Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[Phil50]

I have had wonderful memories in Bangalore. In fact, it was the place I started in 2018. It was no surprise to me living there in the past, that the ladies would embrace this unconventional dating and it was so great back then (still is with a smaller ratio). Mum, Kol, Del. Each having its own dynamics.

In the past, My experience was down to simple filtering (and theirs) if we shared similar expectations, chemistry, Vibes and so forth, kinda straightforward. When I started in 2018, Luckily for me in a week of messaging I was down with girl that was so warm, respectful and caring. Just a normal organic girl you would meet in day to day life. Life followed with many such nice folks I have successfully shared time with. Albeit. There we some instances as well, my gut feel didn't come out good, I was not disciplined and that's all across not only confined to blr. Still life springs new surprises haha!

I joined SA Bangalore in 2016 and had been in Delhi before that, so I had an idea how this worked. I had some good relationships in Bangalore earlier.
My current girl and I have been together since 2018 and I rejoined since she is leaving. However, in the last few years, things have been downhill. There is hardly anyone like the kind of SB the site
is supposed to attract. While pre covid I could meet 6-8 girls for a first casual meet, see 2-3 again and have a long term arrangement with 1, it is now difficult to even find 1 person for the 'meet & greet', if one is not looking for a professional escort.

Compared to earlier, there are fewer 'toe dippers' who don't know what SA is about, but more WGs, SPs, women you would not look at twice on the street, or girls who are deluded about the money they can get on SA. There are more people who are making multiple profiles, fake pics etc.

[JustLikeThe]

I have notion of featured profiles, It could be wrong. BrilliantMizz, Crystal, and many more. You get the drift. All were genuine folks but pro.

P.S. I did have a chat with her in tg, ppm discussed, no photo shared.

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Hey fellows,

Anyone met below profile, if could share pics or experience, will be greatful.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...9-892cb67ebed5

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[KynkarX]

Hot Techie:

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...a-9ca2149fa572

Mentioned in profile that she is only there for a few days in Bangalore but avoids the question in chat. Takes time to respond but is too chubby for my liking though she sent titillating pics.

[KynkarX]

Do you mind sharing the profile name if this girl?

Will do if I can't connect with her again or if she is not interested. Give me sometime to see if this can still be viable option for me.

[FunForSandy]

Felt exactly the same. The lady in this instance did not ask for any allowance for the meet or was even hesitant to order more drinks or more food. Wonderful conversation and we talked about a lot of things. She was blushing at some point of time as well. Nice impression that I was even thinking long term at some point during the conversation as well. She asked a few hundred bucks for return cab but she declined when I offered some cash for cab when coming to the restaurant earlier. If she was a scammer she would have got more cash from me but she didn't. Left me perplexed though I wasted some money on the hotel booking. Will see if I can connect with her later and pick up from where we left.

Do you mind sharing the profile name if this girl?

[JustLikeThe]

I have had wonderful memories in Bangalore. In fact, it was the place I started in 2018. It was no surprise to me living there in the past, that the ladies would embrace this unconventional dating and it was so great back then (still is with a smaller ratio). Mum, Kol, Del. Each having its own dynamics.

In the past, My experience was down to simple filtering (and theirs) if we shared similar expectations, chemistry, Vibes and so forth, kinda straightforward. When I started in 2018, Luckily for me in a week of messaging I was down with girl that was so warm, respectful and caring. Just a normal organic girl you would meet in day to day life. Life followed with many such nice folks I have successfully shared time with. Albeit. There we some instances as well, my gut feel didn't come out good, I was not disciplined and that's all across not only confined to blr. Still life springs new surprises haha!

Transition. There are a bunch and combination of reasons we all can clearly make out for the current state. In hindsight, maybe we should have seen this coming (buy hey, When your enjoying how it was. I wasn't going to ponder LOL) The same strengths of social, culture and economics has been the bait for greedy non-stakeholders.

Future. Are the golden days coming back? One common denominator we might share is. Yes, we want it as it was back then or back in a time machine with our learnt wisdom. The sad truth is the ship as sailed and it is a new sailors game with rough waters. Optimistically waiting for better weather. Will it?

Perfectly sums up my view. I am leaving SA (Bangalore) for good. The last 2 times I subscribed against my better judgement. I was lucky to find one person last time.

