Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

**LewisCarrol** · 05-17-25 15:25

I am still drunk and a bit high on experience so please pardon any mistakes. This was my first experience via sa.

So I first wanted to find a travel partner to kasol, so joined seeking in April. Talked to some 40+ girls on tg. My kaaol plan got cancelled but I was in Delhi, so reconnected to my connects via tg. Some 10+ girls were ok to meet. Finally confirmed a profile names Fh on day 1, as I had a muslim fetish. Everything set and she agreed for 10 k 5 hours, but she didn't send me a live photo (said I am sleeping right now), and somehow my gut was saying what if she is a fat, a MILF etc. In the interim, on the last night, another contact name vp, wanted to meet. I asked her if she was ok with bjs and her response was "I love BJs!! "" in those many words (and exclaimation marks) . This immediately shifted my mind and I made some excuse to fh and confirmed vp for the meetup. FH was a bit angry and disappointed but it is what it is.

Vp had her own way to filter prospects. Photos, hotel confirmations, Vc and all. But we made it through.

First about the girl, she said she is 20, but actually is 21 (I took her adhaar while checkin and later she showed it herself in the room, 2004 borm). She is good to talk (not very intellectual but good enough) - she was a gold medalist in her college and currently doing ba final year in political science. Prepping for upsc. Young but street smart. Opened up about her family, mom, dad brother, ex and everything. Great body (eg tight tits, tight puss, average body with fats at right place. Is a strong pleaser, being young she doesn't have great skills, but is very coachable, e. G. She would do BJ hands free but I felt teeths, but on tellingher she tried and tried to take it deep also as much as she can. But I can forgive a 20 year old not knowing how to do a good BJ. Says her body count is 4 (2 from seeking, 1 nri 1 me and 2 boyfriends) - I so want to believe her but she is a girl who ghumaofy multiple boys for her own benefits. My notes about her before the meet are posted at the end of this FR).

All said, On the day of meet, some confusion happened on location and she was 1 hour late (even when she left 1 hour earalier I had the live location). But once she came in, it was like I have met OMG lost friend.

We connect and talked about so many things, mostly about ambitions, college, love life, family, brothers, sisters, etc. How time passes we never knew. In fact at some point, I didn't even want to have sex, the time was so pleasing.

Anyways, we did 1 rounf just BJ. She asked me how would I like to finish. I told her I want to CIM, she said she will spit, I said show me first like they do in porn and then spit. She was okay. It was another thing that I pushed hard while coming and she gagged and had to run to bathroom to avoid spoiling the bed.

We talked we ate and spontaneously another round happenned. Misssionary, wot, but I was not able to come. I don't know agt happenned in my mind, she was saying she is okay to stay longer but I was not confident enough and I said its okay, lets call it a day I will not be able to finish (I didn't come this time).

Between these two shots, one of her friends were calling her multiple times and she cancelled and put it on silent. I asked her to take it and put it on speaker. Some simp 😅. While she was talking (she didn't want to take, I forced her) - I went down on her. She was squirmign and orgasmed while talking. That was also a highlight of the evening.

One thing I will do better next time us not to drink so much. She is okay to do as many rounds as you can in given time, but due to alcohol; I was not even able to finish Road 2, though I was hard (I had taken usual tadafil and dapoxetine before the meetup, with alcohol, it just reduced my ability to come even when I was hard like rock). Thats something I will take care in future, either take dapoxetine, or take tadafil + alcohol as bith alcohol and dapoxetine reduce time to ejaculate and together it is a disaster to finish.

Net net.

Girl face: 6/10.

Pleaser: 20/10, never said no, even after gag she was apologetic.

BBBJ enthu: 10/10.

BBBJ skills: 5/10.

CIM: yes.

FS: all positions.

Doesn't drink.

Smokes.

Lives with her family. So cannot meet at night. Daytime only.

Wir: surely- she said if I do 9 am. She will stay the whole day in same cost. Today, she had to leave at 7:30 as she had to reach home by 8:30.

Damages: 10 k + cab (1 k) - any number of shots, I did 2 with alcohol, but she was cooperative and will do as much as you can do in 4 hours.

We did DFK too.

She said no, but She may be meeting many folks but is very naive / told her good hygiene practices like listerine before and after BBBJ, washing herself after coming in etc.

Note:

My notes about the girl before the meet (I do maintain this for all the chicks I meet on sa, for my own memory):

Cheeku boobs are good. Face dicey. Ni.

Loves BJ.

10 k 4 hours. Offerred 12.

Keep as backup.

Weekend pe kafi busy. Looks like at least 3 clients / day on weekend.

Doesn't do night.

Looks like it is a job for her though she seems enthu; so try if time allows.

Overall, had a the best wg connect and wir for sure.

Happy to share deets in exchange for some gems. As you can see in dont inflate prices, can be assured of that.

**JustLikeThe** · 05-17-25 14:59

All valid Points of this ecosystem. The sugar platforms have given the WG folks (agent and Inde) another channel to operate safely and more remunerative. The issue for us is that it contaminates the pool since we are looking for more than the only bedroom part and we need to wade through a extra level of filtration.

