Medellin Reports

[SavePros321]

Anyone have experience with the bumble, tinder, or Seeking girls. Pay before or after? I imagine it's after for these platforms. It sounds like the states. The hooker / escort girls pay before, but the girls from other platforms pay after?

Another thing we need to help newbies out with so that another fucked up trend doesn't begin: this is not the States. You do not pay beforehand. It doesn't matter what platform you are using. The only place you would end up paying beforehand here is at a Casa or Strip Club.

And good luck with those platforms. 75% of the things we read about going wrong (drugging, robberies, or worse) were with chicas dudes met on Tinder in Colombia. But YMMV.

And since Seeking displays your net worth (even if you are lying about it), imagine what kind of bullseye you've got on your back coming into a country where the average person would never earn a tenth of that in three lifetimes.

[SavePros321]

Hopefully, this post will help someone out. I now see why most of the old-heads do not post info very often. As I am building up my FB roster with fresh blood, I am noticing a lot of these chicks are coming up with all kinds of schemes to get you to send them money. This tells me that they have been very successful with getting sucker newbies to put down deposits before even getting a wiff of that tail.

I have been coming to Medellin since 2012, and the times have definitely changed post-pandemic.

A lot of you will be very tempted to send even a small amount (just today: "Lo decia por que es muy barato" - someone asking me to send them money for a damn burger, LOL), but here is what your big head should always be telling you:

- "How do I know this person is who they say they are?" - It doesn't matter if she is posting endless photos of herself daily. It could be her boyfriend or chulo running the account.

- "How do I know this broad was ever planning to meet me to begin with?" Many simps will see sending even a small amount as a "goodwill gesture" or as putting a down payment on that booty to somehow reserve your spot for when you finally do arrive.

As someone who is "True to this" and definitely "Not new to this," here is how you can tell if the broad was ever planning to meet with you: any chica that is asking you for money before you arrive there, all you have to say to them is the following:

"I do not send money to someone I have never met in person" or "No envio dinero a alguien que nunca he conocideo en persona. "

Now, to her, it may sound like this is something you are open to doing in the future (you should never ever send money), once you have gotten to know her in person, but it is actually to invoke the following two scenarios:

A) She is either going to say "esta bien" and hope that door remains open in the future once the two of you have actually met once you travel there.

B) She is going to push even harder by telling you, "Oh, it's only $30. That is nothing to you!" Or "It's very cheap (you are a foreigner, so you should be able to afford it)".

Scenario "be" is your strongest indicator that she never intended to meet you to begin with. It is just to initiate the process of you sending her small amounts at first, which will undoubtedly become larger requests.

Here are two ways I handle Scenario be:

1) I block the broad because I realize I would never end up seeing her in person because the game was just to try to get money out of you before you got there and end up looking like Boo Boo the Fool when you do arrive and realize she has blocked you or is not responding to your messages (since you already gave her what she was after).

2) I save all of those messages and I will send other chicas "wall of shame" screenshots of other chicks sending me the same type of begging messages. I even go so far as to say ""Casi todos LOS dias ("almost every day. The system is changing my spelling) alguien me manda este tipo de mensaje en Facebook. Es como si tuvieran un guion que dice 'copia esto why envaselo a LOS gringos!

If she doesn't revert to Scenario A, then see Scenario B1.

The majority of simps will ignore this information, especially the guys with the mentality of "Well, I spend $500 on pros back home, so 700 k pesos is a steal!

But for the newbies, you'the be wise to add this playbook to upping your overseas game.

We literally need EVERYONE singing from this same sheet of music, because the amount of requests I have been getting lately is overly ridiculous.

Tldr: Reply to any Request For Money (RFM) with "I do not send money to someone I have never met in person" or "No envio dinero a alguien que nunca he conocideo en persona. " If she is persistent, accept that you were never going to tap that once you actually got there and block her (because she is definitely going to block or ignore you if you do not give in to her demands. Spoken from experience. They can starve while laying next to their bum-ass Colombian novio for all I care, LOL).

Hope this helps!

[MikeBayArea]

I went on my first non US bumbl date today. It lasted about 8 hours and so I'm pretty sure she's a normal girl. We shall see if she asks me for money tomorrow night when we seal the deal.

Just follow her lead regarding the money. She will put out her hand to ask you for it if she prefers it beforehand. If not pay her after. Easy either way.

Make sure you put your valuables in view of your shower so you can use the bathroom and shower off without leaving her unattended.

If she immediately quotes you a price around 300-400 k I probably wouldn't be too worried about safety as long as you follow normal procedures. But I'd be worried about her looking like her pictures. Might as well have a lunch date if she is down, it could be fun. If not and she quotes you the price right away it's up to you. Also I personally would never let someone spend the night (not that that's your plan, just saying) unless I knew her well. That's a recipe for disaster. If you are paying her enough and she's a GFE type it's different I guess.

Your Spanish must be good going on an 8 hour date?

[Astro Man]

Anyone have experience with the bumble, tinder, or Seeking girls. Pay before or after? I imagine it's after for these platforms. It sounds like the states. The hooker / escort girls pay before, but the girls from other platforms pay after?