This time I haven't even found one person for the coffee meet. I did finalise with one, but she ghosted.

[Kommodo1]

She wasn't in Bangalore earlier. The profile only just appeared, though the joining date shows Oct 24.

Yeah I also felt like that. Not able to make sure if it's independent or SP operated. Though by chatting it felt like genuine.

[Phil50]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...5-0e804799b6e0

Moved to text last year and exchanged texts for a week. Her location at that time was Punjab or something like that and second pic (Not the same but identical). Everything was looking good over text and she said she could travel cause I could not travel to her location. Silence after that and I kept seeing multiple profiles with identical photos.

Multiple ID & locations is usually the SP trying to get business from multiple locations.

Or an independent (if it is one profile) who moves to a city for a few days for new mongers. There are not that many who will pay upwards of 25 k, so if she is in a smaller city, clients are few.

If someone had to travel only to see you, you cost goes up.

[Phil50]

Hi,

Does anyone has any feedback about SA Bangalore below profile.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...0-e68623997daf

Any review / feedback is appreciated.

She wasn't in Bangalore earlier. The profile only just appeared, though the joining date shows Oct 24.

[KynkarX]

3. Like you I also had a case of the girl developing cold feet at the last moment. She in an engineer and was working with a reputed MNC. We met over lunch where she was very nervous to begin with and she stayed back till almost 10 pm With me. Post lunch we went for long walks, had coffee and ice cream. She revealed her real name, the name of her employer, held my hand while walking. At some point she suggested that she wanted to get intimate. I asked her to reconsider and said we should do it only if she is very sure. After sometime she asked me to book a room. We went all the way to the hotel, and that's when she apologized and said she wants to back off. I obviously respected her decision and she went back. But she never met me again. We had great chemistry, she didn't ask even for cab fare. I had offered to buy her a dress when we were walking past a Vero Moda store, she refused that also. So I don't know what her motivation was, certainly it wasn't money. But yes, such things happen.

Felt exactly the same. The lady in this instance did not ask for any allowance for the meet or was even hesitant to order more drinks or more food. Wonderful conversation and we talked about a lot of things. She was blushing at some point of time as well. Nice impression that I was even thinking long term at some point during the conversation as well. She asked a few hundred bucks for return cab but she declined when I offered some cash for cab when coming to the restaurant earlier. If she was a scammer she would have got more cash from me but she didn't. Left me perplexed though I wasted some money on the hotel booking. Will see if I can connect with her later and pick up from where we left.

[LewisCarrol]

Yes shivi had the full wg vibes. Pics too. In fact she connected me with another girl, so could be wg + sp too.

Shivi. I haven't met. Texted last year. Convo suggested She is WG / SP or maybe a scammer. Don't know. Do your due diligence.

Shivika on tg is shivi on sa. Hot bod NI. Fair. Young. Open to all. 30 k 4-5 hrs. Countered 8 k 4-5 hours. Said cannot do but kept it open saying if there is need, she will reach out. If no option, check for 10 k. Else let her respond in 6 months. Post that recheck pics, videos again. Referred to Naina for 10 k budget.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...d-c592c85744aa

I haven't met. Switched to Tg and she sends continuous msg. I didn't tread more on this.

Kimmy Kyl on tg is ammy on sa. Hot. Wg for sure. Stays in aerocity, asking to meet in hotel. Could be sp, switch and bait. Shared videos; not live though. Asked 30 k with hotel. Not worth it. Countered 10 k politely. Both said LOL. Hold. Until she says yes, not worth it.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...f-63bec25446cf

[Kommodo1]

Hi,

Does anyone has any feedback about SA Bangalore below profile.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...0-e68623997daf

Any review / feedback is appreciated.

[AlexDani6103]

Hey fellows,

Anyone met below profile, if could share pics or experience, will be greatful.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...9-892cb67ebed5

[Messi3197]

Hello,

I have met cindrella (muslim) she is not worth at all, dealt for 15 k but when she came, nothing like pics, I did nt even get into her. Full waste of money.

Met Nanina for 20 k, she is good but not worth 20 k, on top of it she demanded vodka (1500 rs) nd cab fare.

She is good in bed but not 20 k.

Maybe 12-13 k.

Met.

