Sexual Wellness and other Sex related discussions

[GutlesShawk]

Hi,

I heard oral dams are good barriers when we want to do DATY. I used loovara oral dams in Europe.

Has anyone used oral dams in India, if yes please suggest some good ones and where can those be ordered online

I see amazon delivers oral dams to India through international shipping, has anyone ordered products from other than India in amazon, if yes will customs call us for verification and fees?

Any info on this is highly appriciated.

Thanks.

Dental Dams are easily available in India. Go to any large format medical store near you and buy.

You can easily get online from amazon, imbesharam or pinkblue (dental web) online in India.

Its no longer a novelty item many Hi end girls are also using them these days.

[CoolBobby]

Hi,

I heard oral dams are good barriers when we want to do DATY. I used loovara oral dams in Europe.

Has anyone used oral dams in India, if yes please suggest some good ones and where can those be ordered online

I see amazon delivers oral dams to India through international shipping, has anyone ordered products from other than India in amazon, if yes will customs call us for verification and fees?

Any info on this is highly appriciated.

Thanks.

[Shauk1960]

What is T gel? I have heard of injections but not a gel to boost your T. What was your T levels and free T levels? Were you experiencing ED symptoms as well? I'm not sure if this is the correct diagnosis for PE. Tadalafil and T gel is for Ed, not PE

Visited Dr. Shashidhar in Indiranagar. He did couple of tests, testosterone levels came slightly below average. He prescribed Patinex, tadalafil, and a testosterone gel for a period of 20 days. Will update in the forum if there is any improvement after completing this course.

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[Shauk1960]

It's 1-2 min which comes in the scope of PE diagnosis from a medical point of view. IMO there is no cure for it, you just have to experiment and try different methods to see which works best.

Personally ejaculating sometime before deed does not work for me. It is hard to keep tool erected which just spoils the mood during encounter. IMO, 12 minutes is solid amount of time and you should not worry much.

[Guyawara]

Hi, I am looking for some advice here.

I (late 30's) have started experiencing premature ejaculation frequently these days. I am avg built and healthy however not much cardio / physical activity these days.

Initially, I thought it was due to my sex mood / eager and since didn't cum for last few days, but it has become a regular occurrence. In recent experiences, I've only lasted about 12 minutes, or I had to stop and take it out every few seconds to maintain control. If I was semi drunk I did last longer but doesn't work all the time or can drink and drive to meet..

Personally ejaculating sometime before deed does not work for me. It is hard to keep tool erected which just spoils the mood during encounter. IMO, 12 minutes is solid amount of time and you should not worry much.

[Guyawara]

Visited Dr. Shashidhar in Indiranagar. He did couple of tests, testosterone levels came slightly below average. He prescribed Patinex, tadalafil, and a testosterone gel for a period of 20 days. Will update in the forum if there is any improvement after completing this course.

Could anyone please recommend a specialist in or around Whitefield area who treats premature ejaculation? I've tried Duralast (Dapoxetine) couple of times without much success, so looking for a doctor who can suggest alternative treatments or therapies. Thanks in advance.

[Rahul2013]

Dear friends,

While rimming is a fetish which many of the mongering friends like. However, you should also know some risks associated with it.

While rare, rimming (oral-anal contact) can potentially lead to an anal fistula if it results in a severe bacterial infection or sexually transmitted infection (STI) that causes an anal abscess.

A fistula is an abnormal, tunnel-like connection that often develops after an abscess (a pus-filled infection) in the anal glands fails to heal properly.

How Rimming Can Lead to Fistulas.

Bacterial Transmission: Rimming can transmit bacteria (such as E. Coli or Salmonella) from the feces to the mouth, or vice-versa. If these bacteria introduce a severe infection into the anal glands, it can cause an abscess.

STIs: Infections like syphilis, chlamydia, and HIV can cause proctitis (rectal inflammation) or anal ulcers, which may lead to abscesses and subsequent fistula formation.

Tissue Damage: Although rimming is generally considered low-risk, the anal lining is thin and sensitive. Any existing trauma, fissures, or weakened skin can become infected.

Symptoms of an Anal Fistula.

If a fistula develops, you might experience:

Persistent, throbbing pain near the anus.

Skin irritation, redness, and swelling.

Pus or blood draining from an opening near the anus.

Fever or fatigue.

Risk Reduction.

Use Barriers: Using dental dams or barrier protection when engaging in rimming can significantly lower the risk of transmitting bacteria or STIs.

Hygiene: Wash the anal area with soap and water before sexual activity.

Avoid Activity if Infected: Avoid rimming if you or your partner has signs of a stomach bug (diarrhea), or active cold sores / STI lesions.

If you experience persistent anal pain, swelling, or drainage, you should see a healthcare professional, as fistulas often require medical or surgical treatment.

Please suggest someone for good rimming.

I have already tried. Baby and lee snm, Aditi tgs, jasmine gts.

Does someone in TNG also provide it?

