Medellin Reports

[Lefeu]

...First time I went was in December and they few girls available at the time were just average but doable. They said a few more would be arriving soon, so me and 2 friends had a couple beers while we waited. By the time they showed up, we were paying our bill to head elsewhere. Beers were 12 k each which was surprising. My Columbian friend asked if that was cause we didn't take a girl and they said that it was the normal price...

Interesting, my wingman and I visited that place last December and had the same experience. We did not like the women that were available, so they told us they were expecting more girls to show up. We sat down and ordered some beers. After close to 40 min, there were no new girls. We paid our bill and left. Never went back.

[Osteoknot]

I let my guard down and a chica stole some info from my phone, for sure. I am still having trouble following my own advice because I have posted on here before not to let the chicas touch your phone or computer. They are super-users and fast as lightening. They will generally have some innocent reason for usng your phone like picking music or getting on Facebook, and when you protest they all put on the same act, "How could you possibly think I would do anything bad to you?" They somehow all use the same moves, I guess they have some kind of Secret Society or something, jajaja, PA or Putas Anonymous, jaja.

This chica I have known for over two years but I was getting some strange vibes from her lately. Not so ironically, I had already decided to take her off my Top Ten List, and then this happened. Not nearly the major breach that happened last time when info in my phone was used against me by a chica. Consider this a friendly warning, these chicas are not stupid even when they appear to be. They pick their spots. I compound the problem by being a little too trusting and gullible. As the saying goes, live and learn, I guess. Ostee Out!

[BbqMushrooms]

My experience is the seeking arrangement chicks have been better for those types of excursions. I had a 3rd date with one where we went to thermales de cabral for 2 nights and that was a great time with a truly stunning hottie who was a real nurse in a hospital had ID / credentials, social media and photos, multiple ids, could carry a conversation etc.

If you do not speak Spanish well enough to carry a conversation with her-don't bother taking a girl somewhere for more than a few hours--just keep it to sexy time and simple dates.

I met up with one chick at the Exploratorium at 130 pm-she was about 30 minutes late-fairly typical but was in constant communication with me and did send photos of. Traffic accident that she blamed for the delay--who knows the truth.

She did offer a seemingly sincere apology for making me wait--and we played around the Exploratorium for an hour or so, then walked around the botanical gardens before we took the metro to Poblado where we walked to a place and for a snack (cake hot chocolate / coffee) and then back to my hotel a few months ago. It was our first time meeting-we met in public, had a nice conversation--and then a lot of fun until she left my place at about 1130 pm. All in was 300 lcop plus 20 for the taxi. I dropped multiple loads, had a fun time and enjoyed the hand holding / gentle energy we shared in the gardens. Well worth it for me. Would not have been any fun if I didn't speak Spanish..

This is awesome. I'm going to more strongly consider signing up for seeking.

[CK465]

Hey guys,

Planning on go over there in 2023. Making plans as we speak.

Any word on this chica? https://pasionprepagos.com/escorts/andrea3044762499 I tried lookin up her name on here but it's common but no photo references. If anybody has seen her, what's the service like and how her face?

[FlagRunner77]

Was just there earlier this year. There's really no comp. They'll tell you in the Cali thread, if you want black, go there. Barely any black girls in Medellin tbh.

Thank you! I only have 6 days in Colombia as it is. So I need to make sure that the extra hassle of an internal flight is worth it. From what I've read, and what people here are saying, it sounds like the trip to Cali is going to be worth it. There are a couple of good contacts on the Cali forum, so I think I'll take the chance an see what happens. It sounds like finding black women in Medellin may be difficult, and even more difficult with only a week to spend there.

[Just Incognito]

So this one chica I've been chatting with on Facebook wants to go to San Pedro for the Semana Santa for the festival or whatever they have there. We seem to click, but her profile seems fake and I mean we know how this can go. She picks the spot, has some homies nearby and bam. I'm outside of Medellin and pennyless / phoneless. Not a good spot to be in!

