Medellin Reports

[Osteoknot]

I'm thinking out loud, and would love others' opinions on my generalizations. This is still my 2nd week here ever and there's a lot to learn. If I'm off base, please tell me.

Another observation in the last few days regarding Airbnb vs hotels. I ended up at a crappy Airbnb for my second two weeks here and the host wouldn't accept alterations to the dates and charged me 50% for canceling. Nearly every time I've airbnb'ed in modern countries the hosts were more than accommodating about me moving out if I didn't like a place. Not here. Many of the Airbnbs are managed by companies in clusters of little apartments. Many of can be booked via other websites which don't have these unreasonable cancellation policies. I would go that route next time if I wanted an apartment.

Right now I'm in a brand name hotel, with no chica fee if she doesn't sleep over. It's only marginally more awkward to check her in at the front desk but also way more comfortable, air conditioned, safe to the nines and I don't have to deal with any unprofessionalism from the staff.

You listed several reasons why I prefer hotels to BnB's. There is a lot of personal preference. Guest fees range from zero, to 5-10 thousand, usually in the 30-50 thousand range, on up to 100.000. All amounts in Colombian pesos.

Your hotel sounds great. I wouldn't share the info unless you enjoy shooting yourself in the foot. Only takes a few greasy slobs to tell their friends, who tell their friends, and before you know it, the place is ruined for mongering. I know of a similar hotel, zero fees, small, clean super comfy, great location to metro and things to do. Will never reveal. Well, maybe to close friends. Mongering is "I got your back" while at the same time, "Every man for himself. " Don't expect to be spoon fed (not you) the stuff that I put in the time and leg work to set up (sometimes many months), and yeah that incudes chicas. Ostee Out.

[Norbert61]

I don't know. I really wasn't speaking for the girls or even for other mongers but for myself. I enjoy the emotional entanglement and the multi levels in the relationships with these chicas.

What you call amusingly a Fleshlight with tits I usually refer to as a wet mud hole although I suppose that's slightly redundant. In my style I probably create unnecessary complications but I enjoy it.

I always remember that Huckleberry Finn sign hanging in my grandfather's garage as I was growing up that said, "he is happiest who is contented with the least" so probably the wet mud hole fuckers are the Smart Ones, I don't know. I try to be true to myself with very little implication that my style suits others.

I believe more people learn what not to do from me then what to do.

All my posts this round are on my phone with wonky internet access on a Greyhound bus so forgive me.

Yes. I was agreeing with you- besides forming a human connection it is the decent way to treat people. Though I have been guilty of doing it the other way.

[JjBee62]

Very strange. I got the sense that every girl would do raw sex (no condom).

Reached out to 5-6 escorts and none would do it for any price.

I would then think it's something they will only admit to in person, but everything I read said to negotiate up front.

So maybe it's not as widespread (huh huh huh) as I thought. Or just not offered by web escorts (mileroticos, lace. Etc).

Will try tomorrow night at Fase Dos.

Why would you get the sense every girl will do raw sex? Every girl won't swallow. Every girl won't do anal. Every girl won't give a blowjob in a theater. Certainly every girl isn't going to offer BBFS.

Especially girls from escort services, strip clubs and casas won't for certain skip the condom, or agree to it with some anonymous person reaching out to them. I'm not saying none will agree to it, but you're probably going to have more trouble finding it using the more commercial options.

I've had BBFS offered without discussion several times in Medellin. Which is how I learned that I prefer condoms to antibiotics. However, everyone has different preferences.

Your best bet is to have the condom discussion face to face. However, you'll likely get shutdown quite often.

[UsaInEurope]

What would make someone want to fuck a facebook hooker raw that everybody is fucking, but not fuck a hooker from any other place raw that everybody is also fucking? Sounds like a what you don't know won't hurt you deal. That facebook chick could be living in as much squalor that chicks in the Maracaibo back rooms are working in.

Shhhhhhhhhhh let him live in his private mental island where he's uncovering regular girls who don't do this sort of thing normally.

[Osteoknot]

How can somebody have sex with a person and be not sure if that is person is trans or not? Serious question. Have sex change surgeries become so good?

You ask them up front and I have never had one lie in Medellin. This can get important when the tranny in question is the cutest girl out there. All you have to say is, "trans?" Don't do it with body language or facial expression like something bad just happened or is going to happen if she says yes. Be neutral and leave the possibility open in their mind that you might actually be looking for a tranny, and then they will be eager to tell you the truth.

