Bangkok Reports

[OzzieSuds]

Hands down, if I had the time and was unconstrained, I'd stick to civvies or semi pros and avoid the pros almost completely.

I'm racially handicapped, but somewhat able to compensate through $, but am very understated / discreet.

I care little about physical appearance beyond slim / petite, but have very strong unsavoury / unspeakable desires and naturally lean towards women who can accommodate.

In my experience, taking a 22-23 yo 7-11 worker (not the most attractive in her surroundings) - on a first date that costs 3/4-1 month of her income covering dinner, shopping and rooftop bar has been the best strategy for my needs. Never had anything refused after that date, and often they continued to spend nights for 1-2 weeks after, expecting nothing in return.

I've found, the girls who are not the most attractive are starved for attention, and never been spoiled, so kind of get overwhelmed after such a date. They are genuinely grateful and show their happiness uninhibited which makes me even happier. All these civvies have rimmed me without the slightest hint from me, and always let me have their backdoor.

The civvies in jobs remotely similar to mine are too full of themselves and see themselves as a prize. It didn't take more than 4-5 such dates, 1-2 of which ended in the lousiest sex of my life to get me to swear off these women completely.

I don't frequent malls so never tried that cohort, but I imagine they are somewhere between the 7-11 girls and the snooty big company office girls.

The thing is though, IMO:

1. Civvies need familiarity over a couple of weeks at least till they will agree to a date.

2. You need to ask in the right situation ensuring she has no chance of losing face, and has privacy.

3. It is effort in the sense that you'll need to keep the pretence of a date going, but it is low effort if you do a mind blowing date.

This applies throughout Asia. Respect respect respect and good things happen.

[ShyBoy143]

Hands down, if I had the time and was unconstrained, I'd stick to civvies or semi pros and avoid the pros almost completely.

I'm racially handicapped, but somewhat able to compensate through $, but am very understated / discreet.

I care little about physical appearance beyond slim / petite, but have very strong unsavoury / unspeakable desires and naturally lean towards women who can accommodate.

In my experience, taking a 22-23 yo 7-11 worker (not the most attractive in her surroundings) - on a first date that costs 3/4-1 month of her income covering dinner, shopping and rooftop bar has been the best strategy for my needs. Never had anything refused after that date, and often they continued to spend nights for 1-2 weeks after, expecting nothing in return.

I've found, the girls who are not the most attractive are starved for attention, and never been spoiled, so kind of get overwhelmed after such a date. They are genuinely grateful and show their happiness uninhibited which makes me even happier. All these civvies have rimmed me without the slightest hint from me, and always let me have their backdoor.

The civvies in jobs remotely similar to mine are too full of themselves and see themselves as a prize. It didn't take more than 4-5 such dates, 1-2 of which ended in the lousiest sex of my life to get me to swear off these women completely.

I don't frequent malls so never tried that cohort, but I imagine they are somewhere between the 7-11 girls and the snooty big company office girls.

The thing is though, IMO:

1. Civvies need familiarity over a couple of weeks at least till they will agree to a date.

2. You need to ask in the right situation ensuring she has no chance of losing face, and has privacy.

3. It is effort in the sense that you'll need to keep the pretence of a date going, but it is low effort if you do a mind blowing date.

[GuyBrusg1957]

Has anyone ever found lineups similar to the US or Canada were they have a list of girls working with maybe a partial photo at least? I know nothing about Thai social media but I am surprised that places like LaBelle or Black Label don't have one at all. Some of the clubs like The Pimp have some stuff but it hit or miss and some of the girls are just dancers not performers.

I know there are some sites like fwiw fans and some forums but navigating them is difficult as a westerner.

[Sychip1]

Isn't it always a fetish when guys put tunnel vision parameters on hookers or people in general? I go out and see a chick and like a chick. No need to go search only for chicks that are this age, this tall, with this skin tone, and this color hair. That says nothing about how you will get along together or anything else. Of course I have preferences or features I like about a chick, but I am not throwing the baby out with the bathwater and saying there are no good chicks if there were none with red hair or none 22 years old. I have never had a good time based on how someone looked or because they went to a certain school or had a certain job. Those things are just fetishes.

I agree, my last 2 women I was with in Bkk the 1st was a 19-year old uni student and the sex was good but nothing amazing. I saw her a 2nd time and we're just normal friends. She wears glasses, wore a casual strapless dress when we first met and kinda curvy. To be fair she looked a lot better on the 2nd date with a lacy top and tight jeans.

