Pattaya Reports

[Banana Boi]

. Hence BB got no requests for money, or is omitting those cases.

Why would I omit it. Maybe it's because the girls I usually choose make more money than most guys on this board. Minimum 5000 baht per day on boom plus 1000 to 2000 baht on salary and lady drinks. Not even including money from their multiple Sponsors. I would just laugh if a girl who made this kind of cash asked me for money.

Imo if a girl asks you for money you've let on that you like them too much and you're an easy mark. I never let girls know if I like them a lot or make any promises to them. Girls want a challenge. You'd be surprised how much more appealing you look if you appear to be unattainable.

[GeneralM]

I kept contact with three women I met my last two trips to Thailand. The two I met on Thaicupid immediately had emergencies that required money. Both live in villages in Northern Thailand, and both wanted money for doctors. I felt these two got enough money out of me when I was there, and this was just plain insulting so I stopped lining with both. Further I thought neither were good long term GF material, though I spent a week with each.

The third is a prostitute I met on Beach Road about 4 months ago, we got along great there and we have lined extensively since. She is yet to ask me for money. Even when she went back to her home village to take care of her family, she never asked for a dime. She knows it will be months before I return, but she messages me everyday.

[DeathWish]

Was she a "freebie" during your visit. For easy ability to make a clean break, if needed, you likely should have provided a "gift" before departing. If she's maintaining her own illusion that she's not peddling her ass, the gift merely would've been because you "care" and didn't want her to financially suffer because she devoted so much loving time to you. Or, an outright per diem fee for the fuckfest you enjoyed.

But after the fact? No. If you do, it will be astounding how many sick relatives and water buffalo regularly befall the poor lass.

Well I did pay her 5 k per day for the three days I was here. I did take her shopping. We did enjoy lunch dinner breakfast together. She knew about my previous encounters as well. Anyhow just to update she has not yet asked me for anything apart from missing her grandmom. So I am relieved that I was wrong. Feeling like a thousand bucks. And have already booked my tickets to return here on my trip to China in July end.

[Mr Enternational]

That has to be the dullest conversation I have ever read.

Normal everyday life is not as glamorous for everyone else as it is for you. The point was not to show excitement, but to show people can mention someone being sick without it meaning they will ask for money.

[Smoothy]

P.S. Wish I knew how to put these pics in a particular order. The second pic is a convo with a chick that only messages when she wants to come over for money. The 3rd pic should be read before the 1st pic because they are a conversation with a different person. The one that has the kid that was sick.

That has to be the dullest conversation I have ever read.

[Syzygies]

Not a single one asked me for money. Pretty sure they knew I was not a sucker who would hand any over to them. To the OP, why end it before she asks. My point is they may never ask.

Yes girls vary some will ask for money when desperate, others are professional in contact only, and will never ask for money. Depends a lot on how generous they perceive the guy to be as well. Hence BB got no requests for money, or is omitting those cases.

I never got requests for money from Western hookers, so believe it is more likely with Asian women, however a buddy of mine, got requests for money from western hookers, so he obviously had the character where he was very persuadable to part with more money for extra services and too emotionally attached to the girls.

If a girl starts Lining again after a long absence, that is a clear sign she is building to a request for money. Ha ha. Others can line often purely because they like a bit of chat and gossip. Had a girl from Puerto Rico like that, never asked for money except for our private meetings but liked to exchange funny gossip.

Thai girls are more likely to ask for money if they are think they are your big favourite or at least high up the pecking order. I mean clearly very casual girls are not going to be sponsored. Unlikely if the girl thinks you have heaps of girls and no one is preferred.

[Banana Boi]

These posts should really be in the General Reports section since they are not Pattaya specific.

When I was still a tourist many many girls kept Lining me many times every single day long after I left for home. Not a single one asked me for money. Pretty sure they knew I was not a sucker who would hand any over to them. To the OP, why end it before she asks. My point is they may never ask. However, a word of caution, don't fall for these girls and get it out of your head she is your girlfriend or someone who solely cares about you. They are professionals and unless you live here and have learned the ins and outs of their tricks they have a huge advantage over you.

