Medellin Reports

[Mr Enternational]

I think you took me too literally when I said Colombian men are everywhere. I have been to Medellin 16 times in the last 2. 5 years. I have an friend there and she tells me that she won't date anyone guy in her barrio. The way she describes where she lives are lots of instances of sexual harassment.

In every country you go the women will complain about the local men and claim not to date them. Just look around Colombia and notice that you see almost no mixed foreign babies. So maybe they do not consider fucking as dating! Because they definitely did not just start fucking when they came in contact with foreigners.

[KeviKev68]

I do not think you get who those single Colombian men are. My gal has a very negative view of Colombian macho men as most of them are. I remember in Argentina once they had a power shortage after they put price controls on electricity. The government responded by being offended that the country was without power. How dare you say we have no electricity? The government then changed the time period to one that was in more in line with when the sun was shining most. It was like a 2 hour switch.

That is how I envision Colombian men. They go back to their wife / GF with cum stains on their pants, lipstick on their mouth, smelling like cheap perfume, and saying to their wives / GFs, why would you think I am cheating on you? How dare you!

One girl I dated actually became friends with her half sister. Can you imagine that in the USA? Your dad is fucking another woman and you become friends with the half-sibling? I guess it is a thing there.

The father of my current gal was fucking three other women when married. One of them even called his wife and told her she was going to steal him. She had enough and finally divorced him.

My gal's baby daddy beat the hell out of her when she was pregnant and even his parents know how he is. I am sure it is going to change, but most guys there get away with all this shit. American
women have no clue how good they have it.

Hello- With all due respect you can't tell me what I know. I was in Argentina when Bill Clinton was being impeached in the Monica Lewinsky affair. People were bemused with the prospect of a President being dragged down with an extra marital affair. It was not usual there for men to have girl on the side.

I think you took me too literally when I said Colombian men are everywhere. I have been to Medellin 16 times in the last 2. 5 years. I have an friend there and she tells me that she won't date anyone guy in her barrio. The way she describes where she lives are lots of instances of sexual harassment.

I also know lots of choices who have kids but get no help at all from the fathers. On several occasions girls that I have Uber'ed to my Airbnb have told me that drivers were hitting on them and many of those guys were much older.

There's a lot I don't know but I know enough to get by when I am out there.

[ColombiaLover]

You don't want to use an Airbnb? Plenty of those that require guest to have an I. The but you can have guest. Some don't allow guest or you must register before you check in. Some allow only a certain amount of guest in a certain time frame and others guest friendly. You just have to look at their policy. I've only been using airbnb in Medellin and its worked out great. Front door people, check I. The so you have some security in that to a certain degree of security. If she was a minor trying to pull a fast one on you (and I. The issue).

I usually use an Air BnB. But I want to try something else. Front desk, in-house restaurant, maid service, maybe a spa, elevator, pool.

[Surf Looker]

Anyone still see these Giraldo sisters and old Pao Zapata.

https://www.instagram.com/kelly.giraldo.3762/

https://www.instagram.com/paz___paz/

https://www.instagram.com/malejagiiraldo/

[HumbleHal]

2) Avoid girls with more than 1 tattoo.

Women with tattoos cannot be true Christians or Jewish followers. For it says in the Good Book, Leviticus 19:28, which states: "You shall not make any cuts on your body for the dead, nor make any tattoo marks on yourselves. ".

I was once destined to the fundamentalist ministry, but then I reached puberty and my focus changed.

[Mr Enternational]

I spent some time reading many of the comments here to travel better informed. I'll be sharing a bit about my adventure in Medelland: a friend and coworker gave me the contact of someone who will introduce me to a college girl, and I'll be paying $150 for an overnight stay.

Are you paying that much because she is supposedly in school? If so, then I do not think you have ever been around any Colombian college girls, because that definitely is not one. Have them send you a picture wearing jeans, converse, and a backpack. What you have there is a full fledged hooker.

[MikeBayArea]

So I met this girl next door type off seeking. We met at a mall at first and then later that night. She actually brought me food, and I could tell she really liked me. We go at it, and I could tell that if I offered to pay her any money she would be insulted. Thing is with this girl next door type I could see her liking me for real.

I had a date with a different woman who was a smoke show. On seeing her pics, my friends called her a 10. Car horns blared as she walked by. She is not as extraverted as the GND but she fucks the shit out of me. I cannot get it up for 2 days after we are done. When it was obvious the sex was over, she seemed to want to stay. I was confused. In my mind, I am thinking, "Okay, we are done. You can leave now like all the other women have in the past. Why are you still here?" When she is in the bathroom, I put money in her purse.

I tell this story and Mr. E rags on me like he is ragging on you and says to me, "Why the fuck did you pay her?" I can be honest about this now. I thought the woman was too damned hot to be interested in me just like you are doing now. I was like, "Okay, fine, I will roll with it. I doubt she likes me but let's see. " I ask to see her again. We fuck again. I pay her nothing. Ask to take a trip with her. She says that she would love to. We had a great time. When we go our separate ways, she is balling her eyes out. It was at that moment I finally believed it was possible she really liked me.