The 2nd lady was a 34-year old recently divorced Thai, when she showed up wearing a nice black dress not an ounce of fat on her body and in bed she really knew what she was doing. You know when in any position and they're grinding and riding you even when you're in mish. She was pretty thirsty LOL. Long story short I'the much rather see the 34-year old again, just because someone is a uni student doesn't mean they're gagging for it. YMMV.

[Mr Enternational]

Haha, nothing iconic here, just a version of the good old stripping for tuition line. Older men have insatiable fantasy about banging students.

Not older men that actually attended a university and were banging chicks while there. Most of us do not see what the big deal is. I fucked high school chicks when I was in high school, university chicks when I was at the university, stripper chicks when I was DJing in the strip club, club chicks when I was bartending in the club, military chicks when I was in and out of the military, etc. Women are women. It does not matter if they are studying at a particular place or working a particular job. Guys that are used to getting pussy have no dog in this fight.

[Mr Enternational]

I've done 7-11 girls, Uni girls, Office girls, nurses.

In order to do so you have to invest time and effort and money like you would with any other girl. Its called dating.

That is not necessarily true. I have fucked all of the above for money. Not like I marched into any of these places looking for a chick. But in my pursuits of looking for chick to fuck for money, I have happened to come across chicks looking for guys to fuck them for money and it just so happened they worked at 7 11, were nurses, worked in an office, etc. Not really something to actively seek out and no big deal. When the clothes and work / school IDs come off, everyone is the same. Pursuing someone because of their affiliation is stupid. The affiliation does not make the person. Again, it is just a fetish that some guys have.

[Mr Enternational]

I've done 7-11 girls, Uni girls, Office girls, nurses.

In order to do so you have to invest time and effort and money like you would with any other girl. Its called dating.

That is not necessarily true. I have fucked all of the above for money. Not like I marched into any of these places looking for a chick. But in my pursuits of looking for chick to fuck for money, I have happened to come across chicks looking for guys to fuck them for money and it just so happened they worked at 7 11, were nurses, worked in an office, etc. Not really something to actively seek out and no big deal. When the clothes and work / school IDs come off, everyone is the same. Pursuing someone because of their affiliation is stupid. The affiliation does not make the person. Again, it is just a fetish that some guys have.

[Mr Enternational]

Just my opinion, but trying to score uni girls seems like a waste of time. If it's some kind of fetish that needs addressing, just hire some chick to dress up like a uni girl.

Isn't it always a fetish when guys put tunnel vision parameters on hookers or people in general? I go out and see a chick and like a chick. No need to go search only for chicks that are this age, this tall, with this skin tone, and this color hair. That says nothing about how you will get along together or anything else. Of course I have preferences or features I like about a chick, but I am not throwing the baby out with the bathwater and saying there are no good chicks if there were none with red hair or none 22 years old. I have never had a good time based on how someone looked or because they went to a certain school or had a certain job. Those things are just fetishes.

[KumuMan]

That's what I keep telling these folks. I bet there are some major PLAYERS in this and other forums. I did not have my first real job until early 30 ish. Before then and even then, I had girls giving me weekly allowances, paying my rent, paying my car note, buying my clothes, jewelry, and always taking on the bill during our dates. Even today, I go to the market for breakfast and have the girls chat me up, gyms girl stare at me when I work out or stretch, and random women smiling or bending over pretending to pick up things when I walk by. I can go to a brand new GoGo club and all eyes will follow when I come through the door. Maybe they sense the presence of a Punjabi Prince from far away. Shit like this really exists for guys just as it exists with certain girls. There is a reason why top 2% of hostesses in Japan make over 100 K USD a month with just companionship and conversation. While the rest make much less. I've met a few very lovely Thai woking girls with who spoke perfect English and Hindi with no accents. They are scary to play with with very powerful conversational skills. The strong minded and stronger spirited will always have influence and power over the weak, male, female, or binary.

My former live in was one of those Japanese hostess. Her daily expenses though included anew pair of shoes, night dress, hand bag, earings, etc. It was considered "cheap" if she wore a pair of shoes more than once as her customers expected her to have anew look each time. Over 1,000 pair of shoes and dresses. She just gave them away.

[Paolo99]

The only downside to that meeting was that she gave me a cold, so now I feel like shit.

She probably gave you something else on top of the cold.

