Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[AnilTheHunter]

Folks. I came back to SA after a 2 yr gap. Seems new accounts and payments are being rejected. Any idea what the issue? Payments rejected that's perhaps a card issue, I see that someone mentioned India cards do not work.

How about accounts getting suspended?

Any help on this would be appreciated.

Cheers.

ATH.

[Shnshan7]

Even sanjuu baba met his wife in such manner.

I can't stop laughing man.

[HydTesla5]

This once, I was super horny and desperate, and found an indie girl. I had a flight to usa, which got delayed by a day, so I got to stay in ITC Maurya (Delhi) for the night. Must have been checkin in at 3 am, and had to leave by 3 pm the next day. I was so horny, had no cash on me, paid her in USD. I video called, she looked not attractive. I said f**k it, just come. One of the things that really messed me up were, while waiting at 3 am for a check in. I saw so many 12-14 yo kids vaping in the hotel lobby. I came for a smoke down in the morning, and saw a kid half my size vaping, and taking a MILF women to his room. She was following him, she had a saree on, but her face was full of makeup and it was easy that she was a WG. The dude saw me and smirked, and I said the whole night I see 10-12 kids walk around smoking in lobby, then 6 am I see them taking milfs to their bedrooms. They probably are some corrupt politicians / bureaucrats kids spending my tax money on drugs and hookers and having the time of their life.

While in the check in process that night, there was another ugly man walking with a girl who probably was a russian / or high end indian escort (she was fair, but black hair). This got me pumped. The frustration of a delay + everyone fucking + kids smoking and fucking hookers, while at that age I was working my ass off in a boarding school.

Called the girl fucked her once. When I put my finger in, the girl her eyes went mad, she told me not to do so. I fucked her a second time. I booked her for the nights rate, even tho I was only going to stick her around for the hour, after the second nut, I went to the bathroom and lost my head. I started wondering all sorts of nonsense, made a face, felt guilt, she got mad and left. I paid her as soon as she was in my room. I feel like if I would have avoided it, I would have had a better time.

Any tips on not having a mental relapse or a moral crisis after the act, so you can utilise your money and not regret after. Paid that girl $300 USD even tho I am sure she was like worth $50 at best. The reson being no one was responding at 4 am, and she was the only one who responded early enough to show up at hotel, get the job done in time.

At one point in time, I was so afraid of post nut clarity that I just stopped masturbating as I was really scared of those 2 shitty minutes.

I think what solved it for me is gratitude and thinking of how fortunate I am in all other areas of life. This only thing missing from my life was sex and I just admitted it that I ain't going to get that and moved on. So, you can try gratitude once in a while to see if it fixes your problem.

[Sud6791]

I was able to get it working with Axis bank credit card, there was an automated call to verify, but once I accepted it, the payment went through. I had used the 33 % discount coupon that was mentioned on this forum sometime back and that worked as well.

Can you please let me know which card it was from Axis ban? Really having trouble taking a membership as my ICICI or HDFC credit card is getting declined.

[Bhamsookh1]

Has anyone tried this chick https://members.seeking.com/member/2...V4Z3VpZGUubmwv.

Please DM me.

For 30 k I'd rather go to Delhi or Mumbai and have 3 in the price of this 1. Or at least 2!

[Bhamsookh1]

