Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[Rahul Blr]

Has anyone met with Gonegirl.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...1e?metric=true

Quoting initial short term 10-20 k.

[FunToosh6045]

I think the OPs post was not about her being late. It was a deliberate scam to get 3 k, as a previous poster also mentioned re: Kolkata girls.

I agree time management is a huge problem and I cut girls some slack in our first few meets, though in this case I would have cancelled. I have learnt to do the following:

- I ask her to share her location once she leaves and I only leave after that. Once she leaves, let her share the ETA.
- I let her know that if she hasn't left (no shared loc) by the time we are supposed to meet, the meet is off. If she is going to arrive more than 30 minutes after her ETA, its cancelled.
- I agree to pay cab after the meet (or on arrival) and if I have to cancel because she's late, I won't.

Our time is a lot more important than theirs. If I am paying a large sum to a girl for a meet and we agree on the time, I would expect her to respect my time, particularly when she's not
pulled out of work. Quite often, this late coming is part of her sense of entitlement or mind games and that has never helped in any longer term relationship. Would we tolerate serious and repeated late coming with service providers, in our professional lives ?

Yes it is scam that she tried to pull on me.

-I let her choose time and location. She deliberately chose 9 pm and came late almost an hour later but I believe she just tried to buy time at the deadline I set. Last order at restaurant in next 30 minutes and she knew any person would be pissed so they might just pay and postpone the dinner for some other day. Better to have food at home than a restaurant which is about to close in 30 minutes.

-The location was also selected by her. She claims she stays far away from that mall. Distance between her stay and mall to put into context of blore is electronic city and kempegowda airport, in delhis context it is between airport to greater noida. So again that's a smart con job.

-She claims no cab service in her stay area so she books some known brother who has cab to take around her to places. Other student of her college supposedly do same statement made by her only. I believe if we ended up in that dinner I might be monitored by that personal cabbie aka pimp.

- I asked her too that she shares selfie when she about to start. She didn't. Later at the night after I reached home she told she sent pic, I said no you didn't, after few back and forth she told she mistakenly sent the pic to some other potential suitor and shared me tg chat of that.

-Later she admitted she met other person before meeting me and she thought I won't show up as it was raining. Quite contradictory though. SO when I reached mall and pinged her that's when she started for me. She might have thought of me as an instant ATM at 10 pm night.

-She tried mending ways with me. But all time she hinted to compensate and told how much trouble she endured to try meet me that night. Also sent that cabbie cum pimp; s upi ID. BTW she asked 10 k plus cab charges for that nights trouble. I did little bit simping to bring out her true colours.

-Other mongers also said she tried to meet far away places from her stay and only at dinner.

Conclusion is she maybe doing MBBS though she doesn't know difference between master of science and master of surgery but she did her schooling from Nigeria school of conning that I am fully sure.

Stay awake stay vigilante.

[Shine6]

Hi Fellas,

How are you.

I need help in SA. I am premium member and recently purchased membership however I am not able to see any online members. In Bangalore there are 76 profiles however hardly 2-3 profiles were recently online. Is there any settings to be changed to look at profiles and to have chat with birds? Anyone can help me with this?

Thanks.

Shine.

[MayanKanand]

I think the OPs post was not about her being late. It was a deliberate scam to get 3 k, as a previous poster also mentioned re: Kolkata girls.

I agree time management is a huge problem and I cut girls some slack in our first few meets, though in this case I would have cancelled. I have learnt to do the following:

- I ask her to share her location once she leaves and I only leave after that. Once she leaves, let her share the ETA.
- I let her know that if she hasn't left (no shared loc) by the time we are supposed to meet, the meet is off. If she is going to arrive more than 30 minutes after her ETA, its cancelled.
- I agree to pay cab after the meet (or on arrival) and if I have to cancel because she's late, I won't.

Our time is a lot more important than theirs. If I am paying a large sum to a girl for a meet and we agree on the time, I would expect her to respect my time, particularly when she's not
pulled out of work. Quite often, this late coming is part of her sense of entitlement or mind games and that has never helped in any longer term relationship. Would we tolerate serious and repeated late coming with service providers, in our professional lives ?

As you rightly said, many feel entitled and behave as if they are the only available game. I make it very clear that if she is late beyond 30-40 minutes, I will leave and not wait. It is silly to hang around a restaurant or mall when we know that they haven't even started.

[RipVanTinkle]

My apologies, here is the link:

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...d-4cd69c85b242

I recently posted my feedback in the Delhi forum. Post no 104576.

Genuine, and quite nice to be with.

[MySecretLife]

She ghosted me on the day of meet up.

We had an audio call and she prefers meeting for a coffee first. Has anyone met her? Does she resemble her picture on SA? I would appreciate more info. Thanks.

[Phil50]

These girls are very lousy in time management. I suggest having patience. In my opinion you can't do mongering if you loose patience. Many times, say we agreed on meeting at 1 pm, and if you ping the girl at 1 pm, it will be shock to know that she just started. But I found some gems and in next meetings they are on time. Don't make Time sole criteria for coming to any conclusion.

