Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[SimplyBad2024]

Hey all,

I'm about to get the membership & try it out for a month. I'm tired of spa's and want to explore more kinky stuff through seeking. I had a couple of doubts, do you add your real pics in the profile maybe without face or just keep it random? Also, I'm not really looking to go beyond 15 K a meet, also will probably do once a month at max for good company. Is this feasible or unrealistic? Also how to identify SP profiles? A lot of them look legit, I'd be super pissed if I'm talking to an agent LOL.

I use my real Pic, with my face slightly blurred out. It has a pretty background in a foreign locale which sends the correct vibes.

I share real pics only if the conversation moves to Telegram.

15 k may not get you quality or quantity, save for the occasional moment when the universe aligns in your favour. As far as I can see, 20-25 k is where Bangalore is at now.

15 K are the really fat and ugly ones, or 6-8 k hookers put there by pimps who know that they can double income by pushing their girls on SA.

Generally, those who say they work in a beauty parlor / salon, just in Bangalore for a while or recently arrived are hard core professionals who have been shipped from some village / town by the pimp. Don't be fooled by the English in the chats either. That's mostly the pimp talking.

Good luck wading through the mess that is SA. I will never use it for Bangalore again.

[KynkarX]

There are 2 new profiles 'Priya'. The girl in jeans is in Delhi, she just changes location. No info on the one in red.

The red one with profile name Priya did not even bother to respond to texts. Another buddy of mine mentioned the same as well. But she is online most times. She had a lot of pics couple of days back but now it is just one I guess. Maybe a scammer or a young girl looking for a handsome hunk.

[Phil50]

If you sort on 'Newest' this is my feedback:

Crystal and Humble Princess are not new but featured, as they have paid a premium. Already reviewed and heavily sampled, for at least a couple of years.

Vidushi. Just joined, no info.

Aditi is the same as Rai and a previous profile called Aditi that disappeared. Looks like a SP. Pic is fake.

The next few I would not want to meet even for free.

There are 2 new profiles 'Priya'. The girl in jeans is in Delhi, she just changes location. No info on the one in red.

Avni. Scammer, she wil lask for your whatsapp.

Sanaya. Married, will talk a lot about all her great SA relationships. Just not my type.

Aasuu. Pic is not hers, but she seems a newbie in the business, looks nice and wanted 13 k.

Disha. GPS. (She has an older profile also Disha).

Aphrodite. She changed her ID. Time waster. Agreed for the coffee meet then ghosted.

[KynkarX]

Hi Folks,

FunMizz.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...f-d0caa1a14580

Anyone has met the person behind this profile? Any feedback would be welcome.

[Phil50]

She wants to make sure she wants to get stretched out by all SD's. She is been there for a long time. She was kind of jaded even back them and can imagine now with time.

There are broadly 2 types of girls who have been around over a year.

- The professional working girls, If they are banged by 100+ guys in a year, they are jaded and cynical. You will see they they won't even see your profile, as you are, literally just another dick.

- Others are in it for a specific sum of money. Their self worth is measured by their rate. They won't negotiate unless they have not met their target amount for the month. If for e.g. they need
60k a month and are free to meet once a week, they will pass up a meet at a lower rate than their asking price of 20, if they have already made the 60 k. They get more jaded with time.
A variant of this is the college girl, whose peers tell her they get high amount just to meet guys for coffee, or a bigger amount to sleep with some hot younger guy. They will say no until they find
this mythical man, because they don't really need the money, or may do an occasional meet, but inflate the amount to their friends.

There are also unattractive girls with no BF in college, who get a high from seeing people on SA throw money at them.

[Phil50]

Nowadays most short term meets start with 25 K for 3-4 hours. Negotiating this or converting this to an all-nighter at this price is upto the individual. Arrangements are also possible but I have been in this for 2-3 months and I can find mostly either WG or girls / women preferring short term meets only. Very tough to find a genuine one who is okay with a long-term arrangement at a reasonable price. Some ask way too high like 1-3 lakhs per month as well. From what I have seen, 15 K is low, quality would be cheap or a bait by some scamster in this app. There are some who think too high of themselves and ask GPS rates and want gifts and luxury indulgences in the first visit itself. Also, very tough to find someone who is ok with a casual meet without allowance. Almost everyone places a quote for even a casual meet over coffee or dinner. Only one in 5-6 exchanges which agree to a meet convert into an actual meet. They will cancel at last moment, or you would be stood up, or they will ask an advance after the scheduling the meet, or worse still they will get the allowance and give some excuse after a meeting and escape.

Been on SA 11 years and fully agree. In a long term relationship, we do have non sexual meets, where I pay 1/3rd of the amount for intimacy. That way I compensate for her time and she is not taking advantage by getting the 'full rate' for doing nothing. I also do this if she wants a few casual meets before getting intimate, which is understandable for a newbie just exploring SA.

However, getting paid just to show up for the first 'meet & greet' is a NO. I drop those making demands around the first casual meet.

After finalising the meet 1 in 4 (used to be 1 in 3) will ghost. Of those I meet, I will not see 2/3rd again. It requires me to meet 6 people before I can finalise one arrangement that lasts beyond 4 meets.

[Phil50]

Aditi:

See that the location in this profile keeps changing frequently and it is mostly online. Seems to be some sort of pimp who is using someone else's pic from Social Media.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...d-e1fb9b9bf44f

I remember there was one more profile by the name Rai and had similar / same pics to the above one and the location in that profile kept changing frequently.

If anyone has good experience with the above profile, please let me know.

I had the same experience with Aditi / Rai.

