Sexual Addiction

[XXL]

Not very helpful to call it an addiction when there is zero damage to your health. Ok, you might say there's damage to your life as a whole if you waste too much time and energy (money) on it. But this is stretching it a bit. Note that there's such a thing as Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA) but it encompasses addiction to porn. Also, a woman who gets laid every day whenever she wants is in a much different situation compared to a man whose sole alternative is to wank to porn. If you're interested in female sex addiction, there's 3 books I can recommend:

Amy Dresner's "My Fair Junkie". It's 80% a book about addiction to alcohol and drugs and 20% a book about sex addiction. She is a real writer. No ghostwriting here.

Erica Garza's "Getting off". Co-written but still interesting.

Tera Patrick's "Sinner takes all". Co-written but still interesting. Tera regrets not being legally allowed to do sex in porn like she liked in private, ie rough play with choking.

I have serious urge to watch porn when alone and believe this is messing my sex life. Any tips to let go of this urge?

Wait until you have the urge to both watch porn AND do lines at the same time. There's a hell of an addiction !

[KCK12]

It's like being an alcoholic, you can only be addicted to alcohol if there's plenty of supply, and depending on where you live, there's always alcohol around. So how can anyone be addicted to sex if there's almost none to be had? Well, welcome to my life. I'm ugly as sin, and I have zero game, so there's no picking up girls in bars. And dating is basically impossible because I'm too ugly.

That leaves me with only one option and that's prostitutes, escorts, etc. But where I live now it's just too damn expensive. And also my dick is tiny and doesn't work very often so I need viagra type assistance which I can't get here without prescription.

The hookers and escorts here cost a fortune, and even the somewhat affordable ones aren't very good. I need more time than just a wham bang, thank you maam situation. That leaves me with just one choice and it's to travel for sex. I have to fly far away to places like Thailand just to get value for money, and some decent sex.

Can you imagine how much money it costs to just travel for sex? I wish I could say I was a sex addict, that would mean I'm somehow getting laid every single day, twice or 3 times a day. I'd count myself lucky if I got laid a coupla times a year. Sex addict? That's a nice problem to actually have.

Ufff I can imagine that working girls there cost a shit ton, and obviously why pay to fuck a an ugly ass woman. Not all seem hopeless you can try to pick women in touristy spots or try to get a sugar relationship which really is like modern dating more honest. Also why not you come down to South America, try to find countries where there are relatively close and not really expensive. Cuba is a good one but it might not be your fancy stuff. Colombia too, or even Costa Rica.

[SevenSpirals]

A individuals who recognizes they have a problem is the first step to admitting personal responsibility. To test if I have addictions I stop doing the activity. If I can stop and start at will it is not an addiction.

I whole hardily and completely disagree!

Very true. Easiest way to understand one has a problem is to see whether one can live without it or not.

[SubCmdr]

A individuals who recognizes they have a problem is the first step to admitting personal responsibility. To test if I have addictions I stop doing the activity. If I can stop and start at will it is not an addiction.

I agree. Saying you have a "sex addiction" is like saying you have a "food addiction". We all have these natural urges, some guys pig out (albeit sex, food, etc.) to the point where it affects health, money, and relationships negatively. Then instead of admitting personal responsibility, they claim to have an "addiction".

I whole hardily and completely disagree!

[Dash Riprock]

You are playing with words. I don't know if sex addiction is a real thing or not, but people can be obsessed with sex even if they are not getting any. And people that will spend thousands of dollars to travel half way around the world for sex might also qualify. Maybe everyone on this forum is a sex addict. If I think of some of the criteria for alcohol addiction most here would be.

It's real for me. I think I have it under control somewhat but if I look at myself from the outside, the act itself is kind of like having a cigarette or a beer after work, just something to do. Some pleasure but def muted than before. I know that getting it on with someone half my age, fit as heck, etc, and in endless variety with about 15-20 encounters a month should be more exciting but it's not.

[Zeos1]

It's like being an alcoholic, you can only be addicted to alcohol if there's plenty of supply, and depending on where you live, there's always alcohol around. So how can anyone be addicted to sex if there's almost none to be had? Well, welcome to my life. I'm ugly as sin, and I have zero game, so there's no picking up girls in bars. And dating is basically impossible because I'm too ugly.