I think the OPs post was not about her being late. It was a deliberate scam to get 3 k, as a previous poster also mentioned re: Kolkata girls.

I agree time management is a huge problem and I cut girls some slack in our first few meets, though in this case I would have cancelled. I have learnt to do the following:

- I ask her to share her location once she leaves and I only leave after that. Once she leaves, let her share the ETA.
- I let her know that if she hasn't left (no shared loc) by the time we are supposed to meet, the meet is off. If she is going to arrive more than 30 minutes after her ETA, its cancelled.
- I agree to pay cab after the meet (or on arrival) and if I have to cancel because she's late, I won't.

Our time is a lot more important than theirs. If I am paying a large sum to a girl for a meet and we agree on the time, I would expect her to respect my time, particularly when she's not
pulled out of work. Quite often, this late coming is part of her sense of entitlement or mind games and that has never helped in any longer term relationship. Would we tolerate serious and repeated late coming with service providers, in our professional lives ?

[HituMonger]

Guys, Sunday I had a very bad experience with a Girl from seeking. Profile name Monnlight and she introduced herself as Manvi over call.

So we were talking for few days and decided to meet. Being cautious about the honesty of the girls from seeking I did not schedule anything till Saturday. She claimed she is studying mbbs and lonely these days as all her friends in college are supposedly fucking each other. She is tired of the advances of boys in college especially from the seniors. I had no interest but I listened all this communications
So my conclusion be a vigilant and save your conveyance money on such girls. But she got phat ass. So if you want to see a phat ass and get duped for 3 k pm me for her tg or else focus on other chicks.

These girls are very lousy in time management. I suggest having patience. In my opinion you can't do mongering if you loose patience. Many times, say we agreed on meeting at 1 pm, and if you ping the girl at 1 pm, it will be shock to know that she just started. But I found some gems and in next meetings they are on time. Don't make Time sole criteria for coming to any conclusion.

[Intercourser]

Are all requests for virtual arrangement before an actual real meet scams? A girl on SA informed me that she's first interested in a virtual arrangement before she is comfortable enough to meet someone new. Quoted 7-9 k and this allowance includes a week of cam sessions and then I'll have to meet at a place chosen by her. If she's comfortable, then the intimacy can happen without any cost.

The profile has a bluetick and the girl is in her early 20's and looks pretty lean and fit. She said the payment can be done via paytm.

Obviously I don't want to do an online transfer but dick may take over as I've already installed the app. I normally use gpay and phonepe.

Should I be concerned about anything? Please advice.

[OldMonger123]

Guys, Sunday I had a very bad experience with a Girl from seeking. Profile name Monnlight and she introduced herself as Manvi over call.

So we were talking for few days and decided to meet. Being cautious about the honesty of the girls from seeking I did not schedule anything till Saturday. She claimed she is studying mbbs and lonely these days as all her friends in college are supposedly fucking each other. She is tired of the advances of boys in college especially from the seniors. I had no interest but I listened all this communications earlier from her. She told she got dumped by boyfriends two time and cursed them. So this all helped me to judge her behavior. I hinted her that we could meet Sunday few days back. So she herself pinged me on Sunday and enquired if I want to meet or not. As this is Sunday itself so I thought she couldn't flake on me. I know these breed of girls so I let her choose the place and the time as well. She chose a mall in south kolkata and chose the time herself which is at 9 pm. She told me she lives far off and when she selected 9 pm I was skeptical but she was pinging all time so I said yes.

Now I reached place at 9 and roaming around alone. I pinged her at 9. 15 where is she. She told she is about to reach. But the wait was getting longer. Suddenly at 9. 35 she pinged again and said her cab broke down so if I could come down to another mall. I said no I cannot and if she wants I can call it off and postpone to another day. She suddenly said no don't call off. She is coming. Though the distance is at least of 20 minutes but she still told me she would reach in next 10 minutes. I said I would wait till 9 50 and if you don't reach I will be out. Now this smart ass started pinging at 9. 48 and told she about to reach and in less than a minute she pinged again and told she can not see me. Watch ticked off at 9. 50. I left the place. I started for my home. She kept on pinging and saying where are you..

I also faced same issue in Hyderabad. Met a girl in dating app and she was ready to meet. With the ease she agreed, had 6th sense indicating that this is common occurrence but delusional thought it's a good way to have good food and leave. When she asked for another mall I went but auto guys etc know all this drama. I refused to pay cab charges but paid for food she ordered in subway. Last she took the food which I ordered my self. Total loss was 2 k but good lesson learned.

[Stallion 2007]

I did her in 2020. She had an SA profile in Delhi that time. Her real name is Priya. I never bothered to check her PhD being real. She was quite good and submissive in the deed. I paid her 10 K for a couple of hours in the day. She wasn't a time watcher and was respectful and soft spoken. But this was way back almost 3 years ago. You might want to refer to a more recent feedback about her just to ensure that the experience hasn't gone down with time. If possible, try to keep the allowance in line with what I spent as quoted above. Do share your feedback about her here if you end up meeting her.

