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[Jarango]

My mom still waits around to watch the 6:00 news. Whenever I am at her house and this happens, I ask why she would waste 30 minutes watching this at 6 pm when she could have read it all online in 3 minutes at 2 pm. Old habits die hard.

Goferring and Old & Ugly made some incisiive poitns, the one about the lost Vietnam vets being an excellent one. Hello John Rambo. There was a best seller in England a few decades back about an ex Colonel Blimp colonial chap who did it all in Kenya, the Kyber Pass etc, shooting tigers, elephants etc and ended up tending a rose garden in Sussex.

You could learn things from your mommy as she has a routine. Does her stuff, listens to the news, does more stuff. We could all do with a well thought out routine. That is the issue for me.

[Locamotive]

When he sent it to me I clicked it off when he started talking about ladyboys. You have to be a serious actor to act it out as he did. I could not even listen to it.

HaHaHa. True. His buddy just sitting there with his mouth open. Like WTF!. He is a good actor too loved him in "Justified"But I doubt many of us go over there and have those thoughts. That is some creepy shit, becoming a homosexual because you get bored screwing all those women. Good scene but people here watching that show thinking we become that living there or traveling there are sadly mistaken.

[Locamotive]

Sure, I know a couple of examples of bar girls marrying and settling down to be suburban soccer moms. But I also know hundreds of examples where it spiralled out of control and caused the guy a lot of grief and money.

What are your plans when you bring her stateside and she misses her old party lifestyle, the constant flow of money, being the center of attention, that she regards micro shorts and a tube top as formal dress appropriate for anywhere? What about when your friends or other guys in town notice her particular skill set. She will try to hide her past but it always comes out and is very noticeable.

Do you want all the downside hassle just because she is nice to you and is a good lay when there are so many others without her baggage?

There are literally thousands of available girls in the Philippines. Many are very sweet where the question wouldn't even come up. Why would you even take the risk??

That second paragraph is a big No No No!. Never ever take them out of the Matrix even if she is a virgin from some deep dark province and never seen a foreigner before. They are many horror stories about this onlineThe west culture is a cancer that will infect them. Now that being said as long as you stay there, yeah it can be ok. I've done this a couple times as most girls want to leave the bar, very few truly want to sleep with muliple men, women are just not wired that way. Are there true hard core prostitutes' that just love the money, sure, but you'll be able to tell those types in short order. I had a couple pulled them out of bars and everything was fine and they said thank God that was not for me. But. Hehe a few guys were still in their phones and I lost them both to guys who finally retired there. Can't blame them, good for them. I cannot be there all the time but they could. But yes it can work, bars do not make them trashy women as most just do it out of necessity.

[Goferring]

Does anybody have a good experience or know of good experience where dating a BG goes as planned and she could become my GF or am I being naive?

Thanks for the insights.

Sure, I know a couple of examples of bar girls marrying and settling down to be suburban soccer moms. But I also know hundreds of examples where it spiralled out of control and caused the guy a lot of grief and money.

What are your plans when you bring her stateside and she misses her old party lifestyle, the constant flow of money, being the center of attention, that she regards micro shorts and a tube top as formal dress appropriate for anywhere? What about when your friends or other guys in town notice her particular skill set. She will try to hide her past but it always comes out and is very noticeable.

Do you want all the downside hassle just because she is nice to you and is a good lay when there are so many others without her baggage?

There are literally thousands of available girls in the Philippines. Many are very sweet where the question wouldn't even come up. Why would you even take the risk??

[Old And Ugly]

So I got back from the PH a couple of weeks ago and I stayed there for about 2 months.

I met a BG in manila and we had a great time. I immediately felt like I was falling for her. For the entire lengt of my trip we have been chatting. She came with me to one of the islands and I think we spend about 2 weeks physically together. Some of the nights I didn't have to pay her and it felt like she was my GF.

Now I'm back home and we are still talking and Video calling and wanting to see each other again. I'm trying to have her come visit me and I'll go back to her soon.

It feels as if we are in a long distance relationship but she is still working. I don't want to send her money at this stage to make her stop.

However I find it super difficult knowing she is still working at the bars and meeting other men. I'm trying to be supportive about it but I can't sleep when she is working.

Does anybody have a good experience or know of good experience where dating a BG goes as planned and she could become my GF or am I being naive?

Thanks for the insights.

Everything is possible, she may be looking for a way out of that life, you may not care about her past, most wifes had been somebody's else women before, and not out of necessity like a BG, but by choice. All that said the chance of a happy relationship with one of them is minimal, but not impossible, I would say less than 10%. If you do take the risk, plan ahead and have contingency plans ready to be activated. Personally I would never get sentimentally involved with one, it's too prone to failure, and is possible that beside the bar customers that she needs to fuck for money in order to survive she may have a few guys in your situation on the back burner, most of this girls are naturals when comes on praying on men. Even if you are in a dark place right now, do not make rush decisions, think it over. If you still blinded by "love" and decide against all better judgement to do it, then take her away from AC or wherever she works, and have a few months test drive, when you monitor her activities, acting like you're stupid and blind. Not easy, but will save you from later surprises.

[Old And Ugly]

Did you actually say that? The good part about advances in information technology is that you no longer have to sit around and wait for someone to feed you the news that they want to feed you. You can go online and only read about science, nature, new discoveries, etc without reading stuff about politics and celebrities.

My mom still waits around to watch the 6:00 news. Whenever I am at her house and this happens, I ask why she would waste 30 minutes watching this at 6 pm when she could have read it all online in 3 minutes at 2 pm. Old habits die hard.

No, no, no news on tv, I stopped doing that 20 years ago, when I realized that's all bullshit, I'm talking about on line reading. It still scarce, with lots of fake things.

