Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[MBrando]

I agree with you in toto, this is the right strategy and works for me too. Anyone who hints at platonic or virtual should be eliminated. Most often I don't pay for casual dates unless I am really keen to meet the girl and the amount is reasonable and not the kind of amount one would pay for private meets. For eg anyone asking for 10 k is out, and something up to 5 k is reasonable as long as you have verified the girl and not in advance. There are few girls who won't say platonic but will keep leading you on with small small request for money or gift and keep meeting you for coffe meal drinks and squeeze a considerable amount from you without getting into a private meet. So be careful.

I agree with you. Let me clarify, that I turn down most people who want platonic. If I do agree, the first meet is not compensated. That weeds out those who look for only transactional and want to be paid to show up for coffee.

I seek common interests and need to feel an emotional connection (apart from being sexually attracted). Typically someone well educated and able to chat with me on a variety of topics.
There is some kissing / touching / PDA on our dates, at the platonic stage. If she does not want that I'm not interested. Not wanting to be seen with me in public is also a deal breaker.
If her body language shows she's not into me, I end it.

I'd like someone who wants something from me other than money (like job or internship leads, or help with admission etc).
Money is a necessary but not sufficient condition, but I look at what I pay as pocket money for her time. I'm not going to bid for her or negotiate a price.

[MBrando]

Better to share this one on one. We don't want them changing the code.

I have used the following codes multiple times:

VWO33RBELT1.

BFCM2022V33.

Please try and let us know if they work for you.

[MBrando]

Glee den is very very low negligible compared to SA.

No (I have tried). Tinder may offer better value for money, if you make it clear in your profile that you compensate them.

[Phil50]

Is Gleeden has same success rate like SA?

No (I have tried). Tinder may offer better value for money, if you make it clear in your profile that you compensate them.

[Davi0202]

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...3-4e4673aa379f

Asking 1. 5 lac for couple of hours.

[Davi0202]

I have used the following codes multiple times:

VWO33RBELT1.

BFCM2022V33.

Please try and let us know if they work for you.

Thanks mate tried the first one and it worked. Appreciate the help.

[NewbExcited]

Nataasha - https://members.seeking.com/member/2...2-079fdd759764.

Claims to be a final year medical student, who was born in the US and studying here. Asked for 75 K / meet.

[TheBigSchlong]

Anyone got a seeking promo code and can share would be great. Thanks.

I have used the following codes multiple times:

VWO33RBELT1.

BFCM2022V33.

Please try and let us know if they work for you.

[Kaling23]

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...d-a923fae21f20

She is basically everything wrong with Bangalore.

Long timer. Looks so ugly. Very short and dark in complexion. Heavily edited photos. Very prompt to reply to messages. Well, that's the only thing about her. Asks 30 k LOL.

I contacted her last year and again now, now knowing it was the same person. Also, the attitude. Seriously, with that looks hoe better ask 3 k.

[Davi0202]

Anyone got a seeking promo code and can share would be great. Thanks.

[Phil50]

I agree with your point but this case seems different.

Starting with casual hangouts and slowly progressing towards intimacy seems reasonable. However, investing 40-50 k in 5-6 dates with no physical interaction, not even kissing or hugging & its just for her company without any emotional or physical connection, is difficult to justify. Spending that much to build comfor & then only to realize it's all about her luxury lifestyle, doesn't feel right. I'd prefer to use that money to help those who are in genuine need or donate to orphanage than entertaining her luxurious lifestyle LOL & anyway I think she is just trying to find if there is really someone who can give her 40-50 k in a month for platonic arrangements.

It's not like she possesses some divine knowledge of human existence in an infinite universe. If she did, I'd be ready to give my entire wealth to her, haha!

I agree with you. Let me clarify, that I turn down most people who want platonic. If I do agree, the first meet is not compensated. That weeds out those who look for only transactional and want to be paid to show up for coffee.

I seek common interests and need to feel an emotional connection (apart from being sexually attracted). Typically someone well educated and able to chat with me on a variety of topics.
There is some kissing / touching / PDA on our dates, at the platonic stage. If she does not want that I'm not interested. Not wanting to be seen with me in public is also a deal breaker.
If her body language shows she's not into me, I end it.

I'd like someone who wants something from me other than money (like job or internship leads, or help with admission etc).
Money is a necessary but not sufficient condition, but I look at what I pay as pocket money for her time. I'm not going to bid for her or negotiate a price.

[Phil50]

A BLR profile by name LocoLucyHaha asked me 10 k for lunch / dinner date. Straight up told her I'm not interested. Pity because she was fun to talk to.

In such cases I tell them I start with an unpaid meet & greet over lunch / dinner. If I'm looking to pay several lacs over the long term, then there should be no harm in agreeing. We are both.

Investing our time in this (like a job interview). If they insist on being paid, then they are no different from an escort who is only transactional.

You can get to meet her for free and then take a call. Quite often they agree.

[MmongerMonk]

Is Gleeden has same success rate like SA?

[Flash2]

She can quote whatever figure she likes, I don't believe anyone pays that.

I have posted before that I do pay for platonic (6 k), but with a lot of caveats. If she is gorgeous, we bond over food & drink, we have things in common so the conversation flows.
I get envious looks because of my hot GF (not someone who looks like a working girl, or out of place) and there's a reasonable expectation that it gets intimate after a few dates. She's fine being seen with me in public and some PDA. Not in it for the money, or seeing multiple people, but likes the experiences I provide and perhaps help with career etc. Few on SA who say 'pay me for coffee' would qualify.

I agree with your point but this case seems different.

Starting with casual hangouts and slowly progressing towards intimacy seems reasonable. However, investing 40-50 k in 5-6 dates with no physical interaction, not even kissing or hugging & its just for her company without any emotional or physical connection, is difficult to justify. Spending that much to build comfor & then only to realize it's all about her luxury lifestyle, doesn't feel right. I'd prefer to use that money to help those who are in genuine need or donate to orphanage than entertaining her luxurious lifestyle LOL & anyway I think she is just trying to find if there is really someone who can give her 40-50 k in a month for platonic arrangements.

It's not like she possesses some divine knowledge of human existence in an infinite universe. If she did, I'd be ready to give my entire wealth to her, haha!

[Phil50]

"She has been on SA for more than 2 years, and she says, 'I don't trade my body; instead, I trade my time to be with you,' and charges around 8-10 k per date. These dates basically include dinner, lunch, or movie outings, etc. It's not like at the start it will be platonic; once she gets comfortable with you, she can get intimate.

Which kind of desperate guys pay her 8-10 k just to hang out with her? Considering she has been on SA for 2 years, there must be a few who do this. If hanging out was the only goal, I would go out with my female friends instead. ". Alag level ka business hai!

She can quote whatever figure she likes, I don't believe anyone pays that.

I have posted before that I do pay for platonic (6 k), but with a lot of caveats. If she is gorgeous, we bond over food & drink, we have things in common so the conversation flows.
I get envious looks because of my hot GF (not someone who looks like a working girl, or out of place) and there's a reasonable expectation that it gets intimate after a few dates. She's fine being seen with me in public and some PDA. Not in it for the money, or seeing multiple people, but likes the experiences I provide and perhaps help with career etc. Few on SA who say 'pay me for coffee' would qualify.