Seeking Arrangements

[LshRoomer]

Video Chat is a must in the states, for verification and security purposes. I do not Video Chat in MTY, due to my poor Latin. Also, the girls get embarrassed because of their poor English skills. I would lose a lot of opportunities if I required this in MTY.

However I did require Video Chat sessions in CDMX, but most of the girls in CDMX are way more educated then the MTY girls. I hope this helps.

Videochat would have helped me recently.

I had a recent experience in ATL. I was in town for a few days, so I decided to check out the local SA talent. It was a pain in the ass, with lots of energy / texts input for less than desirable output. I lined up two dates. One was with a girl that was a 7.5 or 8 in the pics. She sent quite a few and she was bangable, without a doubt. Set up the meet at a bar, even though she was willing ot meet at my place (red flag. I want sb, not escort). Still I'm an experience seeker, so I wondered where the road would take me. As soon as I walked into the bar and saw her, her 7. 5 dropped to a 3. 5. Her neck almost looked like it disappeared (high shoulders, strange posture) and her face was really bad. Even as I sat there drinking my beer, I wasn't too happy with her body either, skinny (I love em thin) but not alluring. And the icing on the cake was that her conversation left much to be desired, like she had a mental deficiency or something. She even told me that her ex BF said that she wasn't smart enough to become a flight attendant. LOL I left and called it a night and she was not happy. On top of all that, she wanted 4 bills and told me that she usually get 5, but was willing to work with me. Which one of you bastards is paying this girl 5 bills? Hahahaha. I should have video chatted, but up until this point, it hasn't been a necessity.

Girl #2 was a success, but still had some American stuff going on. Putting that one in a separate thread.

[The Cane]

Have any of you guys suspected that somebody may be running a "mill" on Seeking. What I'm talking about is seeing profile after profile after profile of hot girls from the same small town (populations anywhere from 15,000 to 50,000 roughly). All relatively recent profiles too, and not saying all that much, sometimes virtually nothing. It just seems unlikely that so many pretty girls from one town of that size would have all of these profiles on Seeking at the same time, and initially put up around the same period of time as well. There's enough fraud that goes on that it makes me believe that somebody up to no good is behind all of those profiles, creating one after another hoping that some horny sucker will take the bait and bite. Anybody else noticed what I call the "mill phenomenon"?

[DramaFree11]

Great advice. I'm guessing some still flake out at the last minute, and video chat will trim down the list a bit (E. G. Photos not matching reality, or not speaking English well as they write). If even then, the list is long enough, I'll probably have to just make one more visit soon!!

Video Chat is a must in the states, for verification and security purposes. I do not Video Chat in MTY, due to my poor Latin. Also, the girls get embarrassed because of their poor English skills. I would lose a lot of opportunities if I required this in MTY.

However I did require Video Chat sessions in CDMX, but most of the girls in CDMX are way more educated then the MTY girls. I hope this helps.

[Pessimist]

Sorry to be a bad news bear, but IMO, SA in America sux.

You need lot of time and patience to score good SBs.

In 10 day trip, I would suggest, you shud stick to WGs. (Most of SA girls in LA / SF wud be WGs anyway).

Or try Mexico or Canada, you will have better chance of finding real SBs with great vibe.

Seeking US in relation to other avenues in the US?

I wouldn't call that sux.

It's not as if US is swimming in sex clubs and as if everything was legal.

Seeking in the US works best if you live in a reasonably large sized city, preferably not on the coasts, and take your time to build a rolodex over time patiently.

It also can work when you are on the road but is a hit and miss. The fact that you are in a city for only a few days means you will have less chances to talk to enough girls and convert them to face to face meets and eventually sex. Of course if you are willing to pay up, chances of conversion are higher but even then largely dependent on luck and timing.

If you live in Europe, it would make no sense to be visiting the US for sex of any kind.

I think Seeking in Europe works, I have used it several times. But it is also true that legalized sex options are available in many European cities. I think Seeking has fewer girls per say, million population in European cities than in the US. Seeking is after all a US site. But my impressions from past European travels is that they had fewer scammers as a percentage. That said I haven't used Seeking in Europe in a couple of years now.

If I was a permanent European resident, would I use seeking for local girls? Not sure. If I lived in a large German city with good FKks I would not bother with Seeking. If I was in Hungary or Sofia or some other place for a couple of months however, Seeking could be well worth it.

[Dykenberx]

Guys, well said. What we get back in return, from the girls on SA, you can not put a price tag on. Banging hot young girls, in my fifties is a dream come true. I read these guys complaining about our lives, I just shake my head, they really do not know what they are missing. I use to argue with them, but no more just a big waste of time.

SA is an amazing experience especially in foreign countries.

I absolutely agree DramaFree!! I'm in my 40's and I hope to be doing trips like this for the next 20 years.

[SfoCowboy]

Guys, seeking Bcn has about a dozen or so girls who are operated by someone and keep talking between them or may be it's the same person who texts / operates these accounts. My standard test is to do a video call and talk to the girl before meeting and that saved me. I was talking to a few girls and all of them were talking on per hour basis and no one actually was willing to do a video call which was a red flag for me. I avoided meeting one girl last time because of this red flag. This was a couple of months ago.

