Seeking Arrangements

[Locamotive]

https://www.foxnews.com/us/las-vegas...weekend-report

Overpaid and still doesn't get to have sex instead gets robbed. I don't get showing off wealth to paid sex workers.

P.S.: girl in the photo looks below average to me when compared to EU girls hence the use of "overpaid".

$2500. HaHaHaHa. And people wonder why we travel. If I was Elon Musk I'm not paying 2500 for pussy, ID be sick just thinking what I paid.

[DwayneJohnson]

https://www.foxnews.com/us/las-vegas...weekend-report

Overpaid and still doesn't get to have sex instead gets robbed. I don't get showing off wealth to paid sex workers.

P.S.: girl in the photo looks below average to me when compared to EU girls hence the use of "overpaid".

[The Cane]

Sounds like the 29-year-old Russian adoptee I am now porking. All the Russian girls like to fuck. That is the "need" you are fulfilling as well as paying them off for the fuck.

I have found Russian girls to be really good fucks too. Just not through Seeking LOL. Has me thinking about taking another trip to the UAE. I find them in Germany too, but not in the concentration that exists in the UAE.

[HumbleHal]

Back many moons ago when SA in the US was full of normal girls rather than pro, I met this mid 20's girl who had serious daddy and other issues. But she was one of the most submissive compliant girls I have ever met. She did everything and anything (lots of hard spanking, slapping, spitting, piss in mouth) and pleasing me was her life's mission. I took her to sex clubs and used her up, down and sideways in pubic and she would still be begging to give me a BJ on the drive home. She was adopted from Russia as a child where apparently her dad tried to burn the house down with her in it (or so she told me) so, yeah damaged goods for sure.
Then she got a "BF" who turned out to be a pimp and he put her on the motel hooking circuit and I saw her ads online. Have no idea where she may be now but probably nowhere good..

Sounds like the 29-year-old Russian adoptee I am now porking. All the Russian girls like to fuck. That is the "need" you are fulfilling as well as paying them off for the fuck.

[AmericanPi]

Back many moons ago when SA in the US was full of normal girls rather than pro, I met this mid 20's girl who had serious daddy and other issues. But she was one of the most submissive compliant girls I have ever met. She did everything and anything (lots of hard spanking, slapping, spitting, piss in mouth) and pleasing me was her life's mission. I took her to sex clubs and used her up, down and sideways in pubic and she would still be begging to give me a BJ on the drive home. She was adopted from Russia as a child where apparently her dad tried to burn the house down with her in it (or so she told me) so, yeah damaged goods for sure.

I never even paid her a lot of cash, I paid her phone bill, bought her some groceries now and then and she was happy with it. Then she got a "BF" who turned out to be a pimp and he put her on the motel hooking circuit and I saw her ads online. Have no idea where she may be now but probably nowhere good..

Just got back from a week abroad. Met 4 girls. Every one I ask about their family. Because I want to get to the part about dad, and when it comes I think "OK there it is."

One dad has a new wife 2 years older than her and lives abroad.

One dad lives in another city and is pretty absent. But as she says he's still my dad so I still love him.

One also has a dad in another city. Parents divorced and mom took the kids and moved away.

It's sad that it makes me horny because I see this beautiful weak gazelle. I know she'll be banging me in 90 minutes and part of it is unresolved daddy issues.

Dads, again, don't abandon your daughters. Assholes like me are just around the corner.

[Expat American]

Is it wrong that I kind of like it when girls have daddy issues? I always ask on first date: who do you live with, how's your relationship with your parents? And when I find out a girl has daddy issues (dad left when she was x, don't know dad, dad lives in another state) I know quite a bit about her. Usually those girls are approval seeking, have poor boundaries, more willing to take direction. They are the least likely to put their foot down and say things like I don't X on the first date. They are the most likely to assume that if you're suggesting it confidently it's what we should be doing right now.

(PSA to Dads: don't leave your daughters. It's awful and it messes then up.)

Back many moons ago when SA in the US was full of normal girls rather than pro, I met this mid 20's girl who had serious daddy and other issues. But she was one of the most submissive compliant girls I have ever met. She did everything and anything (lots of hard spanking, slapping, spitting, piss in mouth) and pleasing me was her life's mission. I took her to sex clubs and used her up, down and sideways in pubic and she would still be begging to give me a BJ on the drive home. She was adopted from Russia as a child where apparently her dad tried to burn the house down with her in it (or so she told me) so, yeah damaged goods for sure.

I never even paid her a lot of cash, I paid her phone bill, bought her some groceries now and then and she was happy with it. Then she got a "BF" who turned out to be a pimp and he put her on the motel hooking circuit and I saw her ads online. Have no idea where she may be now but probably nowhere good.

I don't know how I feel about it now. Maybe I was filling some "need" in her as well but I'm sure it wasn't a healthy one. But at the time it seemed we were both getting something out of it.

[VanessasClient]

The only weight the girls care about is the weight of your wallet.

Some, but not all girls.

Also, I don't know if they are making this mandatory "attractive" members too (the women, remember men are called "successful" members). It might be that they making this new requirement for men only, and not the women of the site. Someone else might be able to confirm or deny.

[Manizales911]

"Successful" members are now required to list a weight in pounds or kilograms. Now, it will be interesting to see if they attempt to enforce this. What if a woman sends them a complaint saying "he put down in his profile that he's 180 pounds. But when I got to the date I could tell he was 300 without him even stepping on the scale!" Well, I guess it's time to bring a portable scale to the restaurant.

