Sexual Wellness and other Sex related discussions

[RexRhex]

You may mention casual dating and sex instead of MP. I have seen psychologists / therapists are kind and professional, mostly I have taken sessions from ladies.

If that does not help much, don't hesitate even to go to a psychiatrist. We are all humans- flesh, bones and chemicals so always best to seek professionals. All the very best.

Need help about a condition once a month there is a huge urge to visit a MP for the obvious reasons, it starts with an urge / desire which kind of builds up for a few days and then on the day suitable opportunity presents itself can't think of anything else, the heart beat goes up and the mouth becomes dry, this is accompanied by shaking of the leg and then there is no going back. Once the act is over the symptoms don't come back after another 20-30 days. During the phase when the we are near to the phase (nearing the 30 day deadline) even Wake up thinking about it, it's almost like an addiction which will not go away, though a lot of convincing / self promises / distractions were tried but it comes back like a time bound spell. Daily MB (at least once) and watching a few p-clips. Can anyone suggest ways to overcome this as want to get rid of it before any major damage. Any help would be welcome.

[GoForIt2]

Need help about a condition once a month there is a huge urge to visit a MP for the obvious reasons, it starts with an urge / desire which kind of builds up for a few days and then on the day suitable opportunity presents itself can't think of anything else, the heart beat goes up and the mouth becomes dry, this is accompanied by shaking of the leg and then there is no going back. Once the act is over the symptoms don't come back after another 20-30 days. During the phase when the we are near to the phase (nearing the 30 day deadline) even Wake up thinking about it, it's almost like an addiction which will not go away, though a lot of convincing / self promises / distractions were tried but it comes back like a time bound spell. Daily MB (at least once) and watching a few p-clips. Can anyone suggest ways to overcome this as want to get rid of it before any major damage. Any help would be welcome.

[RexRhex]

How do you convince the WG for a std test? It has always backfired whenever I have asked!! Like I have just committed a grave sin!

Just google venereal disease specialists or Centers if you want consultation as well. Typically most regular labs have an entire STD panel and if may give advice, get all of them done once every 6 months / 1 year. Don't worry about anonymity, just visit one in the other end of the city if that's your concern.

It's amazing how relieved one feels on seeing non reactive / negative on all parameters when the report comes out.

Plus generally healthy practice.

My bare back strategy has always been to get an STD panel test done for both self and fuck mate not older than 48 hrs. She pops a contraceptive before hand and it's a full night of stress free cream pies. Small cost but trivial compared to LIFE.

[MRahul84]

Thanks for info, looks vaidyaji mix some kind of viagra / Tadalafil / Sildenafil in it.

Bro.

Is they give any side effects also.

Like headache.

[RexRhex]

Yes!

And while it is adviced to get std panel tests, I don't know, maybe, (My personal opinion, may change with time), I don't think it is wise to get tested for anything than hiv.

See the girls around. There are dozens of guys for one girl in dating apps. What's the guarantee that the girl would be std free? And how many would be willing for a test report before marriage? Forget before dating! Here we talk about behaviours and precautions but I have heard friends talking about using condoms only while fucking else all bare. Some even go bare (Never advised).

Now say if we get checked and something 'incurable' comes out like hpv, the only issue remains is the discussion and stifma. It's a very high chance we will live peacefully with it and die in a very old age or in some mishap before!

Han, if you see any symptoms, good to take medical advice but otherwise just letting go seems good to me.

Rest on personal beliefs and thoughts.

Thanks I had a bad scare in Thailand. Condoms in Thailand are very thin. So, once I was enjoying condom broke midway. I have tested myself for hiv and came out negative two months later. But those two months were anxiety filled. This experience has made me very cautious and I no longer use thin condoms. I guess other stds are curable.

[BadBoyLucifer]

See that STD guide in the post below your post.

My thing: Just take care of not catching HIV. If condom breaks or something, seek medical advice within 24-72 hrs. Later is still ok but best within 24 hrs.

IMO, Even if caught HIV, there should be no issue to life just the stigma attached is the main culprit. Covid has shown us that there is no guarantee to life anyway. (Note: Nowhere advocating dangerous behaviour, condom always).

Keep good oral and anal hygiene (If you plan for rimming etc in future). Also, regular washing of private areas so fungal infections don't develop. You may use sprays or powder to keep it intact.

Play safe but forget about other stds. Otherwise it will become difficult even to enjoy.

If you are a theist, have faith in the devine, else also is fine.

Thanks I had a bad scare in Thailand. Condoms in Thailand are very thin. So, once I was enjoying condom broke midway. I have tested myself for hiv and came out negative two months later. But those two months were anxiety filled. This experience has made me very cautious and I no longer use thin condoms. I guess other stds are curable.

[MagicBeans]

Anyone aware of good lab to get STD & other test conducted in a confidential manner?

I am mongering from past 6+ year. I started with US then in India.

During past 2/3 years, I have done BB relation with 40+ girls (tinder, WG, Bangkok WG etc) with an age group from 19-42 (Single, Married, TRANS etc).

I am thinking to move forward in my life and want to get myself test for STD & other risk.

Feel free to PM me.

IMO I've found the rates quoted by Aster Labs to be pocket friendly. The STD panel test costs 2. 8 k INR and the results will be available via email.

