Seeking Arrangements

**NeilGeorge** · 03-21-22 23:56

Originally Posted by TheCane [View Original Post]

I've been on the site about 2 1/2 months now, and I had my absolute greatest success within the first two weeks. After that, nothing has come close. In fact, I'm so sick and tired of Seeking that I can't wait for my membership to be over. Will address more in my third and final monthly report.

They give your profile a blast the first day you join. Then the day your subscription is over, they give your profile another blast so you will get a lot of messages and renew to open the messages.

In between you get all the foreign woman trying to sell you photos online and local women trying to scam you and get you to pay them for a first meet and greet.

**GoingDumb** · 03-21-22 19:14

Originally Posted by TheCane [View Original Post]

That's been exactly my experience. I've been on the site about 2 1/2 months now, and I had my absolute greatest success within the first two weeks. After that, nothing has come close. In fact, I'm so sick and tired of Seeking that I can't wait for my membership to be over. Will address more in my third and final monthly report.

Good to know I'm not alone. I'll probably let my membership lapse then once the month ends and see how I feel.

**GoingDumb** · 03-21-22 19:13

Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]

Can't really comment on the minority aspect. But def in a given city it stagnates, esp if smaller city. That said new girls pop on all the time. Not at a great rate but enough you can find something new. I'm my second tier city I have had 5 babies over the last two years and def made it work. And here I am two years later recently scoring Shayla who has already achieved top five girlfriends all time.

Maybe just lucky. But for me the constant scanning for new talent is worth it. Shayla only just recently magically appeared when she started commuting to my town to work. So you never know.

You've probably answered this elsewhere but how much time are you putting into it? Are you on daily? Weekly?

I felt more optimistic last week when the girl I met up with was ready to come back with me within an hour of meeting me hah. If they were all that easy it'd be amazing but seems like I got lucky.

**Akibono** · 03-21-22 18:41

Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]

I tried Neet not Veet and it burned the fuck out of the boys. Never again. It literally takes me less than a minute with a Venus. No nicks.

Manscaped.com has an electric razor designed for the job. They are pretty discreet about it.

**Ivanba** · 03-21-22 17:18

Does anyone have experience using SA in Lima Peru? In particular the arrangement terms.

Thanks.

**Steve 9696** · 03-21-22 12:26

Originally Posted by GoingDumb [View Original Post]

Do you guys find your success on seeking ebbs and flows? I've only been on for a month but in the first 2 weeks I joined I got a lot of messages and replies and had 4 meet ups and 1 date. Last week I was out of town but I messaged girls before I got there. I only ended up meeting one but that turned into a same day encounter. Not sure what to call it LOL. I messaged other girls in the area I was visiting and my home area but didn't get any interest. I met up with one girl before I left but I think she might have found an arrangement already. It seems like most of the girls I'm seeing on SA I've seen before and either I wasn't interested or they didn't reply. It's starting to feel more like regular dating where I don't get much interest as a minority and I'm wondering if it's worth sticking out or if I'm wasting my time.

Can't really comment on the minority aspect. But def in a given city it stagnates, esp if smaller city. That said new girls pop on all the time. Not at a great rate but enough you can find something new. I'm my second tier city I have had 5 babies over the last two years and def made it work. And here I am two years later recently scoring Shayla who has already achieved top five girlfriends all time.

Maybe just lucky. But for me the constant scanning for new talent is worth it. Shayla only just recently magically appeared when she started commuting to my town to work. So you never know.

**The Cane** · 03-21-22 11:13

Originally Posted by Midwestern [View Original Post]

I mentioned this before, I use an electric razor for my cock. If I use a razor or a cream, then it itches and burns. A razor does not make it baby smooth, but it gets the job done for me.

No way am I taking any kind of razor to these nuts! Snagging hairs and shit! Nope, I use a creme the leaves the jewels baby smooth for months. Burns some and is uncomfortable for about a day, but worth it.

**Gfefan** · 03-21-22 10:43

I was there a month ago.

I found my best and she did not ask anything at all. I paid her 300 E for overnight. And, she told me next day that I paid her more. Very sweet girl and for her attitude, I don't mind paying that much.

On the other hand, there were some I dropped and did not meet. One asked for 500. Another asked for 200 for meet and greet. Obviously, I told them to fuck off.

Start about a week early. Pick those that seem nice, talk to them and take it from there.

Good luck.

