Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

**HituMonger** · 04-13-23 04:42

Originally Posted by Phil50 [View Original Post]

There are legal implications in repeating the story. However my learning from incident and discussing with lawyer:

In all such cases, cops are required to investigate a complaint and the law generally favors a woman, over a man double her age. If the cops feel the complaint has merit, they file a FIR. This did not happen in my case and the complaint was dismissed, (cops are experienced enough to figure out it was attempted blackmail), but it still required a lawyer and was a traumatic experience.

Thanks for sharing. One lesson is never get girl to your place or go to her place. Same thing happened with Srilankan player and got embroiled in rape charge. One thing with whatsapp, never take chat backup. That way chat can be retrieved even if deleted from phone.

**DevSagar** · 04-13-23 04:41

I have my own corporate account with OLA. Book a cab for my chicks, regulars or non regulars. I share OTP, they just have to hop in the cab at their pick up location to come and meet me. It gives me an added advantage of tracking the car and leave my home at my convenience. Since, I am an independent entrepreneur and am answerable to myself, this expense is covered under my travelling head. Ola, I pay once a month.

Uber, too I have and realized is cheaper than OLA but their credit system doesn't suit me and is a hassle.

Hope this helps everyone.

Regards.

**Vish23** · 04-13-23 02:20

Originally Posted by KevinSmith [View Original Post]

Sorry, I am a newbie here, What do you mean by GPS?

GPS. Golden Pussy Syndrome. Few girls will behave like their kitty is gold and will put so many restrictions. You will get bad experience and pay high prices.

Similarly there are DPS (Diamond) and PPS (Platinum).

You can figure out some from their writeup in profiles and the way they chat.

GlucoseDelight · 04-12-23 20:44

Any one got experience with this girl? Looks like a new profile.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...9-93e2e0fb53df

**KevinSmith** · 04-12-23 17:45

Originally Posted by Veejay123 [View Original Post]

Ash wants 90 k PPM.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...3-8826aa852581

This gives me confidence to ask my boss for a 90% raise next time. Thanks girl!

Sorry, I am a newbie here, What do you mean by GPS?

**Christmas Tre** · 04-12-23 16:13

Thank you for sharing this with us Phil. It is important that everyone knows that there are bad days too.

This is a stark reminder that such things can happen to the best of us. After mongering 15 odd years I am always wary about the scam and am sure as I continue to monger, I will be scammed occasionally.

These girls spend their entire day working on how to scam. They absolutely know where our soft spots are and hit home.

Time and again, we lay down the rules and we break them. In my last report, I posted about this girl who claimed to be a model from punjab but was actually a mother. I couldn't figure out the belly because she wore something loose to cover it. She asked for the money up front. Its something I don't do but here she was in my room and on that occasion I could not think of a post partum belly as my downfall.

There have been times when my brain has worked instead of my dick. I have booked the hotel and then the girl will start her demands thinking I won't cancel now. But I have gone ahead and done so and gotten another girl over. Recently, I almost got stuck with a GPS but called it off when I was halfway to her apartment to bang her at 10 pm in the night.

The red flags stated repeatedly in this forum are almost always true. I have used them with great precision and never had any regret. However, on occasion I have thought with my dick, ignored the red flag and have regretted it.

I wonder if we should create a 'SA Toolkit' listing these red flags based on all the scams we have faced on SA.

Originally Posted by Phil50 [View Original Post]

Folks, I've been on SA 9 years. I thought I could identify scams, but just fell for one. Its worth sharing as a reminder not to think with our dick and stick to rules.

She was on SA be'lore, ID = Dion (now de-activated). I can share her tg ID in a PM.
Joined on 8 Apr (she might change ID with the same joining date).
I can share her name and QR code in google pay, in a private mail.

We messaged, she ticked all the boxes. I look for educated people (full sentences that make sense with no grammar errors) for a long term relationship.

She was very pretty in pics (not escorty), which reminded me of a previous SB. I start any possible arrangement with a casual 'meet and greet' for which I only pay cab.
This weeds out most of the scammers and working girls. She agreed to the terms and I suggested a lunch meet in a 5 star, which she agreed.

**HighEndFella** · 04-12-23 13:13

Hi Everyone,

Any review / report on this MILF?