My apologies, here is the link:

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...d-4cd69c85b242

[Intercourser]

She is refusing to share her picture or do a video call. She wants a coffee meet first and then is ready for boom boom. She doesn't seem to be money minded and is more worried about privacy. Not sure if it's the privacy or she's not confident to share as she may not be attractive at all. Looks like her kpi is coverting leads to coffee dates. Any advice?

How much she quotes. Her profile was empty so didn't message. However she messaged me. I usually skip anyone who messages me first. Might miss few good ones but helps to filter scammers, sps.

[FunToosh6045]

Guys, Sunday I had a very bad experience with a Girl from seeking. Profile name Monnlight and she introduced herself as Manvi over call.

So we were talking for few days and decided to meet. Being cautious about the honesty of the girls from seeking I did not schedule anything till Saturday. She claimed she is studying mbbs and lonely these days as all her friends in college are supposedly fucking each other. She is tired of the advances of boys in college especially from the seniors. I had no interest but I listened all this communications earlier from her. She told she got dumped by boyfriends two time and cursed them. So this all helped me to judge her behavior. I hinted her that we could meet Sunday few days back. So she herself pinged me on Sunday and enquired if I want to meet or not. As this is Sunday itself so I thought she couldn't flake on me. I know these breed of girls so I let her choose the place and the time as well. She chose a mall in south kolkata and chose the time herself which is at 9 pm. She told me she lives far off and when she selected 9 pm I was skeptical but she was pinging all time so I said yes.

Now I reached place at 9 and roaming around alone. I pinged her at 9. 15 where is she. She told she is about to reach. But the wait was getting longer. Suddenly at 9. 35 she pinged again and said her cab broke down so if I could come down to another mall. I said no I cannot and if she wants I can call it off and postpone to another day. She suddenly said no don't call off. She is coming. Though the distance is at least of 20 minutes but she still told me she would reach in next 10 minutes. I said I would wait till 9 50 and if you don't reach I will be out. Now this smart ass started pinging at 9. 48 and told she about to reach and in less than a minute she pinged again and told she can not see me. Watch ticked off at 9. 50. I left the place. I started for my home. She kept on pinging and saying where are you. I can't see you. Blah blah. I said I left because its 9. 50. We agreed on her cab aka conveyance fee at 3 k at the time of scheduling our meet. So here comes the drama. As I left she pinged me she short on cash. And she expects the conveyance money because she showed up. She is not ready to consider the fact that she is late. Her logic is she came so I have to go back and pay her the fees. All the time she only said the words like disappoint, short on cash, need to pay the cabbie etc etc. Not for a second she cared about my humiliation standing at the front of a restaurant waiting for her. She didn't even ask if I was okay or not. She said sorry but those are soul less because she asked for money the second line saying sorry. I told her go home and acknowledge when reach home.

All the time she vented out on me. Later she claimed she reached home and continuously pinging. I called her and told my stand and she hinted that if I could g pay her. She must be dreaming. She tried asking me if I had dinner. I asked her back and she tried to win sympathy for me by saying no, and no food left at pg. All this hints boils down to gpay her money but I could nt care less. I called off the call.

My observation about maanvi.

She tells in beginning she not into ppm and she is only into LT so she wants to meet first and by doing it she upcharges a lot of taxi fare. So I think she only meets and collects money and leave.

She tired to buy time at the last minute by saying she reached and couldn't see me and I didn't submitted on that. Restaurant manager told me they going to close down in an hour and last order at 10.30 so no point waiting more and I left. I really don't know how she thought she can collect 3 k from me for less than hour and that too just to watch her at that last hours of night.

She must be meeting someone else earlier and she thought she could duo with me. But she got late from there and she couldn't collect money from me. This is my presumption but my sixth sense generally don't lie.

Before leaving her home, I asked her to send me a selfie so I can identify her because these girls send only photoshopped pic in beginning. It is helpful for me. She didn't send that and when we talked at after I reached home, I asked why she didn't send me, she simply said she did. I said no you didn't then after few back and forth she checked her phone and said oh sorry I sent the selfie to someone else and she sent me the screenshot of tg prompt with another potential prey of hers which is not cool. This proves she was drunk too.

She started all good n8, good morning stuff, I kept her on seen and till now she trying to mend ways with me and pinging that next time she would meet early blah. Blah. I couldn't care less now.

So my conclusion be a vigilant and save your conveyance money on such girls. But she got phat ass. So if you want to see a phat ass and get duped for 3 k pm me for her tg or else focus on other chicks.

[Laj505]

Chicbae is not a looker and not from Bengal. Asked for 10 K for short meet.

One of the girl was discussed before and she has a line in her profile that "Most likely you can not afford me" so never connected with her.

All true. If I remember her name is anya. She is def not a looker. Quite dusky and ultra thin. Works as an eye technician. But she is little distant during texting. If you ping her probably she would reply the same 3 lines everytime. Avg experinece all together.

[Laj505]

My apologies, here is the link:

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...d-4cd69c85b242

She is malaylee and maybe from a coastal place there. She is really doing phd perhaps submitted thesis by now. She is very dusky. If you have don't have any problem on body colour, then go for it. She will show you a very good time. Her fine physic curves still makes me remember her. BTW she has MR profile though.