The men's rights blogosphere say women shit test men all the time. They play this game to see if the men are just about sex or if they really like them, but we do it too. It is just money instead of sex. Take a woman to a mall. Does she spend the time with you or does she spend all of it in the stores and expects you to buy her something? When it is time for dinner, does she pick out an expensive place or is content to eat at the corner grill? Does she have a list of things she wants you to get when you see her in Colombia or does she say she just wants to see you?

Thing about shit tests is you are not the only one doing it. Everyone is doing it too: friends, family, strangers. I told the story of being in a cab. The cabbie thinks my gal is a hooker and he can overcharge me so I do not look cheap in front of her. She steps in and blasts him. He was shit testing me and her.

There is a lot that is made about whether a woman is a hooker or not, and I think it really is how they look at men. Do you respect him or just want his money? Long term, I want a woman who looks at me as more than an ATM.

I think the problem men have is not that they do not do the shit testing, but they do not look at the results. Your brain tells you the chick is no good but your dick says something else. The people who are not fucking her are a lot more objective than you are, and IMO you need to listen to them.

I had a 66 year old friend meet up with me and my gal at a social event, and she has a smoking hot 31 year old friend. She comes onto my guy friend who is married, and he told me she let him know in graphic detail she would fuck the shit out of him. He has money, but I do not think that was it. She saw how happy her friend was and she wanted that too.

So yeah, the ability to get a goregous woman unlike anything you can ever get in the USA can happen in Colombia. I met a 50 year old guy on a plane with a smoking hot 23 year old wife, but it is the exception not the rule. Based on what I have seen, there is a one in three or four chance she might not be the gold digging hooker type. You are not going to know until you meet her and shit test her.

Unless she is a tatted up El Centro type, I would not worry about being drugged. Go to a public place for the initial meet. That is not just for your safety but hers. Get her into bed as soon as you can. No matter how hot she is, if she is lousy in the sack, you are going to be looking at others if she is lousy in bed.

I know you want to fuck her but for long term, she needs to be so good in bed that you give up other women for her. If you cannot visit Colombia at least once every 3 months or fly her to a halfway point like Mexico, I would not even think about anything long term. The Colombian women really interested in me liked to video chat every night.

It probably is not going to work out but you won't know until you meet her and are around her for a while, but American guys, who are not that great looking themselves, can get the best looking women Colombia has to offer. Good luck.

Awesome advice and post! Thank you! Colombia is truly amazing. Is it really true that ALL Colombia women go down hill at a certain point. I mean there is Sophia Vergara, afterall. Normally I wouldn't be going after a 35 year old, but if she looks like her pics, my god is she gorgeous!

[Mr Enternational]

That will eliminate about 80% of the P4P ladies. Most of them have an obsession with tattoos.

Exactly. Thereby 100% eliminating getting drugged by a chick you chose!

[Nounce]

Any thoughts appreciated.

You really need only one thing. A hotel that will not allow the guest to leave before your permission, and that is until the girl figures out a way to bypass that. There is always an element of risk here.

Tatoo is normal. There is no reason to avoid them if you like the girl. In my experience, often the sex is the better with them.

[Fun Luvr]

2) Avoid girls with more than 1 tattoo.

That will eliminate about 80% of the P4P ladies. Most of them have an obsession with tattoos.

I understand your trepidations being a first time visitor. Before my first trip to Medellin, I had fears of being robbed by highway bandits on the way from the airport to the city. That was because of reading reports. After 15 years and nearing 100 trips, I haven't been robbed nor drugged. I've had small things taken, like a bag of candy, shampoo, scissors, tweezers; but nothing major. I stay in apartments, mostly without front desk security. I don't drink alcohol with the ladies, and I don't get drunk. I sometimes drink a glass of water with them, but I drink it all before sitting the glass down. Most of the ladies are just trying to earn some money to exist. I don't pick up women from Parque Lleras. I have picked up a very few in the past, and most turned into a bad experience.

[JohnnyJohn1992]

Let me know if any of you hobbyists are out there durring this time, would be fun to swap notes. I have some reports from my last visit, will make a detailed report here soon with some contacts.

[Elvis 2008]

If they are online they surely aren't in the market for a local. There's single Colombian men all over the place.

He said she's on Seeking so of course she expects something.

I do not think you get who those single Colombian men are. My gal has a very negative view of Colombian macho men as most of them are. I remember in Argentina once they had a power shortage after they put price controls on electricity. The government responded by being offended that the country was without power. How dare you say we have no electricity? The government then changed the time period to one that was in more in line with when the sun was shining most. It was like a 2 hour switch.

That is how I envision Colombian men. They go back to their wife / GF with cum stains on their pants, lipstick on their mouth, smelling like cheap perfume, and saying to their wives / GFs, why would you think I am cheating on you? How dare you!

One girl I dated actually became friends with her half sister. Can you imagine that in the USA? Your dad is fucking another woman and you become friends with the half-sibling? I guess it is a thing there.