First of all, I am not against SA or escorts or wgs. I wouldn't be on this site if I was. Lot of guys here seem to go off on a tangent. I am glad you got GFE (I never said otherwise) , and I am glad she stayed a few more hours than you expected or didn't pack her bags immediately after the shot. And may be at some point in the future after regular meetings, you may have developed feelings for each other (quite natural, after all we are all human). Many guys end up falling in love with their regular birds or get to know their real names or know intimate details. Most spa chicks have some BF on the side or invite their favorite clients to their homes or may not explicitly demand a payment. Some even end up marrying them. Some say trump met his current wife in such a fashion, idk. Another argument is that they have regular jobs. I am glad that they do too. Many birds have that. Many SP birds have other regular jobs or do it intermittently when they need cash. Many models and top end actresses do it too. If you go to tiruppur in tamilnadu, the garments hub, many girls who have regular jobs at the factories do moonlight in this trade for that extra dough. But none of these things negate what prostitution is? Well philosophically you could argue, hey isn't marriage a form of prostitution? There are some people who take that stance too. But like someone once said, with prostitution you at least get what you paid for. I don't think if your wife denies intimacy, you are going to stop paying the bills but if a bird does that, guess you wont be meeting her again. But what separates prostitution from relationships I feel is that here the deed is started on some explicit / implicit expectations of money and not based on any romantic intimacy. Now I am sure, there might be girls in SA who might never ask for any payment or are simply looking for some mutual fun with a classy guy. But I would say that majority of sugar dating relationships are not like that and money / allowance is a key factor. Anyway I don't wish to carry on a debate here regarding this.

Even sanjuu baba met his wife in such manner.

[Lamboos]

First of all, I am not against SA or escorts or wgs. I wouldn't be on this site if I was. Lot of guys here seem to go off on a tangent saying stuff like I got GFE, she stayed with me longer or went on trips. I am glad you got GFE (I never said otherwise) , and I am glad she stayed a few more hours than you expected or didn't pack her bags immediately after the shot. And may be at some point in the future after regular meetings, you may have developed feelings for each other and payments/allowance stopped(quite natural, after all we are all human). Many guys end up falling in love with their regular birds or get to know their real names or know intimate details. Most spa chicks have some BF on the side or invite their favorite clients to their homes or may not explicitly demand a payment. Some even end up marrying them. Some say trump met his current wife in such a fashion, idk. Another argument is that they have regular jobs. I am glad that they do too. Many birds have that. Many SP birds have other regular jobs or do it intermittently when they need cash. Many models and top end actresses do it too. If you go to tiruppur in tamilnadu, the garments hub, many girls who have regular jobs at the factories do moonlight in this trade for that extra dough. But none of these things negate what prostitution is? Well philosophically you could argue, hey isn't marriage a form of prostitution? There are some people who take that stance too. But like someone once said, with prostitution you at least get what you paid for. I don't think if your wife denies intimacy or sex once, you are going to stop paying the bills but if a bird does that, guess you wont be meeting her again. And again, you may end up marrying your GF but I doubt most guys here would think of marrying their SB even if you share a fabulous rapport and I assume you would not be cool with your wife/GF banging other dudes. But what separates prostitution from relationships I feel is that here the deed is started on some explicit / implicit expectations of money and not based on any romantic intimacy prior to that (maybe afterwards you do get close). Now I am sure, there might be girls in SA who might never ask for any payment or are simply looking for some mutual fun with a classy guy or be using it like a dating site. But I would say that majority of sugar dating relationships are not like that and money / allowance is a key factor. Anyway I don't wish to carry on a debate here regarding this. So, cheers and happy mongering or sugar dating or whatever floats your boat.

[MayanKanand]

No offense taken, though by your definition it can be argued that anyone whose boyfriend gives them gifts, or picks up some expenses, is a prostitute (or for that matter, some marriages).

There is a wide spectrum of experiences you can have on SA. From call girls where her pic is the only factor determining price and with whom there is 0 emotional connect, to a GFE, which is what SA is supposed to be about - at least in theory.

My best partners on SA have had the following in common:

- We have met 50+ times over a 5 year period (more than any other partner they had).
- Done long trips together: Holidays we plan jointly, not a business trip, where she hangs around in my hotel.
- I probably understand her career and other concerns better than anyone outside her family (and she similarly understands me).
- Similar food & drink preferences and economic backgrounds, we vibe over similar tases in music, films, travel etc.
- We stay in touch after a relationship ends and meet when she's in town.
- We often meet when there's no intimacy involved.

It all boils down to what one is seeking. If it is purely action that you seek, going through the grind and finding few people whom you like may sound like a hassle. And Expensive.