My question is, how could I do this with her while still protecting myself? I'm going to get to Medellin right around the beginning of that week, so we have time to meet up in safe locations and get to know each other better. I think I might take her to see a movie that's she was talking about, also fool around at a motel or two. She doesn't seem to have a job or a kid or family. So there's that. Do I just always keep her at arms length? Honestly I myself would like to see what's going on in San Pedro. I'm not Christian or religious, but festivity is festivity.

1st meet her at your place with 24/7 security so her sedula is registered and you can feel a vibe. Spend 2-3 hours together.

If all good add to it with another session: meet again at your place, have her register again-maybe fool around a bit, get a BJ then take her for dinner and back to your place for a 2nd round. Maybe a 3rd. If you are vibing, ask her to spend a night.

If after 2-3 dates where she shows you she has no problems registering her cedula with you security people and at that point you have more info on her, know her ID is real because the hotel reception will know that more than just you checking it- and if you can see that its not awkward during down times / between fucks, then worry about doing a longer overnight / multi day trip with someone.

My experience is the seeking arrangement chicks have been better for those types of excursions. I had a 3rd date with one where we went to thermales de cabral for 2 nights and that was a great time with a truly stunning hottie who was a real nurse in a hospital had ID / credentials, social media and photos, multiple ids, could carry a conversation etc.

If you do not speak Spanish well enough to carry a conversation with her-don't bother taking a girl somewhere for more than a few hours--just keep it to sexy time and simple dates.

I met up with one chick at the Exploratorium at 130 pm-she was about 30 minutes late-fairly typical but was in constant communication with me and did send photos of. Traffic accident that she blamed for the delay--who knows the truth.

She did offer a seemingly sincere apology for making me wait--and we played around the Exploratorium for an hour or so, then walked around the botanical gardens before we took the metro to Poblado where we walked to a place and for a snack (cake hot chocolate / coffee) and then back to my hotel a few months ago. It was our first time meeting-we met in public, had a nice conversation--and then a lot of fun until she left my place at about 1130 pm. All in was 300 lcop plus 20 for the taxi. I dropped multiple loads, had a fun time and enjoyed the hand holding / gentle energy we shared in the gardens. Well worth it for me. Would not have been any fun if I didn't speak Spanish.

The Zoo is a great date-its not too big, located convenient to a lot of places, is fun and can help the vibe. A date like that is way better than planning an out of towner with someone you haven't spent a few times with.

What if you take her somewhere and al lis good--but, when you do a finger smell check on 1st touches down there-you don't like her smell? Better to know that stuff in your room where you an wash hands, just ask for a BJ and send her on her way.

[Just Incognito]

So how do you do this? Do you send her 20 k, do you reimburse her after. If you order her an uber, don't you need to time it for when she actually leaves haha I heard they are sometimes not so good at that.

I only bring chicks I don't know to places that have a 24/7 reception and security that checks sedulas and registers them. I also ask the reception to call me if she leaves the room alone to verify all is good and no problems. And I let the girl know that I like where I am staying because they are really careful with cameras in the halls and a lot of security which protects the girls and me. I ask for them to dress conservatively for the reception but to wear something underneath or bring something super sexy with them to look sexier for me.

If its the 1st time meeting a girl, I tell her to message me as she arrives so I can come down and pay the driver. If I don't like how she looks / bait and switch / photos too doctored or the vibe feels off like if I think she is wasted in a bad way, or if she smells bad and is too hairy (happened once chick showed up with hairier ams than me and weird moles on her face that were photoshopped from her pictures). -I pay the driver to take her away. If I like the vibe / energy / look-I pay the driver. Almost always its 20 kcop.

Then register her and take her up.

If I know her, meaning she is a repeat, I will just ask her to pay the taxi and when I pay her out at the end it will be the taxi, negotiated rate and tip depending on how happy she makes me. I only take the money out once at the end.

Its always stated up front that I pay at the end and what my condom rules -or not FR BJs are. And what's expected. Clear communication ahead of time is very important.

