Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[BeStill]

Did you try searching the forum?

For example there is an FR already for.

InnocentSocialite: https://members.seeking.com/member/c...a-0a7a310eab75..

Punjabi girl. Quite chubbier than her pics. But I liked the fact that she was upfront about it and showed herself on VC. Very talkative. She tried her best to please in all ways, but I realised she's not my type.

Thanks! I should have searched for it properly. She is quoting 10 k for 2. She doesn't look so chubby in the pics she shared. I will skip I guess, since chubby girls are not my type.

I see one for Paris as well. But she is so slow to respond.

I was hoping if there were more feedbacks on them.

[NewbExcited]

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...e-a8d3a71ee317

Perhaps a fake profile, as she quoted 15 K for overnight and demanded cab fare as confirmation of a meeting.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...4-831ee3430e62

Asking for 30-40 K per meet, overnight.

[CoolDumble]

Connected with prettyface on 29/02/2024 and planned to meet on 10/02 at my place in Delhi. She communicated all the what. On 10/2 6 PM gets a message that I just woke up and will be there at 9 PM. At 8 PM I had messaged her that did you leave your place and there is no response and she ghosted me. Just wanted to let follow member know that how she is.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...0-1448788e6d9f

I met a girl from SA with the same or similar photo last year. According to her, she worked as a makeup artist. Very bad experience. Not a looker at all. And definitely not someone you would expect to meet on SA.

[JPoppen]

Hey folks!

Any feedback on these profiles?

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...a-0a7a310eab75 . Asking 12 k.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...-bfbf9a4c5ee0. Asking 15 k, but has place apparently.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...-def7544aab34. Asking 15 k.

Did you try searching the forum?

For example there is an FR already for.

InnocentSocialite: https://members.seeking.com/member/c...a-0a7a310eab75..

Punjabi girl. Quite chubbier than her pics. But I liked the fact that she was upfront about it and showed herself on VC. Very talkative. She tried her best to please in all ways, but I realised she's not my type.

[BeStill]

Hey folks!

Any feedback on these profiles?

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...a-0a7a310eab75 . Asking 12 k.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...-bfbf9a4c5ee0. Asking 15 k, but has place apparently.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...-def7544aab34. Asking 15 k.

[NewGuy2022]

It's like this: To find a good, you probably have to message 100+ profiles. In Bangalore, where I am based, I typically message 200 girls when I take a 1 month SA membership. I end up meeting 6-8 and going ahead with 1-2.

SA Chennai has a fraction of the girls Bangalore has in a city of similar size. There are probably suitable girls in Chennai but a lot of more difficult to find.
Girls in Bangalore I know routinely get messages from mongers in Chennai / Coimbatore, because of the lack of quality in their cities.

This means we are talking about 1% success rate at best case. Chances will be even lesser if the criterion is limited to "slim / ath / avg" and then skin tone let alone its smoothness. After that, comes essential attributes like safety, hygiene, attitude. Then the price ranges. "Kink / sultry / sensuality" are just good to have. That's a lot smaller fraction.

Perhaps we can build a database to easily filter out profiles with out collective experience and objective feedback.

[NewGuy2022]

Hey friends,

Has anyone met or spoken to the sultry soul?

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...5-45ae512c772b

While the profile looks good and is active, she is not responding to the msgs.

TIA.

My message is also unread but, this can happen. I got reply from few even after a month. Number of men chasing an eligible girl in India must be very high.

When I visited Sydney, took a long tram ride and actually counted number of lookers and the ratio turned out to be 80%-90% You could perhaps arrange a meetup there without even looking at the girl. India is the exactly opposite.

[Sunandoghosh]

SA Mumbai.

Hello All,

Have been on and off and have had membership of SA on couple of occassions.

Have spent countless hours days weeks months to find real non working good looking.

Gems. Had experience of paying from lowest 20 K to 1 Lkah maximum.

As we all know it is no easy joke to come across real hidden gems.

Currently I have two gems:

1. Gem 1: One year passed graduate working in IT company (typical pure next marathi girl).

She is very young decent good looking and educated.

Very cooperative in bed and allows DFK and totally GF material.

Allowance: 40 K for three hours.

2. Gem 2: NIFT final year student in modelling as well. Extremely high class. Beautiful. Body to die for.

Very cooperative in bed and allows DFK and totally GF material.

