New Delhi

[PuneDude123]

Reminded me of the Freudian quote. Everything in life is about sex except sex itself. Sex is about control.

Fifteen+ years of mongering and hundreds of girls later, I think I have figured out what really turns me on. For me at this stage (Mid 40's), it is not the looks of the girl or many times the process of sex itself that gives me the high, but its the control. The fact that I can throw some money and the girl would do what the society considers taboo just to make me happy. So the more the girl is willing to go (Rimming for e. G.), the more I like her, looks and age can go to hell. Post corona, I have also been meeting cuckold couples, and even when its costlier, I get a lot of high in nailing a lady when her real life husband is watching, again going back to the element of control, that feeling of being powerful and important. I am always respectful to the girls and never force anything or anyone, but when they themselves treat me like a king, its a total dopamine hit.

Maybe its that IRL, all my relationships (past and present) have been on an equal footing and based on mutual respect and equal status. Even at work, I am a very hands off boss who let people do their thing and involve only when they need help or they screw up big. So fucking a working girl by paying money, where they do what I dictate them to do, may be a way for me to release that control fetish..

[RashidZ]

Funny thing is I am quite fit, like top 1% fit for my age and look younger than most 30 yos as I take my fitness seriously.

I am quite decent looking and confident. Before I was married my strike rate was more than 90%. I could talk any girl into loving me.

And, financially I am comfortable. I can spend as much as I want and it won't dent my finance a bit.

And I haven't fucked a single WG who is sexier or prettier than my wife or any of my ex GFs LOL.

I keep going to fuck this mid girls.

Mongering is something different LOL.

Maybe I need something new.

Fifteen+ years of mongering and hundreds of girls later, I think I have figured out what really turns me on. For me at this stage (Mid 40's), it is not the looks of the girl or many times the process of sex itself that gives me the high, but its the control. The fact that I can throw some money and the girl would do what the society considers taboo just to make me happy. So the more the girl is willing to go (Rimming for e. G.), the more I like her, looks and age can go to hell. Post corona, I have also been meeting cuckold couples, and even when its costlier, I get a lot of high in nailing a lady when her real life husband is watching, again going back to the element of control, that feeling of being powerful and important. I am always respectful to the girls and never force anything or anyone, but when they themselves treat me like a king, its a total dopamine hit.

Maybe its that IRL, all my relationships (past and present) have been on an equal footing and based on mutual respect and equal status. Even at work, I am a very hands off boss who let people do their thing and involve only when they need help or they screw up big. So fucking a working girl by paying money, where they do what I dictate them to do, may be a way for me to release that control fetish.

Like everyone said, different people have different kinks. I know a guy who only meets young girls as it makes him feel young. As long as you keep it respectful and not let this hobby bleed your real life, its fine, I suppose.

[Abhi9]

Funny thing is I am quite fit, like top 1% fit for my age and look younger than most 30 yos as I take my fitness seriously.

I am quite decent looking and confident. Before I was married my strike rate was more than 90%. I could talk any girl into loving me.

And, financially I am comfortable. I can spend as much as I want and it won't dent my finance a bit.

And I haven't fucked a single WG who is sexier or prettier than my wife or any of my ex GFs LOL.

I keep going to fuck this mid girls..

As I said there can be countless reasons and it's personal for each and every person. We are all born differently, nurtured differently, have different needs and libidos. I recently heard that there are big Gujju groups that go to Thailand and carry sarees from India. They throw lavish parties in Pattaya where they arrange a Mujra type setup and most just watch the Thai girls dancing at their will in a saree. No fucking. Different reasons and different kinks.

Its funny how human mind is never satisfied and keep searching for ways to elevate our dopamine spikes. In the end, just be happy and lets live without too much burden. Do what helps you sleep better at night.

I remember my last ever proper conversation with a monger was with Dev Sagar sir on TG. Before I went to Thailand to seek pointers for my trip. I was amazed how people in their late forties are living. Fit, handsome and better at picking girls than guys half their age. And extremely wise and friendly. Secretly, that also pushed me to a healthier lifestyle and get into the best shape of my life. Coincidentally that also pushed me to move away from a lot of habits that weren't helping me in life. So Dev bhai if you're reading this, Cheers and thank you. We motivate people in weird ways on weird forums.

[Brahmos]

Greetings fellow mongerers, for the lack of any response in the London thread, I'm putting it out here!

I'm traveling to London in December, would be great if anyone can guide me with the mongering ways in that foreign land.

Thanks in advance.

[DelhiGuyNew]

Bro, I also wanted to buy subscription, but only option I can see is making payment through crypto.

I believe it is not allowed to make payment through crypto in India, please help.

Hello bro,

My sincere suggestion would be to spend another 2000 to activate your PM. Without that don't expect any help here as that is the only way to get in touch with other like minded mongers.