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...1-6ac21b2bafb5

She is asking 12 k for 2 ? And not going below that.

I love milfs. Please suggest.

Thanks in Advance.

**Lged821** · 04-12-23 11:48

I never ever pay for cab this way. Yes most SB's are genuine when they ask for cab fare but what I do is, I get them cab with advance fare with OLA postpaid.

I send them screenshot and tell them you don't need to pay cash.

Originally Posted by Phil50 [View Original Post]

Folks, I've been on SA 9 years. I thought I could identify scams, but just fell for one. Its worth sharing as a reminder not to think with our dick and stick to rules.

She was on SA be'lore, ID = Dion (now de-activated). I can share her tg ID in a PM.
Joined on 8 Apr (she might change ID with the same joining date).
I can share her name and QR code in google pay, in a private mail.

We messaged, she ticked all the boxes. I look for educated people (full sentences that make sense with no grammar errors) for a long term relationship.

She was very pretty in pics (not escorty), which reminded me of a previous SB. I start any possible arrangement with a casual 'meet and greet' for which I only pay cab.
This weeds out most of the scammers and working girls. She agreed to the terms and I suggested a lunch meet in a 5 star, which she agreed.

Just before the meet, she asks if I can help with cab fare, as I agreed. I said ok. I could have offered to pay when she arrived but did not want the hassle of walking to the cab.
She then asks if I can pay both ways (I had already been generous by adding more to what I thought was an inflated cab fare she gave me) - Red flag 1.

Red flag 2 - She asked if she could also have allowance for the meet. I said we had already agreed the terms and a lunch at the restaurant we were to eat, would probably cost more than an allowance she expected (which is why I don't expect to get scammed over cab fare).

She said ok. I sent Rs 1000 on gpay, she disappeared and blocked.

A timely reminder to never ever pay advance, It never ends well.

I paid through a QR code (should have asked for a number). Her name on gpay is fairly unique. I can share in a PM. I believe she is the same person as a google search shows is working.

For a top MNC, but what do you tell them? As I said in my previous post, suggesting she is an escort can get you in serious trouble. In fact, she can say you are stalking her by sending cab fare and asking her to meet.

**Vish23** · 04-12-23 11:23

Originally Posted by Phil50 [View Original Post]

Folks, I've been on SA 9 years. I thought I could identify scams, but just fell for one. Its worth sharing as a reminder not to think with our dick and stick to rules.

She was on SA be'lore, ID = Dion (now de-activated). I can share her tg ID in a PM.
Joined on 8 Apr (she might change ID with the same joining date).
I can share her name and QR code in google pay, in a private mail.

We messaged, she ticked all the boxes. I look for educated people (full sentences that make sense with no grammar errors) for a long term relationship.

She was very pretty in pics (not escorty), which reminded me of a previous SB. I start any possible arrangement with a casual 'meet and greet' for which I only pay cab.
This weeds out most of the scammers and working girls. She agreed to the terms and I suggested a lunch meet in a 5 star, which she agreed.

Just before the meet, she asks if I can help with cab fare, as I agreed. I said ok. I could have offered to pay when she arrived but did not want the hassle of walking to the cab.
She then asks if I can pay both ways (I had already been generous by adding more to what I thought was an inflated cab fare she gave me) - Red flag 1.

Red flag 2 - She asked if she could also have allowance for the meet. I said we had already agreed the terms and a lunch at the restaurant we were to eat, would probably cost more than an allowance she expected (which is why I don't expect to get scammed over cab fare).

She said ok. I sent Rs 1000 on gpay, she disappeared and blocked.

A timely reminder to never ever pay advance, It never ends well.

I paid through a QR code (should have asked for a number). Her name on gpay is fairly unique. I can share in a PM. I believe she is the same person as a google search shows is working.

For a top MNC, but what do you tell them? As I said in my previous post, suggesting she is an escort can get you in serious trouble. In fact, she can say you are stalking her by sending cab fare and asking her to meet.

Sorry about the experience bro. Golden rule in Mongering. Never ever pay in advance and pay only after the deed is done. I learned this lesson after losing almost $1500 on different occasions.

**Phil50** · 04-12-23 10:57

Folks, I've been on SA 9 years. I thought I could identify scams, but just fell for one. Its worth sharing as a reminder not to think with our dick and stick to rules.

