Bangkok Reports

[TallDarkUsa]

Hello,

I will be in Bangkok for a few weeks. Where can I find working foreigner girls. Any massage parlors that offer it or escort agencies you can recommend.

[JoshAllen]

. . . To be interested in the idea of hitting on and picking up some random, shy, MILF civvie?

Planning my first ever mongering trip to Bangkok in April. Staying several days. Of course I am going to put my main focus on the obvious options.

But I can't seem to get the idea of civvie sex out of my head.

Probably a ridiculous fantasy and perhaps waste of time, but mutual sex "off the clock" is just so much better in my opinion. (I know many may disagree. It is just how I feel.).

Unfortunately my game skills are atrocious so it would be seriously uphill.

Hands down, if I had the time and was unconstrained, I'd stick to civvies or semi pros and avoid the pros almost completely.

The thing is though, IMO:

1. Civvies need familiarity over a couple of weeks at least till they will agree to a date.

2. You need to ask in the right situation ensuring she has no chance of losing face, and has privacy.

3. It is effort in the sense that you'll need to keep the pretence of a date going, but it is low effort if you do a mind blowing date.

[EihTooms]

I cruised through Thermae last night about 10 pm. Bought a bottle of water. The place seemed more packed with groups of young Asian men than I had seen the past 2-3 times I stopped in over the past few months. Me: 71 year old farang, middling / low Thai language skills, reasonably fit, wore collared polo-style shirt, long jeans pants, sneakers. The line up of girls was as it has generally been in the recent past; some post-graduate uni girl types, office worker part-timer regular girl types, few would come across as hookers if spied on the skytrain or subway, much higher percentage of slim, well-proportioned, lighter skin freelancers than their street-walking counterparts.

First go around my smile and nod was politely responded to by the less shy, the more farang-friendly, farang-curious or more needy. But most would be among the top 25% of Thermae lookers to my eyes.

Stopped in the middle bar areas for a moment to set down my water and check my phone messages. Chubby Chinese girl on a stool next to me initiated a casual conversation. I responded politely but did not pursue as, at 35 or so, she was older than I preferred and as long as she was sitting on a stool I could not tell if her body was still interesting enough to want to fuck despite the chubbiness.

Second time around I stopped at one girl on the left side line up that was cute and had hit me with a beaming smile the first time around but the language barrier seemed more daunting than usual and the shoulder-to-shoulder high-school dance awkwardness of it all kept it all but impossible to exchange anything other than how much and for how long. Which I assume is about the only exchange that happens between these girls and 90% of the Asian punters. But I don't really need to know how much since I know it's going to be 500 baht on either side of 3,000 and I know it will be for at least 30 minutes, long enough for me to pop my one pop and move on. I need to know DFK or not, BBBJ or not, BBBJCIM or not, BBFSCIP or not; Critically valuable info for which Thermae might be the worst set up imaginable to obtain a zero peer pressure and more truthful response from a Thai girl.

Moving on to the center bar area, I stop at a very friendly smiling face of a sexier girl who seems very impressed and amused that I can engage in the simplest basic Thai greetings. And at this area it is easier to whisper requests into her ear to find out things that really matter. And I found out she will not finish a BJ with a CIM or boom boom no condom with a finish inside. Next. I moved on, which seemed to disappoint her.

All the way around to the other side and I get even more smiles from even more cuties than my first time around, one older but still kind of doable lady I am sure I have seen there before reached out to touch me as I passed, I smiled back but did not stop.

Then I see a cute-faced, slim, light skin, mid 20's, junior office-worker type smiling at me with just the trace of pretend or real lust in her eyes to inspire me to stop and whisper-chat the essentials. She is notably more English-fluent than most, in keeping with her post-graduate uni girl, junior office-worker image.

3,000 for 1 hour. I pause a few seconds only to consider if I want to pursue the next questions and how to phrase them but before I can get the next question out she drops it to 2,500.

DFK? Ok.

DATY and BBBJ? Ok.

BBBJCIM? A hesitant Ok.

BBFSCIP? No.

I look disappointed but would actually be quite fine with a BBBJCIM from this girl so I don't just walk away.

I mention I have had a vasectomy, "t-monn" in Thai, but that I do like BBBJCIM anyway so. But, again, before I had a chance to agree to a BBBJCIM for 2,500 baht she chimed in with "3,000 ok for boom boom no condom, cum inside". Oh. Nice. Ok. Of course, I whisper-repeated that bottom line service expected and that she just agreed to another time and the 3,000 baht amount just to be sure. At that point I only added that I enjoy slow and easy, no rush sex, to which she smiled even more and nodded and off we went.

