Nigeria

[Romo27]

I spent last week in Abuja on business and stayed at the Transcontinental Hilton. It's a huge hotel with three bars at least. One evening, I was in the jazz bar ending the day with cocktails. I noticed a beautiful woman walk in, and she sat four stools away from me at the bar. I learned later that she was in her forties, but she looked younger. I struck up a conversation with her, and she moved to the stool next to mine. We talked for probably an hour, and I asked her if she wanted to have dinner. She agreed, and after dinner I invited her to my room for a nightcap. Once there, the inevitable happened, and we had a great time. Not once in any of our conversations did money come up, and I was under the impression that this was a one-off natural encounter. In the morning, I woke up early and got in the shower. She joined me, and we had another fun time there.

Once we were dressed, and I was calling for my car, she stood there and looked at me expectantly. I said that I enjoyed the evening, and that I would look her up when I was in town again. She said "You need to give me money. " Still thinking this was not a business encounter, I asked her what she needed for transportation. She got angry and said that I owed her 100,000 Naira for the overnight. I said that we had never discussed money, and that I didn't know this was a business arrangement. She started yelling, calling me a stingy man, and a few other names. After a short back and forth, I agreed to 75,000, which was, frankly, a bargain for the time I had with her. I don't think we'll be seeing each other again, though.

If you're in the Hilton, you can't miss her. Beautiful woman, about 5'4", slim, and a very nice body. She goes by May, and she will rock your world. Just don't piss her off, because she gets nasty very quickly. Beautiful on the outside, but can be ugly on the inside.

[Romo27]

Last Friday I had a layover in Lagos before flying out on Saturday. I mentioned in a previous post the club I visited (next to Ibis Hotel), and found a delightful lady, so I went there again. Precious, from two weeks ago, was there and latched onto me. I told her that I wanted to try someone different, but she wouldn't leave my table. She told me she was calling her friend for a threesome, and I said I didn't want that tonight. I was tired, jet lagged, and just wanted a massage and maybe a blowjob. I finally paid her N20 K to go away, with the promise I would call her next time.

It wasn't long before I noticed a very tall, thin woman in a tight and short red dress. I called her over, and we talked for a time. She was 6'4", mostly legs, a great ass, and cute face. We agreed on N80 K for a great massage, blowjob, and some pics.

When we got to the room, she did the massage, which was awesome. Then I wanted to take some pics, and she refused. We argued about it for a while, and I finally gave up. I told her that we could finish the transaction in the morning, because I was exhausted, and the massage had almost put me to sleep.

I woke up in the morning, rolled over and put my arm around her. She pushed it away, mumbling something about needing rest. I tried several other things, all met with the same response. I got up and started packing, because I had a flight to catch. I finally woke her up and told her it was time to go. I said that I would pay her what we agreed to, even thought I didn't get what I asked for. She didn't say much, and walked out the door. I watched that ass and those legs to, and regretted the lost opportunity.

I would give her a 4 out of 10 because she didn't do what she agreed to. Beautiful woman, absolutely banging body, but doesn't deliver. If you go to the club next to the Ibis Hotel, you can't miss her. Very tall, statuesque woman. Buyer beware!

[Romo27]

Hello. I fly to Ghana every year. For a change, I'd like to see Lagos. There are a lot of Nigerian women in Ghana. They're slim and beautiful. The only thing stopping me from visiting Nigeria is the visa difficulties.

You've been in Nigeria for five years. What's the crime rate like there now? It's not dangerous in the evenings or at night? I was in Lagos as a sailor back in 2004. I saw plenty of fights and police corruption.

I've only been here about a year, and I've spent most of my time in Abuja and Lagos. I also spend time in Yola, which is closer to where the insecurity is, but still safe. I think that, as with any large cities, ask around about the safe places to go, and keep your head on a swivel. When in Lagos, I usually stay out by the airport, because the hotels and ladies are cheaper than on Victoria Island. In Abuja, Wusa 2 is where I've found the most action at clubs. There are plenty of expats in that area, so I don't stand out as much as I would in other parts of town. There are always plenty of girls around the hotels and in hotel bars. Most of them fall into the 6-8 range in terms of looks, but occasionally you'll find an 8 or 9. Fortunately, some of that action is free, but not much.

I have found Nigerian women to be stunning, smart, and very friendly and sweet. There are exceptions, of course, but I've been pretty satisfied with the ones I've met so far. Good hunting!