I realize your concern was more about after the dirty deed. The Internet story goes the surgeries are so good now they can fool a gynecologist. If your mind believes it, then it's real. There are trannies who are more girl than most of the girls out there. I don't think it's ever happened to me, but if it did and the parts were all functional, I would lose any sleep over it.

Contrast this with the ladyboys in Thailand who will try to trick you. Once they get you in a hotel room, they ain't leaving' until they get paid, and it can get violent in a hurry. Many of them are expert martial artists and they are twice as strong as you would expect.

I know, you are big muscular Special Forces bad ass. Jajajaja, you are dead meat. No matter what happens in the room, if they don't get paid, next time you go out four of them will approach, and while are thinking you still have the upper hand because you actually believe that shit you have been telling yourself all these years, four more ladyboys show up, all with little four-inch knives. Once the action starts, four more. And they are skilled fighters.

They all start sticking you, not once, each knife 4-8-12 times (I am stuck on fours in case you haven't noticed by now). Your black belt and Green Beret are useless. The more you resist, the more bodys pour in and the more holes you acquire. Before long you are not dying from any one wound, but weak from blood loss. They might stop, they might not and let you bleed out, to death. Depends on how big of an asshole you were and are.

I laugh here too when a guy (rarely, thank gawd) suggests he is too big and bad to be beat. All that does is maybe buy you some time. If you ever get the upperhand, they will return later that day, the next day, whenever with overwhelming force and you will lose. Bet on it.

Attitude is everything, not size, not skill. Don't give them a reason to come back at you and it's easy to stay out of trouble. Hitting a girl is a great way to get ventilated with a bunch of knife holes. By then you deserve it. We rail on these chicas all the time for their nefarious behaviors, but some of the stories they have told me assure me, they are the ones who are at risk, and they get fucked over waaaay more than we do.

[Mr Enternational]

I stick mostly with FB chicas. T Probaly not going to get raw from an escort site or a place like Fase II. Unless you pay a lot extra (and still not likely), but that's probably good because, trust me, you probably don't want to bareback those girls.

What would make someone want to fuck a facebook hooker raw that everybody is fucking, but not fuck a hooker from any other place raw that everybody is also fucking? Sounds like a what you don't know won't hurt you deal. That facebook chick could be living in as much squalor that chicks in the Maracaibo back rooms are working in.

[UsaInEurope]

Oh, my nubie friend. About 95%+ of my fucks are raw. That said, I'm not going to casas. I'm not doing street girls or Lleras girls. I stick mostly with FB chicas. Tend to be semi-pros and non-pros. You just need to look. Probaly not going to get raw from an escort site or a place like Fase II. Unless you pay a lot extra (and still not likely), but that's probably good because, trust me, you probably don't want to bareback those girls. Girls in Medellin are accustomed to BBFS. The Colombian goes aren't going to pay for a condom, let alone use it. That's part of the reason why you see so many chicas with kids and no man in sight.

Back to FB then. Luckily it's easy to get in touch w / girls there.

[BbqMushrooms]

It may come down to that LOL. There are lots of stores for bbws but after 4 months of unbridled dipsomania I think I better have more between me and my pants than a thong string.

I kinda want to do this now just to see the look on a chicas face when I pull down my pants.

[ColombiaLover]

Oh, my nubie friend. About 95%+ of my fucks are raw. That said, I'm not going to casas. I'm not doing street girls or Lleras girls. I stick mostly with FB chicas. Tend to be semi-pros and non-pros. You just need to look. Probaly not going to get raw from an escort site or a place like Fase II. Unless you pay a lot extra (and still not likely), but that's probably good because, trust me, you probably don't want to bareback those girls. Girls in Medellin are accustomed to BBFS. The Colombian goes aren't going to pay for a condom, let alone use it. That's part of the reason why you see so many chicas with kids and no man in sight.

Very strange. I got the sense that every girl would do raw sex (no condom).

Reached out to 5-6 escorts and none would do it for any price.

I would then think it's something they will only admit to in person, but everything I read said to negotiate up front.

So maybe it's not as widespread (huh huh huh) as I thought. Or just not offered by web escorts (mileroticos, lace. Etc).

Will try tomorrow night at Fase Dos.

[Knowledge]

Thank you very much for this reminder why I don't generally isolate myself with multiple providers, especially not when I don't know them very well and / or I am not sober.