We rode my little electric motor-scooter to Soi 7/1, got a 350 baht ST room at the Atlas Hotel, she opted to shower first and alone, followed by my shower. Back on the bed, adjust the aircon to a suitable level, another sip of my bottled water, start off with some very sweet, romantic and receptive DFK and the very smooth, easy and no hurry Real Sex session proceeded as agreed. Very nice. I would repeat. She really did have a very nice, slim, little or no tattoo, perky and nicely shaped tits, great skin body and an even cuter face up close in a missionary fuck and finish inside position.

The only downside was she had way more of a Bush than is appetizing or appealing to me. Probably left that way for the typical Thermae clientele. Had she been fully shaved or waxed it would have been more of a dream first session.

Rode her back and dropped her off in front of Thermae with a hug.

[Mr Enternational]

LOL. I have to admit to also having had a slight Thai university girl fetish when I first came to live in Thailand, and I don't think I'm alone. It's the uniform. Nobody in my home country used uniforms at school, and there's something sexy about it if you've not experienced it before.

LOL. See. I went to Catholic school for 8 years. The last thing I want to see a chick in is a uniform!

[Nyezhov]

That is not necessarily true. I have fucked all of the above for money. Not like I marched into any of these places looking for a chick. But in my pursuits of looking for chick to fuck for money, I have happened to come across chicks looking for guys to fuck them for money and it just so happened they worked at 7 11, were nurses, worked in an office, etc. Not really something to actively seek out and no big deal. When the clothes and work / school IDs come off, everyone is the same. Pursuing someone because of their affiliation is stupid. The affiliation does not make the person. Again, it is just a fetish that some guys have.

Dude I think you misunderstood. My point is if you want to grab some non P4 P stuff, you have to date it. Dating. Like BF GF stuff. Like holding hands and gazing together on long walks around the market, giggles and subtle touches and glances, you pay of course, just don't hand her a wad of cash the next morning.

Now in terms of what were are all here for, I've paid 7-11 girls too as I ushered them out the door. Hell, I saw a 7-11 girl from my neighborhood in Thermae once, I made her far more comfortable when I smiled and winked.

But, its a whatever to me, if folks want to fly to Thailand and fall "in love" (ie morph to an ATM) and "date" more power to them. Its not complicated, its the same as back in the World. It seems that there is a whole bunch of overthinking going on, as it has since this subject came up on the first days of this place, and quite frankly, I could have done two short times and a Nana smash burger in the time it has taken me to read all the analyses.

And yes I read fast, so no need to bring up my speed fucking.

[LecheAlot]

"does she really love me". You can read the Board for all of the tips and experiences. Despite the ego needs of certain posters, the subject isn't a new one, nor particularly complicated.

The married guys on asean forum said I was lying about all the old boys I know who've been screwed over by their Thai and Filipina wives.

You'll be paraded around to her friends and family, to show off and all, like a gucci bag or something. It's like 'look everybody, I got a farang man, who's the shit now? That's all that it is, the sad, sad human reality of it all.

Yep. I've had that experience in Chiang Rai and Angeles.

Maybe they sense the presence of a Punjabi Prince from far away.

LOL.

There seems to be a dispensary every km or so in... the central part of Pattaya.

There's a weed shop every 6 feet in Pattaya. I'm not complaining. I like weed.

[Werqweq]

Not older men that actually attended a university and were banging chicks while there. Most of us do not see what the big deal is. I fucked high school chicks when I was in high school, university chicks when I was at the university, stripper chicks when I was DJing in the strip club, club chicks when I was bartending in the club, military chicks when I was in and out of the military, etc. Women are women. It does not matter if they are studying at a particular place or working a particular job. Guys that are used to getting pussy have no dog in this fight.

LOL. I have to admit to also having had a slight Thai university girl fetish when I first came to live in Thailand, and I don't think I'm alone. It's the uniform. Nobody in my home country used uniforms at school, and there's something sexy about it if you've not experienced it before.

I can still remember one of my friends, sometimes dropping by during a study break in her uniform, before going to back to uni some hours later. The first few times I thought that was god damn sexy. One time I pissed her off by not taking off her uniform shirt before fucking her on the bed, and then jizzing all over her shirt. Fortunately clothes dry really quick in Thailand.

[Werqweq]

I agree with most of this, but there's one area where I find myself disagreeing though it's more based on personal anecdotal experience.

Your post seems to frame "Thai rich guys" as some kind of threat. In my opinion, they're not. From my experience (I'm from the USA), we completely outmatch them financially. Let's do a simple 1-to-1 comparison: a USA Doctor in the Bay Area vs. A Thai doctor, or a USA Software engineer vs. A Thai software engineer. It's no contest.