For me, based in Kerala, the sample collection is on Wednesday where it will be taken to the banglore lab on Friday and the results made available by Sunday Evening.

[RexRhex]

See that STD guide in the post below your post.

My thing: Just take care of not catching HIV. If condom breaks or something, seek medical advice within 24-72 hrs. Later is still ok but best within 24 hrs.

IMO, Even if caught HIV, there should be no issue to life just the stigma attached is the main culprit. Covid has shown us that there is no guarantee to life anyway. (Note: Nowhere advocating dangerous behaviour, condom always).

Keep good oral and anal hygiene (If you plan for rimming etc in future). Also, regular washing of private areas so fungal infections don't develop. You may use sprays or powder to keep it intact.

Play safe but forget about other stds. Otherwise it will become difficult even to enjoy.

If you are a theist, have faith in the devine, else also is fine.

Tips for eliminating STD risks:

Avoid DFK.

BJ with Condom only.

Penetration with condom only. No double condom at same time.

What else can I do? Is it safe to ask hiv report from the girl before doing the deed?

[PakkaIdiots11]

Tried the medicine. Works well for 24 hours, but side effects such as dizziness, sweating, increased heart beat, rashes on skin -

Maybe this is caused by a different reasons.

Many person tried this pills but not heard this type of side effects.

But this is good you enjoy the power of pill.

This is really a very good herbal farmula for enjoy.

[BadBoyLucifer]

Tips for eliminating STD risks:

Avoid DFK.

BJ with Condom only.

Penetration with condom only. No double condom at same time.

What else can I do? Is it safe to ask hiv report from the girl before doing the deed?

[VickyD6]

Tata 1 MG and Practo also have these tests available. They come to your house to collect samples and the reports are sent over e-mail.

Also, one of the other Bros had shared a very insightful link about STDs.

https://markmanson.net/std-guide

Use this to understand what needs to be checked.

Anyone aware of good lab to get STD & other test conducted in a confidential manner?

I am mongering from past 6+ year. I started with US then in India.

During past 2/3 years, I have done BB relation with 40+ girls (tinder, WG, Bangkok WG etc) with an age group from 19-42 (Single, Married, TRANS etc).

I am thinking to move forward in my life and want to get myself test for STD & other risk.

Feel free to PM me.

[HituMonger]

Tried the medicine. Works well for 24 hours, but side effects such as dizziness, sweating, increased heart beat, rashes on skin -

Thanks for info, looks vaidyaji mix some kind of viagra / Tadalafil / Sildenafil in it.

[JblFlip69]

Anyone aware of good lab to get STD & other test conducted in a confidential manner?

I am mongering from past 6+ year. I started with US then in India.

During past 2/3 years, I have done BB relation with 40+ girls (tinder, WG, Bangkok WG etc) with an age group from 19-42 (Single, Married, TRANS etc).

I am thinking to move forward in my life and want to get myself test for STD & other risk.

Feel free to PM me.

Just google venereal disease specialists or Centers if you want consultation as well. Typically most regular labs have an entire STD panel and if may give advice, get all of them done once every 6 months / 1 year. Don't worry about anonymity, just visit one in the other end of the city if that's your concern.

It's amazing how relieved one feels on seeing non reactive / negative on all parameters when the report comes out.

Plus generally healthy practice.

My bare back strategy has always been to get an STD panel test done for both self and fuck mate not older than 48 hrs. She pops a contraceptive before hand and it's a full night of stress free cream pies. Small cost but trivial compared to LIFE.

[SamGupta2021]

Hi Bro, Dr Lal path labs takes your sample and share the report in 24 hours, you have to go and receive it yourself and they have option for counselling if the report is not favourable.

Also, I have a request, with all due respect to your life choices, and without and judgement to your actions, can you share the list of WG who are readily available for bareback, I would like to avoid them as I'm super into safe fun. Feel free to dm me too if you feel its not suitable to publish it openly, if you are not comfortable sharing then I'd understand too! Thanks.

Anyone aware of good lab to get STD & other test conducted in a confidential manner?

I am mongering from past 6+ year. I started with US then in India.

During past 2/3 years, I have done BB relation with 40+ girls (tinder, WG, Bangkok WG etc) with an age group from 19-42 (Single, Married, TRANS etc).

I am thinking to move forward in my life and want to get myself test for STD & other risk.

Feel free to PM me.

[Binmbb]

Tried the medicine. Works well for 24 hours, but side effects such as dizziness, sweating, increased heart beat, rashes on skin -

Finally got time to write post after a long time.

After reading the posts of the last several months, it seems that most of the people are facing the problem of early ejaculation.

Surely it is a big problem that when we are spending 4-5 thousand rupees at a time and we are not able to take advantage of it even for 5 minutes.

Sometimes we book for the whole night and spend 15-20 thousand and after a shot of 20 minutes there is no ability to do anything again.

In fact, all working women also know very well that most people do not have enough stamina to make them happy, so they are also in the process of finishing quickly.

But what if we are so stamina that we can please the woman to such a level that after that she surrenders herself completely to you and involves herself wholeheartedly in the whole act.

And then there is a different level of fun, for which we spend so much. When the woman herself wants that you fall in love with her more and more.

All the working girls or women I have spent time with till date, everyone definitely said that I have never seen as much stamina as you..