Originally Posted by GuyPerson [View Original Post]

Visting Barcelona in May. Anybody able to shed light on what to expect in terms of ppm there?

I'd like to meet for lunch, possibly do some sight seeing then go back to her place (or maybe a short stay hotel, I'm staying at an Airbnb w / a no guest policy).

Thanks.

**The Cane** · 03-21-22 10:21

Originally Posted by GoingDumb [View Original Post]

Do you guys find your success on seeking ebbs and flows? I've only been on for a month but in the first 2 weeks I joined I got a lot of messages and replies and had 4 meet ups and 1 date. Last week I was out of town but I messaged girls before I got there. I only ended up meeting one but that turned into a same day encounter. Not sure what to call it LOL. I messaged other girls in the area I was visiting and my home area but didn't get any interest. I met up with one girl before I left but I think she might have found an arrangement already. It seems like most of the girls I'm seeing on SA I've seen before and either I wasn't interested or they didn't reply. It's starting to feel more like regular dating where I don't get much interest as a minority and I'm wondering if it's worth sticking out or if I'm wasting my time.

That's been exactly my experience. I've been on the site about 2 1/2 months now, and I had my absolute greatest success within the first two weeks. After that, nothing has come close. In fact, I'm so sick and tired of Seeking that I can't wait for my membership to be over. Will address more in my third and final monthly report.

**GoingDumb** · 03-21-22 05:55

Do you guys find your success on seeking ebbs and flows? I've only been on for a month but in the first 2 weeks I joined I got a lot of messages and replies and had 4 meet ups and 1 date. Last week I was out of town but I messaged girls before I got there. I only ended up meeting one but that turned into a same day encounter. Not sure what to call it LOL. I messaged other girls in the area I was visiting and my home area but didn't get any interest. I met up with one girl before I left but I think she might have found an arrangement already. It seems like most of the girls I'm seeing on SA I've seen before and either I wasn't interested or they didn't reply. It's starting to feel more like regular dating where I don't get much interest as a minority and I'm wondering if it's worth sticking out or if I'm wasting my time.

**Midwestern** · 03-21-22 03:40

I mentioned this before, I use an electric razor for my cock. If I use a razor or a cream, then it itches and burns. A razor does not make it baby smooth, but it gets the job done for me.

**Steve 9696** · 03-21-22 02:45

Originally Posted by DownUnderMonger [View Original Post]

Use a hair removal cream, ie. Veet.

Put it on, wait 4 minutes (says 2 minutes but I wait 4) and just rub your hair off with a wet face cloth.

I used to shave, but this is a million times easier. If you haven't done it for a while / pretty hairy there, you might have to do it 2 days in a row, but it's perfect and no chances of cuts or anything.

I tried Neet not Veet and it burned the fuck out of the boys. Never again. It literally takes me less than a minute with a Venus. No nicks.

**Steve 9696** · 03-21-22 02:41

Originally Posted by Midwestern [View Original Post]

Epic advice and detailed instructions! But there's an elephant in the room. How to explain your sudden desire in having a bald eagle to the missus? I have told many old and married doods to shave their cock, because pros, mistresses, GFs, SBs, like a shaved cock. But they always respond, "but my wife will think it is weird that my cock is suddenly clean shaven. ".

Well it depends how often your wife is inspecting the boys? In my case never! Hahaha. So I only shave the boys. I don't shave the frontal hair. So it looks the same on the way to the shower. No concerns about inspecting the undercarriage in my world! LOL.

**DownUnderMonger** · 03-21-22 02:18

Use a hair removal cream, ie. Veet.

Put it on, wait 4 minutes (says 2 minutes but I wait 4) and just rub your hair off with a wet face cloth.

I used to shave, but this is a million times easier. If you haven't done it for a while / pretty hairy there, you might have to do it 2 days in a row, but it's perfect and no chances of cuts or anything.

Originally Posted by Steve9696 [View Original Post]

First things first. Anyone who says it doesn't matter has clearly never done it. It matters A LOT to the girls and honestly it improves the feel of BLS by about 2 X. Win win. But I thought it might help to share some about the mechanics and tips from the school of hard knocks (been doing about six months)

**GuyPerson** · 03-21-22 00:54

Visting Barcelona in May. Anybody able to shed light on what to expect in terms of ppm there?

I'd like to meet for lunch, possibly do some sight seeing then go back to her place (or maybe a short stay hotel, I'm staying at an Airbnb w / a no guest policy).

Thanks.