Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[Goferring]

Give it a go G.

It's amazing what 5 star Booking / Agoda review can lead to. Especially when you mention the girl by name in your review.

It wasn't necessarily a strategy. Just found opportunities by doing so.

"So, you were the one who left me a great review? I look after you Sir".

And so she has with 'her friends'.

(I would still love to 'nail' her though, but I know that's not going to happen).

Always befriend the hotel staff. It works in one way or another.

_ Phil.

Agoda reviews is a good tip. Much more effective than simply being nice and polite.

Here's a tip for dating hotel staff. Obviously banging her on premises is totally out. It's immediate dismissal from a good job for her. Similarly, taking her to another hotel won't work because all her friends and classmates work there so it's the same result. One trip, go to her bar and let slip that you 'needed more space' for a few days so have booked an AirBnB. Just leave it at that. No handing out addresses. No making offers to meet later. At work, the walls have ears and if someone hears you, then again it has bad consequences for her. Later message her on FB and work your magic.

Good luck.

G.

[PhilJoy]

This concept that you can use a smile and personality to meet girls who don't suck dick for a living is wild. I might try it sometime. 😀.

Enjoy. G.

Give it a go G.

It's amazing what 5 star Booking / Agoda review can lead to. Especially when you mention the girl by name in your review.

It wasn't necessarily a strategy. Just found opportunities by doing so.

"So, you were the one who left me a great review? I look after you Sir".

And so she has with 'her friends'.

(I would still love to 'nail' her though, but I know that's not going to happen).

Always befriend the hotel staff. It works in one way or another.

_ Phil.

[Goferring]

However, on a recent trip, I befriended a young bar / restaurant manager. I was realistic and knew I'd have no chance with her. She has to be very professional in her job as she's just had a promotion.

However, we managed to hook up on the Pina's preferred platform, Facebook.

I've subtly asked if she has any friends that may be interested in spending some time with a guy who is over 50. "Sure Sir, I will look after you. I have many friends".

_ Phil.

This concept that you can use a smile and personality to meet girls who don't suck dick for a living is wild. I might try it sometime. 😀.

Enjoy. G.

[PhilJoy]

Correct. I just returned back to PI (from USA -- elbow surgery) and the most difficult thing for me was telling my lovers here in PI that I don't send money when I'm out of the country. Constant pestering. Cheers, buddy.

I just block them now DC if they get too aggressive. I've got one contact who has never asked for cash before, but on a recent WhatsApp chat she asked for help with the rent. I said that my bank won't allow me to send cash to foreign countries due to fraud and I'll look after you when I see you in person. Somehow she understood and said, 'That's okay, see you soon".

They like to play mind games but I've never had a girl refuse to see me because I didn't pay while I was away back home. Not once. Never.
I don't understand guys paying while they aren't even in country.G.

I'll admit G, very early on in the piece, years ago, I slipped a girl a small amount of cash from home and learnt very quickly, never again. It was mainly to guarantee a bedding on my next visit. No need in the Phils, and I think a lot of the guys who do, aren't seasoned visitors, or are first timers who have done their balls over a hooker.

Thanks Phil. This visit has definitely been subtly different. Especially online. There have been fewer girls available and ready to drop around right now. Having said that, the quality of the girls that I have actually hooked up with have been much higher than normal. Not sure if this has been by accident or choice. I think I've only had one fuck simply because she was available. All the others have been solid lookers against my priorities. Luckily only one starfish too.

The fewer quality options online has also led me to cherry picking old contacts. Some, who previously told me they don't want to see me ever again, have changed their mind when I've actually returned. When the PL runs dry, I might try your method of introductions from hotel staff. Give Walkers a go but be prepared to walk away early or invest significant time. Enjoy. G.

I never really know what I'm going to get every time I return, but it always works out fruitful G.

As for the hotel approach, I've generally relied on the security / door guys to line me something up. I've always scored, but the girl quality is always hit and miss.

However, on a recent trip, I befriended a young bar / restaurant manager. I was realistic and knew I'd have no chance with her. She has to be very professional in her job as she's just had a promotion.

However, we managed to hook up on the Pina's preferred platform, Facebook.

I've subtly asked if she has any friends that may be interested in spending some time with a guy who is over 50. "Sure Sir, I will look after you. I have many friends".

_ Phil.

[Old And Ugly]

DC, the remedy is easy. Before going be sure to tell them that you are generous while here but won't receive calls or provide support while away. Then, when away, stick to the plan. Don't answer anything. Just don't engage. Even saying no and they think that's an opportunity to continue the negotiations.

They will soon learn that calling is fruitless and won't even bother.

Cheers. G.

I simply don't engage in any conversation, and leave the messages unread, when I'm not requesting any services, there is nothing to talk about with them other than making appointments anyway.

Leaving the messages unread is important, so they don't think that you read it but ignored it. It's not like you're going to have any philosophical debates anyway.

Right now I cleared all the contact lists, except a handful that are extraordinary performers, or never ask for nothing.

Right now when I'm away for a few weeks, I do keep in touch with the GF, but of course that's a totally different story, the only thing she's requesting is help making decisions for her business.

[Goferring]

Correct. I just returned back to PI (from USA -- elbow surgery) and the most difficult thing for me was telling my lovers here in PI that I don't send money when I'm out of the country. Constant pestering. Cheers, buddy.

DC, the remedy is easy. Before going be sure to tell them that you are generous while here but won't receive calls or provide support while away. Then, when away, stick to the plan. Don't answer anything. Just don't engage. Even saying no and they think that's an opportunity to continue the negotiations.