[Romo27]

My point is to find opportunities by the usual holiday monger --going one or two weeks to a country to have fun. Not a 5 year resident.

Aahhh. And who wish to stay 5 years in Nigeria?

I don't think you understand how visas work. Having a five-year multi-entry visa doesn't mean you're locked down in Nigeria for five years. You also can get shorter-duration tourist visas. I was just explaining my situation.

But, if you don't want to come here, don't.

[Romo27]

I was in Lagos a couple of weeks ago prior to flying overseas for a visit home. I usually stay at the Presken Hotel on Airport Rd, Ikeja, because the rooms are nice, it has a nice rooftop bar, and the prices are pretty good (N70 K-N90 K) It sits across Airport Road from the Ibis Hotel, which I've never stayed at.

Next to the Ibis is a club whose name I don't know, other than it being the club attached to the Ibis. On my final night in town, a Tuesday, I went over there to see if there was any action. The club wasn't all that busy, and it was karaoke night, so I settled in for a couple of beers. A short time later, Precious sat at my table, and we started talking. She's not a stunner, by any means, but she's cute and easy to talk to. She told me that she offered massage, and I asked what kind. She leaned close and said "sex massage. "

I was kind of tired, so a massage sounded very good, topped off with sex. We talked money, and agreed on N45 K for the night. Ridiculously cheap. We went to the Presken, had a beer at the bar, then off to my room.

We took a shower together, and she made sure I was very clean in all of the right places. We dried off, went to the bed, and she produced her massage oil. Her massage was adequate, then she rolled me over and put the condom on with her mouth.

Blowjob, mish, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, and doggy for the finish. In the morning, we lay in bed talking and she started stroking me again. It turned into a very pleasant handjob to start my day.

All in all, I give her a 7 out of 10. Absolutely worth the money. I asked her if she had a friend who could join us for a threesome next time, and she said yes. I'll be waiting for that.

[Vladimir5182]

I'm an American expat living in Nigeria. The eVisa system is no longer active. I moved here last year with a 5-year business visa,....

Hello. I fly to Ghana every year. For a change, I'd like to see Lagos. There are a lot of Nigerian women in Ghana. They're slim and beautiful. The only thing stopping me from visiting Nigeria is the visa difficulties.

You've been in Nigeria for five years. What's the crime rate like there now? It's not dangerous in the evenings or at night? I was in Lagos as a sailor back in 2004. I saw plenty of fights and police corruption.

[Amadeuss]

It's true that living here gives me a different perspective,


I'm not exactly sure what point you're trying to make. I'm just here to say that Nigeria is a great place to find beautiful women without spending a ton of money. If you can secure a 5-year visa, you'll be very happy with your experiences here.

My point is to find opportunities by the usual holiday monger --going one or two weeks to a country to have fun. Not a 5 year resident.

Aahhh. And who wish to stay 5 years in Nigeria?

[Romo27]

Thanks for your input as expat. May I ask how many African countries did you ever visit before to recommend Nigeria?

Going there from Europe, flights are expensive, to get a visa is still a pain in de ass, hotels are not cheap, most areas are for whites in the evening a no-go zone. All that I don't have in many other African countries like Kenia, Uganda, Tanzania, Gambia. To name a few. And the girls there are less mercenaries than the typical Nigerian babe.

Its a different situation for you, living there on a corporate account. Options to find girls from your neighborhood are existing -- but not for a one week tourist monger.

It's true that living here gives me a different perspective, but I've traveled to other countries since I've been here. I don't know what it's like for Europeans, but Americans have to have visas to go to almost every other country in Africa, so it takes planning. I don't live on a corporate account. I have a job and I spend my own money. I'm not a wealthy man.

As for costs, perhaps your idea of expensive is different from mine. I have been to Lagos, and have found nice hotels for around N60 K a night. You can also spend much much more, if you want. Same story in Abuja. The city I live in doesn't have much mongering action, but there are plenty of free opportunities there. Going to clubs in my city is the best source of action, and many times all it costs is a few drinks, and transportation in the morning. It hasn't been my experience in other countries (Africa or otherwise) that girls are less mercenary than Nigerian women. Women who have approached me in almost every country haven't done so because they think that I can teach them about flower arranging. They approach me because I look like I have money, and I'm by myself. They may start with innocuous questions, but by the end of the night, it's all about money. Everywhere.