But very ssophiscated with high taste and refined behaviour.

Allowance: 50 K for three hours.

I am willing to share details provided I get worth in return.

Please don't ask me for free as I have not been shared ever anyhting like this and have taken countless hours to find screen compromising my work and other good use of time.

Must have interacted with hundreds of girls chatted with so many talked met and then screened finally who are perfect in almost all parameters.

Infact there was a third one but she disappeared after one meet. Seems she left altogther.

So if anyone has anything worthwhile willing to exchange please do share.

I know its not easy to come across real non working gems who satisfy multiple criteria of being very young; good looking; fit; cooperative in bed like GF and not time watcher.

And yes such girls are not long on SA and delete their profile. They don't meet without reference and 100% discretion assured with trusted friends.

Hence will exchange if I get something really really worth in return.

I am sure many seniors have such one or two gems but nobody shares such gems.

So please expect my response only if you have something worthwhile in exchange.

[Phil50]

The SA scene nowadays is downright abysmal. Entitled chicks thinking they can get away with anything. Another young college chick wanted me to buy her a 4 k vape without even doing VC and when I told her I won't pay since we haven't met before, she too replied in the same manner asking if 4 k is too much for me and how am I on Seeking if I can't even afford that much!?

The sense of entitlement with SA birds nowadays is rather preposterous. I had bought SA subscription in Jan and I genuinely regret spending every rupee on it. Could have donated it to an orphanage instead.
The scene in BLR is so bad now that I'm contemplating quitting mongering altogether and just making a Thailand trip once every 3-4 months.

I first joined SA in 2014 and for the same reason, I quit last April and prefer seeing a couple of my old contacts, to anyone new.

Tinder may be a better option (costs a lot less) if you make it clear you are willing to pay for company.

[Ace of Hearts]

So, I have been speaking to her for a while on TG. She's working as a Yoga Teacher near Sarjapur. She seemed genuine enough, sounded well educated and seemed to be coming from a good family. She had some back issues 2 weeks back and she also showed me her X-rays and it looked genuine to me. We were planning to do a VC soon and take this forward. Today the VC happened but ended badly.


The SA scene nowadays is downright abysmal. Entitled chicks thinking they can get away with anything. Another young college chick wanted me to buy her a 4 k vape without even doing VC and when I told her I won't pay since we haven't met before, she too replied in the same manner asking if 4 k is too much for me and how am I on Seeking if I can't even afford that much!?

The sense of entitlement with SA birds nowadays is rather preposterous. I had bought SA subscription in Jan and I genuinely regret spending every rupee on it. Could have donated it to an orphanage instead.

The scene in BLR is so bad now that I'm contemplating quitting mongering altogether and just making a Thailand trip once every 3-4 months.

P.S.: please don't request for her TG ID as it's hidden and shows up as "Unknown".

The problem is that in this sudden downturn of economy and job market, these young kids are still living fantasy world. And the biggest culprit is social media. Few influencers have been spoilt by the monetization they get for their latka jhatka, which has ZERO artistic value. These kids think that earning money would be that easy even in long term. They don't realise that once the overhyped social media payouts rationalised, many won't be able to pay for their monthly Sanatory napkins.

We can wait till that happens, and then there would be a large population of disillusioned pussies meeting reality and then come to turn with us, for reasonable amount as their need for money to maintain their costly lifestyle won't go.

ACe.

[JPoppen]

Met Scorpiogirl in Mumbai.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...1-7a769fdc3432

She is petite, young, and very good in bed. Found her on SA, had a voice call and then a VC on TG. Asked her to come over (she had to spend like a thousand bucks in a cab to reach me, but she did not ask for any advance). Overall I paid her 20 k for the deed + 2 K for her cab fair (which she did not ask for even after the deed, I just felt I should pay her). She stayed till morning. Not a time watcher at all.

[ImVirat]

"ElegantAphrodite" from Hyderabad SA.

Brothers, please help me with feedback, if any of you have met her? Is she genuine? She claims to be a Medico student from Kothapet.

Her ask is huge. For some its 20 k for 1 HR, for other 20 k for 2 and likewise. I had vc and I doubt if she medical student. At least her room doesn't looked like one.