Be specific.

I tell them the time we book is the time-if she is more than 15 minutes after the time we plan-don't bother. I ask where she is coming from and tell her how long it should take to get to me and then ask if she can leave to me at the time that gets her to me when our appointment is supposed to be if not either make another appointment time or forget it. I also tell them that being on time goes into how I factor tips-because that's part of me being happy. I don't negotiate a specific amount of time like 60 minutes. And instead sy 2-3 hours or more, multiple pops etc.

Never argue or fight over a few bucks. Just move along and don't see her again if she nickels / dimes or tries to renegotiate or demand more.

Keep the messages until she leaves-if she asks for more than in the messages-show her the messages.

Don't let them know you are a rookie.

Speak Spanish. I do and it does make a huge difference for me and my fun in Medellin.

The non Spanish speakers who are having fun are unaware of how much more fun the experience is when you do speak Spanish, so they think they are all that but don't really know since they are limited to only their experiences.

I have heard a lot of stories from Spanish speakers and non Spanish speakers there.

I know my experience.

Learn Spanish for a better time, easier communication, less scamming energy form the girls and a better success rate at vetting potential sessions.

[JohnnyWalker55]

Thanks. I'm hoping to meet some black ladies. The darker the better. Which is why Cali appeals to me.

Was just there earlier this year. There's really no comp. They'll tell you in the Cali thread, if you want black, go there. Barely any black girls in Medellin tbh.

[BbqMushrooms]

Best thing to do is negotiate a price which includes their transportation and let them figure it out. If you go with the "fee plus taxi" model, then I usually use one of three options:

1) I go down to meet her at the taxi and pay what's on the meter (if the meter is erased, I won't pay). I give her about the same when she leaves.

2) Send her home by Uber, which you pay for through your phone.

3) Have her use Driver and note the amount that she offers to the driver.

Once you have been in Medellin long enough, you'll have a good idea what it costs to bring girls to your place. Girls from Bello, Popular, Sabaneta, Itagui will cost more (depending on where you are) and girls coming from Belen, Aranjuez, Manrique, etc. Will cost you less.

This is what I was looking for. Awesome.

Don't do it!

It's not because you're being set up for robbery, although I suppose that's a possibility. It's because you'll be completely out of your element..

Thank you, this is just the advice I needed to hear. Much appreciated!

[FlagRunner77]

Can you give a better definition of dark skinned?

Most of the girls in Medellin have dark skin, when compared to white girls from the Midwest. However, it's more of a medium tan than dark. There are black women, ranging from light skinned to very dark. If you're looking for exclusively very dark black women, you'll have to search a bit harder in Medellin, but you can find them.

Much more common are the mestizos, a mixture of white and indigenous people, with tan to dark tan skin.

Thanks. I'm hoping to meet some black ladies. The darker the better. Which is why Cali appeals to me.

[Villainy]

Don't do it!

It's not because you're being set up for robbery, although I suppose that's a possibility. It's because you'll be completely out of your element.

My first mongering trip I made the mistake you're trying to make. There was a girl, she was hot, we seemed to really hit it off in the weeks before my trip. I was convinced to meet up with her and take her to another place for a few days. Fortunately, the night before I was supposed to meet her, I realized that I was in over my head. I didn't know the girl, I didn't know the country, I didn't even know the language. What were we going to do for 72 hours? What if we didn't hit it off in person? Not only would I be wasting 3 days of my vacation, but I would be spending much more than necessary.

Instead I canceled and got myself to an easy mongering destination and ended up having a great time and I cut my expenses enough to stay 2 days longer..

This is sage advice. Other people should pay attention because it comes up again and again.

Make a date with the girl. If you hit it off you can plan something but it is an absolute horror show (in the making) to plan a trip with a girl you've never met in person. Slightly less hopeless (but even more popular) is to plan an overnight or a trio with a girl you've never met. That too has horror show written all over it. What do you do when she shows up and you don't like what you see? No problem, right. Send her home with taxi fare and a small portion of the fee. But she is going to be pissed. She had other dates lined up and scheduled you and now you're sending her home early with only a fraction of what she expected to collect. She calls her brother and if you're lucky he isn't a sicario (or a good friend of one) maybe he just knows a few cops.