On the other hand, if you are someone who is looking for something more than just getting laid, then I would say the grind is worth it. In Indian context, 90% will be just pump and dump variety but there are people who are between escort and GF spectrum. If you think that by shelling out cash that you are hiring a toy of your desire, you are wrong. Thats not how it works anywhere in the world I have used SA.

Some, we use merely for their face and body. That's just gratification.

Some, we may play the long game like good Phil said. The average cost to you over years will be less. Because they know that you are genuine and decent and there will be a give and take that forms once you meet few times.

And some, we ignore and move on.

Branding everyone as just hoes is a narrow way of seeing SA.

Again, I repeat, go through the grind and find what exactly you desire. There is no meaning in arguing on the labels while what we expect there changes widely.

[Shahiste72]

Post number 4572 , go through it.

Thanks bro for the help. Seems tempting.

[Shahiste72]

Has anyone tried this chick https://members.seeking.com/member/2...V4Z3VpZGUubmwv.

Please DM me.

[Houndd]

Pikachu bro, just relax. It happens with best of us. The whole scenario of teenagers fucking milfs can give you a visual stimuli which may further stimulate our brain and starts poking us to realise similar fantasies.

If you don't find a girl attractive, use your hand and sleep. There is no shortage of quality women, it's just that the entire process takes year to curate to achieve desired results.

This once, I was super horny and desperate, and found an indie girl. I had a flight to usa, which got delayed by a day, so I got to stay in ITC Maurya (Delhi) for the night. Must have been checkin in at 3 am, and had to leave by 3 pm the next day. I was so horny, had no cash on me, paid her in USD. I video called, she looked not attractive. I said f**k it, just come. One of the things that really messed me up were, while waiting at 3 am for a check in. I saw so many 12-14 yo kids vaping in the hotel lobby. I came for a smoke down in the morning, and saw a kid half my size vaping, and taking a MILF women to his room. She was following him, she had a saree on, but her face was full of makeup and it was easy that she was a WG. The dude saw me and smirked, and I said the whole night I see 10-12 kids walk around smoking in lobby, then 6 am I see them taking milfs to their bedrooms. They probably are some corrupt politicians / bureaucrats kids spending my tax money on drugs and hookers and having the time of their life.

While in the check in process that night, there was another ugly man walking with a girl who probably was a russian / or high end indian escort (she was fair, but black hair). This got me pumped. The frustration of a delay + everyone fucking + kids smoking and fucking hookers, while at that age I was working my ass off in a boarding school.

Called the girl fucked her once. When I put my finger in, the girl her eyes went mad, she told me not to do so. I fucked her a second time. I booked her for the nights rate, even tho I was only going to stick her around for the hour, after the second nut, I went to the bathroom and lost my head. I started wondering all sorts of nonsense, made a face, felt guilt, she got mad and left. I paid her as soon as she was in my room. I feel like if I would have avoided it, I would have had a better time.

Any tips on not having a mental relapse or a moral crisis after the act, so you can utilise your money and not regret after. Paid that girl $300 USD even tho I am sure she was like worth $50 at best. The reson being no one was responding at 4 am, and she was the only one who responded early enough to show up at hotel, get the job done in time.

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[Pk099]

IMO, not all girls on SA are professional escorts, sex workers or prostitutes. They may have a regular career (like my favorite girl in Mexico is a French teacher, and a great French cook) and trying to make extra to support themselves or family (specially in Latin American countries like Mexico).

There are many SA girls that clearly mention they are looking for platonic relationship and not interested in sex or money.

But Lamboos point is very valid, that if any girl takes money for exchange of sexual favors that puts her in the category of sex worker, even though she is not a professional escort and will not like to call herself a escort.

At Phil50, I get your point, when a boyfriend is in a relationship and gifting or spending money on his girlfriend, should it be considered as prostitution? I would say NO, because, the difference here is, the boyfriend expects his girl to be loyal to him and not sleeping around with 10 more guys in a month and get paid for the favors. (of course girls now a days may be showing loyalty towards their boyfriends and sleeping around with other guys on the side &#128578.