[Phil50]

Thanks Phil, I already came across a few SP profiles with bad English LOL. 15 K for a meet is what I was looking at, maybe for ST or night. Are there arrangements for like I don't know monthly? With 3-4 meets and how does the prices look for that? How much more higher am I looking at to get decent quality?

15 k a night just isn't going to happen on SA, unless there are outliers, or girls you have a regular arrangement with and they do the occasional stayover.

A monthly arrangement usually does not work as she will take the money an then not meet you for the agreed number of times. If you link it to a specific number of meets, then it is a per meet arrangement.

[Phil50]

Phil, what are your thoughts on girls who only initiate a conversation with "Hi" or "Hey" and even when you reply they again come back only with "Hi" or "Hey" again?

Have you faced this? My level of interest goes down sharply but I wonder if you think they're just shy or are they genuinely incapable of conversation.

I look for a long term GFE, as those of you who know me are aware. I expect the girl to be able to communicate. I drop her if its a hey / Hi, or it takes far too long to get a reply and then its one line.
It's not that I need great conversational skills. My current girl is more comfortable in Hindi, which is not my native language, but we don't have a problem.

Many of those who can't communicate, are WGs who just want to finalise and do the act and not waste time in small talk.

[JustLikeThe]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...1-a6f8dd0839f1

Did not contact the above one. She has similar profile with pics which I interacted below. Which some girls do with multiple ones. Not always a good sign YMMV.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...1-a6f8dd0839f1

Wants 1 lakh.

[JustLikeThe]

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...6-60a642afb3af

Self explanatory on my title post. I don't mean to. But which SP is running this. Jees.

[JustLikeThe]

She wants to make sure she wants to get stretched out by all SD's. She is been there for a long time. She was kind of jaded even back them and can imagine now with time. Saw her before the pandemic. At that time I too received irrelevant messages (Response to probably another SD, Mass messages asking for help with college fees, help for her sick mom, etc) Jaded girl but more to her LOL.

Nowadays most short term meets start with 25 K for 3-4 hours. Negotiating this or converting this to an all-nighter at this price is upto the individual. Arrangements are also possible but I have been in this for 2-3 months and I can find mostly either WG or girls / women preferring short term meets only. Very tough to find a genuine one who is okay with a long-term arrangement at a reasonable price. Some ask way too high like 1-3 lakhs per month as well. From what I have seen, 15 K is low, quality would be cheap or a bait by some scamster in this app. There are some who think too high of themselves and ask GPS rates and want gifts and luxury indulgences in the first visit itself. Also, very tough to find someone who is ok with a casual meet without allowance. Almost everyone places a quote for even a casual meet over coffee or dinner. Only one in 5-6 exchanges which agree to a meet convert into an actual meet. They will cancel at last moment, or you would be stood up, or they will ask an advance after the scheduling the meet, or worse still they will get the allowance and give some excuse after a meeting and escape..

[Kommodo1]

With a 10 sec disappearing pic, its very difficult to remember. My impression was that the profile pics are older and show her at her best.

A general tip for newbies. If you see a girl with 'hot' pics, do a reverse image search. It will often be the instagram of someone else. Of if it looks to good to be true, ask if it is her.
Later, ask for pics too.

Attaching the pics that she shared. What do you guys think? I am confused.

[KynkarX]

Aditi:

See that the location in this profile keeps changing frequently and it is mostly online. Seems to be some sort of pimp who is using someone else's pic from Social Media.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...d-e1fb9b9bf44f

I remember there was one more profile by the name Rai and had similar / same pics to the above one and the location in that profile kept changing frequently.

If anyone has good experience with the above profile, please let me know.

[KynkarX]

Thanks Phil, I already came across a few SP profiles with bad English LOL. 15 K for a meet is what I was looking at, maybe for ST or night. Are there arrangements for like I don't know monthly? With 3-4 meets and how does the prices look for that? How much more higher am I looking at to get decent quality?

Nowadays most short term meets start with 25 K for 3-4 hours. Negotiating this or converting this to an all-nighter at this price is upto the individual. Arrangements are also possible but I have been in this for 2-3 months and I can find mostly either WG or girls / women preferring short term meets only. Very tough to find a genuine one who is okay with a long-term arrangement at a reasonable price. Some ask way too high like 1-3 lakhs per month as well. From what I have seen, 15 K is low, quality would be cheap or a bait by some scamster in this app. There are some who think too high of themselves and ask GPS rates and want gifts and luxury indulgences in the first visit itself. Also, very tough to find someone who is ok with a casual meet without allowance. Almost everyone places a quote for even a casual meet over coffee or dinner. Only one in 5-6 exchanges which agree to a meet convert into an actual meet. They will cancel at last moment, or you would be stood up, or they will ask an advance after the scheduling the meet, or worse still they will get the allowance and give some excuse after a meeting and escape.

I had an experience where the girl looked like interested in a long term arrangement during talks at dinner, seemed genuine, did enjoy talking with me, confirmed if I could go ahead with room booking. Checked-in with me into the room and developed cold feet later and left. Waste of a room booking that day but that's the way the app is.

I am looking at long-term options in the app but they are hard to find though. With not much of action since a few months, think will blow some steam with one or two short term meets for now.

I made a mistake of starting conversations with the profile Crystal since it was a featured profile when I joined about 2-3 months earlier and was favourited by this profile. Then searched for reviews here and got to know that it is someone who is into this for many years and changes profile name from 'teen' to 'petite' to 'Crystal' now. She keeps sending pics and random conversations asking for meet and she doesn't even register what was conveyed in earlier conversations or simply too many people ping her and she just sends generic responses to everyone frequently. She is too skinny for my liking and wants branded liquor, fancy perfumes and fancy lingerie during the first meet. Kind of irritating as well post a point.