[Flash2]

Connected with prettyface on 29/02/2024 and planned to meet on 10/02 at my place in Delhi. She communicated all the what. On 10/2 6 PM gets a message that I just woke up and will be there at 9 PM. At 8 PM I had messaged her that did you leave your place and there is no response and she ghosted me. Just wanted to let follow member know that how she is.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...0-1448788e6d9f

She quoted me 35 k but when asked her to share pics she hasn't replied yet. Is she a looker?

[FunForSandy]

Saw a couple of interesting messages by Phil and some others. So throwing in my own experience as well. I am not very active on here but I have been on SA for several years now.

First. Yes it has become worser than what it used to be. Used to be 60-70% out and out hookers pre-COVID. It is now 90% to 95% hookers. This post is not for you if you are looking for the hookers. The modus operandi is very easy in those cases.

If you are however looking for genuine girls who will be with you long term and have the looks and the brains, SA requires patience. The first patient part is to weed out the 90% girls who are just looking for quick $$ That takes experience to read and see through. And a strong will to not get tempted by pictures or flirting.

I have had very good success in general. Some of my highlights include.

1) A really hot bisexual instagram influencer and content creator. I met her multiple times. She was 24. The highlight was when she and her lesbian partner gave me a show.

2) A final year medical student with whom I had a long term thing. There were no allowances after a couple of months. She just loved being with me and the kinks I am into. A squirter with a libido that had no limits. I mentored her for a bunch of post grad MBA entrances on the side. It was a proper rules based and reward / punishment driven approach to motivate her and help her structure her prep.

3) An 18 year old student from Christ College. We were at it for about 7 or 8 months and I helped her out when she needed. Never gave her an allowance. Bought her the tiniest of dresses from Forever21 that she wore to our dates. And we did PDA like no tomorrow at Shiro several times, made out in the parking lot of UB City, drove around with a dildo in her and a vibrator on her and did even nastier things in the hotel when we did get there. All it took was being nice to her, some salmon and wine at Shiro and a kinky as fuck brain.

4) A dental student who was 20 and super hot. Was with her for over 6 months between Wave 1 ease off and Wave 2. I know where she now practices. Nearly 2. 5 years later in Dec last year I visited her by deliberately booking a cleaning appointment with her. She recognised me and knew I had booking her deliberately. We met again after that over drinks but never went further since she is now dating someone seriously. She still looks as hot, if not hotter.

5) A 19 year old student with a huge Daddy kink.

6) A married woman who wanted some fun on the side and was super kinky too.

I have also had my share of PPMs and fallen into things I should not have. I have had my share of coffee or dinner dates that have not led to anything. That happens about 50-60% of the time if not more. But that is a part of the learning process and the patience piece that I called out.

So what makes meaningful things happen off SA?

First. Talk to them like a genuine, empathetic person. Earn trust. Don't come across as crazy or creepy or just wanting to fuck her at the first chance. Second. It is a fact that there are girls on SA who are on SA because intelligence, personality and success is what attracts them to a man. So don't hesitate from coming across as having those qualities. Along with empathy. Third. Give her time and space but draw a boundary. I do not do endless dates over coffee or dinner. But I do want to give her time to get comfortable. And I am okay to invest 5 k or 6 k to give her that confidence if I think there is potential. Over time, you learn to draw the line and your judgement evolves so you make less of these unsuccessful investments. Fourth. Be honest. Just like you don't enjoy being flaked or ghosted or being stood up, neither does she. Fifth. You need to focus on her as well in bed. Several of these girls have kinks and want to orgasm / cum as well. And if you can make sure she has as good a time as you did, then she's likely to want to be with you again. Needless to say, always respect boundaries. Once you earn trust, boundaries do ease off slowly.

Lastly, the benefits that stem from earning trust and going longer with one girl are really worth it. It opens doors, exploration and horizons that one off meets just cannot. And if you play it right, it is not as expensive as one would thing. For the record. No girl has ever wanted a six figure monthly allowance. For that matter even a high five figure monthly allowance.

Hey bro,

Do you mind sharing the monthly allowance range you operate with?

Thanks.

[FunForSandy]

Chatted with her a while ago and everything seemed to be going on well. She sounded genuine on all the voice notes she sent me. However, she backed off when I told her my age and said that she doesn't meet anyone so young. Gave me a lecture on I should be focusing on my life instead of spending money like this. I was amused but anyway.

Felt genuine throughout if that is what you are looking for.

Ha ha ha! This is hilarious.

I like her noble streak!