The only weight the girls care about is the weight of your wallet.

[VanessasClient]

"Successful" members are now required to list a weight in pounds or kilograms. Now, it will be interesting to see if they attempt to enforce this. What if a woman sends them a complaint saying "he put down in his profile that he's 180 pounds. But when I got to the date I could tell he was 300 without him even stepping on the scale!" Well, I guess it's time to bring a portable scale to the restaurant.

[VanessasClient]

So now that I no longer have a paid Seeking membership, all of a sudden women supposedly in my area are making the first move by sending me messages. Messages that I of course can't read without a paid membership! That rarely ever happened when I had a paid membership. So why now? Nope! Seeking isn't getting any more of my money. Not ever! Overall it mostly proved to be a huge waste of time and definitely a waste of money for me using Seeking in the States. And I don't need it overseas so good riddance! Lure another sucker into re-subscribing just to read a "fake" message like "Hi" waiting for you LOL!

That's going to happen if you have your location (city) set to the USA. I NEVER use the seeking app, or seeking from the browser on my phone, because the site will ask for location permission. Which might conflict with the location you specify. I ONLY use seeking from a desktop computer, which I will not be prompted for location access, and can set my city to wherever I goddamn well please, without a VPN.

With all the experience I have in life now, it is beyond me why anyone would pursue a gringa woman in this day and age.

[Berol Loz]

They feature your photo all around the 2 days before and then after your membership has expired. To motivate you to come back again. If you come back you will find out all the messages and views were from continents away, by people you could not meet in person, time wasters. All the dating websites do this. Fake.

Yes, I noticed the same thing with SugarDaddyMeet.com (SDM), but at least it's not those fake bot messages you get from Secret Benefits. Generally had good experiences on SDM too. Even if there's less ladies on it, I like the lower cost and not getting kicked off for negotiating prices on the site.

[HumbleHal]

So now that I no longer have a paid Seeking membership, all of a sudden women supposedly in my area are making the first move by sending me messages. Messages that I of course can't read without a paid membership! That rarely ever happened when I had a paid membership. So why now? Nope! Seeking isn't getting any more of my money. Not ever! Overall it mostly proved to be a huge waste of time and definitely a waste of money for me using Seeking in the States. And I don't need it overseas so good riddance! Lure another sucker into re-subscribing just to read a "fake" message like "Hi" waiting for you LOL!

They feature your photo all around the 2 days before and then after your membership has expired. To motivate you to come back again. If you come back you will find out all the messages and views were from continents away, by people you could not meet in person, time wasters. All the dating websites do this. Fake.

[The Cane]

So now that I no longer have a paid Seeking membership, all of a sudden women supposedly in my area are making the first move by sending me messages. Messages that I of course can't read without a paid membership! That rarely ever happened when I had a paid membership. So why now? Nope! Seeking isn't getting any more of my money. Not ever! Overall it mostly proved to be a huge waste of time and definitely a waste of money for me using Seeking in the States. And I don't need it overseas so good riddance! Lure another sucker into re-subscribing just to read a "fake" message like "Hi" waiting for you LOL!

[Stirling]

Women play men by starting high. Just like list price on a car. Then the men think they got a bargain and are a good negotiator because they got a break from their first offer. I can quickly value the woman based upon appearance, personality and if they are ghetto trash. Then that's it. Often I find out in the bedroom they have trashy tattoos from jail / gang culture, or their tits sag from baby suckage, or they have scars from boob jobs, tummy tucks, breast lifts, etc that make the adventure a site for blind eyes. All one can do is not repeat, it does no good to try to renegotiate at that point, they will demand their money for "their time" and you have no options because they will start screaming bloody murder and threaten to turn you in to the police, but rarely will they do so.

Again, once you give the woman the money up front you are asking for problems, bro! I never, never pay / reward the woman up front. Does the boss pay his workers on Monday and see if they show up the rest of the week and work hard? No, the boss pays his workers on Friday after a hard worked week. You give up CONTROL and the girl can run away. Does it happen? 50% of the time. Its called Reinforcement Theory. Once the mouse has the cheese do you think it will then run the maze? Heck no, it will eat the cheese right away and then look for a new game to play elsewhere with another piece of cheese offered and remember how stupid you were.

I simply tell them no, and they can go it they do not like it, bye! I have walked out of the door to their hotel room several times when they ask for money up front, do NOT do it. Ever. Never!!

I don't necessarily disagree with your comments. I, like you am wary of the trouble that one can find themselves in if not careful. That said, I do evaluate each situation as it comes along. I had surmised based on our conversations prior to our date that she was what she claimed to be. Even so, we met for dinner first and I was certainly not going to hand over any money at that point. Over dinner it became apparent that she was on the higher end of the spectrum and I felt comfortable handing her an envelope once we returned to my hotel. Could she have flaked out and left at that point? I suppose yes, but I accept there's some inherent risk to this game and I elected to go with my gut. If I had truly sensed she wasn't kosher, I would left her at the restaurant. I'm old enough and experienced enough to usually suss out the flakes etc, but recognize that at some point I might get taken. Sometimes it's worth the risk.

Stirling.

[KrisMonger]

Was in Mexico city for a week and really didn't have issues finding arrangements via seeking. Most of them were into PPM and most of them had no issues video chatting. Prices were around 3500 to 5000 MXN for a date night, but one (Marianna I think) asked for 15000 MXN (I laughed her off). Going above 30 gets you in the 3500 mxn range. Stayed in an airbnb and didn't have any issue with bringing folks in.