Now, there is one such girl who said that I never came to Bcn and I'm just wasting their time etc. I just didn't want to tell her that I suspect that she was a working girl / handler was talking. She warned me that I pissed off many girls because I texted them but never met them. This sounded like a cartel and I said that I can choose whom to meet and whom not to based on my comfort. I told that I never kept anyone waiting after confirming a date but I just didn't progress beyond a few texts in the conversation. This is typical of working girls who don't waste their time with people like us. So I just avoided. This girl went super aggressive and told me that she had me covered by her friends and I should leave Bcn. I was like wtf. This is like a cartel. I said ok and blocked that girl and a few others on all apps. If you're okay to meet working girls on seeking then it is fine but the idea of being on sa is to meet normal girls. Be cautious about who you are meeting and do a video call for confirmation. Let me know your thoughts guys.

Cheers!

[Elvis 2008]

I have a shortlist of about 10 girls for my upcoming trip and 5-10 more who agreed to meet during chats. What the fuck do I do now? I only have a 10 day trip.

I started two months before I went to Colombia on SA and racked up 175 numbers. Thing is the flake rate was pretty high, and when the women were called or texted, they did not respond. Even with that many numbers, I had some down time in Bogota. I typically could get two dates a day in Bogota and three in Medellin, and I am picky. That compares to one a day in Mexico and like one a month in the USA. That is why I think SA is almost worthless in the USA.

[Intelligencium]

Have you done your verification / video chats yet? If anything, after chatting with them live, you may get better vibes from some and be able to whittle down your list. Pick your top 3/4, have a couple of backups (in case of flakes / last minute changes / etc) - IE be excited to meet, but not sure of availability "due to work". Then work the list as Steve suggests.

Great advice. I'm guessing some still flake out at the last minute, and video chat will trim down the list a bit (E. G. Photos not matching reality, or not speaking English well as they write). If even then, the list is long enough, I'll probably have to just make one more visit soon!!

[Foolish]

I have a shortlist of about 10 girls for my upcoming trip and 5-10 more who agreed to meet during chats.

Have you done your verification / video chats yet? If anything, after chatting with them live, you may get better vibes from some and be able to whittle down your list. Pick your top 3/4, have a couple of backups (in case of flakes / last minute changes / etc) - IE be excited to meet, but not sure of availability "due to work". Then work the list as Steve suggests.

[RumblePirate]

Hey, I'll be traveling to Madrid this week and been talking to few gills before hand on seeking arragments.

My impression is that its more a escort site than a dating site.

I have a date no sex for 200 $.

And if I want more I need to pay.

Is it me or more than 90% are just profesional escort?

I've been trying for 2 days only and I am an ok looking guy.

Also please let me know if I am paying to much.

Although its always relative.

You are not just paying them extra already, you are paying them for a non-intimate encounter. It's just beats logic, I mean you don't want an arm candy to accompany you on business meetings or anything like that. So why are you even paying them at all.

With your budget, you can look for better professional services. Other wise what you are doing, you will never get, literally, get the bang for your bucks.

[CitizenX1]

I concur with Steve. No payment for a plutonic date. Just say no.

In addition to Vive, I also like Pigmillion. Have had some good nights taking women back. There are some fast houses also.

SA is a grind. You need to grind it out. If not, just hit the pros.

Thanks. Felt wrong when I talk to her.

Got another date with no money involved.

I imagine it will come up as we meet but will see how it goes.

The girl seems semi pro.

And said let's meet and we'll feel the vibe if we want more.

[DramaFree11]

I concur with Steve. No payment for a plutonic date. Just say no.

In addition to Vive, I also like Pigmillion. Have had some good nights taking women back. There are some fast houses also.

SA is a grind. You need to grind it out. If not, just hit the pros.

Hell no! No sex, no money. I think there is a very small percentage of guys that just pay for companionship, and of those guys many may have issues why they do not want to have sex.

[FastMdSter]

Hey, I'll be traveling to Madrid this week and been talking to few gills before hand on seeking arragments.

My impression is that its more a escort site than a dating site.

I have a date no sex for 200 $.

And if I want more I need to pay.

Is it me or more than 90% are just profesional escort?

I've been trying for 2 days only and I am an ok looking guy.

Also please let me know if I am paying to much.

Although its always relative.

I concur with Steve. No payment for a plutonic date. Just say no.

In addition to Vive, I also like Pigmillion. Have had some good nights taking women back. There are some fast houses also.

SA is a grind. You need to grind it out. If not, just hit the pros.

[Steve 9696]

Hey, I'll be traveling to Madrid this week and been talking to few gills before hand on seeking arragments.

My impression is that its more a escort site than a dating site.

I have a date no sex for 200 $.

And if I want more I need to pay.

Is it me or more than 90% are just profesional escort?

I've been trying for 2 days only and I am an ok looking guy.

Also please let me know if I am paying to much.

Although its always relative.

Never ever pay for a no sex date. Ever.

Yes many pros. It takes time to find the non and semi pros. 2 days is not enough time to find quality. Because some girls only come on one a week. It's the pros who are on constantly.

$250-400 is prob going rate. Others chime in.

And of course Seeking isn’t ur only option. Vive is worth going to. Nightclub w girls for hire to onsite rooms. Search for Vive and u will find my and other reports.

[CitizenX1]

Hey, I'll be traveling to Madrid this week and been talking to few gills before hand on seeking arragments.

My impression is that its more a escort site than a dating site.

I have a date no sex for 200 $.

And if I want more I need to pay.

Is it me or more than 90% are just profesional escort?

I've been trying for 2 days only and I am an ok looking guy.

Also please let me know if I am paying to much.

Although its always relative.