I happen to find Nigerian women stunningly beautiful, for the most part. Not all that I have been with have been pros. You're correct that I have options in my own city that only cost me the price of a date or a few drinks. Anyone could come here and have that same experience.

I'm not exactly sure what point you're trying to make. I'm just here to say that Nigeria is a great place to find beautiful women without spending a ton of money. If you can secure a 5-year visa, you'll be very happy with your experiences here.

[Amadeuss]

I'm an American expat living in Nigeria.
If you're looking for a good alternative to Asian countries,
I wholeheartely recommend Nigeria. You won't be disappointed.

Thanks for your input as expat. May I ask how many African countries did you ever visit before to recommend Nigeria?

Going there from Europe, flights are expensive, to get a visa is still a pain in de ass, hotels are not cheap, most areas are for whites in the evening a no-go zone. All that I don't have in many other African countries like Kenia, Uganda, Tanzania, Gambia. To name a few. And the girls there are less mercenaries than the typical Nigerian babe.

Its a different situation for you, living there on a corporate account. Options to find girls from your neighborhood are existing -- but not for a one week tourist monger.

[Romo27]

Sad to see that Nigeria is as difficult still as before. Some eight years ago I really tried to go to Nigeria, I requested several types of visa, and I had to pay for all of them, and did not get any money back. And I also had to cancel my flight and lost money for penalties that way also.

Purpose of my visit was to visit Lagor just for mongering and for fun. I had kind of Nigerian girl friend at that time, I thought that she will be my guide in Lagos and help to pick other girls. I had flight bought for her also, in her name, so when it was cancelled she got the flight money and kept it herself. That was the biggest loss in this failed Nigeria trip, some 1. 5 k USD.

As somebody mentioned, Nigerians and Nigerians girls are everywhere. I have met them in Gulf countries, especially in Dubai I had many Nigerian girls, also in Oman. Since Nigerians have so bad reputation, they were all telling me that they are from Ghana..

I'm an American expat living in Nigeria. The eVisa system is no longer active. I moved here last year with a 5-year business visa, and now a CERPAC work authorization that supersedes the visa. I had to go to the Nigerian embassy in Washington, the. See. To apply, and got my visa in three weeks. It sucks, but not as badly as trying to bring your Nigerian girlfriend back to the States. Right now, few if any Nigerians are getting tourist visas to the US due to the rate of visa overstays by Nigerian citizens. I talked to an American woman who is marrying a Nigerian, and she said that he won't be able to go to the US for up to two years after they're married. Crazy.

As for the women, I really don't know why guys are flocking to the Philippines to find young women. Nigerian woman are absolutely stunning, sweet, and smart. My girlfriend is considerably younger than me, but that's the culture here. As a white American, I have no shortage of opportunities to bed young beauties. Yes, they're mostly after my money, but I think that's true just about everywhere. The great thing is that they don't bring the drama and entitlement of American women. As a cautionary note: AIDS is still a thing here, so take reasonable precautions.

Prices here are insanely low. I saw an ad for the city I live in where a blowjob was being offered for 600 naira. That's less than 50 cents US. I was in Lagos recently, and a young woman approached me at a club. We had a quick negotiation, and she spent the night with me for N50,000, or about $35. I was staying out by the airport, so the talent level was lower than you would find on Victoria Island, but still a very attractive lady, and very skilled.

If you're looking for a good alternative to Asian countries, I wholeheartely recommend Nigeria. You won't be disappointed.

[Leblon]

Well never got e-visa. Had to cancel flight which cost me 300 dollars plus the 160 for e-visa. I tried your suggestion last week. Nothing.

I emailed every possible email address to try and get the e-visa. Lot of them bounced back. Whole thing is a mess. Very disappointed. NY consulate no help as they say nothing they can do. It all comes from the motherland.

Sad to see that Nigeria is as difficult still as before. Some eight years ago I really tried to go to Nigeria, I requested several types of visa, and I had to pay for all of them, and did not get any money back. And I also had to cancel my flight and lost money for penalties that way also.

Purpose of my visit was to visit Lagor just for mongering and for fun. I had kind of Nigerian girl friend at that time, I thought that she will be my guide in Lagos and help to pick other girls. I had flight bought for her also, in her name, so when it was cancelled she got the flight money and kept it herself. That was the biggest loss in this failed Nigeria trip, some 1. 5 k USD.