Interesting you brought up the unattractive college girls with no boyfriends. I feel for them in a way and as you said its kind of an empowerment if I may say that. I wish them well. Some of them maybe a better choice if one has to choose between a WG vs scammer ones. With some the chemistry on optics might not be there but the experience sometimes exceeds and it might even make you overlook the optics deficit.

Originally Posted by Phil50 [View Original Post]

There are broadly 2 types of girls who have been around over a year.

- The professional working girls, If they are banged by 100+ guys in a year, they are jaded and cynical. You will see they they won't even see your profile, as you are, literally just another dick.

- Others are in it for a specific sum of money. Their self worth is measured by their rate. They won't negotiate unless they have not met their target amount for the month. If for e.g. they need
60k a month and are free to meet once a week, they will pass up a meet at a lower rate than their asking price of 20, if they have already made the 60 k. They get more jaded with time.
A variant of this is the college girl, whose peers tell her they get high amount just to meet guys for coffee, or a bigger amount to sleep with some hot younger guy. They will say no until they find
this mythical man, because they don't really need the money, or may do an occasional meet, but inflate the amount to their friends..

**Phil50** · 05-17-25 07:00

Originally Posted by SimplyBad2024 [View Original Post]

15 k may not get you quality or quantity, save for the occasional moment when the universe aligns in your favour. As far as I can see, 20-25 k is where Bangalore is at now.

15 K are the really fat and ugly ones, or 6-8 k hookers put there by pimps who know that they can double income by pushing their girls on SA.

Generally, those who say they work in a beauty parlor / salon, just in Bangalore for a while or recently arrived are hard core professionals who have been shipped from some village / town by the pimp. Don't be fooled by the English in the chats either. That's mostly the pimp talking.

Good luck wading through the mess that is SA. I will never use it for Bangalore again.

Perfectly sums up my view. I am leaving SA (Bangalore) for good. The last 2 times I subscribed against my better judgement. I was lucky to find one person last time.

This time I haven't even found one person for the coffee meet. I did finalise with one, but she ghosted.

**KynkarX** · 05-17-25 06:18

Originally Posted by Kommodo1 [View Original Post]

Attaching the pics that she shared. What do you guys think? I am confused.

Think the one in white dress is the most recent one and she seems old and above 40 from this pic with a very heavy makeup to cover this. The other pic is a more younger version of herself taken much earlier. Personal opinion.

**SimplyBad2024** · 05-17-25 05:39

Originally Posted by Vacerum [View Original Post]

Hey all,

I'm about to get the membership & try it out for a month. I'm tired of spa's and want to explore more kinky stuff through seeking. I had a couple of doubts, do you add your real pics in the profile maybe without face or just keep it random? Also, I'm not really looking to go beyond 15 K a meet, also will probably do once a month at max for good company. Is this feasible or unrealistic? Also how to identify SP profiles? A lot of them look legit, I'd be super pissed if I'm talking to an agent LOL.

I use my real Pic, with my face slightly blurred out. It has a pretty background in a foreign locale which sends the correct vibes.

I share real pics only if the conversation moves to Telegram.

15 k may not get you quality or quantity, save for the occasional moment when the universe aligns in your favour. As far as I can see, 20-25 k is where Bangalore is at now.

15 K are the really fat and ugly ones, or 6-8 k hookers put there by pimps who know that they can double income by pushing their girls on SA.

Generally, those who say they work in a beauty parlor / salon, just in Bangalore for a while or recently arrived are hard core professionals who have been shipped from some village / town by the pimp. Don't be fooled by the English in the chats either. That's mostly the pimp talking.

Good luck wading through the mess that is SA. I will never use it for Bangalore again.

**KynkarX** · 05-17-25 05:11

Originally Posted by Phil50 [View Original Post]

There are 2 new profiles 'Priya'. The girl in jeans is in Delhi, she just changes location. No info on the one in red.

The red one with profile name Priya did not even bother to respond to texts. Another buddy of mine mentioned the same as well. But she is online most times. She had a lot of pics couple of days back but now it is just one I guess. Maybe a scammer or a young girl looking for a handsome hunk.

**Phil50** · 05-17-25 04:34

If you sort on 'Newest' this is my feedback:

Crystal and Humble Princess are not new but featured, as they have paid a premium. Already reviewed and heavily sampled, for at least a couple of years.

Vidushi. Just joined, no info.

Aditi is the same as Rai and a previous profile called Aditi that disappeared. Looks like a SP. Pic is fake.

The next few I would not want to meet even for free.

There are 2 new profiles 'Priya'. The girl in jeans is in Delhi, she just changes location. No info on the one in red.

Avni. Scammer, she wil lask for your whatsapp.

Sanaya. Married, will talk a lot about all her great SA relationships. Just not my type.

Aasuu. Pic is not hers, but she seems a newbie in the business, looks nice and wanted 13 k.

Disha. GPS. (She has an older profile also Disha).

Aphrodite. She changed her ID. Time waster. Agreed for the coffee meet then ghosted.