Several guys have mentioned meeting in public before to see the girl and get the vibe. This does sound like a good idea. I guess, I just leave if I'm not feeling it, and I've likely already paid her taxi and that is that.

I went on my first non US bumbl date today. It lasted about 8 hours and so I'm pretty sure she's a normal girl. We shall see if she asks me for money tomorrow night when we seal the deal.

Just follow her lead regarding the money. She will put out her hand to ask you for it if she prefers it beforehand. If not pay her after. Easy either way.

Make sure you put your valuables in view of your shower so you can use the bathroom and shower off without leaving her unattended.

If she immediately quotes you a price around 300-400 k I probably wouldn't be too worried about safety as long as you follow normal procedures. But I'd be worried about her looking like her pictures. Might as well have a lunch date if she is down, it could be fun. If not and she quotes you the price right away it's up to you. Also I personally would never let someone spend the night (not that that's your plan, just saying) unless I knew her well. That's a recipe for disaster. If you are paying her enough and she's a GFE type it's different I guess.

[KeviKev68]

She is from Tinder not Seeking. I got that part wrong. Worst case scenario she uses me for a ticket to Medellin, but I'm willing to risk it. I've got her Instagram and she does seem legit.

I think you have get your feet wet before you leap in. It's difficult to make plans with someone you haven't met before. By this I mean anything beyond a first meeting. I would recommend doing a threesome with anyone. Of course she would bring a friend and you can set up. It's not worth it.

[Nounce]

1 million for 3 days. Not 1 million per day. For 3 days.

Get a prorated agreement in writing (message) so you can ask her to leave if needed. You can't believe everything they say.

[MikeBayArea]

Usually they want you to pay first but some of the more chill ones will not bring it up until after. I'd say 8/10 want you to pay before. I was with a girl from lleras just now though and I tried to pay her beforehand and she like pushed the money back into my wallet and told me to pay her after LOL. That was a first. My suspicion would be that with some bumble girls it might be the opposite.

For bumbl I wouldn't offer to pay her to take her to lunch LOL. If she wants to use a dating app to find clients I feel like she'll be down to go on a date unless she's the type who just gives you a price right away. Every situations different I guess.

But as for the second part, no need to tell her no in person LOL. Just say you have plans after lunch and will message her later. And then either ghost her or text her. That's how my generation does it for normal dates haha. And it's not really ghosting because she's not emotionally invested.

I just went to a casa yesterday for anal and the girl asked me afterwards if we could go out sometime lmao. She was nice but I wasn't interested (couldn't see her face in the pics when I booked it, just body photos) and I think she could tell..

Anyone have experience with the bumble, tinder, or Seeking girls. Pay before or after? I imagine it's after for these platforms. It sounds like the states. The hooker / escort girls pay before, but the girls from other platforms pay after?

Several guys have mentioned meeting in public before to see the girl and get the vibe. This does sound like a good idea. I guess, I just leave if I'm not feeling it, and I've likely already paid her taxi and that is that.

[MikeBayArea]

I'm not catching my chickens before they are hatched. But I just found a girl from seeking who lives outside of Medellin. She is very cute, submissive, down for threesomes, no condoms, etc. I told her I will be picking a girl to come over for an hour each day and she's going to participate. She said I need to spoil her though. And before I could even throw out a price she said 1 million for 3 days. Not 1 million per day. For 3 days. Then she said, "But you also have to pay for my food while I'm there. " Not only that, she didn't ask me to send her money to buy the ticket. I told her I would buy the ticket and send her the details. Now, of course she could be using me for a ticket to Medillin, but that's really not the vibe I'm getting. This is like a dream come true. I'm going to be on my computer searching and messaging girls to come over, while she's sucking on my pole, and know when they get there it's a full lesbian threesome. I already told her I might have her stay Tuesday through Sunday for 2 million, and she said you tell me.

Is the best angle now to look for girls outside of Medellin who aren't jaded. I think it might be.

She is from Tinder not Seeking. I got that part wrong. Worst case scenario she uses me for a ticket to Medellin, but I'm willing to risk it. I've got her Instagram and she does seem legit.

[GeorgeCarta22]

I'm landing tonight if anyone is free to grab drinks.

Then looking to hit up some clubs later or gusto.

I can't DM anyone but we can meet up somewhere first.

[Igor54]

Hello everyone,

I usually visiteto Bogota-Santa Fe. I want to try Medelline. Couls anyone please give an update on places kind of Santa Fe. Ex; Parque Lleras, etc =// many girls in one place--busy places? I don't want to dig up the whole forum, because the information is old.

Thank you.

[Astro Man]

So, I like the idea of meeting an online girl and taking her to lunch to see the connection. But what are the expectations here? If I don't like her, and say no, is she going to lose her shit for going out to lunch. Does she want me to pay her to take her to lunch?

And while we are on the topic, what is typical in Medellin (payment before or after). In the US, SugarBabies (Tinder, Seeking) always accept payment after. Hookers accept payment before. I imagine it is similar here, no?