[Sammon]

So. Having returned home. I am still in touch with my Pattaya gal. Lovely lady smiles incessantly adores me and stuff.

Now yesterday while on call she told me that he grandmom is sick and she has to go back home. I sincerely thought that this one was going to be different. She has not asked for anything yet but I know the hammer will fall down soon. So seniors any pointers for a love struck loser like me? Should I end it before her asking. Or wait for her to ask pay her some amount for the time she spent with me and then end it. Cause one way or the other curtains have to come down on this.

If her grand mother is really sick she will go home. Was she asking for money? IMHO sure. This is the first step to see your reaction. In case you ignore it next step will be she does not have money for the fare. If you still ignore it she will find somebody who takes care of her needs. For me I do not believe in freebies unless the girl is well educated and has a good job. I had met such a young girl working in the bank who I took on many vacations in Southeast Asia. Yes, I bought her many gifts but no money. I tried to give her for expenses but she refused.

All other girls accepted money when offered.

In your case if you like to keep her as your GF you need to support her by giving money. This will not give you guarantee that she will not go with other guys but will possibly guarantee you company next time you visit. If the demands become excessive it is your choice to continue or not.

Most of the girls are looking for support from a casual visitor. Very few are under the illusion of marriage and better life in other countries.

[Mr Enternational]

So. Having returned home. I am still in touch with my Pattaya gal. Lovely lady smiles incessantly adores me and stuff.

Now yesterday while on call she told me that he grandmom is sick and she has to go back home. I sincerely thought that this one was going to be different. She has not asked for anything yet but I know the hammer will fall down soon. So seniors any pointers for a love struck loser like me? Should I end it before her asking. Or wait for her to ask pay her some amount for the time she spent with me and then end it. Cause one way or the other curtains have to come down on this.

Ahh, the classic my girl is different. No need to end anything.

1) Tell her to call you when her grandmother gets better.

2) If she asks you for money for the trip tell her you do not send money.

No need to make a mountain out of scattered dust. You already know that you are an irrelevant factor to any of this. Had she never met you what would she have done? Besides, she has not asked you for shit; she simply told you what is going on in her life. Somehow you take that as she needs money from you. You shouldn't.

I also have a friend that I have been messing around with for over 2 years. Never asked me for 1 baht. She even cooks sometimes and invites me over. Even when we go to the seafood market in Naklua she pays for her own shit and I pay for mine. I usually pay for the people to cook it all though. A couple of months ago it was like 2am and her son was sick. She only wanted to ask me where was a pharmacy that was open at that tine of night so she could go get medicine. I volunteered to go find a pharmacy and get the medicine and bring it to her, but she was still talking about going to get it herself. I think I ended up just falling asleep, never to hear about it again. So it is not always about money when they say someone is sick.

P.S. Wish I knew how to put these pics in a particular order. The second pic is a convo with a chick that only messages when she wants to come over for money. The 3rd pic should be read before the 1st pic because they are a conversation with a different person. The one that has the kid that was sick.

[Ebauche]

So. Having returned home. I am still in touch with my Pattaya gal. Lovely lady smiles incessantly adores me and stuff.

Now yesterday while on call she told me that he grandmom is sick and she has to go back home. I sincerely thought that this one was going to be different. She has not asked for anything yet but I know the hammer will fall down soon. So seniors any pointers for a love struck loser like me? Should I end it before her asking. Or wait for her to ask pay her some amount for the time she spent with me and then end it. Cause one way or the other curtains have to come down on this.

Was she a "freebie" during your visit. For easy ability to make a clean break, if needed, you likely should have provided a "gift" before departing. If she's maintaining her own illusion that she's not peddling her ass, the gift merely would've been because you "care" and didn't want her to financially suffer because she devoted so much loving time to you. Or, an outright per diem fee for the fuckfest you enjoyed.

But after the fact? No. If you do, it will be astounding how many sick relatives and water buffalo regularly befall the poor lass.

