Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[AussieGaigin]

I've since found out that these can be blocked.

In Chrome for Android go to Settings / Site Settings / Pop Ups and Redirects and turn them off. ISG may be listed by name.

AdBlocker Plus was also recommended to me but I could only get it for Samsung Internet not Chrome for Android which I use for accessing ISG.

Cheers. G.

It's kinda funny. I keep getting pop-up ads on YouTube promoting. Pop-up Ad Blockers.

[Kabul Guy]

I got a PM asking about any police contact while mongering and thought that it would be an interesting discussion. The question was had I experienced any police contact while mongering or otherwise in the Philippines? Was there corruption?

Outside of routine contact with police and similar officials, I. E. Customs etc, I have not had any contact with any law enforcement agency in about 18 months total time in the Philippines. Closest was I would routinely drive past a PNP check point neat Butuan City when I was there a few years ago. I simply showed my foreign driver license and bill of sale (the registration was pending). After about 3 passes thorough the check point they just started waving me through, never any hint that they wanted donations to their Christmas fund or anything like that. (I also rode my bicycle past the check point most mornings and was never stopped, just a smile and a wave through.).

This is partly due to my mongering style, I hunt exclusively on the dating apps and am not a bar goer or even a late night out type.

Anyone have any contact with police? Positive or negative?

[Goferring]

I get them too. They are pop up ads, which sometimes take a few seconds to load. Two solutions:

1) close them as soon as they appear, before they have a chance to load cookies on your HD.

2) After loading ISG, open the next window in a new tab / page, they won't show again.

I've since found out that these can be blocked.

In Chrome for Android go to Settings / Site Settings / Pop Ups and Redirects and turn them off. ISG may be listed by name.

AdBlocker Plus was also recommended to me but I could only get it for Samsung Internet not Chrome for Android which I use for accessing ISG.

Cheers. G.

[Goferring]

Is anyone else getting a lot of hot girls online insisting that you send your WA, Viber etc number before the girl sends hers?

I assume it is feeding some scammer's databank as 'she' disappears as soon as she has your number.

Cheers. G.

[AussieGaigin]

I don't get blank the blank screens you mention.

I do get pop ups which are a PITA. Perhaps you are getting these? They appear as blank screens if they are slow to load.

I get them too. They are pop up ads, which sometimes take a few seconds to load. Two solutions:

1) close them as soon as they appear, before they have a chance to load cookies on your HD.

2) After loading ISG, open the next window in a new tab / page, they won't show again.

[Sammon]

If someone misrepresents themselves then fuck them and their feelings. That is just like the guy that posted a few weeks back about letting the ladyboy in his room because he didn't want to hurt feelings etc. If you go to McDonald's for a Big Mac and they put a chicken sandwich in the bag instead, you are not going to take the chicken sandwich back and still compensate them for inconveniencing you.

Misrepresentation is universal including the girls you meet in a bar in USA. Make up, wearing falsies to enhance boobs, demure and innocent talk etc to name a few.

Yes for P4 P meetups we are the buyer choosing. Girl will show up in her best dress (maybe only one she had), make up, padded bra. As we all know slender Philippine girls are not known for large boobs. I have met some with natural look especially if she knows she is attractive.

Meeting for the first time can be tricky on both. Nobody is forcing anybody to have sex. Both adults make conscious decision to accept or not. If not accepted compensation is a must as we all know they have limited means.

All I am saying is there is no need to be nasty unless it is ladyboy misrepresentation. Gender identity should be disclosed on first contact I believe. Most do once you ask for cam chat. Then cease contact.

I meet girls only after cam chat many times and discuss everything. They come straight to the room because we already know each other. Ones who do not have cam (these days everybody does or can do) I meet them outside and maybe buy them lunch or dinner and decide.

[Goferring]

For the last several months I get recurring blank screens between clicks on ISG. Am I the only one this is happening to? Keep expecting admin to fix this if it's a bug in the website but after so long I am losing patience and thinking maybe it is on my end.

I don't get blank the blank screens you mention.

I do get pop ups which are a PITA. Perhaps you are getting these? They appear as blank screens if they are slow to load.

[D Cups]

For the last several months I get recurring blank screens between clicks on ISG. Am I the only one this is happening to? Keep expecting admin to fix this if it's a bug in the website but after so long I am losing patience and thinking maybe it is on my end.