They will soon learn that calling is fruitless and won't even bother.

Cheers. G.

[D Cups]

They like to play mind games but I've never had a girl refuse to see me because I didn't pay while I was away back home. Not once. Never.

I don't understand guys paying while they aren't even in country.

G.

Correct. I just returned back to PI (from USA -- elbow surgery) and the most difficult thing for me was telling my lovers here in PI that I don't send money when I'm out of the country. Constant pestering. Cheers, buddy.

[Goferring]

They always start smelling themselves thinking the grass is greener on the other side. Then they realize the blessing they left behind. My favorite thing to tell a chick is don't miss your blessing.

They like to play mind games but I've never had a girl refuse to see me because I didn't pay while I was away back home. Not once. Never.

I don't understand guys paying while they aren't even in country.

G.

[Mr Enternational]

The fewer quality options online has also led me to cherry picking old contacts. Some, who previously told me they don't want to see me ever again, have changed their mind when I've actually returned.

They always start smelling themselves thinking the grass is greener on the other side. Then they realize the blessing they left behind. My favorite thing to tell a chick is don't miss your blessing.

[Goferring]

Thanks G and sounds like you're having a great time. Great reports.

I will check out walkers just out of interest and to see how it works, but as mentioned previously, the time wasting factor has always been an issue for me. Hence why I only hit PL as an option recently in Boracay, as it's not a typical mongering destination. It did deliver some great results, but a lot of work.

As I've always said, it's great to think outside of the box rather than your typical bar routine.

Got a message today on WhatsApp today from my last Makati girl and contact.

'Miss you".

I know I'll walk straight back into that situation and then gather more contacts along the way.

It's a good way of securing a long time deal at 2 -3 k and these girls always appreciate it.

(And they're generally a lot more genuine than bar girls who who are ruthless in pursuit of the Peso, as opposed to offering a great time and service).

_Phil.

Thanks Phil. This visit has definitely been subtly different. Especially online. There have been fewer girls available and ready to drop around right now. Having said that, the quality of the girls that I have actually hooked up with have been much higher than normal. Not sure if this has been by accident or choice. I think I've only had one fuck simply because she was available. All the others have been solid lookers against my priorities. Luckily only one starfish too.

The fewer quality options online has also led me to cherry picking old contacts. Some, who previously told me they don't want to see me ever again, have changed their mind when I've actually returned.

When the PL runs dry, I might try your method of introductions from hotel staff.

Give Walkers a go but be prepared to walk away early or invest significant time.

Enjoy. G.

[PhilJoy]

Some enjoy it. I found it a huge sink hole for time with poor results. To each their own.

Compare that to the girl I have in the room now. She rang me up at 6 pm asking to drop around and I'll likely tell her to go home lunchtime tomorrow after handing her 2 k.

YMMV. Enjoy. G.

Thanks G and sounds like you're having a great time. Great reports.

I will check out walkers just out of interest and to see how it works, but as mentioned previously, the time wasting factor has always been an issue for me. Hence why I only hit PL as an option recently in Boracay, as it's not a typical mongering destination. It did deliver some great results, but a lot of work.

As I've always said, it's great to think outside of the box rather than your typical bar routine.

Got a message today on WhatsApp today from my last Makati girl and contact.

'Miss you".

I know I'll walk straight back into that situation and then gather more contacts along the way.

It's a good way of securing a long time deal at 2 -3 k and these girls always appreciate it.

(And they're generally a lot more genuine than bar girls who who are ruthless in pursuit of the Peso, as opposed to offering a great time and service).

_Phil.

[Goferring]

Sample Walkers.

They come in all shapes, sizes and prices.

I posted a few screen shots earlier of 'Class A' girls and their demands. There are also many posts showing girls who will fuck for free if a meal is included.

As a few have said, translating the posts into a girl actually fucking you is easier said than done.

Some enjoy it. I found it a huge sink hole for time with poor results. To each their own.

Compare that to the girl I have in the room now. She rang me up at 6 pm asking to drop around and I'll likely tell her to go home lunchtime tomorrow after handing her 2 k.

YMMV.

Enjoy. G.

[Old And Ugly]

Sample Walkers.

This ones are easy, but some of the postings are so cryptic, that even my GF with a "degree in facebooking" can't make nothing out of them, it's all Greek.

[Mr Enternational]

I see many younger girls in today's scene making the exact same mistakes and already know where 90% of them will end up. It's sad and frustrating, but it is that it is.

Yep. Pushing a food cart. I do not see it as frustrating or sad. It is what it is. But don't come 10 years down the road trying to get the 1000 baht that I am offering today. Sometimes I do fuck chicks for how they used to look though!

[RainMania]

Many guys and girls don't realise just how hard hooking is on the mind and body. Constant alcohol, drugs, being used and abused literally fucks the life out of girls and they age very quickly. Many times I've been told some desperate bag lady was once the prettiest girl in town with a slew of customers.

G.

It's an unfortunate reality but it comes with the territory. That's one of the most frustrating things about Filipinas and Thai girls in the game, they think the gravy train will carry on forever. I don't doubt for one bit the past it ladies had suitors willing to marry them and take them away from the life, but as the saying goes you can take the girl out of the bar but you can't take the bar out of the girl. I'the expand that and change "bar" to "scene". I've personally seen way too many girls from the early 2010's who are now in their mid-late 30's now begging to be taken for a fraction of what the used to charge with a high chin all those years back. I see many younger girls in today's scene making the exact same mistakes and already know where 90% of them will end up. It's sad and frustrating, but it is that it is.