**KynkarX** · 05-17-25 04:07

Hi Folks,

FunMizz.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...f-d0caa1a14580

Anyone has met the person behind this profile? Any feedback would be welcome.

**Phil50** · 05-17-25 03:58

Originally Posted by JustLikeThe [View Original Post]

She wants to make sure she wants to get stretched out by all SD's. She is been there for a long time. She was kind of jaded even back them and can imagine now with time.

There are broadly 2 types of girls who have been around over a year.

- The professional working girls, If they are banged by 100+ guys in a year, they are jaded and cynical. You will see they they won't even see your profile, as you are, literally just another dick.

- Others are in it for a specific sum of money. Their self worth is measured by their rate. They won't negotiate unless they have not met their target amount for the month. If for e.g. they need
60k a month and are free to meet once a week, they will pass up a meet at a lower rate than their asking price of 20, if they have already made the 60 k. They get more jaded with time.
A variant of this is the college girl, whose peers tell her they get high amount just to meet guys for coffee, or a bigger amount to sleep with some hot younger guy. They will say no until they find
this mythical man, because they don't really need the money, or may do an occasional meet, but inflate the amount to their friends.

There are also unattractive girls with no BF in college, who get a high from seeing people on SA throw money at them.

**Phil50** · 05-17-25 03:39

Originally Posted by KynkarX [View Original Post]

Nowadays most short term meets start with 25 K for 3-4 hours. Negotiating this or converting this to an all-nighter at this price is upto the individual. Arrangements are also possible but I have been in this for 2-3 months and I can find mostly either WG or girls / women preferring short term meets only. Very tough to find a genuine one who is okay with a long-term arrangement at a reasonable price. Some ask way too high like 1-3 lakhs per month as well. From what I have seen, 15 K is low, quality would be cheap or a bait by some scamster in this app. There are some who think too high of themselves and ask GPS rates and want gifts and luxury indulgences in the first visit itself. Also, very tough to find someone who is ok with a casual meet without allowance. Almost everyone places a quote for even a casual meet over coffee or dinner. Only one in 5-6 exchanges which agree to a meet convert into an actual meet. They will cancel at last moment, or you would be stood up, or they will ask an advance after the scheduling the meet, or worse still they will get the allowance and give some excuse after a meeting and escape.

Been on SA 11 years and fully agree. In a long term relationship, we do have non sexual meets, where I pay 1/3rd of the amount for intimacy. That way I compensate for her time and she is not taking advantage by getting the 'full rate' for doing nothing. I also do this if she wants a few casual meets before getting intimate, which is understandable for a newbie just exploring SA.

However, getting paid just to show up for the first 'meet & greet' is a NO. I drop those making demands around the first casual meet.

After finalising the meet 1 in 4 (used to be 1 in 3) will ghost. Of those I meet, I will not see 2/3rd again. It requires me to meet 6 people before I can finalise one arrangement that lasts beyond 4 meets.

**Phil50** · 05-17-25 03:19

Originally Posted by KynkarX [View Original Post]

Aditi:

See that the location in this profile keeps changing frequently and it is mostly online. Seems to be some sort of pimp who is using someone else's pic from Social Media.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...d-e1fb9b9bf44f

I remember there was one more profile by the name Rai and had similar / same pics to the above one and the location in that profile kept changing frequently.

If anyone has good experience with the above profile, please let me know.

I had the same experience with Aditi / Rai.

**Phil50** · 05-17-25 03:16

Originally Posted by Vacerum [View Original Post]

Thanks Phil, I already came across a few SP profiles with bad English LOL. 15 K for a meet is what I was looking at, maybe for ST or night. Are there arrangements for like I don't know monthly? With 3-4 meets and how does the prices look for that? How much more higher am I looking at to get decent quality?

15 k a night just isn't going to happen on SA, unless there are outliers, or girls you have a regular arrangement with and they do the occasional stayover.

A monthly arrangement usually does not work as she will take the money an then not meet you for the agreed number of times. If you link it to a specific number of meets, then it is a per meet arrangement.

**Phil50** · 05-17-25 03:13

Originally Posted by ScubaDo [View Original Post]

Phil, what are your thoughts on girls who only initiate a conversation with "Hi" or "Hey" and even when you reply they again come back only with "Hi" or "Hey" again?

Have you faced this? My level of interest goes down sharply but I wonder if you think they're just shy or are they genuinely incapable of conversation.

I look for a long term GFE, as those of you who know me are aware. I expect the girl to be able to communicate. I drop her if its a hey / Hi, or it takes far too long to get a reply and then its one line.
It's not that I need great conversational skills. My current girl is more comfortable in Hindi, which is not my native language, but we don't have a problem.

Many of those who can't communicate, are WGs who just want to finalise and do the act and not waste time in small talk.

**JustLikeThe** · 05-17-25 03:04

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...1-a6f8dd0839f1

Did not contact the above one. She has similar profile with pics which I interacted below. Which some girls do with multiple ones. Not always a good sign YMMV.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...1-a6f8dd0839f1

Wants 1 lakh.