[Jenko Dude]

Bro your inbox is full, can you share her details and reference needed?

Bro I don't keep contacts I delete them after deed, better install Glambu app for hookup it works all over India just don't pay more then 10 k to any girl in exceptional cases 15 k max, even quality girls are available as cheap as 6 k for 3-4 hrs.

Also please verify their numbers through UPI or Truecaller don't fall for scammers. Play safe.

Premium is just Rs 999 much cheaper than Seeking.

[RahulFriend]

I am from south India. Visiting Delhi next week. Can you all help me with certain trusted inde contacts. Am expecting the hospitality of Delhi. Tia.

[IndianTravel10]

Hi.

I am been regular to spas in Delhi that I got to know through this forum.

Have been to TnG - 8 times, SnMe also many times in Delhi.

Similarly in Chandigarh also.

Not only that, due to this forum I have mongered in Philippines, Japan, VietNam & Hong Kong also.

I have been very thankful of people who do share FRs of these spas.

Now, looking to meet independents, especially interested in slim college girls.

It would be very helpful if any senior can help me with some contacts.

Thanks.

[HangOutHere]

I can see your PM is active, so is your subscription.

Hey guys, I heard about this forum by 1-2 guys then I visited. Quite liked forum, So I took subscription, I sent them message with my txid of payment, don't know It approved or not, Can anyone tell me, or maybe I can uploading reports so maybe approved.

Anyways I have been to many spas in Noida in last 1-2 months, Will be interested to try some indie, SP whatever call them as I have zero knowledge of that, will post spas review soon, all in Noida, been to ggn many months ago, but down to Delhi Ggn in upcoming days, Noida Hasn't many good, have been regular to wave mall, Only where I feel a bit okay, once in 104,couple times in 75 sector, happy to join this forum, going to post soon.

[TheBestIndia]

I continue my search for a quality anal contact in Delhi. Do PM me oh helpful brothers of Delhi, I'm also open for suggestions of good hotels near Dwarka or airport. I hope my search succeeds in Delhi this time!

[TandonMonu]

I also started mongering after 40 to escape the monotony of Life.

Used to have few contacts in Delhi and Mumbai as I used to stay at Mumbai and I has to travel to Delhi for meetings.

Quit mongering from 2021-2025 but again that desire to experience that thrill of being in bed with a nice lady has made me search for some contacts in Noida.

Now am based out of Lucknow and the scene out here is dry.

I would be really obliged if you could help a 48 year young guy.

I am going to Noida for 3 days on 25th Nov.

Would appreciate if you can help with girl friend like experience in Noida.

Hi Rollox. Trust me when I write this. I really regret getting into this hobby / habit / pastime; whatever you may call it. I have questioned myself umpteen times, slapped myself in front of the mirror and tried to curb it down. I have failed. It is like a drug; I need a fucken detox Centre for it. Just Kidding man. I do not want to leave it now nor think of cutting it down; just go with the flow. Sometimes, 3 to 4 meetings in a month if I am damn busy as I have a permanent sugar on a monthly basis; if not, then one in every 5 days. These are not fixed, just hypothetical; I don't count numbers or budget. But; yes, my spa visits are negligible as of now. Cannot balance them amongst my sugar. Do miss my visits there as some chicks I was really fond of.

I have read other punter's recommendations but a guy like you who at his age is well settled and sorted financially, not talking about the budget here at all. Everyone has his own brain, wallet, capacity to fuck and spend; whom, where, when. I am sure you know your expense*level for this hobby. My point of view is entirely different. Since, we all are here; I am of the firm opinion that we have some emptiness in life; whatever it could be. Not getting deep into it. I know we both have fucked chicks starting from 1 K. Remember, 10 years ago we used to go to RJ malls to fuck. I used to even go to Rohini to Shelly house from South Delhi which I would not think of doing now even for a beauty*queen. Been there, done that. But not anymore.

For guys like you and me; at our age, It is all a mindset game and a firm resolve to curb or completely stop it. You must ask yourself this question; WHY do you want to quit? I personally did not monger from 2017 to 2019 as I had a couple of surgeries but as soon as I got an opportunity I got right back in starting from couples, then Seeking and have never looked*back. My resolve was so firm that I did not visit any spa for 5 years. One SA chick did not turn up in early 2022 and I went to SNM like a Jamai Raja to never back out of it. Now, I am a member of 4 spas irrespective of my visits. *I 100%*agree with JB that this platform or this hobby has connected me to some lifelong friendships wherein I was invited to a wedding of a chick,*expecting more. One chick is after my life to join her company platform due to my business actually but I have categorically denied it as not interested and lack of time, a few examples. I like meeting young chicks, mentoring or guiding them; and even last night an SA chick I meet regularly, asked for my advice on her new venture. I am going today to meet a DU college chick I matched on an app for a coffee date in CP and yesterday we were discussing her favorite book, Pride and Prejudice. I love having these kinds of conversations. If we have a bond, I am 100% transparent with them. Basically, I like connecting with people and maintaining relationships. That's a part of my nature and the business that I do. I have lost 1 lakh this year which I gave as help with the understanding that it would be adjusted in next meets but was let down. But I still do what I do. It hurts and pains me a lot when I am cheated by them as I am an emotional fool but at the end of the day I am indeed grateful to god.