That's not "Thai rich guys". After ex-GF moved to Bangkok from nakhon nowhere, she eventually got to know some sugarbabes (plus several wealthy thai women, due to her own work / education, not because she herself was rich). These are girls that get 200,000+ per month in "salary", posh apartments to stay in, and when daddy comes to pick them up in one of his Ferraris (look up the price of a Ferrari in Thailand. Hint: it's not what you might think if you're from the USA), dazzling gifts. Plus I'm sure all sorts of other things I didn't hear about.

I saw some photos of these "sugarbabes", and all I can say is, unless these girls have some hidden talents, daddy's taste is pretty different from mine. But competing financially? Is that you, Elon?

[Sychip1]

Hands down, if I had the time and was unconstrained, I'd stick to civvies or semi pros and avoid the pros almost completely.

I'm racially handicapped, but somewhat able to compensate through $, but am very understated / discreet.

I care little about physical appearance beyond slim / petite, but have very strong unsavoury / unspeakable desires and naturally lean towards women who can accommodate.

In my experience, taking a 22-23 yo 7-11 worker (not the most attractive in her surroundings) - on a first date that costs 3/4-1 month of her income covering dinner, shopping and rooftop bar has been the best strategy for my needs. Never had anything refused after that date, and often they continued to spend nights for 1-2 weeks after, expecting nothing in return.

I've found, the girls who are not the most attractive are starved for attention, and never been spoiled, so kind of get overwhelmed after such a date. They are genuinely grateful and show their happiness uninhibited which makes me even happier. All these civvies have rimmed me without the slightest hint from me, and always let me have their backdoor..

I've found a good strategy is to bounce to another place on the 1st date so that it almost seems like the 2nd date. Psychologically they just feel more comfortable with you that you have built up some level of trust that you show her a 2nd place and you seem like a (somewhat) normal person and not an axe murderer.

Don't underestimate coffee dates, not only are they less costly but less pressure too.

[JustLoggedInto]

I agree with most of this, but there's one area where I find myself disagreeing though it's more based on personal anecdotal experience.

Your post seems to frame "Thai rich guys" as some kind of threat. In my opinion, they're not. From my experience (I'm from the USA), we completely outmatch them financially. Let's do a simple 1-to-1 comparison: a USA Doctor in the Bay Area vs. A Thai doctor, or a USA Software engineer vs. A Thai software engineer. It's no contest.

In fact, I'd go even further and say that USA Guys make far more money than Japanese salarymen. The strength of the USA Dollar compared to other currencies, especially the Japanese yen (which has been halved in value since 2011), puts us on a completely different level.

Another reason I don't see Thai rich guys as a real "threat" is because their contributions don't seem any different from the typical civilian relationships here in the USA Going on date after date, paying for dinners, and eventually having a girlfriend often costs more than any interactions with Thai girls and definitely more than whatever the Thai guys are contributing. At the end of the day, we simply make way more money, and the girls know it.

You also touched on another point. A friend of mine (he's USA -Thai) once explained how Thai men view beauty. When you see women in Thai commercials, that is their standard of beauty. That's what Thai men consider ideal.

Adding to this, if you're a wealthy Thai guy, why would you settle for a farmer girl (most of the girls from Soi Cowboy or Nana are from Isan) when you could be with someone just as beautiful but college-educated?

That said, your ultimate message is spot on: get in, get out.

Bangkok's university girls, often seen in their iconic short black skirts and white blouses, are the subject of many foreigners' fantasies. But before diving headfirst into this dream, it's crucial to face the realities, challenges, and potential pitfalls. Picking up university girls in Bangkok isn't as easyor as glamorousas it may seem on YouTube or in your imagination.

The Language Barrier and Cultural Gap.

For starters, many university girls in Bangkok have limited English skills. This language barrier alone makes meaningful connections difficult unless you speak Thai. Additionally, cultural differences mean their dating expectations may differ significantly from those of foreigners..

[OzzieSuds]

Hands down, if I had the time and was unconstrained, I'd stick to civvies or semi pros and avoid the pros almost completely.

I'm racially handicapped, but somewhat able to compensate through $, but am very understated / discreet.

I care little about physical appearance beyond slim / petite, but have very strong unsavoury / unspeakable desires and naturally lean towards women who can accommodate.

In my experience, taking a 22-23 yo 7-11 worker (not the most attractive in her surroundings) - on a first date that costs 3/4-1 month of her income covering dinner, shopping and rooftop bar has been the best strategy for my needs. Never had anything refused after that date, and often they continued to spend nights for 1-2 weeks after, expecting nothing in return.

