Stupid shit in Medellin

[Gabacho]

I have something I was thinking of recently that I wanted to hear some feedback from you guys. It doesn't really have to do with medellin but it is stupid shit LOL.

So a few weeks ago we had the whole gringo discussion about whether a gringo is an American or whether it is a foreigner who speaks English. It appears the answer varies depending on which country you are in (in Mexico it means American and in other latam countries it can mean foreigner who speaks English).

So anyways I was thinking the other day about the word "Beaner".

Growing up in the US with Mexican friends and later in life living in Mexico I came to know the word beaner kind of like the opposite of the word gringo. In fact I think there is even a Chicano song using these two terms back and forth referring to a gringo as an American and a beaner as a Mexican (the gringo puñetero song).

Anyways my question is this. Can the word "beaner" be applied to all Spanish speaking people regardless of their country of origin and not just to mexicans??

I mean if an Australian Irish or South African person in Colombia or Brazil can be considered a gringo then should not a Venezuelan Honduran or Colombian immigrant in Chicago be considered a beaner?

Serious answers are welcome.

[MiamiBoy1]

At least you got one thing right, which makes your quota for this decade. My GF doesn't know about me fucking other girls. One of the other girls makes me swear I won't tell her, since they have been friends since they were children.

You have been saying fucking others on the side is okay. So, why don't you tell this to your GF? Don't be a pussy! Maybe she would be open to a threesome.

[MiamiBoy1]

Agreed and in a intellectual race it would not even be close. JjBee62 by a mile! LOL!

He wouldn't be even qualified to begin the race, let alone win it.

[MiamiBoy1]

I don't know. Do you goto Colombia on business? Is that what your explanation of your trips are? Mine are that I own businesses in multiple countries. They have seen the proof in pictures. Plus I do not lie on my money or my dick. I got no reason to.

You discuss your sexual life up in here. Is it normal do to that with strangers?

Explanation? I don't have to explain anything to anyone. I'm free to go wherever I want, whenever I want. When someone asks me about Colombia, I tell them I go there for vacation / leisure (which is true). I would give the same answer to an immigration officer when I enter the country.

I did not realize that you were intimate with prostitutes. I know I am not.

Yes, I'm intimate with prostitutes, because I do fuck them. Intimacy - "an intimate act, especially sexual intercourse". What are you up to when you are with hookers? Playing chess or discussing politics?

It most certainly does. You prove my point in your next sentence below:

This statement makes me laugh. Because by inference your are saying to your family and friends: "I am fucking this girl and I am so proud of her I am showing her off".

Showing her off? What a clueless dumbass you are. I introduce a girlfriend to my family and friends because I believe there is a good chance she will become part of my family and a mother of my future kids. It shows that I'm serious about our relationship.

Why would I tell my family about some prostitute that I fucked or about some one night stand that I had? Do you call your momma every time after you fucked a hooker and tell her that the BBBJ you got was just average and the hooker was not worth the money you paid?

Yes, your stories about fucking prostitutes. Whom you do not show off to your family and friends because to do that would not be normal to you (I. E. Socially Acceptable).

My stories about fucking prostitutes are only interesting to like-minded individuals, with whom I do share them, if they ask me to.

Never said it did. You delusional thinking about the way life really works in relationships only hurts yourself (in my opinion).

Well, you can take your opinion and shove it up your ass, where it belongs, ShitCmdr.

Are you not the person who wrote to me that the information I posted about my girlfriend was useless? Your definitions of what girlfriend is and is not along with your definitions of what a normal relationship is are just as useless to me.

What was so useful about the information you posted about your girlfriend? I can't recall you writing about where and how you met her, how much she charges per hour or TLN, if her BBBJ is good or not. You didn't share her contact info or pics of her. Nobody gives a flying fuck about how you spent a day with her, what and where you ate, and where you shopped.

Lastly, in Colombian Culture it is pretty easy to know when you have a girlfriend or not: Have you met her family yet? LOL!

Also, if she has met YOURS.

[MiamiBoy1]

Girlfriend: a regular female companion with whom a person has a romantic or sexual relationship..

I do not see any mention monogamy in the definition of what it means to have a girlfriend.

By this definition, a prostitute that you fuck on some regular basis is your girlfriend.

[JjBee62]

A few years back I was dating a chick in Thailand. One morning when she was leaving my place, she rode the elevator down with one of my neighbors. The guy was either European or American. When she got home she called me and said when they got out of the elevator that guy said that you have a different girl over every night. I said and what did you say? She said I told him that you should because you are a handsome guy.

Another story. I was in Brazil with a lawyer I used to date. That morning I had to go to the airport early so I told her to just turn in the key when she leaves. A chick I was also dating who owned a salon insisted on taking me to the airport but I told her no. Well she came anyway, but I was already at the airport. And guess who came to the door? To this day I am still friends with both of them and occasionally fuck them and we still have a laugh about that day.

I have plenty of stories along these same lines. Not everyone freaks out the way you assume they should.

The girl in Arizona talked me into taking her to a swingers club. She became a regular there, just for the social aspect. She set me up with a threesome with her best friend. Later when she had another guy who was filling in when I wasn't there, she set me up with another friend. I ended up meeting her other guy and we became friends.

[JjBee62]

See JjBee62 is way more intelligent than Miamiboy1. The stuff he says is backed up by scientific evidence! I always could tell JJBee was smarter than alot of the others who post here. It definitely can be seen in the intellectuality of his posts.