The father of my current gal was fucking three other women when married. One of them even called his wife and told her she was going to steal him. She had enough and finally divorced him.

My gal's baby daddy beat the hell out of her when she was pregnant and even his parents know how he is. I am sure it is going to change, but most guys there get away with all this shit. American women have no clue how good they have it.

[Elvis 2008]

She says she has no kids and just lost her job. She's on seeking and I saw her on Tinder. So clearly she has guys financing her. And yes, she clearly wants something which is a US passport, and I'm not really under the illusion that it could work out. She does speak some English and it was nice for a minute to fantasize that it could work out, but the truth is pretty clear as the date gets closer.

So I met this girl next door type off seeking. We met at a mall at first and then later that night. She actually brought me food, and I could tell she really liked me. We go at it, and I could tell that if I offered to pay her any money she would be insulted. Thing is with this girl next door type I could see her liking me for real.

I had a date with a different woman who was a smoke show. On seeing her pics, my friends called her a 10. Car horns blared as she walked by. She is not as extraverted as the GND but she fucks the shit out of me. I cannot get it up for 2 days after we are done. When it was obvious the sex was over, she seemed to want to stay. I was confused. In my mind, I am thinking, "Okay, we are done. You can leave now like all the other women have in the past. Why are you still here?" When she is in the bathroom, I put money in her purse.

I tell this story and Mr. E rags on me like he is ragging on you and says to me, "Why the fuck did you pay her?" I can be honest about this now. I thought the woman was too damned hot to be interested in me just like you are doing now. I was like, "Okay, fine, I will roll with it. I doubt she likes me but let's see. " I ask to see her again. We fuck again. I pay her nothing. Ask to take a trip with her. She says that she would love to. We had a great time. When we go our separate ways, she is balling her eyes out. It was at that moment I finally believed it was possible she really liked me.

The men's rights blogosphere say women shit test men all the time. They play this game to see if the men are just about sex or if they really like them, but we do it too. It is just money instead of sex. Take a woman to a mall. Does she spend the time with you or does she spend all of it in the stores and expects you to buy her something? When it is time for dinner, does she pick out an expensive place or is content to eat at the corner grill? Does she have a list of things she wants you to get when you see her in Colombia or does she say she just wants to see you?

Thing about shit tests is you are not the only one doing it. Everyone is doing it too: friends, family, strangers. I told the story of being in a cab. The cabbie thinks my gal is a hooker and he can overcharge me so I do not look cheap in front of her. She steps in and blasts him. He was shit testing me and her.

There is a lot that is made about whether a woman is a hooker or not, and I think it really is how they look at men. Do you respect him or just want his money? Long term, I want a woman who looks at me as more than an ATM.

I think the problem men have is not that they do not do the shit testing, but they do not look at the results. Your brain tells you the chick is no good but your dick says something else. The people who are not fucking her are a lot more objective than you are, and IMO you need to listen to them.

I had a 66 year old friend meet up with me and my gal at a social event, and she has a smoking hot 31 year old friend. She comes onto my guy friend who is married, and he told me she let him know in graphic detail she would fuck the shit out of him. He has money, but I do not think that was it. She saw how happy her friend was and she wanted that too.

So yeah, the ability to get a goregous woman unlike anything you can ever get in the USA can happen in Colombia. I met a 50 year old guy on a plane with a smoking hot 23 year old wife, but it is the exception not the rule. Based on what I have seen, there is a one in three or four chance she might not be the gold digging hooker type. You are not going to know until you meet her and shit test her.

Unless she is a tatted up El Centro type, I would not worry about being drugged. Go to a public place for the initial meet. That is not just for your safety but hers. Get her into bed as soon as you can. No matter how hot she is, if she is lousy in the sack, you are going to be looking at others if she is lousy in bed.

I know you want to fuck her but for long term, she needs to be so good in bed that you give up other women for her. If you cannot visit Colombia at least once every 3 months or fly her to a halfway point like Mexico, I would not even think about anything long term. The Colombian women really interested in me liked to video chat every night.

It probably is not going to work out but you won't know until you meet her and are around her for a while, but American guys, who are not that great looking themselves, can get the best looking women Colombia has to offer. Good luck.

[MikeBayArea]

Any recommendations? I looked back over the most recent 20 or so pages and found nothing about hotels other than the St. Peter.

I want a place that is chica-friendly and has either a pool or jacuzzi.

Thanks in advance.

I'm staying at Haven Hotel and you can have one guest per day. Their website is clear about it. Additional guests per day require a deposit of $120,000 cop.

[MikeBayArea]

Get to Colombia, get your bearings meet some girls in public if you're doing the internet dating site stuff. Get feel for them in a casual public venue that way you get their vibe, see what they look like and how they act. If you want to create some type of longer term relationship I think it's hard for short term vacations. The guys that are successful are their months at a time or live there. Try to use the big head instead of the little head. It's the guys that can rarely travel that go buck wild almost Vegas type of vacations. It's a blitz and sprint! Just depends how you go about it.

Great advice thank you.