Hello seniors,

I have been a part of ISG since 2012/13, but this is my first foray into seeking. Again with full honesty, given my personal situation I am not looking for sugar babies on sa, but mostly NSA travel partners and meetups with a bit more of personal touch than random sps.

I have talked to 40+ girls over past month and here are my notes of profiles that I maintain. Sharing here just in case it helps someone. I have tg for all and can share even if you are not premium member on sa.

These are my personal views, if you like someone, please connect and take your judgement call:

Ishhh (tg) is foxyqueen on sa. Very very pretty but in jaipur. Would have met in on any day with premium. If in jaipur, meet for sure. Is hot.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...6-f48ceed090d8

Warmgambler. Short, face not that good, asking 10 k for 2 HR. Hold - not worth it. Shared pics, non conclusive, not worth 5 k / HR. Hold until she is desperate.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...e-e154cef7d041

Shivika on tg is shivi on sa. Hot bod NI. Fair. Young. Open to all. 30 k 4-5 hrs. Countered 8 k 4-5 hours. Said cannot do but kept it open saying if there is need, she will reach out. If no option, check for 10 k. Else let her respond in 6 months. Post that recheck pics, videos again. Referred to Naina for 10 k budget.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...d-c592c85744aa

Taniya (tg) is kiyara on sa. Shared live video. Thick thighs really. Could she be trans? Says east indian, yes looks Bengali but has definitely done some work on face and ass. Can take a punt. Dresses really hot but background is single mattress on floor and single mirror on room. Howsoever classy she acts with english and all, she is poor. Negotiate. Asked 45 k, offered 10 k 5 hours. I think she has put me on hold. Connecting and keeping it warm but COT confirming. Meet on the day she needs money, no rush.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...b-b925c6d27383

Naina (from shivika reference, not on sa) - hot bod NI, but in spa you will find 50 such chicks- kafi nakhre and superiority complex. Hot bod. Ni. Hindi. 8 k / 2 HR. No BBBJ. Skip. Would rather go to spa.

Rur (tg) is Vanshi on sa. Theek si hai no bad pics but desi. Ni. Asking 16 k for 5 hrs. Not worth it. Countered with 10 k 5 hours, if ok. Try once. Awaiting reponse. Gives long messages. Saying 3-4 hours 10 k. Seems genuine but not worth it. Hold and ping if too desperate.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...4-d5e7d5aca5ec

Cindrella (tg) is Fahira on sa. In sa looks pretty face, but a bit fat. Shared similar pics on tg. No way to tell if these are recent or not. Very respectful on tg. Agreed for 10 k, is she fat, is she MILF? Is she old? Why won't she send live pic. Looks like married muslim wofe looking for fun outside. Lets take the gamble, neet her if she turns out good, it will be a good catch.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...f-16c2e8e7ad27

Cheeku boobs are good. Face dicey. Ni.

Loves BJ. Proposed 12 k. Countered 8 k. Agreed 10 k 4 hours. Keep as backup. Weekend pe kafi busy. Looks like at least 3 clients / day on weekend. Doesn't do night. Looks like it is a job for her though she seems enthu; so try if time allows.

Met her: Recommended.

<don't want to share profile right now, dm.

Please .

Divanshi (tg) is same on sa. Ohh man, ugly. Say you are not my type. Won't meet even if she pays.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...c-ae3c9153855d

Slayerz is aisha on sa. In Delhi. Doesn't look good in pics (is a bit more matured). Skip politely.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...2-9d9f7b83f68a

Naina tg is anaya on sa. Slow to respond. Pics didn't see. Asked 30 k with hotel. Not worth it. Countered 10 k politely. Hold. Until she says yes, not worth it.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...6-943ed5baa905

Kimmy Kyl on tg is ammy on sa. Hot. Wg for sure. Stays in aerocity, asking to meet in hotel. Could be sp, switch and bait. Shared videos; not live though. Asked 30 k with hotel. Not worth it. Countered 10 k politely. Both said LOL. Hold. Until she says yes, not worth it.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...f-63bec25446cf

Khurpatigirl (tg) is Riddhi on sa. Looks fine. Offerreed 25 k for 3-5 hours; 35 k night. Counter 10 k 4-5 hours. Declined. Politely end.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...2-9730926e2f2e

Alisha ISG senior said is post op transgender. Shared hot pics. Skip.