DM is open Thanks.

[KuroiKenshin01]

Recommend taking a consult with a doc over a practo call. He will ask about the details and will give you PrEP. Take it and stick to the routine for 30 days. Don't worry and be calm. The sooner you get it done the better you will feel. Physically and mentally. You can order the medicine through apps and plus he will also give a prescription over the app.

Don't be anxious and be calm.

Thanks.

I went to a place to have some sex, but during the act condom broke although I was inside her for about 2 minutes and then realized while changing the position. After coming back to home, I am scared of getting any STDs specially HIV. Feeling so anxious that I should quite these things. I started thinking is it worth to risk for getting some joy 30 40 minutes?

[Tantarik]

I went to a place to have some sex, but during the act condom broke although I was inside her for about 2 minutes and then realized while changing the position. After coming back to home, I am scared of getting any STDs specially HIV. Feeling so anxious that I should quite these things. I started thinking is it worth to risk for getting some joy 30 40 minutes?

I recommend doing B2B and avoiding FS for this reason. As long as you don't go in and can be satisfied with the rubbing your dick nearby, your risk is zero with (not much) reduction in pleasure. Definitely not worth the risk to me!

[RahulIsBack]

It's been 5 months I had sex with any girl (wg). O always use protection for sex but not for oral sex. Recently I saw that there clear liquid type discharge in my penis which is causing some irritation on top of penis and also some pain near stomach. Is this sign of any sti or normal bacterial or fungal infection as 5 months have already crossed. And I never got tested for std panel, did HIV once which was negative. What are you suggestion and where can I get all the sti / std get tested in cheap or very nominal price.

You need to relax and observe your body. Something that can happen due to old cum or you did not masturbate for long then that liquid can come.

Also masturbate less and see if things get better. If there was any STD there would be visible sign of boil or rashes or something. Rest don't worry much.

If there ic some puss or some discharge which is different in color then you should consult doctor.

You can go for online consultation easily available.

[RahulIsBack]

I went to a place to have some sex, but during the act condom broke although I was inside her for about 2 minutes and then realized while changing the position. After coming back to home, I am scared of getting any STDs specially HIV. Feeling so anxious that I should quite these things. I started thinking is it worth to risk for getting some joy 30 40 minutes?

You should take a chill pill. While its good to be protected and cautious but if it happened then don't stress on it.

Nothing is going to happen. And still if you think you are going bonkers after 10 days or so go to some local testing labs and say you are going abroad and need test to be done they would ask for a ID hand over confidently and next day you would get the report which will be negative.

[DeepakBhai]

It's been 5 months I had sex with any girl (wg). O always use protection for sex but not for oral sex. Recently I saw that there clear liquid type discharge in my penis which is causing some irritation on top of penis and also some pain near stomach. Is this sign of any sti or normal bacterial or fungal infection as 5 months have already crossed. And I never got tested for std panel, did HIV once which was negative. What are you suggestion and where can I get all the sti / std get tested in cheap or very nominal price.

[Devil980]

I went to a place to have some sex, but during the act condom broke although I was inside her for about 2 minutes and then realized while changing the position. After coming back to home, I am scared of getting any STDs specially HIV. Feeling so anxious that I should quite these things. I started thinking is it worth to risk for getting some joy 30 40 minutes?

[CrazyRam280]

1. Used to visit this smoking hot 19 year old in a so called "professional spa", little dusky but angelic face and big bazookas, used to take only B2 B as thats the most she offered, one fine day she got horny and put it in, I was too horny and I did it bare back mainly because how hot she was, I didn't want to miss the chance, big mistake.

Luckily immediately after leaving the spa bought and took PeP within an hour and continued to take for 28 days.

Too big mistakes.

- ofcourse doing it bareback, shouldn't do it no matter how young or hot the girl is, if she is casual with you she must be causal with other meaning more risk of STDs..

I had a similar exp last year, during B2B (with oil) I couldn't control and being horny, it was my mistake I put it inside & she didn't bother to say anything and did bang for 1 minute until my mind took control and had it take it out. I had next few months of hell without sleep and worry. Luckily it was all good after the test.

[CrazyRam280]

Hi, I am looking for some advice here.

I (late 30's) have started experiencing premature ejaculation frequently these days. I am avg built and healthy however not much cardio / physical activity these days.

Initially, I thought it was due to my sex mood / eager and since didn't cum for last few days, but it has become a regular occurrence. In recent experiences, I've only lasted about 1–2 minutes, or I had to stop and take it out every few seconds to maintain control. If I was semi drunk I did last longer but doesn't work all the time or can drink and drive to meet.

So -.

1) What is considered the normal or average duration for intercourse before ejaculation?

2) Does ejaculating a few hours before a date actually help? I've tried this in the past, but I found it lowered my overall mood and drive for the actual encounter.

3) Are there specific sprays, creams, or pills that are recommended for improving stamina?

Any insights or recommendations would be greatly appreciated.