[Vendelo]

So. Having returned home. I am still in touch with my Pattaya gal. Lovely lady smiles incessantly adores me and stuff.

Now yesterday while on call she told me that he grandmom is sick and she has to go back home. I sincerely thought that this one was going to be different. She has not asked for anything yet but I know the hammer will fall down soon. So seniors any pointers for a love struck loser like me? Should I end it before her asking. Or wait for her to ask pay her some amount for the time she spent with me and then end it. Cause one way or the other curtains have to come down on this.

I am currently experiencing the same dilemma. I spent time with a Phuket girl. We stayed in touch after I left and she recently asked for help. I told her I can help her when I am in Phuket but when I am home I cannot help her. She was a little upset at first but has soon accepted it.

[DeathWish]

So. Having returned home. I am still in touch with my Pattaya gal. Lovely lady smiles incessantly adores me and stuff.

Now yesterday while on call she told me that he grandmom is sick and she has to go back home. I sincerely thought that this one was going to be different. She has not asked for anything yet but I know the hammer will fall down soon. So seniors any pointers for a love struck loser like me? Should I end it before her asking. Or wait for her to ask pay her some amount for the time she spent with me and then end it. Cause one way or the other curtains have to come down on this.

[Banana Boi]

Had a fantastic time at Champagne tonight. Arrived at 7:30 and there were 3 full sets of girls ready to go. Nearly 50 total. Over half the girls are older and not that pretty but there are usually a couple of nice ones here. One was smiling at me from the stage and I wanted her but she decided to go to the bathroom first instead of coming straight over to me. Her mistake because another girl who I was also looking at came over right away. Very fun girl. Early to mid 20's and her only tits were her double padded bra. Too bad. Spent some time with her and decided to go check out Kink.

Walked outside and Kink was closed. WTF. Went to buy a kebab and went to The Bachelor. It was awful in there. What happened to the prettier girls? I did buy a couple of drinks for my girl there. As always lots of hands on action at The Bachelor.

After an hour I decided to go back to Champagne to get the girl I really wanted tonight. She didn't make the same mistake twice and ran over to me as soon as I walked in. I guess she is 20 and she looks fairly young, braces and all. Decent tits. Very friendly. Been a while since I met a great gogo girl and she is certainly in that category for me. A keeper. Timing a bit bad as I'm leaving for Bangkok the day after tomorrow and I'm not sure gogo bars are open Monday due to the holiday.

Check out Champagne if you guys are in LK Metro. Don't expect stunners but a friendly atmosphere and it's always fun seeking out those hidden gems.

[Blanquiceleste]

A kind of rambling trip report.

I barfined 2 girls out of Pin Up and 1 girl twice (ST first and then a LT) out of Sensations. I had one very pleasant afternoon session with a Soi 6 girl, and I went back yesterday afternoon to Soi Full Love Inn to see the tall pretty girl in Pirates.

I went next door to 007 where that skinny, spinner, blond waif works.

Great to hear you are having a good time, Am sure the girls all understand this.

Lord, I was born a ramblin' man.

Tryin' to make a livin' and doing' the best I can.

And when it's time for leavin' I hope you'll understand.

That I was born a ramblin' man.

[Steve 9696]

I have no problem with your rambling report. In fact keep them coming. That is why I read the Bangkok and Pattaya threads. There is actual sex occurring with actual women! I know it's surprising but this is not what's happening in most threads these days. And I just love to live the chase itself vicariously through you guys.

Regarding the chase, as I think about my trip to Brazil, I've been ambivalent, because I love "the scene" as much as the sex. Thifany the unicorn had resurfaced (full 20 minute trips report — including Brazil and London — available to senior members - PM me) and I was excited to see her I dig her so much. But then I forego the boate experience that I love so much.

Fortunately she solved this dilemma for me by becoming engaged! She says it changes nothing between us and we should still see each other (Brasileiras!) but I won't feel like I have to spend every waking hour with her. So I can do the boates too! Best of both worlds.