Shweta said doesn't do short term but ok to travel to kasol together. She herself doesn't know what she wants. Could be complicated. Skip.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...b-8e6576433af1

Shruti Malhotra (tg) is shruti070202 on sa. Is not sp. Won't say her price, too hard to get pics. I said my counter and she said it won't work without telling her offer. Is genuine. But pics look fat and she didn't even counter. Hold until she comes back.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...4-66fcc6a60502

[FunForSandy]

Nowadays most short term meets start with 25 K for 3-4 hours. Negotiating this or converting this to an all-nighter at this price is upto the individual. Arrangements are also possible but I have been in this for 2-3 months and I can find mostly either WG or girls / women preferring short term meets only. Very tough to find a genuine one who is okay with a long-term arrangement at a reasonable price. Some ask way too high like 1-3 lakhs per month as well. From what I have seen, 15 K is low, quality would be cheap or a bait by some scamster in this app. There are some who think too high of themselves and ask GPS rates and want gifts and luxury indulgences in the first visit itself. Also, very tough to find someone who is ok with a casual meet without allowance. Almost everyone places a quote for even a casual meet over coffee or dinner. Only one in 5-6 exchanges which agree to a meet convert into an actual meet. They will cancel at last moment, or you would be stood up, or they will ask an advance after the scheduling the meet, or worse still they will get the allowance and give some excuse after a meeting and escape.

I had an experience where the girl looked like interested in a long term arrangement during talks at dinner, seemed genuine, did enjoy talking with me, confirmed if I could go ahead with room booking. Checked-in with me into the room and developed cold feet later and left. Waste of a room booking that day but that's the way the app is.

I am looking at long-term options in the app but they are hard to find though. With not much of action since a few months, think will blow some steam with one or two short term meets for now.

I made a mistake of starting conversations with the profile Crystal since it was a featured profile when I joined about 2-3 months earlier and was favourited by this profile. Then searched for reviews here and got to know that it is someone who is into this for many years and changes profile name from 'teen' to 'petite' to 'Crystal' now. She keeps sending pics and random conversations asking for meet and she doesn't even register what was conveyed in earlier conversations or simply too many people ping her and she just sends generic responses to everyone frequently. She is too skinny for my liking and wants branded liquor, fancy perfumes and fancy lingerie during the first meet. Kind of irritating as well post a point.

I will address a few points. I was on SA for a little more than a year till my account got blocked (I have no idea why it was blocked).

1. I agree that most of the profiles are of WGs / SPs or scammers or girls who have no clue what sugaring is. A very small percentage are the real SBs.

2. The real SBs are the ones who will agree for a M&G without any ask for money or gifts. Last year I met a girl who was new to sugaring and she was clear that she wanted to be very sure before proceeding to intimacy. We met 4-5 times before she took the plunge. She refused cab fare even when I offered it repeatedly. All I paid for before the intimate meeting was for food and a gift that I picked up for her.

Recently I met another girl for two casual meetings. For the first meeting she rushed after sometime because she had to leave for a birthday party. So we met again after a week, again she never asked for anything. But since she travelled from a place which was 12 kms away, I gave her the cab money. And I have met a few others who never asked for anything for a M&G. The common thread was either they had a full time job or they were full time students who were serious about their academics. And I never pay for drinks since I am a teetotaler. The girl whom I met for 4-5 casual meets was the only one to whom I offered to pay for drinks. She refused saying that she won't drink alone and it will be disrespectful to me. So one can find such women but it's not easy or highly likely.

3. Like you I also had a case of the girl developing cold feet at the last moment. She in an engineer and was working with a reputed MNC. We met over lunch where she was very nervous to begin with and she stayed back till almost 10 pm With me. Post lunch we went for long walks, had coffee and ice cream. She revealed her real name, the name of her employer, held my hand while walking. At some point she suggested that she wanted to get intimate. I asked her to reconsider and said we should do it only if she is very sure. After sometime she asked me to book a room. We went all the way to the hotel, and that's when she apologized and said she wants to back off. I obviously respected her decision and she went back. But she never met me again. We had great chemistry, she didn't ask even for cab fare. I had offered to buy her a dress when we were walking past a Vero Moda store, she refused that also. So I don't know what her motivation was, certainly it wasn't money. But yes, such things happen.

Cheers.