Thanks for the vote of confidence. Some of these things are fascinating. Lots of people want it all to be black and white, when it's all grey.

[JjBee62]

And both didn't know shit about you fucking others. Just like you GF doesn't know shit about your sexual encounters when you are not together.

It's like you thrive on being wrong. Both did know I fucked others. The one in Arizona watched me do it more than once. The one in NY wanted to hear all the details, especially the kinky stuff. I was broadcasting live with a different girl at least once per week. Since I met both through the same platform, it was pretty obvious what I was doing.

At least you got one thing right, which makes your quota for this decade. My GF doesn't know about me fucking other girls. One of the other girls makes me swear I won't tell her, since they have been friends since they were children.

[JjBee62]

It's just so excellent that we have a stalwart such as you to tell us what is normal in relationships. You should hook up with Dear Abby.

They have a lot in common. She's dead and he's brain dead.

[JjBee62]

Some funny shit. A girl that I went to high school with is a city council member. She went hard to have a law for no texting while driving. Who gets busted for texting while driving? It was all over the news. The policeman said I just pulled you over and you still are not going to put the phone down? The same as these other lawmakers that keep making all the laws they continuously break. Ie. Soliciting prostitutes.

Hypocrisy is rampant, especially with politicians. I remember a similar thing with a Circuit Court Judge who had sent a lot of people to prison for getting their 3rd DUI. He got a third DUI and just got community service.

[SubCmdr]

Why would I discuss my sexual life in details with my family and friends?

I don't know. Do you goto Colombia on business? Is that what your explanation of your trips are? Mine are that I own businesses in multiple countries. They have seen the proof in pictures. Plus I do not lie on my money or my dick. I got no reason to.

You discuss your sexual life up in here. Is it normal do to that with strangers?

Isn't it supposed to be an intimate topic?

I did not realize that you were intimate with prostitutes. I know I am not.

Doesn't matter if it is p4 p or not.

It most certainly does. You prove my point in your next sentence below:

When / if I start a relationship, my girlfriend will be introduced to family and friends.

This statement makes me laugh. Because by inference your are saying to your family and friends: "I am fucking this girl and I am so proud of her I am showing her off".

But until then, my encounters are not their business. I share some stories only with a select few of my bros, who are like-minded individuals.

Yes, your stories about fucking prostitutes. Whom you do not show off to your family and friends because to do that would not be normal to you (I. E. Socially Acceptable).

Once again, my behavior of fucking prostitutes doesn't hurt anyone, because I'm single. And I rarely do hardcore pros these days.

Never said it did. You delusional thinking about the way life really works in relationships only hurts yourself (in my opinion).

You clearly are not proud of fucking prostitutes. Because you have a different status for them. Neither you nor "The man who has left the Building" can use your own personal definitions of a girlfriend that you use for yourselves for everyone. This is the English language we are writing in. Look up the meaning of girlfriend in a dictionary and you will find that it does not have all the characteristics you and your leader would like to put into it. Nor can either of your define what a normal relationship is to anyone else.

You both are entitled to your own opinions, but not your own facts.

Are you not the person who wrote to me that the information I posted about my girlfriend was useless? Your definitions of what girlfriend is and is not along with your definitions of what a normal relationship is are just as useless to me.

Lastly, in Colombian Culture it is pretty easy to know when you have a girlfriend or not: Have you met her family yet? LOL!

[SubCmdr]

See JjBee62 is way more intelligent than Miamiboy1. The stuff he says is backed up by scientific evidence! I always could tell JJBee was smarter than alot of the others who post here. It definitely can be seen in the intellectuality of his posts.

Agreed and in a intellectual race it would not even be close. JjBee62 by a mile! LOL!

[SubCmdr]

Girlfriend: a regular female companion with whom a person has a romantic or sexual relationship..

I do not see any mention monogamy in the definition of what it means to have a girlfriend.

[Elvis 2008]

Girlfriend is an easy to understand label. It is somewhat ambiguous.

LOL. This is not just mental masturbation. It is contradictory mental masturbation.

It doesn't tell you whether or not we live together, or even if we have sex. However, it does tell you that we are together, on some level. Fuck buddy is disrespectful, often unacceptable, depending on the company. Friend with benefits is awkward. Just calling her a friend says there's no romantic connection. Girlfriend, is the easiest understood and accurate term.

Thank you for educating us on the vocabulary of the world. / sarc.

This is another situation where you don't get to make the rules. You're welcome to refer to anyone however you see fit.

Yeah, MiamiBoy is the problem. He is just not as enlightened as you. Yes, by all means, you get to define what a GF is. Tell you what. How about you tell your "girlfriend" that you are fucking hookers on the side and see if she agrees with your definition? My bet is we won't need to debate the term at all after that.

[Elvis 2008]

I'm assuming, and maybe I'm wrong, that if a girl is hot enough to work as a stripper, and is at shake shack, than she doesn't want to be in the sex industry. I assume they have some kind of moral compass that just wants to make an honest living as they say.

You think a woman would rather be flipping burgers, being hit on by managers, screamed at by people than making way more money and being wined and dined on the town? It just takes one girl friend of hers cashing in to change her mind.

The girl would be a top earner easily. I've seen some real pigs at strip clubs. Aren't most hookers or strippers molested or raped when younger.

Yeah if only she could find a place where she could meet men who did not molest women and rape them? If only someone would set up a website like that where the men are known and sometimes even screened.