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[Mr Enternational]

The girl who knows she's a firm 9 or 10 in this market (and yes, some of them do know) is going to expect more than the girl who's just going through the motions for rent money.

The girls don't know shit. Men assume they know something because they find the girl beautiful or whatever, but most women have low self-esteem and see a bunch of problems instead of a bunch of beauty. And in our hobby, I doubt any of them are thinking I am so beautiful that I have to be a hooker instead of a model or actress or whatever else job people see beautiful women as doing.

They will charge the money they charge because history has shown them that guys will pay it and IMHO that has nothing to do with how beautiful they see themselves. They probably can not believe that guys will give them so much money.

[AggieDad1]

I spent some time in a bar today, and endured hearing some US guy talking at bar girls. He spoke in rapid fire English, how the ladies understood is a mystery to me.

If you are going to talk at the ladies, try to speak slowly and don't use slang.

Good advice. Wish someone would have told me this 20 years ago before I started working in China. One day I was sitting in a bar in China after being in country for 7 months talking to a Spanish guy. After a while he told me that he could understand my English better than any American or Brit he had ever spoken too. I told him it was because I had been working with people for months who speak little or no english. You either learn to speak slowly and cut out the slang or spend half your day repeating yourself.

[EverythingThai]

Finally someone calls me E out on pricing besides me.

You know the answer ET. His girls are Ugly.

Nothing wrong with Ugly. Darn Cheap.

Let's talk about the ol' "you get what you pay for" argument in the mongering game.

In most cases, it holds true. The hottest girls, they're going to cost more. Whether that's a higher barfine, more lady drinks, or just a flat-out higher ST / LT rate, it's part of the deal.

Why? Because supply and demand is still undefeated. The girl who knows she's a firm 9 or 10 in this market (and yes, some of them do know) is going to expect more than the girl who's just going through the motions for rent money.

But here's the twist, not everyone agrees on what a 10 is.

One man's 10 is another man's 2.

As the saying goes, trash to one is treasure to another. Some guys are laser-focused on service and don't care if she looks like she just rolled out of a bus from Buriram, if she's sweet, skilled, and doesn't cause drama, that's a win for them. And to be fair, there's nothing wrong with that if you know what you like.

Me personally? I'm not one of those guys. Looks matter to me. Not always supermodel level, but if I'm paying, I want to at least feel the illusion for a few hours. So yeah, I expect to pay more for what I consider "quality. " and for other things I want, such as BBFS, a no holds barred threesome where the girls make out, lick each others pussies, and fuck me inside and out, no talk of switching condoms or even condoms at all. That's a real threesome worth paying for.

Now all that aside, when I say be realistic, I'm not talking about finding miracles. I'm talking about the norm.

Beach Road? You know what the usual range is.

Soi 6? Same.

Gents clubs, Thai Friendly, BJ bars, all have their lanes and price brackets. You can score cheap once in a while, sure, but most of the time, there's a reason it's cheap.

So when I hear guys saying it's realistic to get a decent girl for 1000 LT? Come on now. That's not the norm. That's either luck, charity, or creative storytelling. Even if you are the best negotiator in the world, it won’t matter. If you pay under market, there is a reason and it won’t be something that occurs often. Otherwise, the market would be lower.

In the end, know what you're looking for, know what you're willing to pay, and just don't gaslight the next guy trying to figure this scene out.


Waiting for a certain someone to come back with his “catch phrase” lol.

[Mr Enternational]

I was supposed to leave Friday from Houston for Bangkok. However a vulture decided to commit suicide on my windshield yesterday. Luckily only the vulture suffered injuries. So now delayed two weeks until I get my vehicle out of the shop. Anyone else have strange incident that made you cancel or postpone a trip?

No. I would have put that shit in the garage and fixed it when I got back, or told the shop when I would be back to pick it up.

[Mr Enternational]

I have social media contacts for many ladies in Pattaya. Sometimes I wonder what these ladies are thinking when I see their Facebook posts. They write about true love while they are working freelance on the streets of Pattaya.

Is there a guy so lonely that they can fall in love with a Pattaya streetwalker?

The real question is is there a guy so lonely that he has to stalk the Facebook pages of Pattaya prostitutes?

[Explorer8939]

I spent some time in a bar today, and endured hearing some US guy talking at bar girls. He spoke in rapid fire English, how the ladies understood is a mystery to me.

If you are going to talk at the ladies, try to speak slowly and don't use slang.

[AggieDad1]

I have social media contacts for many ladies in Pattaya. Sometimes I wonder what these ladies are thinking when I see their Facebook posts. They write about true love while they are working freelance on the streets of Pattaya.