Funny to read, but not fun to be part of hehe. I had a very similar experience when I was in Cuba a few years back. I took a hottie out of a club and she suggested to bring her friend. Saw her friend outside and she seemed cute, but I must admit I was a bit wasted. Took them back to my apartment which was walking distance, I had a double BJ from both, but only main girl was naked and the other one wasn't. I did ask her to get naked, but she didnt want to and I was busy with main hottie, so didnt care. You can see where I'm going with this hehe. I had sex only with main girl and made out with both. Later when they were leaving I noticed her friend's hands, I was like fuck me. Her / his hands were bigger than mine. Lesson learned. Anyways, 3 days is a very short trip. For me, even 3 weeks is too short hehe. I try to stay 1-2 months at a time.

[UsaInEurope]

Very strange. I got the sense that every girl would do raw sex (no condom).

Reached out to 5-6 escorts and none would do it for any price.

I would then think it's something they will only admit to in person, but everything I read said to negotiate up front.

So maybe it's not as widespread (huh huh huh) as I thought. Or just not offered by web escorts (mileroticos, lace. Etc).

Will try tomorrow night at Fase Dos.

[RiceRocket99]

Then in middle of fuck I started asking questions to myself could she be a trans actually.

She had fake boobs, ass, and strange scar on bottom of belly.

Don't know maybe it was just weed talking but I got rid of her after 2 fucks, packed my bags and off to early flight.

What a way to end a trip, thinking did I just had sex with trans girl.

Hopefully will visit Medellin after summer but next time needs to be 2 weeks at least, just view from Poblado area balcony and cheap weed is enough reason to be back, indeed amazing city.

Funny to read, but not fun to be part of hehe. I had a very similar experience when I was in Cuba a few years back. I took a hottie out of a club and she suggested to bring her friend. Saw her friend outside and she seemed cute, but I must admit I was a bit wasted. Took them back to my apartment which was walking distance, I had a double BJ from both, but only main girl was naked and the other one wasn't. I did ask her to get naked, but she didn’t want to and I was busy with main hottie, so didnt care. You can see where I'm going with this hehe. I had sex only with main girl and made out with both. Later when they were leaving I noticed her friend's hands, I was like fuck me. Her / his hands were bigger than mine. Lesson learned. Anyways, 3 days is a very short trip. For me, even 3 weeks is too short hehe. I try to stay 1-2 months at a time.

[TedFerguson]

I really like that line. TF, thing is that the women vary a lot by what region they are. Think of Bogota as NY, Medellin as LA, Cartagena as Miami, Cali as Atlanta, and Barranquilla as Houston. I think what you are looking for you would do better in Bogota than Medellin. You will find a more sophisticated woman there.

Argentina and Brazil, as much as I love the women, are just not practical places to have a sugar baby. The time is just too much, and the flights have gotten stupid again with regards to costs.

You will find it is most practical time and expense wise for you to meet a Colombian woman in Mexico. Thing is there is now a new form Colombian people have to fill out to come and it is a doozy. I think my gal spent like 2 hours filling out the whole damned thing.

I really like the comparison with US cities. I'm strongly considering visiting Bogota next for those more sophisticated girls you mention. While Mexico may seem practical to get to, I have a hard time finding anything on Seeking I like. My work is super flexible and I suspect the farther away I get from the US (E. G. Argentina and Brazil), the more unspoiled stunners will be found. I look forward to testing that theory.

[SoulCust]

I just arrive last night in Medellin. I'm about to take a Uber to el centro to check out the talent. Do not know if I will partake. Wish me luck LOL. It's 2:05 pm.

[Osteoknot]

What do you mean? Are you say that women (even hoes) like to be treated with respect and prefer that we don't just fuck them like a fleshlight with tits?

I don't know. I really wasn't speaking for the girls or even for other mongers but for myself. I enjoy the emotional entanglement and the multi levels in the relationships with these chicas.

What you call amusingly a Fleshlight with tits I usually refer to as a wet mud hole although I suppose that's slightly redundant. In my style I probably create unnecessary complications but I enjoy it.

I always remember that Huckleberry Finn sign hanging in my grandfather's garage as I was growing up that said, "he is happiest who is contented with the least" so probably the wet mud hole fuckers are the Smart Ones, I don't know. I try to be true to myself with very little implication that my style suits others.

I believe more people learn what not to do from me then what to do.

All my posts this round are on my phone with wonky internet access on a Greyhound bus so forgive me.