As somebody mentioned, Nigerians and Nigerians girls are everywhere. I have met them in Gulf countries, especially in Dubai I had many Nigerian girls, also in Oman. Since Nigerians have so bad reputation, they were all telling me that they are from Ghana. So I thought long time that I know many girls from Ghana. One by one, they all turned to be Nigerians, I assume that I have never been with girl from Ghana after all. Seeing somebody mention in Forum girls from Ghana in other countries makes me smile.

Some Nigerian girls have great bodies, and some are pretty. There was question where are most beautiful girls in Africa. I don't know, I cannot say of black girl if she is from Nigeria or Kenya, they look same to me. Only ones that look different for me are Somalis and Ethiopians.

[Ricko85]

I spent some bread on escorts in the US and England. Great fun. But I'd prefer to do the higher end in Africa since even if it's say $300-$400 an overnight (just saying IF, not saying that's the price), it's still cheaper than the $1000+ an hour hot black higher end escorts charge, I more or less keep the looks of the girl the same or very near it (looks matter to me. No 5 or 6's just because they're cheap), and I can have me some fun with say 3-4 different girls (at the same time if they're bi. Yay) for the price of 3-4 hours of one higher end black girl in the US or England. I'm free to travel this August-September so it's my goal to achieve this. I'll report if I find it. Just looking for intel here.

Have you ever thought about going to Athens? You can find many beautiful Latin and Black girls in Athens. There were beautiful Brazilian Black girls at Golden Queens Club. A lap dance is 5 euros for 2 minutes. A private dance is 80 euros for half an hour. However, some girls imply that for 80 euros they will do more than just dance in a private room. You can also find them in places called studios and on Filis Street. I recommend that you check out my Athens article. Also, you don't need to go to dangerous African countries just for Black girls. You can find many beautiful Black girls from various African countries on Pattaya Beach Road. They will accept 1000–1200 baht for short time, approximately 40 dollars. Try a few girls and get the phone number of the one you like. On another day, invite the girl you like to your room to stay with you all night. If you want your Black chick to look like a porn star, you can buy her a few sexy dresses. When you offer 250 dollars for the whole night, she will gladly accept. Including anal. There are more Black chicks around the Nana area in Bangkok. Prices are slightly higher than Pattaya, but there isn't a big difference.

[Steve 99]

Check your spam folder. The email address I was able to get a response from was Help-evisa@immigration.gov.ng They will ask for the name and application number and reference number.

Well never got e-visa. Had to cancel flight which cost me 300 dollars plus the 160 for e-visa. I tried your suggestion last week. Nothing.

I emailed every possible email address to try and get the e-visa. Lot of them bounced back. Whole thing is a mess. Very disappointed. NY consulate no help as they say nothing they can do. It all comes from the motherland.

[Trlffick]

Check your spam folder. The email address I was able to get a response from was Help-evisa@immigration.gov.ng They will ask for the name and application number and reference number.

USA guy here. Did all the correct stuff on their website for evisa. Did not use the app. Did all on web. Paid my 160 USD. Got application number and reference number. You get a sheet with a scan number and saying you paid. Its been 6 business days and NOTHING. I emailed every email I could find. Nothing. Very frustrating. My flight leaves Sunday. It is now Tuesday. If you call the emabassies in NY and DC they don't answer. So about to give up. Maybe it will show. They sure don't make it easy for Americans to visit. F__kers..

[Steve 99]

I recently read that getting a Nigerian eVISA is easier than in the past. Nigeria has removed some of the excessive requirements and interviews. You need to go to the Nigerian eVISA site, create an account, add all your credentials and itinerary then pay with a credit card. However, Here is where I'm at an impasse. Just follow me:

Download an app on your phone.

Create an account and password.

Upload personal and financial information.

ON A NIGERIAN WEBSITE!

Maybe someone can report their experience?

USA guy here. Did all the correct stuff on their website for evisa. Did not use the app. Did all on web. Paid my 160 USD. Got application number and reference number. You get a sheet with a scan number and saying you paid. Its been 6 business days and NOTHING. I emailed every email I could find. Nothing. Very frustrating. My flight leaves Sunday. It is now Tuesday. If you call the emabassies in NY and DC they don't answer. So about to give up. Maybe it will show. They sure don't make it easy for Americans to visit. F__kers.

If anyone has any tricks or tips to get the evisa let me know.