I have been getting it, too.

[ForkTruck]

For the last several months I get recurring blank screens between clicks on ISG. Am I the only one this is happening to? Keep expecting admin to fix this if it's a bug in the website but after so long I am losing patience and thinking maybe it is on my end.

[Mr Enternational]

For me, it depends on the level of misrepresentation.

Simply using the most flattering photos and camera angles is just human nature and should be expected. Even Cindy Crawford doesn't look like Cindy Crawford in the flesh.

Definitely that. That is why I akways ask for normal fotos with no make up and filters and stuff.

[Goferring]

If someone misrepresents themselves then fuck them and their feelings.

For me, it depends on the level of misrepresentation.

Simply using the most flattering photos and camera angles is just human nature and should be expected. Even Cindy Crawford doesn't look like Cindy Crawford in the flesh.

Photos from 10 years or 20 pounds ago is deception. Obviously 'forgetting' to mention your gender is the same.

For the first it's just thanks but no thanks. For the second there's no need for compassion. Just get up and walk away.

It should also be said that sometimes the guy wants to bail even though there has be no misrepresentation at all. I've met girls who have been as advertised but over coffee there has been absolutely no chemistry and I don't want to take it any further. In these cases I'm happy to refund her cost to get to Starbucks.

Enjoy. G.

[Mr Enternational]

It is easy to bail out if you meet her outside of your room. You can politely tell her she is not what you are looking for or tell her you have some urgent matters to attend to and cannot be with her. Just compensate for her travel. No girl likes to hear that she is ugly and unwanted and there is no need to hurt her feelings.

If someone misrepresents themselves then fuck them and their feelings. That is just like the guy that posted a few weeks back about letting the ladyboy in his room because he didn't want to hurt feelings etc. If you go to McDonald's for a Big Mac and they put a chicken sandwich in the bag instead, you are not going to take the chicken sandwich back and still compensate them for inconveniencing you.

[Mogwai]

This is a really hypothetical situation, because photos can be manipulated only to a certain extent. I have never met a girl who looked really pretty on the web, but was actually "a pig" in real life. Not as attractive- yes, but "a pig", never.

Neither did I but it's not a hypothetical situation because quite a lot of (below) average looking girls have old pictures in their profile, from long gone days when they were still slim and pretty.

[GDreams]

The only time I bailed is I had organised to meet a chick, then another chick that was super hot agreed to come over that I had invited earlier but hadn't committed The first one turned up, she was a bit older than I expected though still reasonable. Fortunately she was off wechat and hadn't come far so I just made an excuse in the lobby, gave her 200 peso to cover travel when she probably walked and said goodbye. Two days later I was with another chick who became a problem and I asked her to leave. I saw the older chick on Wechat again, invited her over and banged her. Turns out she was quite a good root!

[Sammon]

You arrange to meet a girl you've been messaging online though one of the dating sites. You arrange a time to meet for lets say coffee or dinner. You did your prescreening the best you could, looking at photos and her FB photos. Video chat would have been best but we're unable because of time difference.

When you finally see her in live and comes face to face with you, no amount of alcohol or viagra is going to get your dick up for this girl who you do not find attractive at all in the least bit.

What do you do?

You can't answer "I'm going to observe her from a distance and bail once I see she's a pig. " You're a foreigner. You're going to stick out. She'll spot you first.

It is easy to bail out if you meet her outside of your room. You can politely tell her she is not what you are looking for or tell her you have some urgent matters to attend to and cannot be with her. Just compensate for her travel. No girl likes to hear that she is ugly and unwanted and there is no need to hurt her feelings.

Personally I have met girls at a mall on their insistence and I have bailed out. Most often I expect them to come to my room. In the room it is kind of awkward to get rid of her right away. I do some chit chat and tell her I have a meeting to go to and do not have time. I lie and tell her I will call her later. Ofcourse I do compensate.

There is no point in hiding from her if the meeting place is public. Also you cannot fault her for doling out to look her best even if are cam chatting.

If the girl is reasonably okay I fuck her. Then let her go with some money. Only thing I hate is unhygienic pussy and body and mouth. Cannot get a hard on even with viagra.