Or as a friend once related to me. The girl didn't have a brother so she went to the lobby and raised hell with the portero / receptionist. She wanted to call the cops. They finally calmed her down and she left. The next morning the hotel manager knocked on his door and told him to take his whoring somewhere else.

This all gets to be a mess.

All you had to do was apply common sense. You don't plan a trip or an overnight or a trio with a girl you don't know. There is plenty of time to do that on the 2nd or 3rd date.

[Osteoknot]

If you leaving Medellin I guess this means time for Top 10..

There have been some seismic shifts. I will need time back in the states to clear my head. I'm going to layover in Florida for a long weekend, then bus home and think about it then.

[Zenigata885]

Last couple days been seeing this same FB girl. She looks really good but I'm a little suspicious. Is there a place I can take her to both get tested where I can get same day results and I can actually understand the results. (bad at spanish). There is https://englishspeakingdoctormedelli...ions-medellin/ but I heard they are super busy this week.

[JjBee62]

So this one chica I've been chatting with on Facebook wants to go to San Pedro for the Semana Santa for the festival or whatever they have there. We seem to click, but her profile seems fake and I mean we know how this can go. She picks the spot, has some homies nearby and bam. I'm outside of Medellin and pennyless / phoneless. Not a good spot to be in!

My question is, how could I do this with her while still protecting myself? I'm going to get to Medellin right around the beginning of that week, so we have time to meet up in safe locations and get to know each other better. I think I might take her to see a movie that's she was talking about, also fool around at a motel or two. She doesn't seem to have a job or a kid or family. So there's that. Do I just always keep her at arms length? Honestly I myself would like to see what's going on in San Pedro. I'm not Christian or religious, but festivity is festivity.

Don't do it!

It's not because you're being set up for robbery, although I suppose that's a possibility. It's because you'll be completely out of your element.

My first mongering trip I made the mistake you're trying to make. There was a girl, she was hot, we seemed to really hit it off in the weeks before my trip. I was convinced to meet up with her and take her to another place for a few days. Fortunately, the night before I was supposed to meet her, I realized that I was in over my head. I didn't know the girl, I didn't know the country, I didn't even know the language. What were we going to do for 72 hours? What if we didn't hit it off in person? Not only would I be wasting 3 days of my vacation, but I would be spending much more than necessary.

Instead I canceled and got myself to an easy mongering destination and ended up having a great time and I cut my expenses enough to stay 2 days longer.

Go to Medellin, meet the girl, meet several girls and have fun. If you find one you want to spend more time with after you've enjoyed sex with her, go on a date, see a movie, whatever. Then on your next trip maybe think about taking her somewhere for a few days.

[JjBee62]

Hi.

I'm visiting in May. I have a question about darker skinned chicas.

Are there many options for darker skinned girls in Medellin? And are there particular venues to find them? I've RTFF for 50+ pages but nothing jumps out in particular.

I've been reading the Cali forum and I'm attracted to visit there for the preponderance of dark skinned chicas, but I would be travelling only for 2 days (3 nights) and it's looking like $100 USD for flights, plus 4 airport taxis, which I can think of much better things to spend money on! Cali interests me in general due to the salsa scene, but I'm only on a 7 day trip as it is so it is a bit time-killer to fly to another city in that time. But willing to do it if I'm unlikely to find what I'm looking for in Medellin..

Can you give a better definition of dark skinned?

Most of the girls in Medellin have dark skin, when compared to white girls from the Midwest. However, it's more of a medium tan than dark. There are black women, ranging from light skinned to very dark. If you're looking for exclusively very dark black women, you'll have to search a bit harder in Medellin, but you can find them.

Much more common are the mestizos, a mixture of white and indigenous people, with tan to dark tan skin.