I started mongering after 40 after working for 25 years and establishing myself as had no knowledge, no money to waste on a hobby of this kind and guts to jump into it; but once I did no looking back. ISG is responsible too; LOL. So, my journey and my path is entirely different from others; likewise everyone else's too would be different.

Rollox, you will get a wide variety of suggestions, opinions from each individual experience*but it is only you who has to choose what works best for you but definitely a food for thought. But WHY, my friend?

I am crystal clear in my head as of now that I will fuck as long as I can. No second thoughts on it.

To each his own. These are all my personal opinions from my experiences and everyone is free to differ with them.

Regards.

[Rollox]

Funny thing is I am quite fit, like top 1% fit for my age and look younger than most 30 yos as I take my fitness seriously.

I am quite decent looking and confident. Before I was married my strike rate was more than 90%. I could talk any girl into loving me.

And, financially I am comfortable. I can spend as much as I want and it won't dent my finance a bit.

And I haven't fucked a single WG who is sexier or prettier than my wife or any of my ex GFs LOL.

I keep going to fuck this mid girls.

Mongering is something different LOL.

Maybe I need something new.

I have been able to quit it since almost 3 yrs now. There are various reasons due to which people monger. Some are addicted to variety and the dopamine rush that comes with it.

Some are addicted to the hunt in the clubs, the adrenaline rush that comes with seeing line ups, negotiating rates, and not having the pressure and responsibilities that comes with having a relationship. Be it inside or outside the bed. Just cum and leave.

Some do it simply because they are not rich or attractive enough to get sex without mongering.

Some even do it because they married the traditional wives with whom they can't follow their kinks. And they have lost the attraction over the years especially after their woman gives birth or gets into their 40's.

But slowly mongering messes with the wiring of your brain as you go down this rabbit hole. The dopamine is similar to any other addiction. Once your brains experience a certain kind of dopamine spike whether it's smoking, alcohol, weed, coca, mongering, porn, caffeine or anything similar. Its difficult to get back..

[Rollox]

I don't know.

Maybe I am bored of fucking the same old same old.

It has become so mechanical and I have risked doing BB a few times when I let my cock rule over my mind.

I am not sure haha.

Over dependence on the pill etc.

I can't get away for too long like a short hotel stay since I work from home and my business dealings are all abroad, so they know I can't have local meetings, even though I have started attending local conferences just to ease in haha. And the constant miss calls LOL.

I think I need to find a sugar babe. Let's see.

Hi Rollox. Trust me when I write this. I really regret getting into this hobby / habit / pastime; whatever you may call it. I have questioned myself umpteen times, slapped myself in front of the mirror and tried to curb it down. I have failed. It is like a drug; I need a fucken detox Centre for it. Just Kidding man. I do not want to leave it now nor think of cutting it down; just go with the flow. Sometimes, 3 to 4 meetings in a month if I am damn busy as I have a permanent sugar on a monthly basis; if not, then one in every 5 days. These are not fixed, just hypothetical; I don't count numbers or budget. But; yes, my spa visits are negligible as of now. Cannot balance them amongst my sugar. Do miss my visits there as some chicks I was really fond of.

I have read other punter's recommendations but a guy like you who at his age is well settled and sorted financially, not talking about the budget here at all. Everyone has his own brain, wallet, capacity to fuck and spend; whom, where, when. I am sure you know your expense*level for this hobby. My point of view is entirely different.

[UsedForPurpose]

Very true. I completely agree with you. Experience of old mongers teaches a lot.

It will be odd to say but your way of saying things and take on life made me have have quite a fondness kind of we admire teachers. Anyways best wishes sir and someday maybe we can meet over a cafe and listen your stories.

[Meanmol]

Hello bro,

My sincere suggestion would be to spend another 2000 to activate your PM. Without that don't expect any help here as that is the only way to get in touch with other like minded mongers.

I have been mongering since last 10 years, and I have cumulatively spent more then 1-2 cr during this time, I have used seeking, Sugarbabyindia, PR agencies on insta, Snap to pick up girls.

I have thought of skipping many a times during these years, but I came back again with more enthusiasm seeking more quality girls, I have a complete database of all the girls including their name, location, phone no, tg ID, allowance, which includes around 800-900 girls details, including but not limited to 90% of seeking girls.