Usually they want you to pay first but some of the more chill ones will not bring it up until after. I'd say 8/10 want you to pay before. I was with a girl from lleras just now though and I tried to pay her beforehand and she like pushed the money back into my wallet and told me to pay her after LOL. That was a first. My suspicion would be that with some bumble girls it might be the opposite.

For bumbl I wouldn't offer to pay her to take her to lunch LOL. If she wants to use a dating app to find clients I feel like she'll be down to go on a date unless she's the type who just gives you a price right away. Every situations different I guess.

But as for the second part, no need to tell her no in person LOL. Just say you have plans after lunch and will message her later. And then either ghost her or text her. That's how my generation does it for normal dates haha. And it's not really ghosting because she's not emotionally invested.

I just went to a casa yesterday for anal and the girl asked me afterwards if we could go out sometime lmao. She was nice but I wasn't interested (couldn't see her face in the pics when I booked it, just body photos) and I think she could tell. She clearly became kind of embarrassed and sad / sour. So I took down her number even though I have no intention of seeing her again and I just told her my trip is short maybe I'll have time. You don't have to make any promises.

[MikeBayArea]

I'm not catching my chickens before they are hatched. But I just found a girl from seeking who lives outside of Medellin. She is very cute, submissive, down for threesomes, no condoms, etc. I told her I will be picking a girl to come over for an hour each day and she's going to participate. She said I need to spoil her though. And before I could even throw out a price she said 1 million for 3 days. Not 1 million per day. For 3 days. Then she said, "But you also have to pay for my food while I'm there. " Not only that, she didn't ask me to send her money to buy the ticket. I told her I would buy the ticket and send her the details. Now, of course she could be using me for a ticket to Medillin, but that's really not the vibe I'm getting. This is like a dream come true. I'm going to be on my computer searching and messaging girls to come over, while she's sucking on my pole, and know when they get there it's a full lesbian threesome. I already told her I might have her stay Tuesday through Sunday for 2 million, and she said you tell me.

Is the best angle now to look for girls outside of Medellin who aren't jaded. I think it might be.

[KeviKev68]

My girlfriend is 100% Thai and has freckles. How often do see someone in Asia with blue eyes? There may be 10,000 mixed people standing next to each other and your only metrics are the ones you see with freckles or blue eyes? So you were maybe able to pick 3 of the 10,000 out as being mixed.

I was at the motorbike shop one night where I live in Thailand having some work done on my bike. Some guys who work at a club came up in a group. One guy who looked like a regular Thai guy had on a name tag that said Kevin. I don't know why I got such a kick out of that. I thought to myself that his dad must be Irish.

You don't really know the exact lineage of your "100% " Thai girlfriend. I was talking about Phillipines they are mixed with Spanish. So, you really don't know. My grandmother was black and had green eyes. We are still trying find out how far back that goes.

I know people who are black who can pass for white? What's your point? LOL.

[RamDavidson84]

Quick answers: Gringo. Yes 100%; fluent. Pretty good, definitely intermediate; this was my 8th trip to Medellin, my first was in 2008 then a huge gap (marriage kids, divorce, etc.) until I went back again in 2022 and 6 more times in the last 3 years.

Longer answers on related topics:

I'm 55, short at 5'5", the girls say I'm handsome, so I'll take that, and have blue eyes, I workout almost every day and I generally am presentable and wear a nice cologne, so I smell good.

So 2 strikes against, 3-4 strikes for, but I really believe that everything starts, for me at least, with a solid conversation in Spanish, with us maintaining eye contact. It changes the equation. If I say no to their price, I'm doing it with eye contact and basically letting them feel what could be. If they like the energy between us, their price almost immediately comes down, because they like the idea of fucking me for maybe a little less money than they'd charge to fuck the fat / obese guy who is by no means handsome, and doesn't smell all that good (saw a lot of those in / around Lleras and I almost felt sad for them knowing they came down to fuck girls that they'd have no chance at with back home and they realized it wasn't going to be much, if any, easier in MDE due to their appearance, smell, etc.) It all comes down to an A vs. Be situation. If I'm A and I meet a lot of their preferred boxes, then they'll choose me, even for less money, than be for more money. Really is that simple..

Nice report brother. Any chance you know the prices of Gustos these days? Is the club down the street of Gustos still open? I think it was actually called Parque Lleras for awhile.

[Mr Enternational]

When you see asians with freckles or with blue eyes. I went to school with a girl who had blond hair and blue eyes. For years I thought she was white. As it turned out her dad who is white met a much younger Filipina and married her.

My girlfriend is 100% Thai and has freckles. How often do see someone in Asia with blue eyes? There may be 10,000 mixed people standing next to each other and your only metrics are the ones you see with freckles or blue eyes? So you were maybe able to pick 3 of the 10,000 out as being mixed.

I was at the motorbike shop one night where I live in Thailand having some work done on my bike. Some guys who work at a club came up in a group. One guy who looked like a regular Thai guy had on a name tag that said Kevin. I don't know why I got such a kick out of that. I thought to myself that his dad must be Irish.