I agree with you that the experiences you get with SA girl are far better than a escort (unless you are spending huge amounts and taking a escort for expensive trip).

I have taken multiple SA girls on trips to Cancun and only paid expense and small amount as a token, where escort will cost you her daily rate + expenses.

Still, I do NOT expect any SA girl to be loyal to me and not meeting other guys, Neither should anyone expect that.

Bottom line is, SA is not as transactional as escort / prostitute where rates are charged by hours, if SA girl expects to get paid then guy will expect for sexual favors. I would say most (70% ?) SA meetings are transactional.

I have been mongering for more than 15 years and since I started using SA, my life has changed. Can't imagine life without SA 🙂.

I have completely stopped visiting strip clubs, massage parlors and stopped calling escorts.

Surprisingly, when I started keeping track of expenses, I realized that SA has saved me more than 50% that I used to spend on strip clubs and escorts.

Long live SA.

No offense taken, though by your definition it can be argued that anyone whose boyfriend gives them gifts, or picks up some expenses, is a prostitute (or for that matter, some marriages).

There is a wide spectrum of experiences you can have on SA. From call girls where her pic is the only factor determining price and with whom there is 0 emotional connect, to a GFE, which is what SA is supposed to be about - at least in theory.

My best partners on SA have had the following in common:

- We have met 50+ times over a 5 year period (more than any other partner they had).
- Done long trips together: Holidays we plan jointly, not a business trip, where she hangs around in my hotel.
- I probably understand her career and other concerns better than anyone outside her family (and she similarly understands me).
- Similar food & drink preferences and economic backgrounds, we vibe over similar tases in music, films, travel etc.
- We stay in touch after a relationship ends and meet when she's in town.
- We often meet when there's no intimacy involved.

[Phil50]

No offence mate, but every girl who you have met from this site are escorts or sex workers or prostitutes, however you like to call it. If someone is fucking you for money or material gifts, then that is prostitution, period. This "sugar dating" term is just modern day bullshit. Just like there are no more "door to door salesmen" now, there are only "area sales executives". Old wine in a new bottle.

No offense taken, though by your definition it can be argued that anyone whose boyfriend gives them gifts, or picks up some expenses, is a prostitute (or for that matter, some marriages).

There is a wide spectrum of experiences you can have on SA. From call girls where her pic is the only factor determining price and with whom there is 0 emotional connect, to a GFE, which is what SA is supposed to be about - at least in theory.

My best partners on SA have had the following in common:

- We have met 50+ times over a 5 year period (more than any other partner they had).
- Done long trips together: Holidays we plan jointly, not a business trip, where she hangs around in my hotel.
- I probably understand her career and other concerns better than anyone outside her family (and she similarly understands me).
- Similar food & drink preferences and economic backgrounds, we vibe over similar tases in music, films, travel etc.
- We stay in touch after a relationship ends and meet when she's in town.
- We often meet when there's no intimacy involved.

[Oscar1990]

Please ignore my above comment on "Pure Soul". The comment was actually for "Spicy Soul". I was not able to edit after sending and realizing that I provided feedback on an incorrect ID.

Thanks for the feedback.

[HituMonger]

I differ from your opinion on this. I doubt if any prostitute or callgirl would hardly give you GFE experience. If they do still they will count sessions. On the other hand if you really get the right SB on SA they will spend as much time you want with the negotiated price. And they will never count sessions. You will experience total GFE experience. Plus some SBs tends to go for long term NSA relationship. So, your so called "Bull Shit" is in your own mind. Try clearing it.

Absolutely 100 percent in agreement with you. People are posting anything, I am sure they have not made any efforts on SA to get good connects. I am having now 4 contacts all 22-25 yrs age. I am no more on SA. I repeat them regularly. None of them watches time or counts number of sessions as they also enjoy. I can say this because even after 4th session they get wet. You can't have this with WG. I never had such mind blowing sex in life. Yes there are full shit load now on SA off late but still one can find good contacts. I usually pay 20-25 k and 10 k for one girl and mostly meet them for 5 hrs session as I book day hotels only.