Is there a guy so lonely that they can fall in love with a Pattaya streetwalker?

Yes, they are. I meet one or two every trip. Speaking of trips. I was supposed to leave Friday from Houston for Bangkok. However a vulture decided to commit suicide on my windshield yesterday. Luckily only the vulture suffered injuries. So now delayed two weeks until I get my vehicle out of the shop. Anyone else have strange incident that made you cancel or postpone a trip?

[Explorer8939]

I have social media contacts for many ladies in Pattaya. Sometimes I wonder what these ladies are thinking when I see their Facebook posts. They write about true love while they are working freelance on the streets of Pattaya.

Is there a guy so lonely that they can fall in love with a Pattaya streetwalker?

[Explorer8939]

Maggie Mays has a kind of resort with chicks now in Pattaya somewhere. I'd say it won't really work, cause their entire business structure is weird. Who's going to want to stay there for 2 solid weeks stuck with the same chicks? What if the chicks aren't hot? And you're no where near the beach.

I can't say if the Maggie Mays Resort will be a success, as bars and hotels aren't my line of work.

A couple of bargirls have expressed a desire to see the resort, so I may visit in the next week or so.

[Explorer8939]

Well maintained, yet just happens to need 2000 baht from you every so often? When I was fucking a married well maintained Filipina in Pattaya, she was not coming over for money. She was coming over to fuck and taking me out spending her well maintainedness on me. Shame they moved back to where her husband was from.

This lady certainly isn't coming over to fuck. But she doesn't really need the money: she is simply bored.

[Newton York]

The one who got away: Poppy from Maggie Mays bar. I never went with her, mostly due to time constraints. She wanted to go to Singapore with me, but I declined, since she's from Laos, and sometimes returning to Thailand from a third country can be problematic.

Right after that, her family sold her to some guy in China, and she now lives in China, never to come back.

So, I missed the boat on that one.

Maggie Mays has a kind of resort with chicks now in Pattaya somewhere. I'd say it won't really work, cause their entire business structure is weird. Who's going to want to stay there for 2 solid weeks stuck with the same chicks? What if the chicks aren't hot? And you're no where near the beach.

[Mr Enternational]

Last night's lady is a Mia Noi. She is maintained by a Chinese guy, for a long time, and has a kid with him.

But he lives in China with his wife.

So, the lady is well maintained, but bored. She had a young Spanish boyfriend, but the Chinese guy disapproved.

So, she comes to the condo to drink, having nothing better to do.

Well maintained, yet just happens to need 2000 baht from you every so often? When I was fucking a married well maintained Filipina in Pattaya, she was not coming over for money. She was coming over to fuck and taking me out spending her well maintainedness on me. Shame they moved back to where her husband was from.

[Explorer8939]

The one who got away: Poppy from Maggie Mays bar. I never went with her, mostly due to time constraints. She wanted to go to Singapore with me, but I declined, since she's from Laos, and sometimes returning to Thailand from a third country can be problematic.

Right after that, her family sold her to some guy in China, and she now lives in China, never to come back.

So, I missed the boat on that one.

[Explorer8939]

As I mentioned, last night's lady is a Mia Noi for a Chinese guy. That doesn't stop her from coming for overnights at my condo.

Earlier in the year, she had a young Spanish boyfriend who she professed to be in love with. That didn't stop her from coming for overnights at my condo.

[Newton York]

Since we're talking about this. Let's be honest here. All women are prostitutes. You never get sex for free. Even for those so called men who've got game, you still need to wine and dine the girl. At some point money is extracted. Obviously no where near as much as what ugly guys like me have to pay. But it's never free. And when you marry a chick, oh dear Lucifer, you'll be paying for it the rest of your life. And when she gets fat and wrinkly? You're still paying for pussy you don't want no more. I mean christ on a stick.

And to be fair, I'll say it. WE are all prostitutes in a lot of ways too. We all work, so we get paid. What do you call that? The main difference is that we don't have to sell our bodies in a sexual way, but we definitely sell ourselves, our time, our skills, etc.

The moral police and people who abhor prostitution aren't seeing it as the incredible and absolutely essential service that it provides. So that decrepit, old, ugly guys like me can get laid. By Satan's ballsack, if dudes weren't getting laid, civilization would have collapsed several times over already. Life is somewhat meaningless without sex. I mean, what's the point of waking up in the morning if you're not getting your dick wet? Or at the very least, the possibility of getting your dick wet. Something to look forward to. Something to actually live for.

I salute prostitutes, I hail them as heroes. I'd give them a medal if I could, but the money's more than enough.

I know if it wasn't for working girls, I'd have unlifed myself several times over already by now.