I've found, the girls who are not the most attractive are starved for attention, and never been spoiled, so kind of get overwhelmed after such a date. They are genuinely grateful and show their happiness uninhibited which makes me even happier. All these civvies have rimmed me without the slightest hint from me, and always let me have their backdoor.

The civvies in jobs remotely similar to mine are too full of themselves and see themselves as a prize. It didn't take more than 4-5 such dates, 1-2 of which ended in the lousiest sex of my life to get me to swear off these women completely.

I don't frequent malls so never tried that cohort, but I imagine they are somewhere between the 7-11 girls and the snooty big company office girls.

The thing is though, IMO:

1. Civvies need familiarity over a couple of weeks at least till they will agree to a date.

2. You need to ask in the right situation ensuring she has no chance of losing face, and has privacy.

3. It is effort in the sense that you'll need to keep the pretence of a date going, but it is low effort if you do a mind blowing date.

This applies throughout Asia. Respect respect respect and good things happen.

[ShyBoy143]

Hands down, if I had the time and was unconstrained, I'd stick to civvies or semi pros and avoid the pros almost completely.

I'm racially handicapped, but somewhat able to compensate through $, but am very understated / discreet.

I care little about physical appearance beyond slim / petite, but have very strong unsavoury / unspeakable desires and naturally lean towards women who can accommodate.

In my experience, taking a 22-23 yo 7-11 worker (not the most attractive in her surroundings) - on a first date that costs 3/4-1 month of her income covering dinner, shopping and rooftop bar has been the best strategy for my needs. Never had anything refused after that date, and often they continued to spend nights for 1-2 weeks after, expecting nothing in return.

I've found, the girls who are not the most attractive are starved for attention, and never been spoiled, so kind of get overwhelmed after such a date. They are genuinely grateful and show their happiness uninhibited which makes me even happier. All these civvies have rimmed me without the slightest hint from me, and always let me have their backdoor.

The civvies in jobs remotely similar to mine are too full of themselves and see themselves as a prize. It didn't take more than 4-5 such dates, 1-2 of which ended in the lousiest sex of my life to get me to swear off these women completely.

I don't frequent malls so never tried that cohort, but I imagine they are somewhere between the 7-11 girls and the snooty big company office girls.

The thing is though, IMO:

1. Civvies need familiarity over a couple of weeks at least till they will agree to a date.

2. You need to ask in the right situation ensuring she has no chance of losing face, and has privacy.

3. It is effort in the sense that you'll need to keep the pretence of a date going, but it is low effort if you do a mind blowing date.

[GuyBrusg1957]

Has anyone ever found lineups similar to the US or Canada were they have a list of girls working with maybe a partial photo at least? I know nothing about Thai social media but I am surprised that places like LaBelle or Black Label don't have one at all. Some of the clubs like The Pimp have some stuff but it hit or miss and some of the girls are just dancers not performers.

I know there are some sites like fwiw fans and some forums but navigating them is difficult as a westerner.

[Sychip1]

Isn't it always a fetish when guys put tunnel vision parameters on hookers or people in general? I go out and see a chick and like a chick. No need to go search only for chicks that are this age, this tall, with this skin tone, and this color hair. That says nothing about how you will get along together or anything else. Of course I have preferences or features I like about a chick, but I am not throwing the baby out with the bathwater and saying there are no good chicks if there were none with red hair or none 22 years old. I have never had a good time based on how someone looked or because they went to a certain school or had a certain job. Those things are just fetishes.

I agree, my last 2 women I was with in Bkk the 1st was a 19-year old uni student and the sex was good but nothing amazing. I saw her a 2nd time and we're just normal friends. She wears glasses, wore a casual strapless dress when we first met and kinda curvy. To be fair she looked a lot better on the 2nd date with a lacy top and tight jeans.

The 2nd lady was a 34-year old recently divorced Thai, when she showed up wearing a nice black dress not an ounce of fat on her body and in bed she really knew what she was doing. You know when in any position and they're grinding and riding you even when you're in mish. She was pretty thirsty LOL. Long story short I'the much rather see the 34-year old again, just because someone is a uni student doesn't mean they're gagging for it. YMMV.

[Mr Enternational]

Haha, nothing iconic here, just a version of the good old stripping for tuition line. Older men have insatiable fantasy about banging students.

Not older men that actually attended a university and were banging chicks while there. Most of us do not see what the big deal is. I fucked high school chicks when I was in high school, university chicks when I was at the university, stripper chicks when I was DJing in the strip club, club chicks when I was bartending in the club, military chicks when I was in and out of the military, etc. Women are women. It does not matter if they are studying at a particular place or working a particular job. Guys that are used to getting pussy have no dog in this fight.