]

A high end contact will already have high rates so unlikely for rates to go even further, increasing rates has diminishing returns and these girls know it.

Idk 8 k for a months subscription? All I see on this forum are GPS, not worth it, girls asking 20 k for 1 shot when they look like aunties so don't think I can achieve much in 1 month.

We had a different understanding of what high end is. The 20 k you mention is the standard rate for a reasonably attractive girl, and not GPS. A lot of them who start with a higher figure are quick to come down, except for those who are genuinely GPS (model type looks AND who want to limit the number of clients). If you can afford someone who is GPS. It should not be a problem to take a sub.

I am 50+, don't pay more than 20 k for a few hours and don't look for escorts, but get enough contacts to last me the year when I take my 1 month sub.

[Newbie1998]

Sorry to sound blunt, but if someone has a 'high end contact who is worth it', he is unlikely to share it because her price will soon shoot up.

A 1 month sub to SA will give you enough contacts to last the year. That's the best option if you can afford to splurge once a month.

A high end contact will already have high rates so unlikely for rates to go even further, increasing rates has diminishing returns and these girls know it.

Idk 8 k for a months subscription? All I see on this forum are GPS, not worth it, girls asking 20 k for 1 shot when they look like aunties so don't think I can achieve much in 1 month.