That leaves me with only one option and that's prostitutes, escorts, etc. But where I live now it's just too damn expensive. And also my dick is tiny and doesn't work very often so I need viagra type assistance which I can't get here without prescription.

The hookers and escorts here cost a fortune, and even the somewhat affordable ones aren't very good. I need more time than just a wham bang, thank you maam situation. That leaves me with just one choice and it's to travel for sex. I have to fly far away to places like Thailand just to get value for money, and some decent sex.

Can you imagine how much money it costs to just travel for sex? I wish I could say I was a sex addict, that would mean I'm somehow getting laid every single day, twice or 3 times a day. I'd count myself lucky if I got laid a coupla times a year. Sex addict? That's a nice problem to actually have.

You are playing with words. I don't know if sex addiction is a real thing or not, but people can be obsessed with sex even if they are not getting any. And people that will spend thousands of dollars to travel half way around the world for sex might also qualify. Maybe everyone on this forum is a sex addict. If I think of some of the criteria for alcohol addiction most here would be.

[Newton York]

It's like being an alcoholic, you can only be addicted to alcohol if there's plenty of supply, and depending on where you live, there's always alcohol around. So how can anyone be addicted to sex if there's almost none to be had? Well, welcome to my life. I'm ugly as sin, and I have zero game, so there's no picking up girls in bars. And dating is basically impossible because I'm too ugly.

That leaves me with only one option and that's prostitutes, escorts, etc. But where I live now it's just too damn expensive. And also my dick is tiny and doesn't work very often so I need viagra type assistance which I can't get here without prescription.

The hookers and escorts here cost a fortune, and even the somewhat affordable ones aren't very good. I need more time than just a wham bang, thank you maam situation. That leaves me with just one choice and it's to travel for sex. I have to fly far away to places like Thailand just to get value for money, and some decent sex.

Can you imagine how much money it costs to just travel for sex? I wish I could say I was a sex addict, that would mean I'm somehow getting laid every single day, twice or 3 times a day. I'd count myself lucky if I got laid a coupla times a year. Sex addict? That's a nice problem to actually have.

[Jdweeb]

I have serious urge to watch porn when alone and believe this is messing my sex life. Any tips to let go of this urge?

I used to skip work just to watch porn, better lately. But usually a daily thing.

[CrowExplorer]

I have been doing this since I was a teenager. I don't consider my mongering as an addiction. It is the way I procure my sexual needs that otherwise would not be met in the civilian world. (smile)

I agree. Saying you have a "sex addiction" is like saying you have a "food addiction". We all have these natural urges, some guys pig out (albeit sex, food, etc.) to the point where it affects health, money, and relationships negatively. Then instead of admitting personal responsibility, they claim to have an "addiction".

[OldSchool318]

Many say it causes issues, however working girls love it and even normal girls too. Many have their own private photos and vids right on their phone. Try sharing porn with open minded girls you meet, send them your favorite vids and don't send dick pics! At least until they ask.

Have had a great summer of trading vids and pics with local girls in my area and have made all of them my fuck*****s. I was friendly and patient but once I was able to establish they like the adult vids I have helped them with their x rated urges.

[ShawMumbai]

I have serious urge to watch porn when alone and believe this is messing my sex life. Any tips to let go of this urge?

Block porn sites on your wifi router, apps to block on phone. Take up some hobby that involves community meets, learn music, etc.

Just add something to your schedule that makes you less alone.

[BJtemp]

I have serious urge to watch porn when alone and believe this is messing my sex life. Any tips to let go of this urge?

Have a woman with you 24 x7?

[Alengeo90]

I have serious urge to watch porn when alone and believe this is messing my sex life. Any tips to let go of this urge?

[Super Dubai]

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[PedroMorales]

https://www.exberliner.com/features/...sisted-loving/

This is a good thread topic and some good posts. Considering the age profile of SEAsian expats, the above link should be of interest to them and others in old folks' homes or with terminal ailments. Having sex with such folk is a dirty job but someone has to do it. It is even in the Old Testament, an aging King David getting his rocks off with hookers a fifth of his age. Mind you, elsewhere, God tells Hosea to marry a hooker. This would suit some of the cuckolds here.

I guess we will have to soldier on, and pay the hookers, our own one armed bandits.