She was on SA be'lore, ID = Dion (now de-activated). I can share her tg ID in a PM.
Joined on 8 Apr (she might change ID with the same joining date).
I can share her name and QR code in google pay, in a private mail.

We messaged, she ticked all the boxes. I look for educated people (full sentences that make sense with no grammar errors) for a long term relationship.

She was very pretty in pics (not escorty), which reminded me of a previous SB. I start any possible arrangement with a casual 'meet and greet' for which I only pay cab.
This weeds out most of the scammers and working girls. She agreed to the terms and I suggested a lunch meet in a 5 star, which she agreed.

Just before the meet, she asks if I can help with cab fare, as I agreed. I said ok. I could have offered to pay when she arrived but did not want the hassle of walking to the cab.
She then asks if I can pay both ways (I had already been generous by adding more to what I thought was an inflated cab fare she gave me) - Red flag 1.

Red flag 2 - She asked if she could also have allowance for the meet. I said we had already agreed the terms and a lunch at the restaurant we were to eat, would probably cost more than an allowance she expected (which is why I don't expect to get scammed over cab fare).

She said ok. I sent Rs 1000 on gpay, she disappeared and blocked.

A timely reminder to never ever pay advance, It never ends well.

I paid through a QR code (should have asked for a number). Her name on gpay is fairly unique. I can share in a PM. I believe she is the same person as a google search shows is working.

For a top MNC, but what do you tell them? As I said in my previous post, suggesting she is an escort can get you in serious trouble. In fact, she can say you are stalking her by sending cab fare and asking her to meet.

**Phil50** · 04-12-23 10:27

Originally Posted by HituMonger [View Original Post]

Filing false police complain by SA girl is really scary. If you don't mind can you share what happened? Would be a learning experience for all of us.

There are legal implications in repeating the story. However my learning from incident and discussing with lawyer:

1. This was before the TG era, so any chat can be traced to you on whatsapp.

2. If there's any offer of help with job etc and she has visited your home, it can be alleged you raped / took advantage of her, in breach of trust.

3. A complaint of stalking can be made even on the basis of calls, or messages saying 'why aren't we meeting " or waiting outside her home to pick her up etc.

4. If for e.g you slap a woman (even if you are hit first) or call her an escort etc, you can be charged with outraging the modesty of a woman.

In all such cases, cops are required to investigate a complaint and the law generally favors a woman, over a man double her age. If the cops feel the complaint has merit, they file a FIR. This did not happen in my case and the complaint was dismissed, (cops are experienced enough to figure out it was attempted blackmail), but it still required a lawyer and was a traumatic experience.

**Oscar1990** · 04-12-23 07:02

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**HituMonger** · 04-12-23 06:42

Originally Posted by Phil50 [View Original Post]

Why she is doing it, or her husband's personality, is speculation and not relevant. What is important are the facts, that the poster is warning us about.

I had a false complaint filed against me by a SA girl. As per law, cops are compelled to investigate. I had to use a lawyer to handle my interview at the police station and there was needless embarrassment. I am still on SA and wiser from the experience, the learning from which I wanted to share.

Filing false police complain by SA girl is really scary. If you don't mind can you share what happened? Would be a learning experience for all of us.

**Phil50** · 04-12-23 06:14

Originally Posted by Aarun21 [View Original Post]

I always used to wonder if this can be a possibility given the money minded girls these are. Now I know it's a reality. Thanks a lot for enlightening us. Would you mind to share more details like city of experience and the cues to know the girl so that rest of us can avoid her.

Rgrds,

Aarun.

This was in Bangalore. The girl is no longer on SA.

Some possible red flags are girls insisting to chat on whatsapp only & unrealistically low prices, or hosting only at their place.

**Lged821** · 04-12-23 04:31

My axis bank card (I have flipkart axis card) works nicely. Never had an issue. Amex doesn't work for some reason.

Originally Posted by Geek40 [View Original Post]

Hi All, I am not able to upgrade my SA profile to premium because none of the cards issued in India are going through. This is because the website didn't adheres to the latest guidelines from RBI. This has been confirmed by Bank and also received an SMS mentioning the same as reason for the transaction getting declined. Was wondering how are you guys able to make the payment. Would like help on getting this issue resolved.