Nagoya

[SBlack0070]

I would imagine that under the current circumstances that foreigners would not be too welcome in establishments.

Unless someone has definitive locations, your best chance might be to wander around known RLD area and see if you get an invite. But beware of touts and scammers.

Good day!

Thank you so much again.

Let's hope if I get lucky.

[AussieGaigin]

I would imagine that under the current circumstances that foreigners would not be too welcome in establishments.

Unless someone has definitive locations, your best chance might be to wander around known RLD area and see if you get an invite. But beware of touts and scammers.

[SBlack0070]

Check out the thread in this section on NAMPA - the art of picking up J girls for free. Has been stagnant for a couple of years, but the principles still apply.

Also have a look out for a couple of books "Making out in Japanese"; contains a lot of slang words and phrases which can spice up your conversations and relationships.

I am amazed to see J girls are sooo much into casual sex.

Even they want to spice up their life with different people from around the world.

I am also a guy who believes in Variety is the spice of life.

I want to know apart from hit and trial, can in Nagoya we get sure shot nuru massage with B2B and anals?

I'm being desperate and want to steam off my hunger.

[Detwing1]

Check out the thread in this section on NAMPA - the art of picking up J girls for free. Has been stagnant for a couple of years, but the principles still apply.

Also have a look out for a couple of books "Making out in Japanese"; contains a lot of slang words and phrases which can spice up your conversations and relationships.

I don't believe I ever posted much on that, but it is for sure dead. Has some good info though, as most of it is relevant, based on my experience, and that of my friends. When you have good wingmen who also enjoy the chase, it helps. For us it almost turned into sort of a game and it was sort of automatic once you had it figured out. The first few times it was awkward, especially when you're used to dealing with western women, but after that its easy. I haven't been there in quite a while, as I'm spending most of my time in Thailand these days, but I can't imagine much has changed.

[AussieGaigin]

Check out the thread in this section on NAMPA - the art of picking up J girls for free. Has been stagnant for a couple of years, but the principles still apply.

Also have a look out for a couple of books "Making out in Japanese"; contains a lot of slang words and phrases which can spice up your conversations and relationships.

[AussieGaigin]

I found that you had to overcome the fear of approaching J-girls. You just had to do it, but in a discrete way. Don't be the guy that goes from table to table propositioning every girl in the bar, but find a way to make it discrete.
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Once you get the hang of this, unlimited opportunities will come your way. You just have to recognise and exploit them.

Modern technology has taken away many opportunities of random pick ups with a few little white lies. Back in the "old days" a couple of my favourites were:

Getting "lost" near a railway station, looking confusedly at a map. A girl will soon come along to help you, an interested one might actually offer to accompany you to your "destination". Of course there will be a coffee shop near the end where you can invite her in to thank her for her kindness.

Or the "stood up" date routine. Find a girl near a station who is obviously waiting for someone. Ask her if she is the "Yuki" you were supposed to meet here on a blind date half an hour ago. You were a bit confused about the meeting place and may be at the wrong location, or she is late or has changed her mind? ("She is not answering her phone, or I might have the wrong number? A sympathetic girl might offer to make up for your loss at a later time.

[SBlack0070]

I really appreciate both of your inputs.

It gave me some confidence to venture into the mystical lands of carnal desires.

I would love to try all options and after that I will definitely share my experiences.

Oyasuminasai guys!

Take care.

[Detwing1]

If you are uneasy about chatting up girls in pubs / clubs, you could consider just being a regular in a local restaurant or convenience store, and try and get the same girl to serve you regularly. She will soon become intrigued at the attention, and is likely to respond to your interest.

I found that you had to overcome the fear of approaching J-girls. You just had to do it, but in a discrete way. Don't be the guy that goes from table to table propositioning every girl in the bar, but find a way to make it discrete.

Hit up the speed dating event in Nagoya. That worked out really well.

Additionally, if you learn a few Japanese words, I found that a lot of the girls want to help you out.

[Detwing1]

I've never had to p4p in Japan either. Pick ups are so easy and the girl would be offended by cash, but I always take a small gift as part of the deal. A souvenir of your own country always goes down well. Doesn't have to be expensive.

That's exactly my experience. I always paid the tab for dates (dinners, drinks, small gifts, etc, etc). No issue with that, but absolutely they would be pissed if I tried to pay them.

Nagoya gets a bad rap from a lot of visitors for lack of carnal options. If you're a casual visitor, there for only a week or two, I would agree. However, if you live there as a foreigner, its a completely different story. I imagine Tokyo would be even better.

[AussieGaigin]

As I understand from your rich experience, it will be challenging for me to hit on someone considering my okish Japanese language skills and lack of time to invest in going to pubs and catching up with someone.
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If you are uneasy about chatting up girls in pubs / clubs, you could consider just being a regular in a local restaurant or convenience store, and try and get the same girl to serve you regularly. She will soon become intrigued at the attention, and is likely to respond to your interest.

[AussieGaigin]

No problem about the advice. I was a newbie there as well one time.

Regarding all of my hookups, I lived alone and in a convenient location, so we always went back to my place. I did go to a love hotel once as the girl I was with at the time had a fantasy she wanted to fulfill there.

I've never had experience with P4 P in Japan, so the answer would be no to your question about compensation.

Read Aussiegaijin's report. Based on my experience, its pretty much spot on, especially the point about leading the girl. Not long after arriving, I was hanging out with a friend who'd lived there for a while, and met 2 attractive OL's. After a few hours of drinking and talking, we all left the bar together and my friend directed all 4 of us straight to my place. They went along, and within 30 minutes, the girl I was with was rubbing my cock. You can guess where that went. The take away for me that night was to always lead the girl, if she's willing (you will know). If I said "do you want to go to my place? I probably would have went home empty handed. It was a valuable lesson that served me well.