[Mr Enternational]

I met a BG in manila and we had a great time. I immediately felt like I was falling for her.

Where you have written BG, erase that and replace it with the word prostitute and read your story again to figure out how much sense it makes.

[MongerHunger]

So I got back from the PH a couple of weeks ago and I stayed there for about 2 months.

I met a BG in manila and we had a great time. I immediately felt like I was falling for her. For the entire lengt of my trip we have been chatting. She came with me to one of the islands and I think we spend about 2 weeks physically together. Some of the nights I didn't have to pay her and it felt like she was my GF.

Now I'm back home and we are still talking and Video calling and wanting to see each other again. I'm trying to have her come visit me and I'll go back to her soon.

It feels as if we are in a long distance relationship but she is still working. I don't want to send her money at this stage to make her stop.

However I find it super difficult knowing she is still working at the bars and meeting other men. I'm trying to be supportive about it but I can't sleep when she is working..

A bargirl. She's messaging and video chatting with other men that she also has on the hook. Sounds like it's only a matter of time before you become one of her Western Union Boyfriends. You have to admit that she seems to be a seasoned pro that knows all the right moves and what to say. It's hard to give advice to someone that's "whipped". One thing I will advise. If you are genuinely looking for a girlfriend / wife, find a Province girl or one that is not in the profession of sleeping with multiple men per day. One thing that you will never ever forget about or get out of your head is her history.

[PhilJoy]

My passions in life has always been pussy, and travel, that's what makes me happy, and I'm just continuing on doing just that. By combining the two of them it becomes interesting and not boring at all. Also I like to read about interesting stuff, but lately with all the advances in the information technology, it seems that the whole world has become dumber instead to smart up. The news are all about politics and "celebrities", no mentions about science, nature, new discoveries, technology, etc. Like it doesn't exist anymore.

Every time I go back to civilization, for a reunion, medical stuff or other matters, always short visits, I'm just like the Vietnam vets that were unable to adapt back to the normal life, and when I see all the bullshit and the fakery and nonsense, I can't wait to return to the PH.

The legend of Ugly.

Sums it up perfectly.

Nothing more to be said.

_Phil.

[Instigator23]

So I got back from the PH a couple of weeks ago and I stayed there for about 2 months.

I met a BG in manila and we had a great time. I immediately felt like I was falling for her. For the entire lengt of my trip we have been chatting. She came with me to one of the islands and I think we spend about 2 weeks physically together. Some of the nights I didn't have to pay her and it felt like she was my GF.

Now I'm back home and we are still talking and Video calling and wanting to see each other again. I'm trying to have her come visit me and I'll go back to her soon.

It feels as if we are in a long distance relationship but she is still working. I don't want to send her money at this stage to make her stop.

However I find it super difficult knowing she is still working at the bars and meeting other men. I'm trying to be supportive about it but I can't sleep when she is working.

Does anybody have a good experience or know of good experience where dating a BG goes as planned and she could become my GF or am I being naive?

Thanks for the insights.

[Mr Enternational]

Not for the feint of heart.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QSITUpElxso

* Never seen White Lotus until today. Besides FG, thanks to another board member for bringing this to my attention today.

When he sent it to me I clicked it off when he started talking about ladyboys. You have to be a serious actor to act it out as he did. I could not even listen to it.

[FuriousGeorge]

It really is stunningly deep. And it also sums up what White Lotus is all about. People who are seemingly without problems seeking some kind of solace and peace and their place in the world. Most of these people are broken in some way. I've had this discussion with friends. Is the Sam Rockwell character a bad person? There are indications that he is, but is this monologue indicative of such? Either way, regarding the show, each season is fantastically entertaining and this season is particularly good.

Stunningly deep, 4-minute excerpt from White Lotus*, referencing mongering. Yikes. We've mentioned before (and recently) about not being able to tell folks back home what life is like in-country, and here is a wild example. Not for the feint of heart.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QSITUpElxso

* Never seen White Lotus until today. Besides FG, thanks to another board member for bringing this to my attention today.

[WestCoast1]

I would encourage everyone to check out the Sam Rockwell monologue on the latest episode of White Lotus. It is heavy and disturbing. Or is it? What are the differences between ethics and morality?

Stunningly deep, 4-minute excerpt from White Lotus*, referencing mongering. Yikes. We've mentioned before (and recently) about not being able to tell folks back home what life is like in-country, and here is a wild example. Not for the feint of heart.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QSITUpElxso

* Never seen White Lotus until today. Besides FG, thanks to another board member for bringing this to my attention today.

[FuriousGeorge]

Some good deep philosophical discussions going on here in the last few days. I haven't seen them until just now, because, sadly, I am a slave to the man still and my commute is long. Hopefully this will end in the next few years. In the meantime, TV is so good now, that I've been able to keep it together through the incredible level of entertainment offered to me weekly. I would encourage everyone to check out the Sam Rockwell monologue on the latest episode of White Lotus. It is heavy and disturbing. Or is it? What are the differences between ethics and morality?

[Mr Enternational]

Also I like to read about interesting stuff, but lately with all the advances in the information technology, it seems that the whole world has become dumber instead to smart up. The news are all about politics and "celebrities", no mentions about science, nature, new discoveries, technology, etc. Like it doesn't exist anymore.

Did you actually say that? The good part about advances in information technology is that you no longer have to sit around and wait for someone to feed you the news that they want to feed you. You can go online and only read about science, nature, new discoveries, etc without reading stuff about politics and celebrities.

My mom still waits around to watch the 6:00 news. Whenever I am at her house and this happens, I ask why she would waste 30 minutes watching this at 6 pm when she could have read it all online in 3 minutes at 2 pm. Old habits die hard.