These girls are being banged by all the Thais from morning to midnight. And Thai guys don't like to wear condoms.

[Paolo99]

Just my opinion, but trying to score uni girls seems like a waste of time. If it's some kind of fetish that needs addressing, just hire some chick to dress up like a uni girl.Sam.

Uni girls can be found as sideline girls in the Bangkok entertainment venues.

Look at the massage joints accepting freelancers and letting them work with a relaxed schedule. I've met some in places like Addict or Pretty massage in the past for example.

Almost all of them were great fucks too.

[FernandoAlonso]

Bangkok's university girls, often seen in their iconic short black skirts and white blouses, are the subject of many foreigners' fantasies. But before diving headfirst into this dream, it's crucial to face the realities, challenges, and potential pitfalls. Picking up university girls in Bangkok isn't as easyor as glamorousas it may seem on YouTube or in your imagination.

The Language Barrier and Cultural Gap.

For starters, many university girls in Bangkok have limited English skills. This language barrier alone makes meaningful connections difficult unless you speak Thai. Additionally, cultural differences mean their dating expectations may differ significantly from those of foreigners.

Campus Approaches: A Risky Move..

Excellent insights and advice. From my personal POV just be aware these are fantasies so experience them, pay up and leave before the magic wanes off. I made that mistake many times and as soon as you try to turn fantasies into real life relationships be prepared for a world of pain, suffering and financial losses. Not saying it cannot work out but always keep perspective! When I first entered this world completely unprepared and of course stupidly fell in love another legend here just asked me: "have you seen her mother? Are you willing and able to satisfy her financial demands?" Meaning are you prepared to be with that person once she looks older and do you understand her needs? It was the best and worst year of my life and a genuine relationship but it had to end before raving havoc on both of us. Just my thoughts. Enjoy the fantasy but how many 19 year olds want to be with old fat guys like us (no offense)? And especially in Thailand, foreigners are not welcome as family members in most cases. So as appealing students might seem, chances for something real are minuscule so better put your efforts elsewhere.

FA.

[Member #4813]

If all the articles you're referring to are over a month old, then they're just reporting a promise that wasn't fulfilled (end legal last night).

Despite the reports in the press, nothing has changed with respect to marijuana in Thailand. There seems to be a dispensary every km or so in Bangkok (Sukhumvit), as well as the central part of Pattaya.

[ElMexicant]

If you were picking up 20 year old girls on the train, in the gym, in the swimming pool, in your own home country when you were in your late twenties, you still have a fair chance of picking up the same type of girls, at the same places, when you're 20 years older in Thailand.

If you never did that, then no, you're not going to be banging girls half your age in Thailand, unless you pay up in some way, and what you quoted from that other guy's post applies.

That's what I keep telling these folks. I bet there are some major PLAYERS in this and other forums. I did not have my first real job until early 30 ish. Before then and even then, I had girls giving me weekly allowances, paying my rent, paying my car note, buying my clothes, jewelry, and always taking on the bill during our dates. Even today, I go to the market for breakfast and have the girls chat me up, gyms girl stare at me when I work out or stretch, and random women smiling or bending over pretending to pick up things when I walk by. I can go to a brand new GoGo club and all eyes will follow when I come through the door. Maybe they sense the presence of a Punjabi Prince from far away. Shit like this really exists for guys just as it exists with certain girls. There is a reason why top 2% of hostesses in Japan make over 100 K USD a month with just companionship and conversation. While the rest make much less. I've met a few very lovely Thai woking girls with who spoke perfect English and Hindi with no accents. They are scary to play with with very powerful conversational skills. The strong minded and stronger spirited will always have influence and power over the weak, male, female, or binary.

[BHawk]

Great post. However my best experiences with amazingly hot girls in their early 20's has been the kapoo scene. Maybe you'd like to add your views on that in your post.

One a sidenote I am all about efficiency. I personally don't want to spend hours and hours on my feet trawling for the perfect dream. But I tend to do quite a bit of homework, so admittedly hours are spent online.

Bangkok's university girls, often seen in their iconic short black skirts and https://www.colonzethailand.com/ blouses, are the subject of many foreigners' fantasies. But before diving headfirst into this dream, it's crucial to face the realities, challenges, and potential pitfalls. Picking up university girls in Bangkok isn't as easyor as glamorousas it may seem on YouTube or in your imagination.

The Language Barrier and Cultural Gap..