I dated a lot of J girls at home in Australia, A day out sightseeing and / or lunch often resulted in my "need" to stop off at home to "get something". I'd invite her in for a drink, rather than let her wait in the car, and this invariably led to other things.

[AussieGaigin]

I've never had experience with P4P in Japan, so the answer would be no to your question about compensation.

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I've never had to p4p in Japan either. Pick ups are so easy and the girl would be offended by cash, but I always take a small gift as part of the deal. A souvenir of your own country always goes down well. Doesn't have to be expensive.

[Detwing1]

I really appreciate your time and help brother.

As I understand from your rich experience, it will be challenging for me to hit on someone considering my okish Japanese language skills and lack of time to invest in going to pubs and catching up with someone.

But yeah I will definitely try my level best as there is no other direct options available in Nagoya. Haha.

I have but one last question.

These pubs which you have talked about, if I'm lucky enough will the OLs or college girls take me to their place or I have an option of taking them to a love hotel?

And did anytime it happened with you that any of the OLs or college girls demanded money for the services or on contrary did they pay you for the pleasures they got? LOL. (I have a fetish about girl paying me for the enjoyment she gets from me. Haha).

I have currently not activated my PM facility but I will definitely do it as I can directly contact you for help.

Again thanks for the insights and if you ever want any info about India. Bangalore region please do ping me.

Stay safe and take care.

No problem about the advice. I was a newbie there as well one time.

Regarding all of my hookups, I lived alone and in a convenient location, so we always went back to my place. I did go to a love hotel once as the girl I was with at the time had a fantasy she wanted to fulfill there.

I've never had experience with P4 P in Japan, so the answer would be no to your question about compensation.

Read Aussiegaijin's report. Based on my experience, its pretty much spot on, especially the point about leading the girl. Not long after arriving, I was hanging out with a friend who'd lived there for a while, and met 2 attractive OL's. After a few hours of drinking and talking, we all left the bar together and my friend directed all 4 of us straight to my place. They went along, and within 30 minutes, the girl I was with was rubbing my cock. You can guess where that went. The take away for me that night was to always lead the girl, if she's willing (you will know). If I said "do you want to go to my place? I probably would have went home empty handed. It was a valuable lesson that served me well.

[AussieGaigin]

I really appreciate your time and help brother.


These pubs which you have talked about, if I'm lucky enough will the OLs or college girls take me to their place or I have an option of taking them to a love hotel?

And did anytime it happened with you that any of the OLs or college girls demanded money for the services or on contrary did they pay you for the pleasures they got? LOL. (I have a fetish about girl paying me for the enjoyment she gets from me. Haha).

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OLs will generally live at home with family, or have small rooms in an apartment block, so going back to her place on a first date will be not be an option. If she is willing, a love hotel will not be a problem for her. It will help if you know where some are located in your "working" area, although the girl may suggest one.

You should be positive with the girl and lead her. Avoid asking abstract questions like "where would you like to go? What would you like to do? Give her some alternatives: "would you like to go to A or B?" and let her chose or offer alternatives.

If your meeting goes well, and the girl is obviously enjoying herself and your company, the chances of scoring with her will be high. Again, "let's go to a hotel" will be more positive than "do you want to go?. ". Surprisingly, failure to ask this question may result in you being turned down the next time you ask her out. Generally, Japanese women do not have social or cultural barriers to sex.

Learn some basic Japanese words and phrases and try to fit them into your conversation. Read up on culture, foods and geography. The more basics you know, the more impressed she will be with you. But don't know too much, just ask lots of questions and let her teach you.

I don't know anything about the social scene in Nagoya, but in Tokyo there were a lot of English "conversation schools" where you could meet students socially after the official classes. Also there were regular "International Parties" in TYO and OSA where you could meet up.

Maybe things are different now with restrictions, but good luck.

[SBlack0070]

I lived there for a few years and have quite a bit of experience with this.

First the bad news for you.

How are your Japanese language skills? Either way, it's highly unlikely that you will be allowed in any of the shops, as most cater only to Japanese. Outcall could be a possibility, but I never tried it.

I've seen and been approached by some of the Chinese streetwalkers near Nagoya Station and Sakae, but never tried, as I suspect they're basically scammers, and I'm not really into P4 P anyhow.

In short, you will struggle to find P4 P action in Nagoya. I would just forget about P4 P there.

Now the good news (maybe).

If you have some game & charm, dress well, decent looking, are not shy, and can speak a little Japanese, then picking up freebies out of expat bars or in Sakae is very easy. Leave the cutoff jeans, flip flops, and your favorite Metallica T-shirt at home. The key is to dress well. Its a very different game than India, Thailand, or the Philippines...

I really appreciate your time and help brother.

As I understand from your rich experience, it will be challenging for me to hit on someone considering my okish Japanese language skills and lack of time to invest in going to pubs and catching up with someone.

But yeah I will definitely try my level best as there is no other direct options available in Nagoya. Haha.

I have but one last question.

These pubs which you have talked about, if I'm lucky enough will the OLs or college girls take me to their place or I have an option of taking them to a love hotel?

And did anytime it happened with you that any of the OLs or college girls demanded money for the services or on contrary did they pay you for the pleasures they got? LOL. (I have a fetish about girl paying me for the enjoyment she gets from me. Haha).

I have currently not activated my PM facility but I will definitely do it as I can directly contact you for help.

Again thanks for the insights and if you ever want any info about India. Bangalore region please do ping me.

Stay safe and take care.